thecheesycheeselover Archive

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2	''John Shaming'' and the stigma around paying for sex; only a Western thing? As a woman who would be unlikely to date a man who’s hired prostitutes, my reasons are completely different than you’ve indicated, so here are my thoughts 1.) I’m not sure, but I do think that the ‘shaming’ is higher in countries that place a higher value on women’s rights. The reason being that we know it’s hard (sometimes impossible) to safeguard the rights of women working as prostitutes. So there is an association of callousness and a lack of feeing, with men who would visit these women. 2.)…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/21 01:33 PM
2	"I know ugly guys who get laid all the time" How true do you think this is? Oh my goodness, this is so true. I’ve know many guys who were not only ugly according to conventional standards, but who smelled bad. When I was younger I was so baffled by how ladies could bypass the smell but they did.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/21 09:05 PM
-1	Some of the men who complain about dating on here sound like SJWs This is really hard to take seriously when the word is spelled ‘privilege’	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/21 07:49 AM
0	84% of working women told ForbesWoman that staying home to raise children is a financial luxury they aspire to...more than 1 in 3 resent their partner for not earning enough to make that dream a reality. I really don't. When I was a teen I didn't have strong feelings either way, but in my first proper relationship my ex earned so much more than me that he ended up paying for a lot of things I couldn't afford, just so we could do them together. I hated it. In the end we agreed to do much less expensive things together so that I could pay my way (I don't like going dutch with a partner, but do like taking turns to pay for each other). I really appreciated him agreeing to do that with me, he was a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/21 12:54 PM
13	84% of working women told ForbesWoman that staying home to raise children is a financial luxury they aspire to...more than 1 in 3 resent their partner for not earning enough to make that dream a reality. Preach. My friends and I are not out here waiting for some guy to pay for our lives. Much of the time that seems to come with hidden strings anyway, that mean someone else has control over you. I also come into a relationship viewing a man as my partner, not a protector.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/21 09:44 AM
2	Gen Z men can’t understand Gen Z women Are you talking about the ‘top 10%’ of women? Because we all know that most women cannot attract the most attractive and successful guys, and end up with someone closer to them in attractiveness, financial security, background etc. Or single. So (and OP please correct me if I’ve misunderstood you) I have to assume you’re only talking about the kind of women you’re interested in, rather than all women. Which would really contradict the point you’re making.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/21 10:58 AM
2	What are your thoughts on "pick me" women? I don’t THINK I ever went though a ‘pick me’ phase, but I do get annoyed when I hear other women insulting women who act like this. I genuinely think it’s an understandable reaction to societal conditioning and just feel bad for them, and wish them well on their personal journey.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/21 11:36 PM
5	It’s OK to go off of body language when trying to gauge consent It’s not for your friend to decide if she means it or not. That behaviour becomes rape after the first ‘no’.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/21 12:58 AM
4	It’s OK to go off of body language when trying to gauge consent But some of that sex probably isn’t really wanted. Is that really a win for anyone?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/21 12:57 AM
0	Would you rather share the man of your dreams, or have a lesser man all to yourself? I would stay single, both of these options sound grim	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/21 03:56 AM
11	Despite men and women being roughly equal in population, attractive men are seen as scarce, why is that? True, but most women wouldn’t find it more attractive. Whereas these things boost a woman’s attractiveness to most people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/21 12:51 PM
9	Despite men and women being roughly equal in population, attractive men are seen as scarce, why is that? Woman wear makeup, and things like hair colouring, clothes and shoes (heels) all give us a boost that men don’t get.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/21 12:25 PM
1	Double standard experience. This is assault, and she should have experienced consequences. I don’t see what her appearance has to do with it, though. It would have been the same level of assault if she was a 10/10. You don’t do shit like that to your colleagues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/20 09:39 AM
1	Sex is not a need, but then birth control, condoms, and contraceptives are also not needs. They stop unwanted children from being born. That in turn cuts long-term costs to the government and to others, e.g. relatives Same with STDs. It’s best for all of society to avoid them/wipe them out. The issue with living in a society is that our actions impact each other. So one person’s need often becomes all of our need. COVID is a great example of that - countries that are more community-minded have done a much better job of wiping it out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/20 09:30 AM
1	Sex is not a need, but then birth control, condoms, and contraceptives are also not needs. This is such a butthurt argument. This idea of sex as a right is stupid, and as many others have highlighted in other comments, birth control serves us all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/20 09:01 AM