thecuriouschimp7 Archive

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6	POINTERS for things that men should not do if they want to get laid People are typically more relaxed at bars because they are drunk. Cafes are a nice place but many people are usually working... personally I would hate to be interrupted in the middle of work. If you see someone in a cafe that seems relaxed and just letting time pass by then it may not be a bad idea.	/r/seduction	11/11/21 11:14 PM
9	POINTERS for things that men should not do if they want to get laid totally disagree with you, but you are free to disagree with me. I am happy with my sex life and my post has been key factors that has helped me and friends. It's up to you if you want to listen or not	/r/seduction	11/11/21 11:12 PM
4	POINTERS for things that men should not do if they want to get laid I haven't personally, but it doesn't mean it's impossible! My friend have had success from bars and events in music, art, and comedy. I was saying it's more difficult in public spaces during day time. It's not impossible, you just have to be aware of what women are dealing with on the daily on places like subway or street.	/r/seduction	11/11/21 10:49 PM
6	POINTERS for things that men should not do if they want to get laid Thank you, exactly what I mean, "start from a place of acceptance and understanding". In other words, having empathy for other people. Huge and underrated skill in all of this	/r/seduction	11/11/21 10:07 PM
3	POINTERS for things that men should not do if they want to get laid I think it's harmful to limit your advice just from guys considering that women are equally as important in the equation of getting laid.. all my male friends ask me for advice constantly and I have helped many of my guy friends get laid. Sometimes men need a female perspective. At the end of the day, I am honestly just trying to help, like you said, Theres no personal benefit for me if someone here is successful with girls. I'm sharing this information because it's helped my peers and also beca…	/r/seduction	11/11/21 09:48 PM
4	POINTERS for things that men should not do if they want to get laid I think it's normal to feel nervous, and I think that you shouldn't give up based on just one interaction. Rejection is inevitable, I have been rejected many times.. it sucks, but becoming less scared of it and used to it will help with the anxiety. Even if you do great with one person, you follow all the steps, the conversation goes well... for some reason they might still reject you because that one person just doesn't happen to feel connected for whatever reason.. maybe no similar interests, …	/r/seduction	11/11/21 08:51 PM
4	POINTERS for things that men should not do if they want to get laid I really appreciate this and I salute you dude. Not enough people with common decency nowadays, we need more people out there like that.	/r/seduction	11/11/21 08:45 PM
26	POINTERS for things that men should not do if they want to get laid I agree, I think being able to read a girl for signs of discomfort is really important and knowing when to back off or keep going. As for the question, I think it's a mixture of both honestly.. I think being a woman has a lot of the safety aspect mixed with her sex drive. If she feels unsafe she will not feel horny, she will get very defensive, protective, closed off... as a survival mechanism. if a guy is attractive, seems to be "safe" and not dangerous, I think there is the element of curiosit…	/r/seduction	11/11/21 08:44 PM
5	POINTERS for things that men should not do if they want to get laid hey you can DM me for advice about this. I'd love to help, it seems like you're in a good place already if you are good at holding conversation.	/r/seduction	11/11/21 08:26 PM
5	POINTERS for things that men should not do if they want to get laid Hey, I think it depends what area you are from too (I'm from a very big city). I think university is actually a great place to do this, I had a few people approach me in a university library and in my class I had a friend that I sat with often that asked me out too. I think street is just more risky because there isn't any obvious commonality and people are in a rush somewhere. If someone is just enjoying their day and walking slowly, taking in their surroundings, not in a rush somewhere, they m…	/r/seduction	11/11/21 08:17 PM
14	POINTERS for things that men should not do if they want to get laid Haha that's really interesting, I'm not in mall often and never had someone approach me in a grocery store at all. But thinking about it now, someone asking for my number while I'm buying vegetables or something and totally underdressed could be really cute and endearing. I think it's a good idea!	/r/seduction	11/11/21 08:10 PM
8	POINTERS for things that men should not do if they want to get laid I think approaching is fine at the gym but I think timing is really important. I had someone approach me literally in the middle of me running sprints on a treadmill. I was sweating and could barely even breathe to respond, had to stop my run to talk to him... was really turned off by that. If you approach when she is not in the middle of doing a set or seems relaxed or just texting on phone or something, it's fine. :)	/r/seduction	11/11/21 08:08 PM
10	POINTERS for things that men should not do if they want to get laid I think approaching someone isnt bad. I'm saying in the post that if you do approach a woman, you have to keep in mind that she probably feels unsafe, and think of clever ways to relax her or reassure her. Some locations are probably more difficult or less sexy than others, and in those situations, you probably need a specific strategy and have to be aware that you will most likely be rejected or freak a girl out. Some good pointers were mentioned in the comments above on how to do this (have a …	/r/seduction	11/11/21 07:52 PM
13	POINTERS for things that men should not do if they want to get laid This is really impressive honestly and congrats to you. It's definitely not common and I don't know anyone who has experienced something like this. I agree with you though, I think a lot of it is having high empathy and emotional IQ. "Calm and playful vibe" - something to make a girl feel safe and relaxed. You are probably naturally very good and making strangers feel relaxed and to let their guard down, it could be your personality or social skills. I don't think it comes naturally for everyone…	/r/seduction	11/11/21 07:26 PM
3	POINTERS for things that men should not do if they want to get laid I am not talking about buying a girl flowers and being her doormat here. I'm saying in this post to give a girl have any reason to think that you will violate her. Making her feel "safe" isn't being nice, actually it's just common sense and logic involved with dealing with people. In sales, for example, if you are dealing with a client, in order for them to trust you, you have to make them feel safe. Aggression can turn clients off very quickly and make you untrustworthy. Its very similar in app…	/r/seduction	11/11/21 07:01 PM
9	POINTERS for things that men should not do if they want to get laid This is not the way to go.. if a woman does not feel safe and she is having sex because of a guy being aggresive and pressuring her then maybe the guy will get laid, but the woman will not be saying good things to her friends, and it will most likely end up being that dreaded one night stand that she regrets. Sex probably will be awful too. If you care just about "numbers" then you are not doing anyone justice except your own ego..	/r/seduction	11/11/21 06:55 PM
22	POINTERS for things that men should not do if they want to get laid It's not impossible, but as I said in this post, it's just rare and really unlikely to have a good outcome from this. Maybe one in a million chance, the girl is in a super good mood, and you don't come off too aggressive or seem very kind and relaxed, maybe she will be interested... but it's one in a million :) (never happened to me lol)	/r/seduction	11/11/21 06:40 PM
7	POINTERS for things that men should not do if they want to get laid Thank you so much, I hope that I help you in some ways 🙌 I am making this post because I see this issues happen too frequently and too often, and I am PRO people meeting each other and exploring sexual feelings. It is POSSIBLE if you do it right!!!	/r/seduction	11/11/21 06:31 PM
26	POINTERS for things that men should not do if they want to get laid Thanks: :)	/r/seduction	11/11/21 05:49 PM
3	Posture What helps me is imagine there’s a string tied to the center of your head and it’s holding you up, like there’s a balloon attached to the top of the string. This helps me when I’m walking	/r/seduction	08/06/21 03:04 PM
1	Can get dates and have my life together, but dont feel the spark with girls hey, i suggest keep looking for the spark :) but don’t let it be the top priority of your time. don’t meet people”looking “ for a relationship or a certain fictionalized feeling - rather go in just trying to get to know them as much as possible. Try and have fun with it like a game. it’ll take the pressure off the whole thing and won’t be too emotionally straining.	/r/seduction	14/11/18 10:33 AM
2	I am starting to hate women,because they are so unpredictable. No guys have lied to me about everything, not just for sex. If you think that women lie just because they are out to hurt you, you are being delusional. It’s more likely some sort of a barrier or emotional unavailability like you said. Many people nowadays are terrified of intimacy and commitment and have trust issues from Previous bad experiences. A lot of them don’t even realize they have this. So they will try something new with a guy and realize that they have too many issues with themselves…	/r/seduction	10/11/18 09:44 AM
6	I am starting to hate women,because they are so unpredictable. Hey, you’re complaining that girls lie - but I am a girl and have experienced all of this shit from sooo many guys. News flash, everyone lies, not just women. You are going to meet people who lie, people who are not ready to commit, people who don’t know what they want, people who will use you, and people who are confused. You have to get better at reading red flags and signs, and don’t get your hopes too high up. Having negative energy will only attract more negative energy and negative people …	/r/seduction	10/11/18 09:10 AM
14	I went out 3 times this week, yet got disappointed. You seem like you have a very negative attitude about it. Sometimes girls can sense a guys energy - I can sense when a guy is talking to me but clearly wants something out of it or expects something to happen resulting from the conversation. Don’t talk to women because you want or expect a date from it - talk to them genuinely just out of interest of curiosity. Maybe that will give you better results. Same wth making friends - don’t talk to people just because you want new friends, most people c…	/r/seduction	09/11/18 08:20 PM