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Watch the video on Epicurius. It makes direct reference to the political philosophy and calls it a failure.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 12:40 PM
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Listen to this here. If you are bothered by the volleyball player being only a 7, send her my way. I would love a new plate.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 01:55 PM
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Thanks for posting. When you say intensity of workout, can you describe that in more detail? I've been lifting a year now and gained 20lbs of muscle (body fat % stayed at 12%). I'm starting to stall some in weight gains and strength gains.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 08:44 PM
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What does that mean? Not going to research it at work so....
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 07:01 PM
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Similar experience but with working out this past weekend. We went to her office holiday party, I complimented a few of the women and pointed out the younger/hotter girls wearing skimpier outfits. We made out in a back room and were going to go further (I had undone my belt) when we were walked in by a coworker. We made it to the car real handsy and touchy. When I got home, I changed to my standard sleeping outfit and just laid in bed. She finished her routine, wore something a little provocativ…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 01:00 AM
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I'm in. No skipping work outs, 4 times a week, no excuses. Spend 3 hours a week on my side business. I spend about an hour to 2 hours every week on it and it is profitable, but it takes me forever to complete simple tasks "on the business" and improving it. No porn. Flirt with girls in public instead of making excuses. This is one of my worst vices and I am sick of it.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 07:29 PM
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Good job so far. It seems you maintain your frame and are not begging for anything. You don't have to justify anything you do to anyone else, but this information may help others. Thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 02:28 PM
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Here is a copy of the book in PDF who do not wish to enrich the estate of Mr. Dennis. How to Get Rich
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 01:07 PM
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While I think it is passive aggressive to send an email with the spreadsheet, I feel tracking the information is a trans-formative process for his relationship and a step in the right direction if he is seeking to continue the relationship. The wife is aware that her husband is serious about sex. I certainly don't know his thought process but I assume he thought that the level of sex they had before the marriage would continue, but it has not. Now she knows he wants that level to return. She may…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 02:43 PM
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If you want to be with her, then be with her. If you want to start a family, she sounds like a good partner for that. If you want to start a business, you will need to commit to that as well. You really need to prioritize what you want in the next 2 years, 5 years, 8 years, etc. As a side, if a woman is a solid 7, but matches up well in personality and gives you everything you want and need, then she can move to an 8 in your eyes, but remain a 7 to everyone else. Don't worry about what others sa…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 12:17 PM
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I don't disagree that his lack of physical activity, his supplication, and his weakness would drive her away. Of course it is speculation and we may never know (he may not follow-up ever), it is more of a hunch but my gut says the baby is not his.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 02:57 PM
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I'm betting it has nothing to do with him. I'm betting the baby is not his. If it were, she would feel really attached and would really need him to help her in the next year with a new baby. She is pushing him away for a reason.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 12:51 PM
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I can say from my own experience, I had several plates in the past who were a notch or two below me for various reasons. Some were cute but needed to lose weight and others had great bodies but not the prettiest. The reasons I had them were simple: I could practice techniques or mentalities with them as I became aware of TRP, I did not have to maintain a relationship with most of them just call them up randomly and have a date the leads to sex or simple booty call, and I never got any shit from …
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 03:01 PM
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This was my experience, though I have only had one female boss to date.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 04:39 PM
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Don't read huffpo, don't click, don't wander there, don't even think about it. even when they post information about true news, don't pay it any attention. Leave it alone forever because of crap like this and it will dwindle away (though not nearly fast enough for me).
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 02:35 PM
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she's doing shit like this to get attention and stay in the spotlight. I hope that everyone leaves her alone so she can return to obscurity because right now her promiscuity and ridiculous behavior are paying the bills.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 12:25 PM
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I appreciate comments like these but I do see things occasionally as OP did and want to be vindictive myself. It is a harsh truth to swallow when you understand your attitudes and false advice lead to bad outcomes when all other forms of advice (sports, school, etc.) lead to good outcomes. How could one set of advice never work but all others succeed? Then your attention turns to those people who gave you advice and once you understand the cognitive dissonance that occurs when women say they wan…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 07:58 PM
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Also, I have seen where a storied career of a working woman gives her not only personal fulfillment but also got her pregnant! Her career literally gave her a child! /s
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 04:01 PM
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Seems contradictory to what the Duke porn star said: "doing porn is empowering for me". This gets a bit absurd when feminism says that both giving blowjobs is misogynistic for a guy but empowering for a girl. I was under the mistaken impression that two people had to be involved in a blowjob for it to occur.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 08:11 PM
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I could see that since having a program based on self-provided information and pictures could lead to some interesting personal problems down the line (e.g. hooking up with someone who happens to be a friend of a relative and later a picture of you is posted online from a family event without your knowledge and this hook-up sees it). It speaks to social validation and endorsement.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 08:24 PM
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Let us know the response once you do this.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 03:11 PM
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I'll translate for your benefit: "I'm still relatively young girl and I want to fuck the hell out of anyone I see in a consequence free environment. I got married at a young age because he sort of gave me the tingles and I had this grand delusion of how blissful wedded life would be, I mean a truly happy marriage never leaves the honeymoon stage, right? Well, now I get a few looks from other guys or I see others having fun and wonder why I can't have that as well. It is so bad that my husband ha…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 06:54 PM
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Professor Benenson said: ‘Because men often discriminate against women, it is unclear whether higher-ranked males could be more helpful.’ Let me give some anecdotal evidence: I see male bosses helping the lower status females out more frequently than lower status males. It seems there is a split in the reasoning. For the lower status males: he needs to learn to do it on his own; I can't hold his hand; sink or swim. For the lower status females: I should help her; she may not have the experience,…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 01:31 PM
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The tingles man...all about the tingles. Her story is a testament to their addictive power.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 04:32 PM
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It must be hell inside her head. She self-censored quite a bit I believe.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 07:59 PM
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So yea, some slut-shaming is going on in my head right now. Like maybe I think that if he could be attracted to me after all the women he's been with it would validate myself. You mean this isn't reals? /s
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 07:57 PM
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Continue to bad mouth and yet the numbers continue to grow. Everyone is entitled to an opinion they can defend, and calling us all misogynistic is indefensible.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 07:52 PM
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I got a slight chub.....
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 02:12 AM
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That probably means you're a dependable, stable good guy, but not someone who they want to be crazy and wild and young with. "You are tolerable to live with because you will take care of me but you don't make me wet." That is what they mean behind the veil of a "compliment". I have had the exact same compliment paid to me when I was younger and much more of an orbiter. I feel bad for the OP because it is a complete punch in the gut. You do all the things right and seem to get so close but it's l…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 01:45 PM
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Top comment: Leave her the fuck alone and get your own shit together. So basically he should do exactly what he thought he should but he is a jerk for following that advice?
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 01:24 PM
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I would talk to a lawyer. Without kids, it might be a clean break if you can get it done quickly.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 01:23 PM
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are YOU trolling? reread his post without assuming he is doing to to make fun of people Just to be clear I'm not going to be trolling this forum, I want to see how they legitimize their position.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 01:20 PM
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She isn’t sleeping around to have a meaningless one-night stand. She is searching for passion and connection; someone to make her feel loved and recognize her own beauty. Yes, she may be searching for someone, but in the time between now and meeting him, she is sleeping around and having meaningless one night stands. It is a desperate search to feel wanted and desired. Welcome to the human race. A collection of social beings who want to belong to a group of others just like them. It actually has…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 01:34 PM
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Good for him.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 02:18 PM
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To quote a brilliant author, "all species are equal but some are more equal than others."
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 02:16 PM
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It is very impressive to us that she cannot blame the victims but it shouldn't be. HERE is a woman who can't blame her attackers for cold-cocking here in the "knockout" game played in the inner cities. Literally, it is not their fault to her it is the fault of not enough positive outlets provided by someone else.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 03:55 PM
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She did not post to resolve something, she posted to get validation from others. Top comment: I'm far too young to understand your situation but I am sending you positive thoughts. That's what will help. Pray real hard that a solution comes, don't actually work towards a solution. It is my opinion, and only an outside opinion, that she really does want to have a child. She is a bit hesitant because of a prior experience. He knows he does not want another child so she has convinced herself that s…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 01:50 PM
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you do the same in a situation where a potential win is on the horizon: i.e., when you see a girl who’s DTF and texting you drunk as shit on a Friday saying she wants to come over Because of the pussy that you might have a possibility, however small and unlikely, will be worth it, especially after 1000 uses. You should be so attracted to me!
/r/TheRedPill18/11/13 05:54 PM
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dat comeuppance
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 02:45 PM
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what do you guys think? I think you married th wrong woman.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 12:53 PM
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This article should be sidebarred; Really great find. Yup. I agree completely.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 06:41 PM
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Many really struggle with the fact that they aren't in a position to be too choosy. This has to be a tough pill to swallow, but I can't really say I feel sorry for them. If they never take a critical eye to all the advice they were given and all the praise bestowed upon them then they were setting themselves up for bitter disappointment.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 06:36 PM
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Oops, I mistyped. Toronto has about 10 million of Canada's 30 million. Brain fart on my part, good catch.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 12:01 PM
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I like that female host, she laid some red pill knowledge from her own experience.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 08:41 PM
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Bluepillers care a great deal. They put her on such a pedestal that they cannot fathom she would actually act in such a way.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 08:31 PM
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I really can't fault her for what she's doing. I don't like her and she will soon gain a reputation if this page stays up though Toronto does have about 30 million people in the greater area. That said, she's bowling with the bumpers up. She is about a 6.5 but could be a 7 even 7.5 if she's your taste and is wearing great attire, and she's going out with 2s and 3s. She might not get away with this with a guy that is close to her (a 5 or 5.5) but can do this as long as she remains above a 4.5.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 07:27 PM
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One can imagine the disgust on her face as she hers the answers to her questions. They weren't the feminists I hoped they would be
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 08:24 PM
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I believe he is either really stupid or he enjoys being the victim/martyr. I am leaning towards stupid but I can't rule the other out completely.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 12:27 PM
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Up vote for classic movie line and good insight.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 01:35 AM
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The gentleman involved in the incident is still free and has not been charged. Here is a local report including an excerpt from an interview with a local detective who seems skeptical. I do not think anything will come of this for the guy legally, his reputation may suffer, but he will not get booted out of school, though he may get booted out of his fraternity. And yes, crying wolf is unfortunate. It is similar to constantly raising claims of racism. Eventually no one believes the claims any mo…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/13 03:58 PM
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The most unfortunate thing about this is that by claiming rape if she was a willing participant weakens any true rape claim in the future for any woman. It is "the boy who cried wolf" but not just for the girl but all girls in college. For instance, read the story, look at the pictures, then read the story again slowly and ask yourself if it sounds like rape to you. Then read a story about prison rape and compare the two. The woman in this story comes out looking like she made false accusations …
/r/TheRedPill16/10/13 03:23 PM
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I am going to say it because no one on this sub will, "the wall is sexist. it hurts women at a far younger age and much more cruelly than it harms men. we need to end the wall's reign of terror upon the female species. it is a total travesty and I for one am fed up with it. call your representative and senator today and demand congress act on this moral outrage of blatant sexism."
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 03:40 PM
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"Give him a girlfriend, that will turn her off on him" Riiiiiiiiiight. Because preselection and hypergamy don't exist. /s
/r/TheRedPill11/10/13 01:06 PM
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I read the twitter and the comment and tried to downvote. Maybe I should step away for the rest of today and go for a run.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 07:46 PM
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You can practice, but remember that you are already in the hole trying to climb out. Don't get angry with yourself of put too much pressure on yourself to "game her successfully". Try some things and if it does not work out, then next quickly.
/r/askTRP23/09/13 06:33 PM
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As said earlier, prioritize and use a schedule. Don't kill yourself trying to get everything accomplished but stay busy so you minimize idle time.
/r/askTRP16/09/13 07:32 PM
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The guy is douche, but he's a douche because he wants a touchy-feely, make everything better answer. The best thing for him is to move on. He won't be comfortable ever knowing she has an extensive sexual history and he broke any trust by snooping around in her emails. She would get bored with him anyway and leave or cheat. Best to get it over with and find a younger, much less slutty girl.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/13 02:42 PM
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Thanking them comes off as beta, whether you mean it to be or not, that is how it comes across. I don't think anything else you did was particularly bad. But if you were interested in her, she is still interested in you because she texted you. She is crazy though, so if she texts again (and she might) don't respond at all. She spun a good time into a bad situation, let her spin bad communication into something else.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/13 12:47 PM
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The last question about budgeting time is spot on. Budgeting time and money will maximize your utilization of both. And don't forget to project into the future for a few months and you can see when you can afford to do things (both time-wise and monetarily).
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 04:56 PM
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The problem might be that you are not leading them well. I have been with two "sluts" who were in the middle of riding the cock carousel when we were together and they were both not very good. This is anecdotal evidence but it is along the same lines of a girl bragging that she has never had any complaints about her ability to give head (because most guys won't offer advice form fear that she will not give head anymore).
/r/askTRP30/08/13 03:25 PM
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If you are just meeting a girl or do not know her very well, most of the time she is talking about your physical appearance. You need more than to just be "cute" to get her attracted to you.
/r/askTRP30/08/13 03:20 PM
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Something like this. Don't be leverage for her to get what she wants out of another man. I might even call her on her shit if you know it is coming and or she does it again. E.g. "I am not one to be used like this with your boyfriend. Get back to me when you aren't mind fucking him."
/r/askTRP29/08/13 02:03 PM
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Did you read the top response under that? It's a gem. Oh I'm definitely not saying that! Communication is absolutely important, but traditionally you can gauge how much a woman likes something based on her moans and breathing patterns...Having to narrate what you want to your lover during the act can be a mood killer for me, it puts me in a different head space than where I need to be to orgasm. TL;DR: Communication is great, but when my partner is in full manbeast mode, I don't want him to ask …
/r/TheRedPill29/08/13 12:27 PM
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Imagine that, walk a mile in the shoes of another and you might not be so quick to condemn.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/13 04:19 PM
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my advice: bail for a while and in a few months after not seeing each other, you can reach back out to see if she is down for the FWB thing again, but I wouldn't
/r/askTRP28/08/13 03:06 PM
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"I'll break my back licking your boots. I"ll be beta so hard...you have no idea unless we try again."
/r/TheRedPill28/08/13 02:44 PM
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This was my thought exactly. I bet most of those posters talking about threesomes, cheating, abortions, or casual relationships are all "academic feminists". We all could profile them and the would all be very similar: white, female, age 20-35, suburban childhood, college educated on some level, studied one of the humanities, etc.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/13 01:36 PM
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Top comment is pretty spot on.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/13 02:25 PM
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Blue Piller to the day he dies I'm sure. Karen explains of her husband: I seriously doubt my husband has ever been unfaithful. It is not the way he is. He was a virgin until we started dating. He was 36 when I took his virginity. He has never been the player type and I can tell he embraces being married and “off-limits.”
/r/TheRedPill20/08/13 04:48 PM
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Listen to GoinDownDaRabbitHole. Nothing has changed as a matter of status (bf and gf) since the last time you were banging her friend. The two girls are still friends, you are still involved with your ex, now gf, and the friend wants you. Maybe she stopped because you went Beta or maybe she started banging someone else. Either way, the situation has reset to a previous condition and she will simply jump ship as soon as it progresses to what it was again (i.e. she finds a new guy to bang OR you b…
/r/askTRP14/08/13 03:58 PM
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I can fall in love for roughly 8-20 minutes, multiple times a day. And every time a half mushy, lovedrunk boner will pop up... This is disturbing on so many levels. Even before TRP and before my Seduction days, I never stooped this low. Disgusting. Have some self-respect DN!
/r/TheRedPill13/08/13 12:33 PM
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I enjoyed the read. Good find.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 11:22 AM
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Remember that most women secretly want you to succeed, you just have to overcome what she puts in your way. This does not mean putting up with BS, but if she is saying she is not going home with anyone or bring ups friends, it is up to you to overcome those. Classic shit tests.
/r/askTRP06/08/13 04:19 PM
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Focus on what interests you outside of women. When you make women or getting laid your top priority, you put the poon on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP03/08/13 12:18 AM
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How do I make it clear to her that I don't want to be bothered with things like this? Tell her that you are not reading it. You can be more aggressive and add that you are too busy, or you can be nice and add that you aren't an editor. Either way, tell her to stop.
/r/askTRP03/08/13 12:16 AM
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Does anyone else see irony that a literary critic would take part in a contest where all contestants were given prizes and deemed beautiful (the untamed beauty contest)? That person gets to decide what's good writing and what is not, but no one better think about deciding what is beautiful aesthetically and what is not.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 02:23 PM
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I'd like it if he meant it in a 'you're a catch' way, and not in a 'you're just another one of my conquests' way. Hamsters gonna hamst
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 12:51 PM
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I agree. I recommend to all here that glance at TRP to stay away from Facebook. If you absolutely have to use it, make it only for private messages to friends or to keep lines of communication open. Do not post things about yourself regularly and do not do any sort of validation on there.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/13 03:04 PM
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It encourages Blue Pill/White Knight behavior: Lulu is all about encouraging good, gentlemanly behaviour, and providing a platform that makes girls’ research easier and more fun. Ultimately, we see Lulu as a private network dedicated to women and relationships, providing an online extension and enhancement of the kind of information and support that women provide each other in real life. Easy work around: don't use Facebook. It creates profiles of guys you know by using info from Facebook
/r/TheRedPill12/07/13 01:04 PM
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Meeting Kris was a big break for Anna, a high school dropout who met her future husband while at the strip club where she was a dancer. When she met him, she said, she had nothing but “two pairs of panties and one bra.” My favorite line.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/13 01:05 PM
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That's what is called a sugar daddy relationship.
/r/seduction13/06/13 02:52 PM
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I approve of your list. I would say though that the last one, don't apologize for someone else, e.g. "I'm sorry you are a chode."
/r/seduction26/02/13 04:39 PM
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Nice guy? Who gives a shit? If you want to work here, close. Fantastic. I am going to put this on my mirror.
/r/seduction17/12/12 08:44 PM
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Agree here. George Carlin said something along the lines of "50% pf the people you meet in life have an IQ lower than 100." I know that whenever I have talked to women, when I figure out that they are not smart, I want nothing to do with them.
/r/seduction06/11/12 01:19 PM
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Good job.
/r/seduction11/10/12 07:46 PM
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Kino is not bullshit. If you are making an honest effort to speak with people and chit chat, body language conveys more than you realize. Have fun, smile, and don't be afraid to dance between the languages (German and English) until you get a hold on the language.
/r/seduction17/08/12 08:21 PM
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so...many...wasted...chances! seriously, if you are young, in college, and reading this: GO TALK TO EVERYONE YOU SEE!
/r/seduction13/08/12 07:08 PM
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Same here, very disappointed after reading the FR.
/r/seduction07/08/12 03:30 PM
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I agreed with all points except #5 and #8. I would replace #5 with the following: 5. Wanting a Girlfriend too badly. I tried so hard to have a girlfriend instead of just trying to keep it casual and fun. And I would leave out #8 all together since I had a good habit of this in college.
/r/seduction23/07/12 08:34 PM
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Don't think of it as "whatever it didn't work", when you interact, just have fun. If you connect with her in talking, offer to do it again some time but in a unique way. If she declines, then smile, walk away and think about how to improve, e.g. better kino, more eye contact, listen to her more or ask her questions where she reveals more about herself (dreams, passions, etc.). I think you need to not meet every girl as a potential mate, i.e. every time you talk to a girl you are thinking "I wond…
/r/seduction31/05/12 01:35 AM
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That is one-itis. Just enjoy the interaction for what it is and don't get mad because it did not grow into more.
/r/seduction30/05/12 08:25 PM
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Thanks for doing this. Considering the limited budget and time many men have, what area would you say requires more attention than others? For instance, is it more important to have a good hair cut and clean shave/trim or should a man have better fitting clothes or should he spend time polishing his shoes and picking out good new ones when shopping? I try to do all of this, it is just not always possible to remember everything. Thanks in advance.
/r/seduction30/05/12 02:09 PM
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Way to push through til you closed.
/r/seduction29/05/12 05:15 PM
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She felt something. She might have been unwilling to look like an easy pick up in front of her friends or she has a boyfriend and may have remembered. It could have been anything really. Isolate and escalate next time. Learn from this, it was not a bad experience.
/r/seduction16/05/12 03:51 PM
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You could send her a message today saying "see, when you are nice to guys, good things happen to you. you're welcome for the orgasm by the way".
/r/seduction11/05/12 03:21 PM
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Did you say "In your face!" after you finished fucking her?
/r/seduction11/05/12 03:07 PM
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I am not religious, but AMEN!
/r/seduction10/05/12 01:44 PM
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I think more appropriately, you can say that to the brunette when she goes down on you. You got her turned on to you, in no time flat, she will be naked in front of you. Great job, strong work.
/r/seduction09/05/12 03:36 PM
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Fucking amazing.
/r/seduction09/05/12 02:56 PM
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This has AFC written all over it. Take a step back, take a few showers and focus on yourself first and then focus on the opposite sex.
/r/seduction06/05/12 01:32 PM
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Honestly, the only way you will ever know is if you take a chance. If you do take a chance, you could screw things up, or it could work out perfectly. You will never know until you try and put yourself and your feelings on the line for him.
/r/seduction06/05/12 01:23 PM
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Now I consider myself pretty well versed in the theory aspect of most of this seduction stuff, but sadly I'm not as experienced in the field as I should be, as I learned that night. To know and not to do is to not know.
/r/seduction30/04/12 01:03 AM
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If you aren't living the life you want and doing what you want, then you are not being alpha.
/r/seduction25/04/12 04:02 PM
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Winner!
/r/seduction18/04/12 12:32 PM
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I concur. It is only in practicing with these mediums will one become much better. I have been able to DHV with a girl over chat by specifically staying away from sexual talk but alluding to partying and other such activities. As long as you keep her guessing as to what you talk about next or when you might chat again, you can succeed.
/r/seduction13/04/12 02:01 PM
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Advice: walk the fuck away. she texts, you tell her to come to you and nothing else.
/r/seduction12/04/12 06:38 PM
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Good for you, but it sounds like, from your description, that you put yourself more in that friendzone than she told you she wanted to be friends. Remember to always assume attraction.
/r/seduction12/04/12 02:31 PM
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Be who you want to be and people will see you as that person. Sure it will be a shock, but staying the same just to appease their idea of you is not smart. This is especially true if you want to be something different.
/r/seduction05/04/12 03:36 PM
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My thoughts exactly. She has a view that most men are "dogs" and she uses her routine to support this view, but she still is a beta personality. Case in point: you knocked her off her rocker and she got uncomfortable and you still might have the chance to bang her.
/r/seduction04/04/12 05:13 PM
2

This is a great analogy. The longer you wait, the worse it is going to be for you.
/r/seduction04/04/12 12:39 PM
1

I'm still on my journey, playboy, but I am much further along. I still get some AA in situations, but I flirt now much more than I ever did and girls are much more open to chat and play along in every day situations, not just when I am out drinking at night. It feels good, but I shall continue along.
/r/seduction04/04/12 12:38 PM
2

Very good for parties and works if you focus on one member of a group while showing this to the whole group, DHV.
/r/seduction28/03/12 03:05 PM
2

Practice, practice, practice. You won't know until you do it.
/r/seduction27/03/12 02:29 PM
2

I did not say I do that, so try not to make assumptions. The choice is between the poster and the girl and no one else here.
/r/seduction14/03/12 03:34 PM
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"I have a boyfriend" can also be a response to say "this is for fun, not for a relationship". It does not mean she won't hook up anymore, it just means you are getting the physical with her while the boyfriend gets to date her. If you are good with that then keep on, if you are not good with that then move on.
/r/seduction14/03/12 01:40 PM
9

Thank you. Needed to be said.
/r/seduction13/03/12 02:51 PM
1

That is very true, but not so sure if I should go with that immediately or give it a few days. My interpreted tone of voice from her texts was that she is angry maybe because she thought it could be more (received a text two weeks ago asking when I would return).
/r/seduction09/03/12 09:21 PM
2

I think she wants to be the only one. She was previously married as well so she might not be "playing the game" like she once did.
/r/seduction09/03/12 07:50 PM
1

You are much further along than I am. I would not have even thought of this but it sounds like a great response. I did hear back from her, will update original post now to reflect that.
/r/seduction09/03/12 07:49 PM
2

Thanks. I figured this was the best move since it was my first instinct. Over analyzing it though led me to question my first choice.
/r/seduction09/03/12 06:48 PM
0

You did mess up, but all is not lost. Don't be afraid to just drop by the restaurant some time and say hello. If what you said is 100% accurate, she is probably thinking of you at certain points throughout the day and that creates a feeling of longing i.e. she may think she should have done something different as well.
/r/seduction05/03/12 05:07 PM
1

Da fuq? "Really?" is not a shit test, you support your compliment immediately following this test, e.g. "Yeah, you wear those tight jeans really well." "I'm a bit chubby." Good response on your part; sometimes I'll reply "I'm not into skinny girls, I like curves." "No, I'm not." She has problems and I might not even pursue it beyond this. That's just me though.
/r/seduction02/03/12 09:53 PM
3

Not a bad idea. I did not do theater but I did a dance class due to a friend majoring in dance. It helped me a bunch with AA since I had been on stage in tights, approaching a girl when I was dressed well seems easy. Like I could embarrass myself anymore than I already could have.
/r/seduction02/03/12 07:47 PM
1

Question for the OP, how many fucks did you give?
/r/seduction02/03/12 01:15 PM
2

I have not been in the game that long but all the neg openers I have used failed miserably, even when I opened with a neg comment about another person in the bar. (Back story: Out one night, crowded bar, people dancing. I get a beer and notice a HB6, I man up an go in solo. I see a girl eating a pizza from a delivery box and open a neg comment about eating a pizza in a crowded bar. It turns out the HB6 knows the girl eating the pizza. She looks at me in a sort of angry, "what the hell did you ju…
/r/seduction01/03/12 09:50 PM
5

Upvote for the table interaction. I started with the TL;DR and then went back to the full details after that. Good report.
/r/seduction27/02/12 09:29 PM
1

If you do not hear from her by tomorrow, the day you are actually making dinner, then I would send a text to cancel your dinner with her and say you made other plans. If you decide to actually make the dinner, make it for two. The worst that can happen is that she does not show up and you eat the second portion later in the week as leftovers.
/r/seduction22/02/12 05:19 PM
3

More reports should read this way, including responses to LMR and similar situations. This helps readers like me who know how to get past a shit test without problem but I am still working on LMR. Thanks for the great write up. Other sedditors take note to include similar details.
/r/seduction21/02/12 01:32 PM
1

Never done that, but that is a solid fucking move.
/r/seduction30/01/12 06:54 PM
1

Basically, dance style work-out based on Latin dancing.
/r/seduction30/01/12 05:39 PM
0

There is no "a" in the line, just "failure to communicate". Line and Video
/r/seduction27/01/12 08:37 PM
2

Epic fucking post. Don't stop with the revealing underneath and inner thoughts. This helps us other readers more than you realize.
/r/seduction23/01/12 09:35 PM
6

Read the sidebar. There is a glossary of terms for all newcomers.
/r/seduction17/01/12 01:24 PM
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If your mother talked to her, your mother talked to her mother about you two as a couple and her mother talked to her about introducing you to her. She is getting all kinds of support to "choose the right guy" and you seem like that to her since your mother and her mother are friends. I have had this very thing happen to me by my parents twice while I was seeing other women exclusively (as in dating). Keeping your distance is a solid move in this situation it sounds like because you are already …
/r/seduction14/12/11 04:59 PM
2

For sure spam, but when I first started trying craigslist, I was going to leave no stone unturned so I checked anything that was w4m, w4mm, etc. I replied to any that seemed remotely interesting and never got good responses back. Thanks for the info.
/r/seduction12/12/11 04:51 PM
1

One piece of advice I will share: my go-to topic when meeting any girl for any reason (seduction or just chit chat at the office) is college. I had a great college experience which was varied from the insanely fun and dangerous to more insightful, artistic pursuits. I can discuss almost any topic under the sun when I relate it to college and of course, many girls have had similar experiences as well. Talk about sports, talk about social activities, talk about trips, talk about academic pursuits,…
/r/seduction12/12/11 04:42 PM
2

Can I ask if you posted in m4w or casual encounters? I have seen all the w4m as being women interested in finding a boyfriend and anything that makes me non-committal makes them flee. As such, I quit using craigslist in my searches.
/r/seduction12/12/11 04:36 PM
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