thedelfactor Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Your body language shapes who you are		thedelfactor	/r/seduction	09/03/15 06:16 AM

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1	Do you guys approach looking rough or you try to look your best? The way you present yourself is the first thing a girl is going to notice and judge you based on. Style matters. You don't need to dress in a suit or anything like that, but if you're looking bummy and look like you don't take care of yourself you're gonna have a much more difficult time attracting women. First impressions are the biggest impressions we leave on other people. They matter and last.	/r/seduction	29/04/25 12:47 AM
1	Planning to quit my job to meet girls at hostels Ah the post travel blues. It happens to a lot of people. Give it a month or so and you'll be back into the swing of things with your routine back home. That urge to drop everything will fade with time. I'm all for traveling the world and have done so quite extensively over the years. If that's still something you want to do, go for it after you've had some time to really think things through. You can always come back and get another job. But don't make rash decisions and don't travel just so you…	/r/seduction	29/04/25 12:34 AM
1	Seddit and...LSD? I remember the day after an acid day I went up and cold approached a girl for the first time ever like it was nothing. It's that simple really. I'd say the acid had some part, but not all, to do with me being more confident to go ahead and try it.	/r/seduction	15/05/15 04:53 AM
2	Getting girls to go out with you again You literally just contradicted yourself. Stop thinking that there's a "league" in the first place.	/r/seduction	15/04/15 11:09 PM
3	Getting girls to go out with you again I'm in the same kind of dilemma as you right now. When I meet a kick ass chick, I see her as having higher value, which is why I'm attracted to her in the first place. I know I could get girls that I see as lower than myself, and they're interested in me because they see me has having higher value, but I have no interest. What we need to do is erase that mentality that they have higher value than us.	/r/seduction	15/04/15 06:35 AM
16	Hosting a party soon, trying to get lucky. Any advice? Don't make the goal of the night about getting laid. The goal should be to have fun. Girls like it when guys are fun, especially in a party setting. If all you care about is getting laid, then that's going to be presented in your body language and girls will see right through you. So have fun, be the life of the party, talk to everybody, both girls and dudes, and people will be attracted to you.	/r/seduction	21/02/15 06:31 PM
1	How do you deal with girls who want to hang out first and not date The problem lies in the title of your post. You made plans to "hang out" with a girl. You hang out with friends, so she already has this idea of you as a friend in her mind. You have to be clear with her about your intentions. If a girl will only hang out with you as friends, but not as a date, then that means she's not attracted to you. No point in hanging out with her, you're wasting your own time by thinking you'll be able to escalate a girl that already is thinking of you as a friend. If a g…	/r/seduction	17/02/15 06:18 AM
-1	Behaviors that reveal romantic attraction - "Psychologists coded 36 verbal flirting behaviors — such as making compliments, asking questions and revealing information — and nonverbal flirting behaviors —such as leg-crossing, palming, leaning forward, playing with objects and nodding." This is a great article and should be read by all on this sub. The point isn't to tell you what style of flirting is the best. The point is that you should be using each style that caters best to the given situation. You're at the club or a party, use the physical style more to your advantage since it's harder to hear anyway. When the conversation becomes serious, be sincere. By just being well rounded and knowing what style to use, you will get girls' interest. The only style I don't recommend …	/r/seduction	14/02/15 07:01 AM
1	Girl that gave me huge iois, found out she has a bf. Should I still approach? It depends on your moral beliefs. Most people here will tell you "approach anybody at any time" and encourage you to approach a girl with a boyfriend because "it won't affect you directly" and "you interfering with their relationship is only helping the guy find out that he shouldn't be with her in the first place". I personally disagree with this mentality. I was faced with this same situation just the other day. I even went as far as asked the girl to go out for a drink with me, to which she a…	/r/seduction	12/04/14 01:15 AM