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2

ADHD, both types!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:53 PM
21

This is the best analogy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:38 AM
2

Bahahahha Monty Python 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:53 PM
5

Literally my last relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:22 PM
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Ooooo screenshotting for future reference 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:08 PM
5

Same exact story for me! I am tube free with a Bilap salp :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 04:19 PM
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Literally this lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 08:03 PM
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Men are desperate for female attention, whether it’s positive or negative attention. Not replying is the best way to go :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 08:02 PM
22

Projection. Always. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 08:00 PM
2

I mean, most aren’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 06:04 PM
11

Goals :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 07:17 PM
7

Isn’t this a form of abuse....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 07:16 PM
0

Yeah a friend of mine in the US charges $500/hour
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 12:55 PM
7

Wow, he must really love his girlfriend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 12:43 PM
1

Being strong enough to avoid that kind of pressure and say no IS the height of confidence! You go girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 12:36 PM
3

I wish but dating isn’t fun and being near a man brings inherent risks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 03:02 AM
2

Oh my fucking god
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 01:16 AM
2

Following bc I would like to know too :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 01:15 AM
3

Yessss me too! CF life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 01:14 AM
1

Also if they say they are divorced you can get a verification letter from your state department of vital statistics (for the USA ladies)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 09:47 PM
2

Okay what the actual fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 09:44 PM
66

Shows you how sick men truly are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 09:44 PM
1

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 09:40 PM
63

These words do not exist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 03:33 AM
3

25, in a relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 02:56 PM
9

Awww I want one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 10:13 PM
3

It’s true. Like their whole spiel on “Simps” i.e. non misogynistic men who respect women and treat them with kindness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 03:18 AM
7

I wasn’t good looking until I was 20 lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:16 PM
3

Absolutely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:01 PM
10

“Are you a serial killer?” PROJECTION
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:00 PM
2

Awwww I miss Austin! 💜 Although I’ve read ATX has the absolute worst dating scene in America. Yay! 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 03:59 PM
2

Following!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:22 PM
2

Queen energy 🤣🤣🤣💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:21 PM
3

THAT LAST LINE LMFAOOOO you dodged a bullet 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:20 PM
2

I was not looking and actually had just dumped my ex bf and excited to be single when I met my current HVM boyfriend 6 weeks after dumping the ex 😅 It’s totally true when stop looking there when it’s likely to happen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:14 PM
2

GOALS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:11 PM
5

Every Brent I know sucks lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:10 PM
3

Lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:09 PM
11

YES she should absolutely do this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:09 PM
21

Don’t share bank accounts ladies. Keep your money for savings. He pays all the bills. Or be single!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:08 PM
3

Damn this is spot on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:06 PM
13

Oh fuq 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:36 AM
8

Ewwwww and you agreed to a re-schedule first date? Girl major red flag! FUCK THIS DUDE where the sun don’t shine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:34 AM
20

FUCK YOU JAKE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:31 AM
26

Damn sucks he has your address
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:31 AM
9

Absolutely the truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:52 PM
23

Omgggg spot tf on lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:51 PM
39

“Free prostitute”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:33 AM
6

Lmao I choked at the end of laughter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:33 AM
2

Me too please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:31 AM
3

Me four!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:30 AM
3

Yes who is this tik toker?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:29 AM
1

That would be awesome thank you!! I’ll DM you my email
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:11 PM
1

Sounds like an interesting book! Is it worth the purchase/read?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:52 PM
1

What sub is this? I want to ask a doctor for free advice 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:38 PM
1

Is there a link? How do I find it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:11 PM
1

What is that? How do I see the new pink pill page?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:01 PM
4

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:37 PM
2

Yupppp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:36 PM
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Yes a man who actually makes your life WORSE. LVM is a low value man who doesn’t add any value to your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:33 PM
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Wix is fairly easy to navigate. I nominate myself if the mods or someone else is willing to put money up to build our website :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:27 AM
4

SAME. For my sanity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:16 AM
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Can someone comment or DM if FDS gets made on one of these websites?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:15 AM
5

Noted, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:07 AM
8

Yeah that’s what it sounds like to me 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 07:24 PM
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Yeah he’s definitely cheating again. Bc if he somehow did feel guilty and wanted to repent and start anew there’s no way he would act like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 02:31 PM
5

Of course he does 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 01:50 PM
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I just found her channel and am obsessed 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 08:37 AM
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I am completely aware of that. I stated this to point out that is exactly what he is “looking” for while he’s questing through these dating/hook up portals. He just doesn’t have the balls to admit that’s what he actually wants to use a woman for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 07:45 AM
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Bro just hire a god damn prostitute and don’t bother regular women trying to date
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 04:46 AM
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Good god
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 02:48 AM
16

Men are just sad sad creatures
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 01:47 AM
8

Epitome of a loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 01:42 AM
2

BOTH lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 01:02 PM
2

K she was 19 and he was 35 when they had their daughter.... fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 05:00 AM
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You are 16. Focus on your life and setting yourself up for the future. Women don’t benefit from “dating” under 25. Live your life to the fullest :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 04:57 AM
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Pathetic lmao. So happy not to have a penis that controls my life :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 04:55 AM
5

I just started it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 04:53 AM
3

Fuck no. Bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 04:52 AM
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Coffee is coffee. This is a date, not scout-with-a-stranger-for-the-best-of-the best coffee in the city, fuck that. 😂 Also I don’t believe in coffee dates lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 04:49 AM
5

Queen 👸🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 04:48 AM
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Lmfao. Tell that to my 83 year old grandmother who gets asked out at the grocery store and the YMCA. Boy by. Who the fuck is asking out the balding 45 year olds at the bar? Hmm?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 04:46 AM
3

Jesus fuck just when I thought I saw it all...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 06:33 PM
8

This. Also a reason I’m never birthing a man’s child. If I end up wanting to be a mother I will adopt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 06:24 PM
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Being known as a damn creep 🤣 I was in and out of that hostel for 2 weeks and a lot of girls kept coming up to me if I knew about him bc he kept preying on the new girls who’d stop by
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 04:08 AM
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Save-worthy 😁😁😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 09:09 PM
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Yeah I’ve never met a French man while traveling that I liked or thought well of. In my most recent trip I can specifically remember a French dude hounding around the hostel trying to get laid by every girl there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 08:54 PM
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Wow..... wow lmfao men are pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 01:18 AM
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Absolutely that isn’t harsh. He ignored the text you sent hours earlier. Nope. The only way I’d even consider giving him a second chance is if he sent me flowers and a Whole Foods gift card or something. Ladies ! This is another good reason why we don’t accept low effort dates. Dinner dates or something that requires planning only!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 01:10 AM
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Breakup worthy a s a p. 🤮 If a man had the audacity to say that to my face, I’d just look at him (very innocently) and be like, oh, so you’d rather me look like a prepubescent 11 year old girl? Mmm? And watch them embarrass themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 01:47 AM
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I see what you are saying!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 01:46 AM
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Wtf 115? That’s nuts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 09:21 PM
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Based on your individual career paths you will most likely always out-make him financially speaking. Especially as an RN, you have the ability in the future to get more credentials and make even more money. A massage therapist won’t compare or even have the same career climbing opportunities... I’d dump up him and work on yourself, your career, and have fun! Dating isn’t worth it when you are under 25 anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 09:19 PM
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YESSSSSSSS GOLD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 05:26 AM
3

It’s true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 02:50 AM
3

Boss lady!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 02:49 AM
5

No response is the best response. It eats away at men because they don’t get attention :) men crave attention even when it’s negative!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 02:31 AM
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I know FDS doesn’t support sex work, but could we shame the men who choose to hire sex workers during a pandemic and not the workers who may be paycheck for paycheck (so to speak)?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 02:27 AM
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TRUTH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 02:25 AM
13

Yes but this sub is full of women who ACTUALLY go their own way 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 02:20 AM
4

Exactly this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 02:19 AM
6

I so third this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 02:19 AM
6

Honestly, it’s not worth it, especially at a young age. Personally I stopped dating in the last 3 years and have had 2 boyfriends, both of whom fell into my lap when I wasn’t on dating apps or “looking” to date/have a bf. That’s the only way I plan on having a relationship going further! It either happens “to” me (lol) or I stay happily single focusing on myself. I’m 26 but yeah don’t bother when you are young. I already have a master’s degree and am well travelled and only fart around with dude…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 02:18 AM
5

It’s true. He’s a good person or he isn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:38 AM
4

Hard same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:38 AM
3

How is she not embarrassed to have this photo on the internet. By god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:37 AM
11

Thanks for the tip :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:37 AM
13

This is how I feel. I hate it so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:36 AM
2

Wow. Embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:34 AM
8

It’s true and fucking terrifying 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:32 AM
3

What the fuck? Why on earth do women let men do that to them? He definitely wants to hurt her and that is evil. Also, no man who truly loves his partner would ever do that to them. This little boy wants power and to put the fear into her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:31 AM
3

Congrats! You deserve so much better! Now you get to level up and focus on bettering yourself and focusing on your needs! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:29 AM
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Dumb question but where can I find more videos like this on tiktok? I’m older and unfamiliar with this app 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:28 AM
12

Hell yes queen!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:28 AM
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Omg I farted on my boyfriends lap (we weren’t having sex but I was nude lmao) FACING HIS FACE and farted on him and somehow pulled it off like nothing happened (no facial changes or anything) and he said nothing nor reacted. Good man lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:27 AM
2

Truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:21 AM
3

Yes you called it! Subconscious projection! Otherwise why would she even be bothered with tweeting this crap!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:20 AM
3

Damn called tf out 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:20 AM
3

Yesss the meme is great!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:18 AM
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I hate it. I’m so pro hair and love to shame men who think otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:17 AM
15

It’s fucking painful af I’ve done a few Brazilians in the last FUCK THAT NEVER AGAIN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:17 AM
89

Same, Zoomers are the future and totally woke compared to Millennials!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:16 AM
3

It’s true, they will not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 05:39 PM
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I don’t date military men either. I don’t date men in any profession who is trained to kill
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 12:52 AM
2

Definitely low effort, hard pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 10:40 PM
7

Wow what a fucking loser 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 10:39 PM
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Love this. Soul diggers AND pussy diggers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 08:31 PM
2

Lmaooooo 2 of my loves have had either depression, aspbergers, bipolar disorder, or a combination of the three fuck right off dudes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 03:45 AM
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Oh I literally said WHAT THE FUCK when I started reading the first sentence after seeing the title. Men are the fucking WORST.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 03:36 AM
12

Or just hire a damn prostitute lmao like gtfo out of here boiii!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 03:29 AM
5

Lmfaoooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 01:30 PM
3

Abso-fucking-lutely!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 08:44 PM
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Sooooooo he wants a free surrogate... and free sex... ya nawwww hard pass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 07:59 PM
6

Agreed!!!!! Some men I’ve met try to bond with me by putting down other women. I always call them out in their misogynistic crap and avoid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 05:36 PM
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Yeah I never understood this women-hate mentality from other women. Men will always be worse than women. Humans suck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 05:30 PM
2

BYOTP (bring your own toilet paper) 🚽🧻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 02:59 AM
1

No
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 02:40 AM
2

Sounds about right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 02:40 AM
2

PREACH SISTER
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 02:32 AM
2

I agree with this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 02:14 AM
3

Right? I need my beauty sleep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 12:48 AM
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I wouldn’t mind having a 20 min phone call or FaceTime call before a date but not a whole ass public/private meet up!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 09:54 PM
2

Wow this is a first I’ve heard of something like this. Lol that is what a date is for ?? 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 09:53 PM
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🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 09:32 PM
1

Damn.. I feel exposed 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 09:30 PM
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Good! I love when we (women) stand up for ourselves. Once a man grabbed my butt at a bar and I turned around a threw my drink all over him. He was pissed and ran to the bartender to narc me out but the (male) bartender saw the entire thing and thew HIM out. Bye scrote, I hope the door hit you on the way out!! Also the bartender got me a new drink on the house 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 09:29 PM
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You said it though - most do this because they seek validation!! And many will continue chasing it because there is no end in sight. Chasing male validation only fills a perpetual hole. I must admit though I once I had a long term FWB. It didn’t feel like the way this dude described his wanna be monogamous free prostitute though. At the time it was perfect for me bc I didn’t want a boyfriend but also didn’t like sleeping with randoms. I was in graduate school and partying all the time with my fr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 10:57 PM
2

Wow. LVAF (low value as fuck!!!!!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 08:33 PM
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“Are you going to eat that ENTIRE onion ring?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 08:32 PM
2

Agreed!!! As long as they are at least my height (5’4) lol the bar is pretty low
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 05:14 PM
1

This is a nice idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 04:42 PM
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Lucky 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 04:37 PM
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Yeah easier to get terrible sex (at best) and/or raped and killed (at worst.) Yay!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 04:36 PM
13

Someone’s triggered 🤣 As they say actions speak louder than words!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 04:35 PM
11

Hard same. No exceptions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 02:56 PM
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That’s what I thought....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 02:56 PM
12

Isn’t hurting animals linked to psychopathy against others humans?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 02:56 PM
6

Oh honey, men who specifically seek out sugar babies are the BOTTOM of the barrel. They are all leeches and losers. It’s one thing to naturally want to take care of your gf financially or with lavish gifts. It’s another to specifically seek that out (usually) with bad intentions, wanting to have sex without a condom and cheat on their wives. They want their ego to be stroked and get all triggered when you remind them about the “mutual beneficial” aspect e.g. allowance etc. a big nope from me. I’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 02:43 PM
2

Honestly this is my opinion too and the best we can get. Luckily I feel good about the man I’m with but it’s probably a situation like this. But he has assets and willing to take care of me while I stock away my own cash so that’s the only reason why I entertain being with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 02:37 PM
1

Man what a truth bomb 💣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 01:52 PM
21

Lmaoooooo truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 01:36 PM
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This is accurate. He wants a free monogamous prostitute. In what fucking world bro?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 03:10 AM
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Makes zero sense 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 07:34 PM
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It is an odd thing isn’t it? I was close friends with my ex bf first and knew his type to a t based on his exes and women he was dating (before me). He always sought after highly educated, ambitious, child free, latinx brunettes with big boobs and BAM I’m literally all of those labels and even after much discussion and arguments he wouldn’t change and I left him. I mean I know men don’t change, but I was hopefully he would try to because the things that were deal breakers for me would LITERALLY …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 03:53 PM
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What year was this published?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 03:11 PM
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He doesn’t about it, he just happens to know from prior conversations! I doubt it, he has more assets than me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 10:07 PM
3

Well fuck 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 02:00 AM
3

Yes exactly this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 11:13 PM
0

True... agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 11:11 PM
12

Does this mean literal “I love yous”? What is an example of love bombing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 11:10 PM
6

I would never want to be a male for that reason alone, being ruled by a ugly scrawny dick 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 11:04 PM
2

Glad I ain’t on OLD apps 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 11:04 PM
10

I’ve started doing this with my own boyfriend of not texting first (without a super good reason at least!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 11:03 PM
3

Yes, I agree. Even in an established LTR we have to allow the men to continue the chase and never get lazy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 11:03 PM
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This reminds me of my initial posting here to FDS. Even in a long term relationship I am working on not being as emotionally available. I want to always be chased. We can’t allow them to relax bc they could get lazy and set a bad precedent. Gotta keep them in check!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 11:01 PM
16

This is... the norm... that somehow is no longer a norm 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 10:59 PM
7

Considering the Brock Turners of the world are getting away with being their true selves then simultaneously reading “the oppression of men in America blah blah blah...” I think the fuck not!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 10:57 PM
6

Ew. Fucking sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 10:54 PM
12

As the Cheeto head of the United States would say, SAD!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 10:53 PM
21

^ yes the forever girlfriend concept should be defined
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 10:51 PM
11

I agree that would be a great idea!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 10:51 PM
6

Good man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 10:49 PM
1

Thank you! I don’t mind the idea of a prenup bc I am not marrying him with the intention of trying to “divorce rape” or whatever the hell dudes say women plot when wanting to get married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 07:49 PM
0

Thank you! I will likely keep my own and I’ll probably be added onto his to use to spend on basic necessities like the bills, food, misc. We don’t live together/share accounts now but he knows he would be the primary household financier and my career is for my own money and misc purchases/future savings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 07:47 PM
2

I wonder if it varies based on state? I will be SURE to look into that. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 07:45 PM
1

Thank you! I didn’t consider asking an accountant as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 07:44 PM
3

Thank you so much!! I will ask a lawyer about this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 07:44 PM
2

I love this! Thank you for the great advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 07:43 PM
3

Omgosh I’m sorry to hear that, thank you for sharing so I can avoid that if it were to ever happen to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 07:42 PM
6

Thank you!! I never considered speaking to a lawyer until today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 07:41 PM
3

Yes! This is how I found my doctor to sterilize me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 02:58 PM
10

Also, while I haven’t finished the book, if I recall it was more advantageous for women to be non monogamous than men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 02:47 PM
6

Lmaooooo I used to live in one of these cities and it is spot the fuck on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 02:46 PM
7

I second this 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 02:44 PM
2

Check out the FB group “The Solo Female Traveler Network”! It’s a great starting place of like minded independent women who enjoy traveling alone from around the world. It’s a great place to look up information on things to do as well as seeing (relatively speaking) how safe a country is before visiting. There’s also a spin off group for local meet ups if you happening to be in a specific city you can see if any locals want to meet up for dinner etc! I’ve only been met with kindness in my travel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 07:07 AM
5

Honestly I don’t. In the last 3 years my 2 boyfriends (including the one I’m currently and happily with) fell into my life without effort. I don’t actively date anymore. I go about being “my best self” as they say, and I am happily single until a another good partner falls into my life. No more actively looking! I too love to solo travel (15 countries and 5 continents in the last 2+ years!) My current and ex bf know I love my alone time and are/were not needy losers. In my most recent trip I was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 02:24 AM
1

What planet does he live on 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 02:15 AM
1

Literally!!!! People are wild with their mental gymnastics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 02:15 AM
1

The truth can hurt :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 02:14 AM
2

THANK GOD 💃🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 02:13 AM
1

Absolutely!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 02:12 AM
14

Lmfaoooooooooooooooooooo he had to be ugly af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 02:06 AM
8

Basically lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 01:58 AM
19

Like wtf did he even live with her for 2 weeks like ?????????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 01:57 AM
26

Exactly. Friends, family, therapists, random people at the bar. You don’t just start fucking someone else for free therapy 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 01:57 AM
14

I would leave this fucker so fast if I were his wife ✌🏼TOODLES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 01:56 AM
27

Example 1 million and beyond how annoying and (un)self-aware men really are 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 01:55 AM
60

That’s EXACTLY what I was thinking. Like excuse me sir you had an entire AFFAIR for 5+ months. Wtf did you think of your wife while you were plowing some younger pussy who was willing to sit through your bullshit problems?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 01:54 AM
14

Lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 01:54 AM
34

Wow girl you fucking nailed it 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 01:53 AM
2

What in the fuck???? Now that is legit man good digging 😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 07:13 PM
17

True
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 07:12 PM
3

Men NEVER consider this 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 02:13 PM
3

I agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 02:12 PM
3

Yes mam!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 02:11 PM
4

Yes this is what they want! And of course don’t want to provide anything of value back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 02:11 PM
3

THIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 02:10 PM
9

Women are the product for bars/clubs and dating apps. We should be compensated by getting a percentage of that business’s revenue!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 02:10 PM
3

I believe it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 02:09 PM
3

“Buddy there is no gold to be dug here” 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 02:09 PM
7

Absolutely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 02:08 PM
6

TRUTH. It’s somewhat of a transaction when you date a gold digger. She ADDS value to your life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 02:08 PM
10

It’s like, if I worked hard to get my masters degree and a high paying job, why would I settle for someone who didn’t? My dates don’t have to have a graduate degree as well but they better be more ambitious and successful than I am! They are only in my life to ADD value!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 02:07 PM
7

I think that is exactly it! They hate that we have standards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 02:05 PM
9

Hell no trophy boyfriends aren’t worth paying for
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 02:04 PM
3

Wow!!! Thank goodness he exposed himself early on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 02:04 PM
30

Barf-o-rama 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 02:07 AM
15

Preach sister. I’d much rather dine alone than put up with some loser I don’t actually care about. That meal isn’t “free”, I earned it from dining with your lame ass 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 02:07 AM
24

Lmaoooo truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 11:38 PM
6

If I ever get married this is the only way it’s happening. Bite me scrotes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 07:26 PM
6

Jesus fuck!!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 07:12 PM
2

Ooooof accurate af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 07:09 PM
8

Men are the prize? LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO brb crying 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 07:09 PM
1

I would of never thought of this but I’m about it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 07:08 PM
65

All I could think of while reading this post is “what a fucking loser” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 07:07 PM
69

This is very insightful. I never considered how if they spend a good amount of money on you, that’s money that ISN’T being spent on another woman. Hence an investment! Also, human beings in general value things they spent money on (or earned through hard work) than things that came free or cheaply. I know FDS doesn’t support prostitution, but a friend of mine who was an escort for awhile would tell me the men who paid her for their sexual encounters treated her far better than random hook ups fr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 06:59 PM
58

Lol the majority of the comments i read here on FDS are ladies leveling up and learning how to be happy on their own. Whereas incels wail on about their shitty selves without wanting to do better and get angry/hateful. I don’t see any anger or hate here, other than for men who are objectifying women and treating them like trash. That is something to be angry about! Not like being angry bc you were nice to a guy and he doesn’t want to have sex with you 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 02:17 AM
1

Honestly I think this is it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 10:36 PM
7

Ewwwww the trash exposed itself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 03:58 PM
4

My first 2 loves are actually ugly LOL. Take that Reddit bro’s!! My current boyfriend is has a handsome face but definitely dad-bod ish. I’m into it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 03:57 PM
6

What in the fuck 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 03:44 PM
6

Do these boyfriends know about each other?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 02:16 AM
2

No fucking way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 01:08 AM
3

Hahaha!! I can’t stand snoring and would too honestly! In fact the only time I lived with a bf (pre-FDS) we had separate bedrooms (10/10 recommend!) because his snoring was so loud and I didn’t want him taking up my space 🤣 Yes man! Was like “I don’t like condoms so I’ll just go to sleep”. Like it’s not like he didn’t even attempt and have an issue. Wild hahahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:40 PM
5

This clap back 😂👏🏼👏🏼👊🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 03:03 PM
7

I’ve had this happen too WTF. And this was after he spent $100 on a pedicab to my apartment after leaving the bars with some friends. I was astounded. Bitch got a free sleep in my bed and left awkwardly in the morning. I wish I had the balls to kick him out in the middle of the night! This was years ago and never looked back at one night stands
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:40 AM
3

This was inspiring to read, thank you for posting :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 10:57 AM
26

Yes queen 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 09:08 PM
7

Oh damn 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 09:06 PM
2

Wow this sub looks cool!! Can’t want to see it grow :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 09:05 PM
1

Preach Sista
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 01:04 AM
1

Divorce his ass sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 06:32 PM
5

Yay!! So glad this sub has been helpful so quickly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 06:31 PM
15

Um he ain’t trying to be “cute” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 06:28 PM
5

Agreed, I won’t change mine if I get married
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 06:27 PM
4

This is not how we do this here. We are the prize, men beg to be with US.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 03:23 AM
29

Ummmmmmm I’ve had a decent about of PIV and once you can establish boundaries and preferences it’s wonderful not painful ?? So many yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 03:22 AM
7

Okay I am internally screaming #SendHelp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 03:20 AM
0

It’s true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 03:18 AM
2

Goals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 02:38 AM
3

Fair.. trash ain’t good for the body
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 02:38 AM
7

If I could transform into a black window i 10/10 would They eat their mates after procreation. That’s how it should be 😃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 02:37 AM
20

I’ve seen this before on FDS but thank you so much for reposting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 02:36 AM
30

I feel like I’ve had the wind knocked out of me 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 02:34 AM
53

Damn.... that gynecologist is the best. I wish I could schedule with her. Also, wtf you are going to straight up ignore your health practitioner on how to stay healthy? FFS. Let your asshole gape. She warned you 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 02:16 AM
9

Okay not that I am advocating for this but this man should realize many American escorts charge upwards of $500-1000 an HOUR??? At least an escort who might march a woman of this caliber most likely! God damn scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 01:32 AM
6

Haha! Plus I am a super light sleeper. I don’t want anyone even quietly walking around the room of having a small light on. Plus what if they snore! Count me out!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 01:15 AM
11

Honestly I would dump a man who was audacious enough to put his dick thoughts above my pain. I can’t believe she even thinks she could be the asshole! As someone with big boobs (waives between D-DD depending on my weight), I find it very likely that her boyfriend is with her bc of her large breasts. Men are just obsessed with big boobs and I’m constantly trying to vet through men to see if they like ME or into big boobs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 04:36 PM
13

I LOVE having separate bedrooms. I refuse to co-sleep with a man. And somehow I look like the crazy one to my family?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 01:40 PM
4

I completely agree! I aspire to have my own money/career but expect my man to pay for dates, occasional gifts, etc. I am the prize! Luckily I’ve never had a date with an older man who had the audacity to ask me to split the bill lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 01:23 PM
8

Definitely! Luckily so far I’ve mostly only met older men with HV traits and unfortunately younger men with LV traits
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 01:22 PM
4

This is fair. I’ve read the horror story posts on older men ending up to be shit boyfriends. Maybe I’m biased based on some good experiences but it seemed like those people were just shit people, not necessarily due to their age. Now of course if you are 20 years old you won’t see the red flags of a 35 year olds LV behavior. But in my personal experience I’ve had boys in their 20s treat me worse / act low value than men in their 30s. It also seems to have worked for me though (so far!) because I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 01:21 PM
5

Likewise. She is one of my life inspirations :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 06:05 AM
5

Yes! And Jezebel 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 03:55 AM
52

Just another example why you don’t want to be with a man when he’s building himself up ladies. Often times he WILL leave you after med/law school or sold a company or some crap in his 20s. I know it’s against FDS standards to propagate age-gap relationships but personally I don’t fuck with men under 30 (I’m 26) because I don’t want to build a man up. I’ll take him for exactly what he is as a (as one hopes he can be) a “real” adult and go from there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 03:35 AM
3

Soooo this is one of the reasons why it’s a personal goal of mine to stop putting emotional into relationships / caring and maintaining an “emotionally unavailable” mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 03:31 AM
21

Please don’t reply. It truly is NOT worth it babe! If you dumped them - it was for a good reason!! If they dumped you - then WTF that’s embarrassing and they don’t deserve your response
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 03:29 AM
13

I wouldn’t consider it cheating, but I absolutely would NOT reply. If you reply, your ex wins. He gets to sink into his validation that you still care. Even if you wrote a nasty message, it means you still care. The opposite of love is apathy. That’s all he deserves - your unspoken reply of apathy. Enjoy your new relationship and focus on that. It’s your future! The ex is your past :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 03:24 AM
7

E x a c t l y
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 03:19 AM
15

Okay I choked and I only read the title 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 03:18 AM
14

I noped out the second he wrote “summin” #sorrynotsorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 03:17 AM
29

Right? How do people not understand this ???? 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 03:15 AM
39

Life advice: NEVER take advice from a man. They always give suggestions that only help themselves 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 03:15 AM
6

Men - y’all ain’t subtle!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 03:08 AM
9

My heart sunk reading this. It’s true though. No need to encourage that kind of energy into your life. Thank goodness for FDS and VPNs :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 03:04 AM
10

Wow. Everyday I wake up stoked I got myself sterilized a few years ago. How fucking selfish of this loser!!! His wife DIED for their love child and he wants to give her away???? What the actual fuck. Just another example how men can’t love. I bet you the husband just misses the beauty of his ex and having sex with her. I can’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 02:49 AM
10

Okay I haven’t read this post yet but immediately I yelled WHAT out loud. WHAT. Okay brb need to read the post and die inside 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 02:46 AM
13

PREACH for the cheap seats in the back!! 👏🏼👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 02:45 AM
4

I completely agree with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 02:44 AM
8

Agreed! family aka husbands not boyfriends. Sometimes I am trying to remind myself of
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 02:43 AM
20

The words “Wooooooooowa” literally fell out of my mouth when reading this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 02:24 AM
3

Thank you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 08:40 PM
8

I really appreciate this thought out response. Thank you, it’s going on my daily reading for a reminder :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 02:33 PM
2

Yes it's on the sidebar towards the top of the page
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 04:43 PM
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