thediablowizard Archive

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2	We will never get true gender equality in society. Because whenever equality shows up, a lot of women see it as misogynistic. yes they just hold onto and try to protect their power.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 09:03 PM
–	If women were physically stronger, we'd be seeing a lot more cases of female on male sexual assault. oh probably. as a chad i got sa'd a few times. as an overweight kid i got ghosted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 09:00 PM
3	For people who have "given up" for longer than a year, how is your life now? Was it the correct choice? because a supportive community is what this life long incel needs, because he's too ugly to get a woman maybe he can find some friends to pity him instead. How sad! Welcome to the real world. It turns out that if you're ugly you also have a harder time finding who give a shit too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 08:54 PM
3	We will never get true gender equality in society. Because whenever equality shows up, a lot of women see it as misogynistic. its not that they see equality as misandrist, it's that women want equity not equality. So when men advocate for equality women scream misogyny. They point out that this is two faced and manipulative. Women stand for equity but ask for equality. When you treat women as equals they get triggered.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 08:33 PM
2	Too many people confuse covert narcissism with being vulnerable. it does. don't you watch drama tv, chads are holding bitches accountable every day now. did you hear about the bachelorette. ladies yall are fuckkkked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 08:08 PM
–	We will never get true gender equality in society. Because whenever equality shows up, a lot of women see it as misogynistic. Sorry, "statistically near zero". 0.001 messagse a week is like one an eternity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 07:04 PM
1	We will never get true gender equality in society. Because whenever equality shows up, a lot of women see it as misogynistic. 100% agreed. too many red pilled men know. at least 90%+ now. Even the turbo incels i grew up with are now turning. There was only 2 men i knew left and they're still holding out. And they're still 35 year old virgins	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 04:17 PM
0	The Netflix Documentary Misses the Mark Entirely. they're obviously going to be really biased and frame it as a fringe movement. When in actuality every male i know mid thirties is full red pilled. Most got hard red pilled early 20s. It's only the incels who are still blue pilled. It's an unfortunate reality that people are red pilled by experience. Some get radicalized by misinformation but most end up somewhere in the middle. Though purple is red without the fringe minorities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 04:13 PM
1	"Hot guys be assholes to women!" Well that ain't you those who do not understand power say 'hot guys be assholes to women!' those who understand power see 'hot guy has power and can act like he has power'. these men just aren't used to seeing men wield power over women. But chad has power over women. Women want chad to have power over them because chad makes them feel safe. Women get icked out when they socially dominate the incels. They're so socially retarded. Chad isn't being an asshole, chad is being a good chad and a bad incel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 04:09 PM
5	Too many people confuse covert narcissism with being vulnerable. it goes directly against the red pill teachings. victimhood is by definition anti red pill, that's a black pill take. It's logically not possible for it to be red pill because it's contrary to the red pill mindset & values.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 03:30 PM
4	Too many people confuse covert narcissism with being vulnerable. none of that is red pill though, another bad faith manipulative lilith take.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 03:28 PM
1	What Is the cause for lack of empathy for men's dating problems? ya but when you say things like that you just red pill more men. you do a better job red pilling them then the data ever did. just because its old doesn't make it wrong. you in fact need to disprove that it still works that way because that's the measured status quo. So you use a thin statistical margin of error that this has deviated over time to dismiss the whole. It's manipulation. Good job red pilling more and more men toaster, you're doing a great job!	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 03:20 PM
4	We will never get true gender equality in society. Because whenever equality shows up, a lot of women see it as misogynistic. he co founder of ok Cupid wrote that 80% of men are kissless touchless virgins? your words, not mine. I see you are a very manipulative woman and I will stop here. good day mam!	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 03:08 PM
1	What Is the cause for lack of empathy for men's dating problems? not interested in specifics. You can see most red pill talking points are backed by studies, yet there are seas of blue pilled women who use a variety of fallacies to manipulate and frame the discussion away from the facts which cannot be ignored. No i do not need to provide specific facts. You can just see this in every thread.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 03:05 PM
5	Too many people confuse covert narcissism with being vulnerable. Hey man just read brene browns work, she's the expert. And yeah, men get fucked for being vulnerable. She measured it. Lots of narccicism out there, and lots of bpd women out there. women do very often respond negatively to male vulnerability. you can just look at how blue pilled women respond to red pill men here. they even try to frame stating facts about dating as men complaining. gaslighting out in the open. This is how women ACTUALLY respond to mens vulnerability. You just need to go throug…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 03:03 PM
-3	Q4W: Where Should A Man Actually Go To Meet You? because it's not luck. You can just appeal to what is attractive and that just works. You had no luck because you had no skills. Most old guys are turbo autists lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 02:56 PM
3	Slutty women are more relationship material than traditional or conservative women when you become chad, sex happens anyway. It's primal attraction. You're just filtering who gets into the interview room by statistical outcomes. It's risk a mitigation strategy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 02:54 PM
4	We will never get true gender equality in society. Because whenever equality shows up, a lot of women see it as misogynistic. well the co founder of ok cupid wrote a book called dataclysm that shows what I said. so you are just talking out of your butt. No one cares that you disagree, because you are wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 02:41 PM
1	"Hot guys be assholes to women!" Well that ain't you if you learn leadership & containment they're not hard to find, because you make them yourself. Lots of women who just need a leader. It's a lot of effort though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 02:40 PM
–	Every single women in the World, can be dated without applying money or status if you are "that guy" to her. Money and Status is ONLY needed, if a Women doesnt like you FULLY. exception to the rule fallacy. Outliers do not change what we can measure and statistically demonstrate. We measured what each gender finds attractive, and exactly how much. That doesn't change because stacy ended up with a fat footballer who peaked in highschool.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 02:36 PM
1	What Is the cause for lack of empathy for men's dating problems? ya its pretty easy to see this. just go to any thread and look at the top few comments where you have a sea of irrational blue pilled women ignoring facts, being irrational, and being manipulative when presented with hard well sourced data about how we mate. They're more interested in protecting their identity and sense of self and will openly try to gaslight everyone in a hilarious display of womanese. And it happens in every single thread.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 02:17 PM
1	Are men lonelier? LGBTQ+ statistics which are widely available	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 02:08 PM
4	We will never get true gender equality in society. Because whenever equality shows up, a lot of women see it as misogynistic. the data actually shows that men show interest linearly according to attractiveness percentile. With an exception at high percentile women. So men are actually very reasonable here. While women don't interact with any sub 80 percentile males almost at all. So you are actually describing a behaviour of women and applying it to men. Both men and womena lot of interest for top percentile people. Only men show interest to sub 80 percentile women and they show it linearly accordly to how attractive t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 02:02 PM
1	What Is the cause for lack of empathy for men's dating problems? intent vs reception. it's important to state these things as the facts they are. Often statement of facts is taken as an attack on women. This results in shame projection behaviors as those details violate womens sense of self and their identity. So they project that and dismiss / invalidate the individual on the basis that they are complaining. Which for any rational person (most men) is absurd. So the person just reinforces the red pill, which teaches men how women manipulate in this way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 01:55 PM
1	What Is the cause for lack of empathy for men's dating problems? none of the red pill is about unfairness. It's about acceptance and openness to change to appeal to the reality of the unfairness. You change their words when stating the why ('the unfairness') and frame it as complaining, then misrepresent the entire red pill to further gaslight others by framing it as full of complainers. No one buys your posturing and framing, and responses like yours is why more and more men are being red pilled HARD. Because women show men who they are through they act, and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 12:51 PM
2	Are men lonelier? yes, that explains some. But when you look up the rates it's only a few percent. So that's like 1/10 the whole at most.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 12:44 PM
5	We will never get true gender equality in society. Because whenever equality shows up, a lot of women see it as misogynistic. that happens though, you just gotta become chad first. if you don't have the genetics to become chad you don't get to experience that. chad gets this experience. I know because i became chad. Went from unable to get a girl out for coffee for 10 years to women throwing themselves at me. I get proposed to. I get big trip gifts. I got a sugar momma despite being financially successful myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 12:15 PM
3	Are men lonelier? 65% of men aged 18-35 are single, while 25% of women are. This means for every woman who is dating a man there is a second woman also dating the same man. On average. So yeah, men are very lonely right now. Fewer young men are getting the relationship experience they need to be fathers and instead look like androgynous retards who actually bought into the be yourself kool-aid. like honestly i look at young men these days when out at an event and go LOL. You see the red pilled chads with their ho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 12:04 PM
–	average Men Don't have almost any advantages are the rest OK?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 12:02 PM
1	Red Pill men should support feminism but every gynocracy over history failed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/26 10:00 PM
2	Dating is random/messy and cannot be predicted by either Red or Blue pill approaches yes its very predictable. you appeal to what is attractive, shocker, people are attracted to you. end of story i don't even understand how people could ever think differently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/26 08:31 PM
0	It is not society’s fault that there are men who dont know the difference between casual sex and a relationship. oxytocin's effects on systems in the body persist long after the hormone is metabolized. It doesn't go away that quickly. Also repeated events create habits and reward cycles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/26 03:18 PM
0	It is not society’s fault that there are men who dont know the difference between casual sex and a relationship. do you know what oxytocin does and what male:female act releases the most	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/26 03:03 PM
-2	Why are yall downvoting women saying they love their husbands? my issue is that when they describe their husbands they describe a red pill man. I don't know how that gets missed in the interaction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/26 02:50 PM
1	Dating is random/messy and cannot be predicted by either Red or Blue pill approaches yes it can be predicted. when you as a male go from 0 interaction with women for years, to women flooding your inbox, it def is predictable and controllable. that was my experience. 80:20 rule is facts. went from the 80 to the 20 and it was like 'ok i get it now'.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/26 02:33 PM
–	RP focuses only on success stories that fit their narrative those people are looks based red pilled.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/26 02:28 PM
–	RP focuses only on success stories that fit their narrative no, you say no pill but lift. you are at least looks based red but too big of a scaredy cat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/26 02:20 PM
–	RP focuses only on success stories that fit their narrative I have two close friends who began balding younger. They've never had girlfriends and are incels. It's how it is. Some men look good bald, they can pull it off. But overwhelmingly women do not date balding men when they have other options lined up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/26 01:47 PM
–	RP focuses only on success stories that fit their narrative oh look a looks based redpiller who has too much shame to admit it!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/26 01:45 PM
–	Men often demand unconditional admiration while making women earn basic treatment yes point to the rules because you don't like what was said. sad and embarassing	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/26 01:44 PM
1	RP focuses only on success stories that fit their narrative https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6oz-tOcwlVs	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/26 08:49 PM
0	RP focuses only on success stories that fit their narrative Well thats the men I saw women actually date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/26 06:26 PM
6	Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “. It's because the men in the title already hopped onto the bandwagon. Most of the modern woke culture was built by fake bandwagon andy's. Thats why this woke culture is such a joke, because most people in private SHIT on it, and most people in public think there is support for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/26 01:32 PM
0	RP focuses only on success stories that fit their narrative lol ya the guy who had a fit at our banter and removed himself would be blacklisted. it was a total overreaction. 30% of people are conflict avoidant so get really triggered. what is your point and what do you mean. there are multiple ways to interpret it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/26 01:23 AM
2	Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “. i feel hes talking about male ->female dynamics. they can be quite gendered and it's appropriate to bring up some of these while building a relationship. They're funny sometimes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 09:22 PM
17	Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “. It's called wokefishing. Once you see the new trend, you see all the people who pile onto it. It's like bitcoin. We are a herd species. We like to protect our tribe. This is just tribe dynamics in action. You join the tribe by speaking for the culture the tribe wants. It's fake as fuck often. Like, really fucking fake. The biggest sleezebags i knew hopped onto some of the cultural shifts after they saw women shouting for them. Like how are people so blind?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 09:20 PM
1	Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “. nah totally disagree as the red pill is a completely 'in your control' mindset and we don't do blackpill here (out of control mindset). You are framing criticism and vulnerability as externalising and blaming, which is just not reasonable. Sure, some people do externalize and blame but at the core the teaching is NOT that. So basically you take the behaviours of a small minority and apply that to the whole which is not reasonable. At the end of the day the red pill is about accepting these are i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 06:46 PM
1	Why do men “neg” women? If a woman is confident and self assured, and she likes the guy, she will choose to interpret the neg as banter. That's what is so beautiful about the tactic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 06:37 PM
–	What do you mean by men are formulaic in dating? i disagree. If it acts like a duck, quacks like a duck, it's a duck. These men were red pilled by experience and by their fathers and by society. The red pill is opening your eyes up to how the world actually works. You don't need to listen to fresh and fit. Most men get more and more red pilled as they get older. The red pill has been passed down since the ancient greeks. You can gpt how the greeks taught TRP through marcus aurelius and other free thinkers / psychologists of the eras. C Jung fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 05:43 PM
–	What do you mean by men are formulaic in dating? it's always been looks status & game. Most men married to women are attractive, have good careers, and know how to flirt / treat / lead / have sex with a woman. Men who appeal to those 3 traits are red pilled. Even if they engage in shame related behaviors and refuse to admit it, they still conform to the pillars and display those attributes in their behavior https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6oz-tOcwlVs you have men in leadership positions with wives, and they just do organisational containment o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 05:15 PM
–	What do you mean by men are formulaic in dating? oh my sweet naive summer child.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 05:09 PM
–	What do you mean by men are formulaic in dating? why do you think that? from my experience every man i know who got red pilled pretty much immediately found success. Do you look around and think red pill is the minority or something? Every man i grew up with got red pilled. And the ones who didn't are currently incels lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 04:54 PM
2	Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “. It's okay to not describe things with perfect accuracy. You are moving goal posts. The goal is mutual clarity, not perfect communication. I am allowed to imperfectly communicate in a discussion. What matters is that we come to a consensus.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 04:53 PM
2	Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “. Perfect. thank you for confirming.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 04:50 PM
4	Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “. And since i want to date someone who would also like me, then those qualities would show in our relationship in a way that shows that he likes me. Like planning a date, having initiative etc. This is leadership. Men are expected to be leaders and lead the relationship. Women are seldom taught leadership tactics, so unfortunately for a relationship to mirror a relationship the men must make that reality happen. So they have to have the skills to lead and direct the relationship. Basically - they …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 04:46 PM
1	Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “. it's an easy way to learn the nuance in what I am saying and will spit it all out in half a second. Very easy solution to your problem you should try it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 03:50 PM
1	Even redpillers are gynocentric. Self improvement means nothing. But life doesn't work like that. You aren't valued for who you are. Those men likely had to perform a tremendous amount of leadership and raised you up and you don't have the self awareness to understand that. If multiple men have told you that, they aren't wrong. It's a cognitive bias where you act in the moment and don't see the long term patterns they have enabled through leadership by giving you the room to grow while dating them. Men often see the huge gaps in womens ability and behavior an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 03:48 PM
1	Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “. then chat gpt it and confirm. i'm not your mother	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 03:44 PM
1	How should men try to present themselves as fulfilling basic requirements? This is literally red pill looks status game in 9 points.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 03:44 PM
2	Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “. The market wants what it wants and most people are inauthentic chameleons. It's just life experience and understanding how most people are very narcissistic but do not show that to others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 03:42 PM
1	Even redpillers are gynocentric. Self improvement means nothing. why do you feel the need to posture and try to frame changing themselves to appeal to womens standards as 'life empty' wouldn't getting a woman make their 'life full' by allowing them to actually build a normal life?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 03:31 PM
2	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD The red pill uses the data to inform teachings. You just go to the data and see what women actually find attractive. That is the red pill. Opening your eyes to how the world actually works. We measured how muscular is how attractive. The ideal red pill 'jackedness' is whatever maximizes your SMV according to the data. We observe men who become too jacked become less attractive. Just as men who are too tall become less attractive. It's inherently red pill because this is what the data shows.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 03:28 PM
9	Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “. The men I know who were succesful with women were conservative, but the women were very liberal. They continue to date conservative men who are conservative by their behaviors but liberal in what they show others. So they reward inauthentic men who are liars and don't have the self awareness to recognize that. Again, nice guys finish last.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 03:25 PM
0	Men are right to believe their prime is later than women Changing my words. Not a good look.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 03:24 PM
0	Why do men “neg” women? And with trust/attraction the neg is treated as banter in actual relationships. Basically, due to other factors the same action is interpreted differently because the intent doesn't matter. What matters is how the neg is delivered and how the neg is received.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 03:20 PM
8	Why are men obsessed with “submissive”women? Men are turned off by cluster B personalities. These 'submissive' women just have better communication skills. Men do not want difficult and bitchy. No one does. They do not want a woman who doesn't stand up or isn't confident or isn't strong. They just want a woman to express those attributes in a calm cool collected and respectful way. Women who show strong neuroticism and project a lot of insecurities / victimhood are not attractive lol. As we can see with incels, no one cares about your prob…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 03:05 PM
8	Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “. Womens actions demonstrate they want conservative men who act liberal. Like chameleons the men become "liberal" because they are appealing to pussy pedestal. Much of our society works like this. Just look at immigration policy. Goes right out the window once people start being authentic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 03:00 PM
0	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Not sure, go ask all the incels about their experiences trying to date women. maybe they have some insight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 02:58 PM
3	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD And wildly consistent tastes in men too. For every outlier there is 100 that fits the mold perfectly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 02:57 PM
1	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD It's a genetics marker. However stubble is statistically the most attractive facial hair look.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 02:57 PM
2	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Those guys look 35 lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 02:56 PM
-3	Women that like it when a man doesn’t expect sex, did you once have a high sex drive? Yes, they like having power in the relationship to dictate when sex happens. It's used as a carrot to get what they want. This is because women learn that they have sexual power over men at a young age. They like having that power. And its one of the few knobs they can turn to control mens behavior. When you understand this you will observe a lot of control behaviors within intimate relationships with women. Subtle control behaviours. For instance you flirt and you both agree on fucking later. T…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 02:53 PM
2	Women that like it when a man doesn’t expect sex, did you once have a high sex drive? this is a red pilled 'game' take.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 02:49 PM
3	Conservative men are hardcoded towards destroying women. what do you mean women are swooning at a billionaire with a penthouse sex dungeon? That's not womanly behavior!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 02:48 PM
3	‘Blue Pillers’ never said shallow women dont exist. So statistically near zero women are good based off the attractiveness percentile of men who actually receive engagement from women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 02:45 PM
2	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD The RP isn't about becoming mega jacked. That's actually well understood to put you in niche status and will limit your options. Most women don't want a beefcake. You misunderstand the teachings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 02:36 PM
–	What do you mean by men are formulaic in dating? This is basic advice on compliments. Except I found that in intimate relations, comments on appearance land hard. Women want to be desired and appreciated. They want their body to be complimented. The reason you want to compliment other attributes first is because women will get the ick if you move too sexual too quickly. However in practice once there is trust you can absolutely complement her on her appearance and she will appreciate it. It's very validating to tell her you love her booty or t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 02:33 PM
–	What do you mean by men are formulaic in dating? In case it isn't clear, you can't follow a formula for dating success. Every red piller disagrees because they followed the formulae and it worked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 02:30 PM
0	The biggest myth in dating is that women are the romantic gender Yes. They don't have the SMV required to have boundaries and standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 02:28 PM
3	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD ?? its basis is three pillars of looks status and game. You don't even know what the pills are lol. anyone who lifts is at least looks based red pilled. Whether they have the awareness to accept that is another story. Most project too much shame and deny that they are looks based red pilled, convince themselves they somehow are different and are lifting for personal reasons so that they don't feel uncomfortable about the real reason why they are lifting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 02:27 PM
1	Dating is asymmetric by nature. Modern heterosexual dating is set up in a way where you have the pursuer (man) and the pursued (woman) Not true. Once you become chad the script flips.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 02:25 PM
-2	Most women want socially liberal men who are capable of engaging in “benevolent misogyny “. The issue arises because nice guys don't understand that women want to be respect by the general public and want to be treated like a woman by their partner. Men learn to respect women as if they were in public, but never learn how to treat a woman like a woman in a relationship. Ultimately women are more passive. They typically learn less leadership skills. Thus, as a man you take on the weight of romanticizing the relationship and making it a fun, engaging, and intimate partnership. Men who ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 02:24 PM
1	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Yes, which gives credit to how easy it is to improve your outcomes by following the looks based red pill. You can get ahead of 87% just by changing one part of your lifestyle. This for most people without atrocious genetics means success in dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 02:18 PM
2	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD It's not so much complaining as it is raising awareness and teaching/raising other men up. It's a very taboo topic and leads to a lot of confused men who do not know what to prioritize. Well, unfortunately if you are a little overweight you will be a sexless incel. Also if you are a skinny toothpick who doesn't fit the prettyboy niche you will also be a sexless incel. Men who are 5'6" have like 120x the competition as someone 6'3". So be prepared to really really fucking grind on the other attri…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 02:16 PM
4	The biggest myth in dating is that women are the romantic gender No, but its taught in the RP and one of the basis of following the 3 pillars. You follow the 3 pillars and you don't need to chase. Women come to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 02:14 PM
7	RP focuses only on success stories that fit their narrative Except - they are like that too and appreciate authenticity. The men I knew who were most successful with women were certainly the most racist and bigoted people i know. The biggest chad i knew screamed 'faggots' when driving past a gay bar. Yet despite being a raging bigot, highly racist, he still had no trouble getting women, and all the women in my friend group were pining for him. I get told its my personality, when it was just appearance informing my personality. Once I became chad they wer…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 02:12 PM
7	The biggest myth in dating is that women are the romantic gender Which is why the red pill is so important, because investment requires baseline attraction. As I got more red pilled, women were more and more engaged in meeting my needs without having to do anything. Why would I settle for being treated like a beta bucks blue piller whose just gonna get cucked?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 02:04 PM
5	Men are right to believe their prime is later than women Men are rated the most attractive at 32-33. And their ratings decline by 35 and further. If you do more research on aging you will learn men have a growth spurt at 35 and one in their mid 50s. This isn't a normal growth spurt, it's an aging spurt which isn't well known by the general population. Men and women get this aging spurt at different ages.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 02:02 PM
10	RP focuses only on success stories that fit their narrative BP works for men who naturally follow red pill principles without being formally red pilled. All men I knew who got girlfriends were at the very least looks based red pilled. The chads who got a lot of women fawning over them were good at the other two pillars.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 01:59 PM
1	Conservative men are hardcoded towards destroying women. Sure, listen to the sexpert yourself: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Ait0WaCNCw	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 01:50 PM
11	The biggest myth in dating is that women are the romantic gender and never notice things just happen to them. Certainly someone isn't creating this flourishing environment for them...	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 01:42 PM
-1	What female-primary behaviors do you actually think are unjustifiable? It's actually highly variable based on locality. the meta analysis on the topic found rates between 0.8% to 30% https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC1733152/ So the answer is not as black and white as you think. Are the numbers straight now? 18% was a direct quote from an FBI rep in an interview I saw on the news. Seems its closer to sub < 10% but it really matters where you are looking. As some areas are as high as 30%.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 04:26 AM
0	What female-primary behaviors do you actually think are unjustifiable? Very productive, because everyone who doubted false paternity rates were that high was wrong. There is an easy to find meta analysis that shows you were all wrong. It's okay that I described it in a way that made you want to attack something you were wrong about anyway. That was your choice. You chose to be close minded, as the others did. Not my problem. Next time have an open mind??	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/26 01:27 AM
0	What female-primary behaviors do you actually think are unjustifiable? The study itself says ~10 as maybe too high. The median across studies done in different populations is not as telling as you think it is. There is nothing wrong with presenting the information as I did. It's perfectly reasonable to say its 30% in some places.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 11:37 PM
0	What female-primary behaviors do you actually think are unjustifiable? It's actually highly variable based on locality. the meta analysis on the topic found rates between 0.8% to 30% https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC1733152/ So the answer is not as black and white as you think. Are the numbers straight now? 18% was a direct quote from an FBI rep in an interview I saw. That's allowed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 11:22 PM
-1	What female-primary behaviors do you actually think are unjustifiable? >may be an overestimate for most populations We're comparing a bunch of different statistics. The answer is, it ranges from low ish to very high (30%). I gave the proof. It does go as high as 30 percent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 11:10 PM
-1	What female-primary behaviors do you actually think are unjustifiable? Definitely not lying, the meta analysis on the topic found rates between 0.8% to 30% https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC1733152/ As I discussed. It varies greatly off locality. The 18% figure was from a quote from an FBI interview I recall years back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 10:43 PM
-1	What female-primary behaviors do you actually think are unjustifiable? Because they are the federal beurau of investigation and it's their job. Yeah, if there was fraud affecting 18% of born babies they'd be the people to do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 10:33 PM
–	Alpha fux and beta bux is literally so hard to ignore. projection!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 09:18 PM
–	Alpha fux and beta bux is literally so hard to ignore. oh a curious non ego driven personality. rare.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 09:12 PM
–	Alpha fux and beta bux is literally so hard to ignore. oh young padawan! just go ask chat gpt and keep asking questions. ask it about leadership and containment within teams in corporate orgs. how the engine keeps people happy or in line.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 08:53 PM
0	Most can’t really claim to know “the truth” about female attraction just from hearsay It's actually well studied, not hearsay. Details being lost in the game of telephone will cast doubt. At the end of the day what we find attractive is well understood. It's a solved problem. We have the data. We he have the facts. There are just people who suck at explaining the facts and people who suck at accepting the facts. The red pill accepts. The blue pill rejects. That's the mindset difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 08:35 PM
1	Why do men “neg” women? You're misunderstanding what I'm saying, so let me explain it really simply. Imagine two people arguing about whether a stove is hot. One person says “touch it and see,” and the other says “you only believe that because you read it somewhere.” The stove being hot doesn't depend on who said it. It’s just a fact that can be checked. Same thing here. If I say there’s research on playful antagonism or affiliative teasing, that doesn’t become false just because I used GPT or read it somewhere. The in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 07:59 PM
0	How would you describe/guess the average male Person who has no/bad Dating life or very good dating life "i dont care" is codeword for you care a lot. Someone who didn't care wouldn't need to say it. That's projection.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 07:27 PM
2	How would you describe/guess the average male Person who has no/bad Dating life or very good dating life and yet anyone socially aware sees the projection	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 07:24 PM
3	How would you describe/guess the average male Person who has no/bad Dating life or very good dating life Just a very fun thing I see all the time. Try telling a girl to google something LOL. 'no thats not fair you cant just pull out a phone and hold me accountable, thats not fair!!!!'. Hilarious shame behaviors.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 07:10 PM
–	Why do men “neg” women? I did address what you said, you just don't understand. Be more open here. You are denying without really considering things. Perhaps put what i've said into chat gpt to understand better? Sibling interactions have everything to do with sexual flirting. It makes women feel safe by bringing them psychologically back to safe environments when they were children and had brothers. This is certainly a nice to have for arousal. They feel safe because they experienced those behaviors with their brother…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 07:00 PM
0	Why do men “neg” women? The intent and outcome are independent. The outcome is completely decided by the person receiving the neg. You cannot know the intent. It's actually even unfair to assume intent. I always bantered with people, well before I knew banter was attractive. Understanding the mechanics doesn't make my actions any more or less malicious. You assume bad intent because they know the mechanics. But it's also just a normal human behavior that most people do naturally. So you are just kinda mad that it works…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 06:56 PM
1	Why do men “neg” women? Maybe go read the book the art of witty banter. I feel like you have a fragile sense of self if you don't understand why banter is flirty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 06:41 PM
0	Why do men “neg” women? That's your interpretation now from the outside. It doesn't go that way in real life. I agree completely with you, it's fucked up from an outside lens. But in practice a bit of banter is playful, fun, and flirty. And yes women do that. Thats what banter is. People with strong sense of self who have good egos can banter. You can poke your finger into a secure non ego driven man all you want. And women do, they test for this relentlessly. When he doesn't react, or responds playfully, you feel safe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 06:40 PM
2	Why do men “neg” women? Think critically. If you were a girl and you grew up with brothers, you would have a lot of positive memories of the things your brothers did. Things that entertained you, created fun experiences out of nothing. Her brothers would have held her accountable, called her out on her shit. They'd be playful, wrestle a bit. These dynamics invoke those old feel good feelings. It's part of what makes male:female dynamics attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 06:37 PM
1	What female-primary behaviors do you actually think are unjustifiable? There are toxic behaviors that are indeed statistically gendered. They're well documented over history. You cannot erase for instance greek writings on women, or C Jung's work. There's an entire religion which exists today which removes womens power imo because of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 06:34 PM
1	Why do men “neg” women? They should, and they do. I've never met a woman who didn't test my sense of self. Being unable to take a little bit of criticism is a big turn off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 06:30 PM
0	Why do men “neg” women? Yes, but does that actually matter? The outcome is independent of the ACTUAL intent. Intent versus reception. You are assuming intent. However, intent will be presumed by whomever is on the other end of the interaction. Banter is also fun and playful. Anyone with social awareness banters. Just yesterday I was talking with a girl and we just started bantering back and forth relentlessly. IT SHOWED THAT I HAVE SOCIAL PROWESS AND THAT I WAS NOT INSECURE. Meanwhile the ex chad that was there with us…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 06:22 PM
0	How would you describe/guess the average male Person who has no/bad Dating life or very good dating life It's easy to posture and call it complaining. That's an easy way to dismiss these mens experiences and blame them. The fact is that I was sexless, and just became attractive, and then women treated me different. I didn't need to change my personality - i needed to change how women interpreted my behaviors by changing my appearance. Women project how they feel about you with how they act. So do men mind you. These men are confused because they are not doing anything wrong but are still getting th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 06:18 PM
0	How would you describe/guess the average male Person who has no/bad Dating life or very good dating life denying accountability in plain sight. 'i dont want to observe because then ill be proven wrong'	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 06:16 PM
1	What female-primary behaviors do you actually think are unjustifiable? It's very coherent. Posturing and saying otherwise won't get you anywhere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 06:00 PM
-1	What female-primary behaviors do you actually think are unjustifiable? The FBI does actually estimate paternity fraud to be 18%. And I am right about the 30%. I will conclude this here because I don't need to prove i'm right to know I am right :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 05:55 PM
-2	Why do men “neg” women? I disagree. Negging is certainly under the umbrella of banter. Your position doesn't make sense to me. You are by definition bantering when you neg. Social awareness has no part in it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 05:54 PM
-2	What female-primary behaviors do you actually think are unjustifiable? Yes it is as estimated by the FBI. There are also some districts in the US where it is higher than 30%. I've actually researched this lmao.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 05:44 PM
–	Alpha fux and beta bux is literally so hard to ignore. Yes you are right. However I feel a little differently because I feel like these ideas come from from shame projection. They are just not aware that everyone sees through their BS. So they will vehemently deny being attracted to chad to save face and avoid shame. Ultimately it's just a defence mechanism to protect their identity. I see this as gaslight and toying, because they learn that naive men actually buy it. So it becomes a norm. However they're still going 'wow hes hot' and then going 'ew…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 05:43 PM
-1	What female-primary behaviors do you actually think are unjustifiable? The rate is also 18% as reported by the FBI. So it's actually a really really really high rate. 18% of babies born are estimated to be paternity fraud. They do not measure who the birth father is at birth BECAUSE it is so high and would destabilize our society. That means 1/5 women are cucking their partners. Let that sink in - 1/5. Careful out there boys. Learn projection, learn those dark female behaviors, and filter for them!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 05:39 PM
1	Men can’t really claim to know “the truth” about female attraction They do have insight and knowledge. The data shows what is attractive. They measured it all already. You can't argue against it lol, well you can, just you look really really dumb.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 05:37 PM
-4	Why do men “neg” women? It's under banter, which is a form of flirting. If shes into you she will receive it positively. Why? because she will project that she took it on the chin by how she responds. Girl isnt attracted -> gets insulted -> lashes out, attacks back girl is attracted -> feels good feelings -> becomes more attracted Negging is very effective because it mirrors brother-sister play dynamics. Or father daughter play dynamics. Men do bring each other down to raise each other up. Playful banter. It can tell y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 05:30 PM
–	Blue Pill is an ideology and actually very delusional. And then you talk to them and it's always about getting bitches. LOL	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 05:20 PM
–	Alpha fux and beta bux is literally so hard to ignore. There was no trap, nor was there any status play nor threat. You actually fell into my trap by thinking a typo means i'm wrong. Shadow was one part. You aren't a threat. You are an insecure cluster B woman. No one is threatened by that, they feel bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 05:19 PM
–	Blue Pill is an ideology and actually very delusional. Blue pill does have talking points. Start here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6oz-tOcwlVs	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 05:10 PM
1	Do women value/need safety and social/emotional signals to be intimate? I walked into a 7 11 in asia and 2 girls begged me to meet them after.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 08:27 AM
2	single moms are honestly great and have no problem getting a “good guy” heard this too. "i guess I could have taken more time" and she was one a 1:1 date with me, that i had no idea was a date at the time. Because her sister asked me to go? Like honestly no girl im not a homewrecker because you hopped onto some mid dudes dick and regret it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 08:10 AM
7	Alpha fux and beta bux is literally so hard to ignore. honestly they lie and gaslight to toy with men lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 08:08 AM
8	Alpha fux and beta bux is literally so hard to ignore. Or life experience from experienced men, whose life experience is valuable and an asset. You can read the same things from Greek writings. Or more modern thinkers like C Yung and his work on anima. The muslims put burkas on women for a reason	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 08:07 AM
0	Even redpillers are gynocentric. Self improvement means nothing. 'but you still get to survive' - what an argument LOL	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 07:53 AM
–	Blue Pill is an ideology and actually very delusional. there is nothing with the language. you are just insecure. they follow those pillars. be yourself is THE blue pill talking point. It's like rule #1 lol. I see i'mtalking to someone who doesn't know what the pills even are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 03:13 AM
–	Blue Pill is an ideology and actually very delusional. Yes you are right I changed the topic a little bit. Let me touch on your other things first as there are many other threads here and then I will get to your question. why do women like you have to have so much shame about sex and talking about sex. We're digusting, your shameful. It's polarity. Men and women ARE different. Just an hour ago my friend was talking about blowjobs. Just this morning I got a really good blow job. It was a whole vibe. What happens is that in real life you get censored …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 01:03 AM
17	Alpha fux and beta bux is literally so hard to ignore. once you are red pilled the business world looks wayyyy different lol your manager does containment on you LOL	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 11:56 PM
–	How does disability affect your dating life? Yes of course. But a 65 - 25 split is quite the deviation. That means a large portion of women are dating men over 35 or some men are dating multiple women (the chads). Yes indeed, hence the purpose of the discussion. The experience of people actually dating is what matters. It's very easy to be blue pilled at the finish line if you meandered into success without trying too hard. Especially if you did it before OLD. For those actually playing the game the game has changed and their experience is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 11:01 PM
–	How does disability affect your dating life? The experience of those who are actually dating (young people 18-35) is actually the only experience that matters when discussing how people pair and mate. If you look at the finish line you can gather insight, but it's not the whole picture. You are looking at the finish line and saying 'women and men don't mate that way, they mate their equals' but the data shows women are hypergamous until their environment cannot satisfy their hypergamy. THEN they settle. This leads to a frustrating experien…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 10:39 PM
1	What is your strongest Pro Blue Pill Argument? Ratios matter. For instance if you did a little deeper into say height metrics, a man who is 5'6" has 120x the competition as a man 6'3. So going from 80 percentile 0.1 messages per week to 3 is like a 30x increase lol. For everyone sub 80% who is at 0.01 or less thats 300x to 30000x. This is why men are so frustrated. 80% of them get no engagement because women are all clamoring for the top guys and ignoring the rest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 10:21 PM
–	Blue Pill is an ideology and actually very delusional. They describe their partners who exactly resembles what the red pill dictates is attractive and do not have the self awareness to realize that they married someone who embodied every red pill pillar and was attractive to them because they appealed to the traits which make them attractive according to the red pill. Instead they project that shame and say they hate the red pill, as they go and let some red pill chad rearrange their insides and leave a gooey creampie leaking out of them just a few …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 10:12 PM
2	What is your strongest Pro Blue Pill Argument? its messages received by attractiveness percentile, this is also by the cofounder of ok cupid that is from his book dataclysm	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 04:17 PM
3	Women should not be asked to settle That is a red pill teaching. You are more red pilled and just project shame and say you are blue pilled lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 04:16 PM
–	How does disability affect your dating life? Or alternatively the group that actually experiences the dating market before the associative-hypergamy cycle has concluded. They are in fact the ONLY ones that matter, because they are the ones actually experiencing how people mate	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 04:15 PM
–	if hypergamy and all the other red pill stuff is inherent, and not gynocentric in origin, how come we do its equivalent too once we get certain privilege? hypergamy was just a term used to describe the trend they observed of women only selecting men that exceeded them across a variety of attributes. They would never accept men who were lower than they were in those attributes. They also measured the hypergamy-associative cycle, where women would start seeking men that appealed to their hypergamy first and when that wasnt succesful they would settle for associative. It's just how they mate. And there is NO blame here. It's merely a description of h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 04:15 PM
8	Women should not be asked to settle This is called the associative-hypergamy cycle. Basically, women start by exercising their hypergamy and when the environment cannot satisfy that they settle for associative. You have a red pill argument here buddy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 04:12 PM
6	Conservative men are hardcoded towards destroying women. why are you associating wierd porn with conservative men? So in actuality - both men and womens brains respond very very positively to eroticism. In fact, when women were asked if they liked erotic things they all said no. When they hooked up their brain and genitals to fMRI their physiological response said otherwise. This is called sexual non-concordance, and it comes from shame projection. A lot of women have a lot of shame around intimacy and project that negative feeling when they think abo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 04:07 PM
2	Blue Pill is an ideology and actually very delusional. Which makes it really funny because A LOT of the women here have now turned to taking red pill talking points and ideas, and spinning them as blue pill advice. They hate the red pill so much yet are red pilled themselves that they project that shame and try to gaslight everyone that they aren't advocating or believe in the red pill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 04:04 PM
7	Most people will find love if they achieve the following things: #5 is game #1 is status #2 is looks #3 is game #4 is game your red pilled honey. does your boyfriend go to the gym?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 04:03 PM
–	Alpha fux and beta bux is literally so hard to ignore. hey man its totally true, it just invokes a lot of shame so you get a lot of shame projection behaviours. my cousing was sleeping with 3-4 women a week. I caved finally after years of being single and the red pill worked wonderfully. Had lots of engagement from a lot of women. They went from unwilling to meet me for coffee to inviting me over to their house, cooking me dinner, and fucking me. I didn't have to do anything except exist. It's 100% true. It's just how our psychology works.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 03:59 PM
–	How does disability affect your dating life? No, 65% aged 18-35 are single. With only 25% of women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 03:56 PM
1	There is no evidence that double standards pushed on men are less "real" than the ones pushed on women. statistically backed realness	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 03:55 PM
1	What is your strongest Pro Blue Pill Argument? https://i.redd.it/robcb3ggida81.jpg What happens is that women do not engage with low percentile men men engage with women linearly according to their attractiveness percentile UNTIL the upper percentiles, where the top women get a lot of messages. So women treat most men as not worth connecting with, and men just treat attractive women as worth spending more time connecting with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 03:54 PM
2	What is your strongest Pro Blue Pill Argument? Yes, womens messages received skyrocket as they get into high percentiles. Men shoot their shot. This does not discount the fact that sub 80 percentile men receive virtually 0 messages a week. Rate matters. https://i.redd.it/robcb3ggida81.jpg	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 03:52 PM
1	What is your strongest Pro Blue Pill Argument? The one issue with this data is that men just shoot their shot at attractive women and it skews the results. When you look at messages received it's quite a different story and the 80 20 rule becomes very clear https://i.redd.it/robcb3ggida81.jpg	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 03:51 PM
1	What is your strongest Pro Blue Pill Argument? Hmm i'm not so sure about that. Since you're happy he's succeeded at containment. So he's doing almost everything right. Red pill teachings are very passed down generation to generation. He doesn't have to be into manosphere stuff to be red pilled. Describe your husband and I will tell you the red pill teachings he is following. It's no different from a boss managing an employee when you understand the interpersonal mechanics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 12:02 AM
1	There is no evidence that double standards pushed on men are less "real" than the ones pushed on women. I had several women turn their carts around in the supermarket when I was overweight. They'd see me at the other end, panic all over their face after locking eyes, and scurry away. Meanwhile after doing the journey cashiers frequently flirt with me. I've had several fun playful interactions with women. I always catch them eye fucking me. Mid thirties now but in my prime. Every girl from the age of 18 to 60 just stares. The same girls who would run at the sight of me 2 years ago.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 12:01 AM
1	What is your strongest Pro Blue Pill Argument? They're actually just good at something called containment. Most entry level business team leads learn it implicitly through management teachings. It's a mix of courage, vulnerability, emotional safety, and listening skills. So anyone with leadership training learns it. The issue is that men with people skills are seen as good men. However they learned those people skills to gain power over others, and use it to maintain power. They do it in business and they do it in their personal lives with t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 11:57 PM
1	What is your strongest Pro Blue Pill Argument? Yes, honest and good people are penalized while inauthentic and predatory people win. Nice guys finish last. Almost every male I knew growing up is red pilled. They all learned it. All the gymbros are just looks based redpillers. And they all get women. Worked for me. Worked for all my friends, even this chronically skinny turbo nerd. And my friends that refuse to accept reality are still single incel virgins. Reality > how we feel. Good people are gone. When you get red pilled you see all the m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 11:53 PM
0	What is your strongest Pro Blue Pill Argument? In the real world people are treated like a video game. managers are taught containment tactics. They gaslight, manipulate their employees. This happens all in plain sight and those ignorant to it never notice. These successful men go on to also do the same to their women, whom throw themselves at these men. The reason why someone like trump gets away with 'grab her by the pussy' is everyone implicitly understands this dynamic. They all saw women throwing themselves at succesful men. The more su…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 11:50 PM
1	What is your strongest Pro Blue Pill Argument? The issue is what the red pill advocates for, most successful men naturally already do and are. So often what happens is women in your position say they got the best husband ever - but he conforms to all red pill pillars and teaching. I've seen it over a hundred times.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 11:46 PM
2	Asking women for advice does not work. Women I knew for 18 years would gaslight me and say it wasn't my looks and looks didn't matter. I see they were just controlling me and manipulating me to avoid their own shame. They wouldn't date me because I hadn't become chad yet, but they wouldn't tell me. Thats the thing about the red pill, it's so effective at removing the veil and deceit so common in our society. Just be in the business world after being red pilled. My god. So eye opening. Everyone one of my staff managers were all red pi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 11:37 PM
1	How does disability affect your dating life? since 65% of men are single, you are absolutely fucked. There is like 2 things women are not okay with at all. You cannot be ugly or fat, you cannot be weird. Weird and or overweight means sub 2. They compete heavily intrasexually, and care about social heirarchies. Its how it is	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 11:28 PM
5	Would you consider a man who has many friends, but has never dated at 25 "socially stunted" ? your overthinking is telling you a sign. You are wrong, TRP is right. It doesn't make sense because you've been gaslight your entire life. Women want to be seduced. They just want to be seduced by a man they are attracted to. They repeatedly go and get themselves seduced by chad and hurt themselves. It's their choice. The best thing you can do is learn how the game is played, find one good one, and get the fuck out of the dating market. This is what every other 'good' man did. You can only save …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 11:25 PM
2	Men think that men are predators Men implicitly understand that some people build experiences for others and others lean into others experiences. Often men create the environment for women to flourish. Men observe fuckboys creating an obvious fuckboy environment and observe women fall right into it and they just go 'what the fuck'. The game looks absolutely rigged. They just don't understand that fuckboy is at least being honest. Also, women want to sleep with men they're attracted to. It's a win win. When you understand connec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 11:21 PM
2	On a date, men are just trying to not mess it up. But, women enjoy dates. What does that feel like? they'd be taken out by 30 year olds to bougie restaraunts, then spent $300 at the club, so your low $ effort was offensive. By 20 my step sister had been flown around the world several times. She did modelling for FHM and maxim and playboy. Women have a different experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 03:51 PM
2	Are women attracted to their match the same way men are? But you can see the trend over the population, so while individual selection may vary there is clear attractive and non attractive traits and qualities. When you go deep into black pill enforcing studies, they demonstrate how even eye shape matters. Facial symmetry for instance is huge. If you have a lazy eye or your left side is the good side, well that hugely affects your attraction. We are hard wired to look for these signals of good genetics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 03:42 PM
5	Are women attracted to their match the same way men are? It's actually very numerical. They measured even how eye shape affects who gets chosen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 03:41 PM
0	The redpill want women who “say they want a good man but dont mean it”. They don't see seducing women as good. You do because you want to be seduced and romanticized by a hot guy you are into. To these men these aren't the good guys. Because these college fuckboys just learned red pill shit and use it on you and you then think they are good because they make you feel good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 03:02 PM
–	it’s depressing that money feels like the only way out . Most men do not understand emotional abuse. They don't see the manipulation and abuse. Women are very good at twisting words, changing narratives subtly, and gaining power through conversation. You need to as a man, be very skilled at identifying this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 02:59 PM
4	Would you consider a man who has many friends, but has never dated at 25 "socially stunted" ? Yes, he doesn't know the 'game' pillar. Looks, status, game. No social skills and no knowledge of how to create a romantic environment means no spark. The spark is a combination of desire, lust, and a rush of oxytocin. You can create this as a man by being 1) attractive and 2) knowing how to touch a woman appropriately	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 02:54 PM
4	Would you consider a man who has many friends, but has never dated at 25 "socially stunted" ? Going to be real here man. It really really really matters. I was in your position until my early 30s. I had to learn to keep it to myself and get good enough to be passable on my own time. I was outright rejected by several women the moment they learned my history. They went from infatuated to ghost in about 1 minute. I could see their facial expressions, their discomfort. Then they projected how much it damaged our connection with how they reacted to everything I did after that. Anything they …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 02:49 PM
–	The redpill want women who “say they want a good man but dont mean it”. Every man who has dated a woman believes AWALT. Women collectively feel shame and project that shame by trying to gaslight everyone about how they aren't how everyone says they are. Some men conform to your needs like chameleons and others don't. That's the difference. It's called masculine containment. Wake up lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/26 03:11 AM
–	Being 100% redpill was good while it lasted, trying to make it more like 50/50 now. This is shame avoidance behavior from both of you. Women get it really really bad in our society but men avoid it as well. So the topic becomes quickly emotionally charged. Its hard to talk about for you and for her. When they measure brains women and men both respond very positively to eroticism. They have shame behaviors which make them say 'no' they dont like it. But their brains measuredly say otherwise. Unfortunately its really hard to change this dynamic. Its unfair to her if she doesn't w…	/r/ExRedPill	06/03/26 08:36 PM
1	Being 100% redpill was good while it lasted, trying to make it more like 50/50 now. Red pill advocates for game, which is the opposite of hard ass. Did you falsely equate triggering anxious attachment wounds as the red pill? It's far more than that... That's like low social skill low game PUA behavior. You're just more red pilled now that you understand what woman need lol.	/r/ExRedPill	06/03/26 07:54 PM
–	Women are more sexual than men Planets are not relevant. It's controllable because we have identified the traits men and women have that makes them attractive to each other. We know what traits are attractive to men, and what are attractive to women. We know exactly how much each trait matters too. We measured how we mate. There are constraints to how far each individual can tune each attribute, that does not mean it cannot be controlled. It means that it each attribute can only be controlled so much. There are many knobs to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/26 06:47 PM
–	Women are more sexual than men Attraction can be completely controlled, it's actually very predictable. There is individual variance (preferences) but we have statistically measured what attributes are attractive and exactly how each attribute relates to other attributes. There isn't even much variance across the population, the variance only really exists continentally based off the amount of resources the population had while growing up. The social scientists have measured what is attractive. Go read about it, for instance …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/26 06:22 PM
–	Women are more sexual than men Competing for men isn't men doing the pushing. That's how women interpret the power dynamic, leading to anxiety, and they perform. This power dynamic is enforced by women whom only choose top men genetically and near the top of the social hierarchy. This is just how attraction works. It is no ones fault. Women create scarcity among unattractive males, giving them power. Then they get upset that those with power (attractive and successful men) don't give it up easily. Women are unhappy at the sta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/26 05:39 PM
–	Women are more sexual than men That sounds a bit like womanese. Men aren't responsible for the emotions and desire of women. It's not mens fault that women want men. It's not chads fault that he has dozens of women pining to just get fucked by him. They don't even care that they get discarded - thats why they stay in situationships. They have ZERO self awareness, ZERO self worth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/26 04:49 PM
1	Women are more sexual than men Women acting and looking sexy is also well measured as part of INTRAsexual competition, i.e. competition between women for mates. Men hardly do the pushing here, other women feeling the difference in desire.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/26 06:00 AM