thediabolical1 Archive

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1	Back into the game, getting coquetted Generally speaking, coquettes will remain cordial because the point of a coquetry is to draw you in and keep you perpetually on a string. This doesn't sound like that at all. I know it's hard, being cut off like that. It could be any number of reasons why she'd do that. Maybe she's conflict adverse or maybe she's embarrassed. We'll (you'll) likely never know. No one will help you get over your ex like your next though! Mount up, Soldier. For those curious how to trump a coquette (imo)--distain. …	/r/seduction	24/05/24 03:18 PM
1	Advice please Bah. She's been communicative and you're doing the exact same thing OP's husband is doing. Not listening. Communication about it has happened. He's non-responsive. It's divorce anyways unless she calculates ways to get action from him. I don't mean action as in sex but I mean driving him to action. How do you suppose that happen? More useless ineffective communication? Should she beg for sex? Would you? All human relationships are based on persuading others. Communication is one tool. Body langu…	/r/seduction	21/05/24 03:28 AM
0	I(19M) need advice about a woman(40F) If you wanted a relationship starting like you suggest is a good way to do it. This isn't that. Women can be far hornier than men. The very sight of condoms will make her mind run wild. Maybe not for OP but it will definitely conjure images of sex in her mind and put her into sexual overdrive, if she's that kind of woman. Leaving condoms out in a situation like this is actually kinda brilliant. She's already expressed interest, claimed to be interested in younger men like OP and she's well aware…	/r/seduction	21/05/24 02:33 AM
1	I(19M) need advice about a woman(40F) Yes, please keep us posted. I think it's clever and very forward in a good way with an easy way to brush it off as a simple misunderstanding or mistake. Provided there's no note of course lol	/r/seduction	21/05/24 02:14 AM
1	I(19M) need advice about a woman(40F) Yes, please keep us posted. I think it's clever and very forward in a good way with an easy way to brush it off as a simple misunderstanding or mistake. Provided there's no note of course lol	/r/seduction	21/05/24 02:14 AM
3	I(19M) need advice about a woman(40F) Yes, please keep us posted. I think it's clever and very forward in a good way with an easy way to brush it off as a simple misunderstanding or mistake. Provided there's no note of course lol	/r/seduction	21/05/24 02:14 AM
6	I(19M) need advice about a woman(40F) Try it and see what happens. "Oops, silly me, sorry about that" if she wigs and laugh it off. Or.. lol	/r/seduction	20/05/24 11:13 PM
16	I(19M) need advice about a woman(40F) Risky business, this. Has she given you any signals at all she'd be interested? Beyond just being nice to you since she's technically your employee? Leaving condoms out with no note would be a better choice IMO. That's funny. hahaha	/r/seduction	20/05/24 11:07 PM
1	Advice please You don't want to push him too far. If he's getting upset, it's too far, too soon. You just want him to question it himself. "Is she being cold?" "Why hasn't she hit me up for sex like she usually does?" I have another suggestion but I don't really want to put it here. Would it be alright if I dm'd you?	/r/seduction	20/05/24 11:03 PM
1	Advice please Your options are only limited by your creativity. You know the relationship best. If a little coldness is all it takes, great. You can always ratchet up the pressure later if coldness doesn't work. In the meantime, I'd advise working on yourself. Take more time for yourself. Do less around the house. Especially don't do things you know drive him nuts. For me, it's full trash cans. When my partner starts setting things next to the can or on top of it, instead of taking the fuckin' trash out, I st…	/r/seduction	20/05/24 10:51 PM
1	Advice please Think of it as persuasion as opposed to manipulation lol. Does he invite you when he goes out? Do you go with him?	/r/seduction	20/05/24 10:33 PM
1	Advice please Becoming resentful or are. You are here, asking, after all. I don't think he needs to do what's fun. I think he needs to do something that gives him a sense of accomplishment. Does he do anything for work that provides this? Does he have any hobbies besides running and working out and playing games? You could also slightly disengage. He'll notice a slight withdraw from you. I saw in another comment you two hold hands often and snuggle frequently. Maybe back off this a little bit. A slight coldne…	/r/seduction	20/05/24 10:11 PM
1	Advice please Aww. This is heartbreaking to read. He's probably not annoyed with you. He's probably annoyed with himself and is frustrated that he doesn't know what to do about it. Sounds like he feels worthless. He needs a victory. You can help with this. Is there something he's good at? Is there a way to entice him into doing that something he's good at? Something he hasn't done in a while? Even better if this "something" requires physical exhaustion. It's not your responsibility to coax or provoke action f…	/r/seduction	20/05/24 08:13 PM
2	Seduction of a widow If you pursue this you'll have to accept two things indefinitely. First, she's never going to get over him. He was taken from her against her will and she'll never see it any other way. Second, all relationships, and many facets within, will be compared to her relationship with him, and will likely be found inferior. It's going to be tough on the psyche. It'll be a lot of work to blot out her past.	/r/seduction	20/05/24 06:38 PM
2	M26, how to talk to girl F23 who has been added in insta 2 days before? Well, what are you going to do? You can't force her to say anything to you. I assume this is a cold approach? You've got a battle ahead of you. Ask her a question. Study up on her instagram and take a deep dive into her interests. Be prepared to follow up questions with the subtleties of her interests. Be semi-knowledgeable about her interests but give her the opportunity to "teach" you. This will give you two things. 1, her attention, 2, opportunities to study her more. You better have a well c…	/r/seduction	19/05/24 03:16 AM
1	M26, how to talk to girl F23 who has been added in insta 2 days before? Woosh He meant, that's how you do it. Just say hello to her.	/r/seduction	19/05/24 03:04 AM
1	how to deal with situations like this You need to create a scenario where the workplace fooling around has to stop, but the lust burns hotter. White lies would be useful here. Say you heard a rumor that someone walked into the janitors closet (or whatever room you two were fooling around in) and said it smelled like sex so you can't do it anymore or risk losing your job. Or maybe start the rumor yourself in a way you know she'll hear it from someone else. I'm not sure what your work dynamic is like so you'll have to fill in the gaps…	/r/seduction	19/05/24 12:42 AM
1	how to deal with situations like this What's the goal here? Do you want a relationship with her?	/r/seduction	19/05/24 12:09 AM
24	What are the biggest reasons not to do John Anthony's program? This reeks of an ad.	/r/seduction	18/05/24 08:06 PM
1	How to friendzone a girl? This will only want to make her try harder. Is that your goal? Are you just trying to put her on the back burner for a while?	/r/seduction	17/05/24 04:38 AM
7	Slept with 20 women in one year: Truing to deal with bad effects If she doesn't naturally inspire or challenge him, and she has to use her "limited energy" as you say, or work hard to do it, then it isn't natural, it won't have any sustain, and will soon falter when she can no longer maintain this energy. The same happens with men during the seductive process. He wanted something, he worked for it, then he got it and the energy drops off. The woman feels used, then turns bitter. You have felt this before yourself, right? You are right though. He shouldn't rel…	/r/seduction	12/05/24 03:50 PM
103	Slept with 20 women in one year: Truing to deal with bad effects If you can't get yourself to care enough to pursue anyone it's not because you don't care enough to pursue, it's because you don't care to pursue those ones anymore. Time to adjust your sights and stop going after the low hanging fruit. Women worthy of nothing but ambivalence from you have gotten just that. Take that and run with it. It sounds to me like you need something more.. mental. From my perspective, dating in your 30's is a literal dumpster fire. The good ones are in committed relations…	/r/seduction	12/05/24 04:39 AM
2	Finally told my wife about some abuse I suffered as a child something. I have never told any other human being ever. Sorry that happened to you. It really is a cold world and those you think should love us the most and treat us with the most respect often end up treating us the worst. You'll meet many people like this along your journey... just don't settle for it. There are folks out there who will treat you right and respect you, just keep looking. You owe that to yourself.	/r/MensRights	19/02/24 04:24 AM
1	She flaked a second time without any excuse or rescheduling should I ghost her? You teach people how to treat you. I needed this reminder today.	/r/seduction	25/03/22 04:32 PM
3	She flaked a second time without any excuse or rescheduling should I ghost her? I disagree with much of the sentiment here. IMO, ghosting is never the right course of action unless the other party is abusive or you're otherwise incompatible. I think it's too harsh and don't see the point in being so inflexible. Cutting and running becomes a crutch for when things get heated and becomes a bad habit that once picked up becomes difficult to unlearn. I think the proper course of action here is to back burner her... limit the amount of time spent on her, but stay cordial. If she…	/r/seduction	25/03/22 04:29 PM
6	Don’t let your personal victories get filed away during periods of self-doubt and insecurity. Always refer back to what makes you unique and feel like a prize I'm in one of these periods of self doubt right now and this was a comforting read. I hadn't really thought about it like this, but as I related to each of your points, I remembered things I had been through and accomplished. Though right now my life is in a bit of a lull, as I wait for the parts and pieces of careful planning to come to fruition, there will be a massive upside to it if I'm just patient and stay focused on the long term.	/r/seduction	23/03/22 03:47 PM
3	Be Resilient Right. No girl wants to think you'd prefer another over them. Leveraging their vanity and playing them against each other would have been the best move. Threesome or no, the technique is powerful and not for the weak. Any sign of timidity here is fatal...	/r/seduction	06/03/16 06:39 PM
0	Southerners on seddit, I am a minority trying to have success with hot girls in a southern state, am I being unrealistic here? Am I potentially putting myself in danger? Can you give me some advice? You can only work with what you've got, man. Get out there and stop worrying about what everyone else is, or what they're doing. You're self defeating and finding reasons why you can't instead of finding reasons that you can.	/r/seduction	15/12/15 07:24 PM
2	Why do I get passed to the less attractive friend when trying to dance? If you're up for an experiment, try attacking her vanity instead. Don't approach the hot one--approach her ascetically less fortunate friend instead. Do it right in front of your target though, but completely ignore her. Women are fiercely competitive with each other. Going for the less hot one makes the hotter one wonder what's wrong with her that you didn't approach her first. ya dig? She'll throw herself at you trying to prove to herself where she stands in the hierarchy. If she doesn't bite,…	/r/seduction	14/12/15 05:57 AM
–	Can't believe I was friends with someone who would post this Truths don't need handling..	/r/MensRights	06/12/15 03:54 AM
–	Can't believe I was friends with someone who would post this Exactly. Why do we protect them by hiding their identity?	/r/MensRights	06/12/15 03:36 AM
0	Socrates on Self-Confidence Otherwise points will always be invalid and ones argument is absolutely worthless without proper spelling.	/r/seduction	18/03/15 03:10 PM
1	The Seven Books That Changed My Life Summarized in 16 Words or Less New Earth was great. Power of now is in the wings and the art of thinking clearly just got added to the list. Thanks!	/r/seduction	07/02/15 08:30 AM
25	Singer "Kelis" states the reason she got alimony after divorce from Nas, despite being well off (Reddit AMA) DON'T. GET. FUCKING. MARRIED.	/r/MensRights	22/04/14 03:20 PM