thedorchestra Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	CMV: It's not fair, but a man that "just gets it" is going to be a far better lover than a guy that has to be told what to do I’m a woman and I slightly disagree. This makes sense for like a one night stand or whatever that I don’t partake in. However, in a committed relationship, you tell a guy what you like and he learns how to be a great lover. Then you have mind blowing amazing sex eventually. Better than you ever could with a hookup, even if he knows “all the right moves” from the beginning.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/21 02:40 AM
1	Social awkwardness, not looks, is the real relationship killer for men As a woman, you are totally right. I’ve met many people who were attractive until they opened their mouth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/21 04:04 PM
1	if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men. “On some surveys, men report four times as many sexual partners as women.” “It is well agreed upon that women generally experience more negative psychological consequences than men following casual sex.” You could research something for once	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/21 07:52 PM
1	Q4All: When it comes to casual sex, why does it seem like people are living in two different worlds? It’s a numbers game. The more girls you hit on the more likely 2 will agree to hook up. Also make sure alcohol is involved to lower inhibition	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/21 12:41 PM
5	Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another? Lol I guess. I try my best.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/21 10:42 PM
11	Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another? There’s 2 potential reasons. 1) the one night stand guy isn’t commitment material and they don’t care if he sticks around, they’re just out to have fun. 2) They change along the way (my case). I might have been more impulsive when I was early 20s but now I take my religious faith very seriously so I’m committed to waiting until marriage with my current partner. You’ve gotta give people room to grow or change their mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/21 08:57 PM
2	if you shame women (not men) with high body counts, you shouldn't complain about 80% of women sleeping with the 20% of men. I really really wish we could get it through these men’s heads. As a whole, women don’t like casual sex. Casual sex is dangerous and generally unsatisfying. I really enjoy sex. With my partner. In a committed relationship. I’ve never had a hookup or one night stand. A majority of women would say the same. In fact, everyone I’ve talked to on the subject has said something to the effect of “I had a hookup once. It was the stupidest thing ever.” Don’t believe the propaganda.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/21 02:17 PM
30	The genders live different realities (socially) and no middle ground can be found That’s not what empathy means. Empathy means being able to take on the feelings and perspectives of another person regardless of if you have experienced that situation yourself. For instance, both of my parents are still living but I could empathize with a person who has lost one of their parents because I can imagine what I might feel in their situation or I can listen to what they are describing they feel and hurt alongside side them. Empathy doesn’t require having experienced every hardship c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/21 08:44 PM
1	Redpillers: Do You Include Your Mothers and Sisters in Your Generalizations About Women? My red pill mostly relates the social systems such as the Selective Service in the US, fathers getting shafted in custody battles, etc etc. I won’t make generalizations about women or about men. Everyone’s an individual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/21 04:34 PM
2	Redpillers: Do You Include Your Mothers and Sisters in Your Generalizations About Women? I agree with you completely. She doesn’t want to waste her time on a man who doesn’t have the same goals as her. It is fair of him to say “you’re right, that’s not my goal” and the two part ways amicably.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/21 04:30 PM