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Yeah this is where I’m struggling. It makes me feel incredibly guilty. I have no problem letting a girl go and then seeing another, but multiple at the same time is hard for me. This is where I find the red pill difficult. Do we all have to follow the same strict rule set? If I don’t spin multiple plates does that guarantee I’ll lack abundance? I’m still happy to chat girls up and get numbers, keep them on standby for when the current girl leaves.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 10:16 AM
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I’ve read that before, and it became lost. I needed to read it again. Thanks.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 11:17 PM
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This. First few weeks/months can be tough. Start smashing the gym and achieving life goals. Soon you’ll feel so good you’ll wonder why the fuck you ever put up with the shit you did.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 03:06 PM
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Thanks, Van. Good stuff.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 10:11 PM
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Yeah, agreed. Think I’ll leave plates out of it. Can always send some booty call texts when I get back if needed.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 09:32 PM
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Good point, nothing to be honest. What should I expect from plates in order for me to consider taking them places occasionally? I don’t take girls out much, usually a date is drinks > my place > fuck , or simply my place > fuck.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 09:25 PM
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Fair enough. Will send a pic of my tits when they are developed enough from benching.
/r/askMRP27/01/17 12:02 PM
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I've known her for years and I know how she handles her emotions (not very well). Even if she hated me, the act of breaking up would cause her troubles. Which is evident in the fact she only ignores me when she knows she hasn't got her shit together. It does't change anything, but I know she is not in the "I don't give a fuck mindset". I haven't given you guys much context here, I appreciate that.
/r/askMRP27/01/17 12:01 PM
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Thanks mate, sounds accurate to me.
/r/askMRP27/01/17 11:48 AM
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Tongue in cheek, magical was a piss take. I definitely have some onetis here but it's not a case of "I will never get one like her again", it's that feeling of letting go of a long time of shared memories, I do care about her, of course. I wouldn't have invested years into someone I had no emotional ties towards. I can do better and I know I will, but this is still difficult. Especially more so as I've pulled the trigger, which I truly never thought I would.
/r/askMRP27/01/17 11:44 AM
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Oh no, it's not like that, I know for sure she's upset. Please trust my judgement on that one, I know her well. Being totally honest, I feel upset because I feel I've been forced into it. I did hope she was going to kick into gear and I got that totally wrong. I did not want to get rid of her. It shows oneitis and lack of abundance. I'm pissed that I've had to do it because it's not what I planned or wanted. I've got a long way to go.
/r/askMRP27/01/17 11:42 AM
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Urgh. It really did piss me off. I don't even know why, I've been on top of things of late. Totally let shit slip. I don't feel that bad about it though, so the relationship can't have been that magical.
/r/askMRP27/01/17 10:39 AM
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Did a 5k race on saturday alongside my girlfriend, I told her beforehand I would run this one beside her and pace her to a sub 30 min 5k. I was keeping her rocking the whole way, but with 500m to go she gives up and starts walking despite my encouragement. At this point I knew she'd given up on herself, and at that point you can help no more. I went ahead and ran the last 500m like a demon and got myself home in a ground shattering 29 mins.... even so, she just made her 30 minute goal, success!!…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/17 03:01 PM
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Solid post. I very much value MRP for how it's taught/teaching me to be a better man, but you have to accept that not matter how great you are, you don't control the core personality of your wife/LTR. There are loyal women out there, whether your wife is one of them depends which cat she is. No amount of frame or "alphaness" will change that.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/17 03:32 PM
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My personal experience with men crying in front of women is usually very wet "feels" panties. Nothing a woman loves more than to feel the emotions of a man crying into her arms. She feels powerful that he chooses to be emotional with her, after all, he rarely shows emotion to anyone, so she must be special to see it. This is LTR I'm talking about. If you start crying in front of women for no reason... Lol. If you, a strong man with frame, cry once/twice in your life in front of your wife, own it…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 05:52 PM
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This. If you have an LTR don't shut her out. TRP has some amazing content but the notion that you must permanently suppress all emotions is wrong. Be wise with who you show emotion to, yes. But if you lock your whole life into your head you doing the opposite of being a man, you are being a pussy because you are scared of how others will see your emotion. If your LTR is going to leave you because you have emotions, she nothing but a plate anyway.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 02:58 PM
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Mighty interesting, cheers. A question popped into my head, is there any way we could trick our brains/bodies into thinking the wife is a new partner? To bypass this system? That would be a good trick to learn.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/17 05:03 PM
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Ahem... How do you pass the "you only want me for sex" test?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/17 01:28 PM
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Nothing conclusive, but there was a survey stating that men in LTR's desired more partners, whilst their female partners desired more sex. I find that odd however, as most marriages/LTR's tend to be the opposite, dude wants more sex and wife won't give. It's not a hugely researched subject, the Wikipedia page is looking at insects mainly.... Don't think there is an easy way to study this on humans. Any guys here had an orgy? Find your recovery was shorter when moving to the next girl? Lol...
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/17 12:39 PM
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Cheers, what gets interesting is when you add "humans" to the end of the search. Cool stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/17 11:01 AM
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I've heard of this but not read much, any chance you could link me to some information?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/17 10:05 AM
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Could you give me more info on your lifting and running schedule? I'm aiming to get a fast 5k time whilst also lifting heavy. Currently I'm struggling to fit tough leg days in 3x a week, as well as 3x runs. What's your routine and what do you do per session? And at what times of day? Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/17 09:48 AM
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Sex drive is something I find odd. I am young and healthy and DTF all the time, I could easily go 3+ times in a day on my own if I was horny enough. With my LTR, although I find her attractive, even when I have a tonne of sexual energy built up some times I just, can't be bothered? It makes no sense. I am 100% up for it, but it's almost like it's too much work. I'm not selfish at all, but something does put me off. The hottest sex we have is random wakeup midnight sex. No idea if I'm the problem…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/17 09:46 AM
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Last 2 weeks have been a whirlwind. Some core principles of TRP and MRP are starting to set in and I am starting to see the changes. I've been on fire with my strong lifts routine, not missed a workout, been hitting the gym 7am on Sunday's, feeling great. It just feels incredible. Decided it best to live apart from my LTR. Been together over 2 years, lived together 1.5, blue pill as fuck. The change in my attitude hit her hard, the change in my own attitude and the fact I genuinely don't feel li…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/17 11:19 AM
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Thank you both for the replies, good stuff. Makes perfect sense.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/17 04:51 PM
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Last thing, you can always apply the blowjob test. Anything that ends with your cock in her mouth was probably handled correctly. This is pure gold. 10/10 will use this test.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/17 04:15 PM
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Great write up, very entertaining. I have a theoretical question, perhaps somebody can give some input: Let's say you are in the same situation, sitting at the window seat next to hot Korean lady, husband in the aisle seat. But this time, husband isn't fat beta bux, he's handsome, red pill alpha dude (Whatever that means, but you know what I'm getting at). In this situation, how do you talk to him? How do you talk to his wife? What would you expect the outcome would be? Would he latch on instant…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/17 04:10 PM
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18 minutes is still my all out goal, but I'm not too caught up on it. I know it requires an incredible amount of discipline and hard work, and there is a lot going on in my life at the moment. If I reach my goal weight of 90kg, and run a sub 18 min 5k, I will be a very happy, and ripped, man. :) Near future goal: Get back to my previous times of 22 ish, at current 80kg body weight. Go from there.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/17 03:46 PM
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5k in under 20 minutes is very respectable, to achieve that time and be well built is incredibly difficult. My target a few years back was an 18 minute 5k, I weighed about 74kg back then. I'm 6 ft3 and weigh 80kg at the moment. My target weight is approx 90kg, running 5k in 18 minutes is about the peak of what's possible for me at that weight, would take serious training. Good luck with your goal, I'll be working towards mine too.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/17 12:54 PM
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Would also like to hear a write up on cat drop off, sounds interesting.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/17 10:55 AM
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After a really good period of progress, holding frame and lifting, the last week over the Christmas period has been my worst setback so far. Been very ill and it hasn't let up at all, no lifting, no appetite, been weak as fuck and completely lost my frame last night. I'm currently wallowing away having got about an hour sleep last night, not eaten properly for a week, and just generally failing. The worst thing is, I don't even know how to get out of this. I am physically drained from this flu o…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/16 03:27 PM
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Thanks, all I needed.
/r/askMRP23/12/16 12:36 PM
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This definitely deserves it's own FR. Great stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/16 12:25 PM
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1 - SL because I feel it works for me. I'm 6ft 3" and weigh 180lb. Super slim. But I know from previous experience when I do heavy workouts I put muscle on quite well, I just have to eat a large amount. 2 - I can't stand busy gyms. Love getting done in the am. I get up at the same time every day regardless so not a huge issue. Getting late nights can fuck it up so have to be disciplined.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/16 06:23 PM
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I relate to this. Before coming here, "mode zero" was a big part of me. Any conflict or big problem, I didn't get angry, didn't raise my voice, I didn't do anything. I'd just withdraw, try and retreat and gather my thoughts. I noticed it was a part of my body language too. All too often when in any kind of conflict with my girlfriend, if we were in bed for example my eyes would be closed when I talked/listend, or I would face away from her. I realise now just how fucking weak that is. Not even m…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/16 01:12 PM
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I'm taking control of my life for the first time. There is a huge variety of men here, many different situations, many opinions (some which I do not agree with, which will be the same for all members here), but one thing stands out here that I think is not refutable: We are all here to be better men. If there is one thing I'm learning, it's how to stop being a weak piece of shit. I'm not there yet but I've started working at it. Brief summary of the last month: Job: Upped my game ten fold. I was…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/16 12:37 PM
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Very helpful, makes sense.
/r/askMRP16/12/16 03:45 PM
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That makes sense, thanks.
/r/askMRP16/12/16 03:44 PM
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Yeah, I'm always asked how my day was, but it's just a script. Every day, come home, "how was your day". It's a set thing, not a genuine question born out of interest in me. She always complains that I never ask it back. If she's just asking me how my day was in return for me asking the same, is that not a covert contract? When she's already informed me of a big event, "I have an important interview today", "I'm going for that scan today", of course I will be interested and ask how said event we…
/r/askMRP16/12/16 03:41 PM
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I agree completely, it makes sense. I much prefer to come home and catch up in person, if we text all day there is nothing left for at home at all.
/r/askMRP16/12/16 01:29 PM
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Good point. Thanks.
/r/askMRP16/12/16 11:23 AM
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Thanks. I've said similar before: "I love you hun" > "I know you do" And had her reply: "Do you now?" I see this as a small shit test because she's expecting an exchange "I love you too". I'd probably just ignore her text at that point and carry on with my day. Does that seem appropriate?
/r/askMRP16/12/16 11:00 AM
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I understand. I'll keep working.
/r/askMRP18/08/16 01:52 PM
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How do I avoid being an ego invested chode? I've started working, know there is a long road ahead of me.
/r/askMRP18/08/16 01:18 PM
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Only a few days, I'm very new. Our relationship wasn't that bad to begin with, (I was beta of course but we aren't married, things haven't degraded a huge amount), 10 second kisses were already a thing but I've now started doing it randomly and before leaving for work. I'm making a conscious decision to be a better me, to improve my shit, and that is naturally making me become a lot less of an affectionate beta towards her. So all I am saying is I am not consciously trying to be colder or less l…
/r/askMRP18/08/16 11:54 AM
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Thanks for this, solid reply and gives me a lot to work with and focus on. It makes a lot of sense. I do want to be with her at the moment. There will be no rash decisions, I'll focus on doing what I need to do to improve me, and see where it leads.
/r/askMRP17/08/16 12:52 PM
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I will implement. Just read ending the line of Chads, fucking good stuff, thanks for sharing.
/r/askMRP17/08/16 12:36 PM
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Ok, thank you for the reply. It makes sense, I see what you are saying.
/r/askMRP17/08/16 12:32 PM
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I have a LOT of ideas. Running out is a problem I would like to have. Thanks.
/r/askMRP17/08/16 12:20 PM
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I understand 100% about the daddy issues. My girlfriend had a father who was always at work, when he was home he was a moody, aggressive dick. She now wants to see a therapist as she has inherited his anger problems and has lashed out at me before. Where should I stand on this? She wants to see a therapist as after the last time, I told her I was done taking her shit, and now she wants to fix herself. Do I take control of helping her and use it to create connection? Or do I fuck her off to a the…
/r/askMRP17/08/16 12:17 PM
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This shit is hard to hear. But I'm listening. I am starting to remold myself. I'll become the man I want to be.
/r/askMRP17/08/16 12:12 PM
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Perhaps my lack of wanting to bone all the females is simply my deep level of beta and lack of confidence. I'll work on it. But I do like the concept here, and I do want to be a family man who looks after shit. My bitch ass never had a strong man to raise me and it's probably why I have no idea how to be a man.
/r/askMRP17/08/16 12:08 PM
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I should clarify, by "things she never did before", I mean with me, not with any other man. Something as simple as she verbally said "I want you to fuck me". I said I wanted to fuck her many months ago and she threw up a SHIT STORM. "I'm not a piece of meat" etc. She didn't mind being a piece of meat last night.... Am I correct in thinking this is due to me starting to shed the beta mentality?
/r/askMRP17/08/16 12:05 PM
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Just started a few days ago. It's early days but I'm slowly bringing in the changes I want to see in myself. Shit I'm owning: Not much. Shit I'm not owning: Fitness: I don't lift. Been doing body weight stuff in my room for years, can do 30+ pushups, 10 good form pullups, that's about it. I'm 6ft 3, 180lb's. Skinny. Low bf and toned, but skinny. What I'm doing to fix this: Finally getting off my lazy arse and have joined a gym next to work. Will be starting stronglifts 5x5 to create a base. Will…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/16 11:02 AM
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Thank you.
/r/askMRP17/08/16 10:31 AM
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My error...
/r/askMRP16/08/16 06:49 PM
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Thank you for the reading material, very informative.
/r/askMRP16/08/16 06:48 PM
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