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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Red Pill/Alpha strategies are only effective when used like clothing Thank you!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/21 06:34 AM
1	Red Pill/Alpha strategies are only effective when used like clothing That's great. Sounds like you have a loving relationship so I'm happy for you! My very naive romantic mum has always told me I'm "heartless" and tbh seeing her get used so much and not seeing her value caused me deep trauma I'm still seeking help to solve. This is just where I am in my journey. I hope I get to where you are one day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/21 06:26 AM
1	Red Pill/Alpha strategies are only effective when used like clothing Being vulnerable can be seen as a good thing because if your woman is non judgemental, it will enforce the bond. However, being vulnerable for a man will only work if the man is accepted by his women as the leader. Meaning that he has a slightly higher value than her so she respects him. If this is not established i fear it will not work. Just like how a woman can slack of at home while being somewhat elegant (type of clothes you wear at home counts too, I'm talking slacking as in posture) as lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/21 05:56 AM
5	Q4M: Do you have more admiration for the guy failing college going into min-wage job but has a lot of casual sex, or a guy with educational and career success who's only had one or two LTRs? Which guy would you rather be? Ha I don't have to imagine the first one. Was the girl who failed college due to multiple reasons but I blame myself for not having better coping mechanism, got the minimum wage job. Got humiliated and cried multiple time due to that minimum wage job. Finally got back and managed to land a great job in aviation where I still had trouble and cried due to being humiliated by my co-worker but not able to quit due to supporting my family. I cried due to not able to take criticism Blah blah I could l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 07:28 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread This is quite interesting. I work in aviation where there is a tendency of blaming culture or scapegoating culture. I had difficulty to adapt to this. Especially when my boss would bluntly (and sometimes curse) state something about my performance in front of his other staff involved. I learned that its just his manner of doing accountability efficiently and everyone gets their fair share of this. It taught me a valuable lesson about taking criticism. However, apparently he did the same with my …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/21 12:43 AM
2	Weekly Community Chat Megathread You do have a point that many women seek validation from men and thus when a men starts seeking sex they give in due to this craving of attention. This is why I always recommend that before a she starts dating, a women should seek self validation first so she is not emotionally desperate for validation from men or anyone for that matter. This is why I pay attention to my spirituality, mental state and emotional state. Get therapy. If you can't afford that seek self help books, podcast, cultivate…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/21 01:06 PM

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