thefestivalfilmmaker Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
50	Tonight I’m going to go out and get intentionally rejected by girls		thefestivalfilmmaker	/r/seduction	21/02/20 11:58 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Girl with holding sex? Exactly. This might be the one part of the equation leading to an imbalance in the relationship and should be fixed before anything. She could be thinking you’re only paying for her in order to sleep with her and it’s making her have mixed emotions. I think it’s fine to offer to pay in the beginning but two months should be long enough. When she feels you guys are equals in terms of responsibility for the trip she may feel more comfortable taking things further.	/r/seduction	04/01/22 06:23 PM
15	Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings. You might be projecting that it would make her uncomfortable because it does so for you. That’s no problem, just say you’d rather not hear about it and that is that. Nbd	/r/seduction	26/12/21 05:28 AM
-2	Approach Us!!! It’s innate psychology for women to seek a man to lead interactions. We should be the leader.	/r/seduction	04/12/21 01:51 AM
8	My first approach and Starting One Year Long Cold Approach Challenge with at least 5 approaches a day Once you master the ability to cold approach girls every other social skill becomes honed and natural but you’re right they must feed each other. You can’t put one exclusively over the other. It becomes natural though from forcing yourself to simply talk to strangers. Once you talk to strangers naturally talking to girls is just a byproduct because they become just other people to talk to. You don’t give it second thought. You do this all the time. It’s a feedback loop, the most powerful one in …	/r/seduction	28/05/20 06:51 PM
3	The ultimate goal to confidence is not being able to give a fuck. No matter how many rejections you get, no many how times you get turned down you do not let it determine you. Because results comes when you stop giving a fuck and getting outside of your comfort zone. Totally totally agree with you man I think we’re on the same page here and just erring on different sides of caution when it comes to not giving a shit. I know guys who truly are in that mode and they can’t connect with anyone deeply and cant keep relationships with people. There’s this one guy who can literally approach any girl at any time without any problem at all. At first I was amazed and thought he must have tremendous success with women. But as I got to know him I found out he struggles …	/r/seduction	24/05/20 02:04 AM
8	The ultimate goal to confidence is not being able to give a fuck. No matter how many rejections you get, no many how times you get turned down you do not let it determine you. Because results comes when you stop giving a fuck and getting outside of your comfort zone. Usually the creepy shit is a result of giving a fuck though, giving so much a fuck. That’s the creepy part. What most people likely do is pretend they don’t give a fuck. There’s a big difference. It’s like the George Carlin line “people who say they don’t care what other people think usually want other people to think they don’t care what people think”. Learning from your mistakes is perfectly well and good and is essential, but that process is multiplied tenfold especially in the arena of attra…	/r/seduction	23/05/20 09:20 PM
5	Ex-RSD Employee Tells All - Lies, Corruption, And Breaking Laws (RSD Insider Reveals Scams) Wow this is actually really cool. I never thought much of their videos but for them to have this kind of impact on someone is awesome and I might have to rethink my position on that.	/r/seduction	22/05/20 06:47 PM
1	Ex-RSD Employee Tells All - Lies, Corruption, And Breaking Laws (RSD Insider Reveals Scams) Yeah I’ve never trusted any of those guys since their days on youtube. They seem to be heralded a lot around here but you can tell they spout a lot of nonsense to make money. There was one of them I followed and really liked, I think RSD Max, but overall the main 2 guys reek of gimmicks and marketing. They’re great at selling themselves but it would be difficult to make a claim that they’re people to aspire to be.	/r/seduction	22/05/20 06:44 PM
24	Former “he’s nice but he’s just my friend” guy summing up what I was doing wrong. That is AWESOME!! Way to learn and grow from your mistakes without falling into that dark pit of thinking you just weren’t being an asshole and that was the reason. Directness, confidence, and independence is what attracts girls, not being a dick.	/r/seduction	21/05/20 05:57 PM
2	You new guys are seriously misunderstanding the point of seduction. I think DMing can be effective purely based on your page. You have to be doing cool things and in line with an interest the girl you’re DMing has.	/r/seduction	20/05/20 03:13 PM
2	This community fucked me up. Fuck this place, just get out there and focus on being the best guy you can be and girls will come naturally I think there’s a balance to be had here. This sub is very valuable to me because if I were in my own zone, as I often am, I ignore this area of my life because I’m so focused on myself and my career. This is a good thing to be sure. Girls are more attracted than anything to a guy with a life outside of her. Dropping anything for her is a sign of insecurity. Your life has to flow with good things, a sense of abundance, and you are taking her along for the ride. However if you don’t take those st…	/r/seduction	19/05/20 05:21 PM
1	A friend who had his wife leave him of seven years wrote this - remember to respect yourselves Lmao if you insist	/r/seduction	16/05/20 09:03 PM
1	A friend who had his wife leave him of seven years wrote this - remember to respect yourselves I disagree. Lust is demanding that you get something in return for what you give, usually something pleasurable. It could be their body, their wealth, their status. When you want something from them, you lust. But when you give to them while expecting nothing in return, you love. Real love means being able to let somebody go.	/r/seduction	16/05/20 06:54 PM
10	A friend who had his wife leave him of seven years wrote this - remember to respect yourselves Precisely. This is essentially the secret of the universe. You must own already what you desire, then it comes. When you identify as being separate from your desire, you only push it away, and even if it does come to you, you secretly feel that you don’t deserve it, and situations like this arise. Own your energy. Know that you are already everything you need to be.	/r/seduction	16/05/20 02:17 AM
13	A friend who had his wife leave him of seven years wrote this - remember to respect yourselves I fucking love that thank you for writing it. No matter what happens or has happened, no time is wasted when you love.	/r/seduction	16/05/20 02:12 AM
13	Whenever you’re wondering what you should text, ask yourself whether she’s wondering the same thing. If not, her value is higher than yours Yes but also I’d put more of the focus on you getting to know HER and finding out if you actually like HER. I’ve been in this mental trap many times and it always puts the onus on me and how she sees me. Flip that on its head. Internalize the idea of abundance within you, that if you guys are compatible or not, it’s perfectly okay because there’s a million other girls out there and you will find the one that you truly do like, beyond all idealistic projections. If this girl is it or not doesn’t …	/r/seduction	14/05/20 07:38 PM
3	The Brain is the biggest sex organ! Female here sharing my own experience— what has been extremely effective with me. Half the world is on lockdown dude idk where you live	/r/seduction	14/05/20 01:49 AM
1	The Brain is the biggest sex organ! Female here sharing my own experience— what has been extremely effective with me. Smh	/r/seduction	14/05/20 01:45 AM
0	The Brain is the biggest sex organ! Female here sharing my own experience— what has been extremely effective with me. Yeah ignore all that. If you haven’t been around here this sub is weird lol but posts like yours make coming back worthwhile. Great to get a female insight thanks for that and good luck to y’all	/r/seduction	14/05/20 01:45 AM
5	The Brain is the biggest sex organ! Female here sharing my own experience— what has been extremely effective with me. I’ve realized you have to simply give up around here when it comes to trying to help others. A lot of guys are stuck in that victim mindset and it’s unfortunate. They’re attached to that identity and in that case there’s nothing you can do. Any suggestions to the contrary is met with hostility. Your advice is good regardless. Putting such a huge emphasis on looks is simply narrow and while it might help you a bit, grow some balls guys and become attractive yourself. There’s nothing sexier than a…	/r/seduction	14/05/20 01:43 AM
0	Friendly Reminder I read your reply. I point out that inner leads to outer but if you aren’t interested in discussing that’s okay. Good day	/r/seduction	13/05/20 06:07 PM
0	Friendly Reminder It seems at this stage, you likely need to change thought with thought, meaning to think those new thoughts you must attach to different things than you are now. Right now you are attached to that identity of yourself. It is indeed a false one, but one that’s difficult to lodge, I know and understand. I’ve been there many many times. That’s what led me to studying those philosophies. I’ve been lonely much of my life, found people then felt the lonely again, and the same teachings that rang in my…	/r/seduction	13/05/20 05:37 PM
1	Friendly Reminder Listen to yourself. Ignore all else. If the teachings have helped you this far, that is good. But if it hasn’t been sufficient, there seems to be too much of a focus on the outer for you. In your relationships in your work life, this is all transitory and it seems to me that an underlying philosophy would do you well. Personally I study Zen Buddhism for this purpose, to see beyond appearances and meditate to experience that inner nature that has been long forgotten in the modern world. But there…	/r/seduction	13/05/20 03:32 PM
11	Get a load of this 💩 Yeah I mean I don’t knock him for getting in shape and the effort put in.. but his marketing strategy of showing us his dick to to sell a coaching program nullified anything he had to say lmao.	/r/seduction	10/05/20 05:14 PM
2	Get a load of this 💩 Dude that was freaking hilarious. I mean the story itself is probably why he got upvoted but his website deadass said “these guys are all talk.. I’m about to show you that I get laid” then proceeded to put a picture of him naked with a red head that any self respecting man would avoid. He made it clear at least why most of these online coaches and gurus don’t show us that they get laid.	/r/seduction	10/05/20 05:12 PM
7	Get a load of this 💩 Hahahaha	/r/seduction	10/05/20 04:17 PM
2	If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong) Oh wow perfect timing lol. You are already on the path then. Good things will come of this (: best of luck to you!	/r/seduction	09/05/20 02:33 PM
4	If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong) I think you’ll be better steeped at a sub like r/Stoicism The connection to the self fosters deeper connection with others. In this regard there is nothing more important than meditation, self awareness and reflection. Notice your thoughts and the energy field around it. Pull your attachment to the thought and you connect to a truer self beyond the conscious ego. A study of Zen Buddhism and years of meditation helped me with this, and is the core thing that creates deeper connections with other …	/r/seduction	08/05/20 09:19 PM
2	If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong) Woah, Dostoevsky is fire though 😂	/r/seduction	08/05/20 09:07 PM
2	Overcomplicate Yes totally!! Should not be traded off. All it takes is a couple nights a week to go out to the bar and learn the tricks of the trade. At least now in quarantine though it’s a good time to focus on the business of the self, which is something much needed for me personally. I was firing in too many directions and lost focus but am thankful for this time. You’re right though once the world is restored back to balance we all have to get back on the horse. Thanks for the motivation today my dude kee…	/r/seduction	08/05/20 07:08 PM
5	I am extremely good at picking up women, here's how I do it A lot of good advice here but overall you won’t be great unless you have the balls to approach strangers and approach them often. Sitting back and allowing them to come to you is how you become one of those guys stuck in unhappy marriages. Every relationship I’ve seen where the woman initiated it, she is playing the dominant role and you don’t want to get into that. However, if you aren’t cold approaching and are meeting girls through friends of friends that is even better but nevertheless havin…	/r/seduction	05/05/20 10:09 PM
2	People complaining about dating and PUA tactics as manipulative has failed to see the point I don’t like the word manipulation because I don’t think it’s accurate. Manipulation is deceptive and tries to pull one over on the other party. Game in its ideal form is a greater expression of who you really are without fear holding you back. The number one reason guys struggle interacting with females is their fear of being rejected and therefore they wear a mask to protect themselves. Removing that mask and expressing yourself without fear is actually less manipulative because you are commun…	/r/seduction	05/05/20 07:58 PM
2	Finally got laid, push and pull technique was the best. Keep going!! I was a virgin till I was 22 dude lol. The ironic thing is that the worse you are early on the better you’ll likely to be because it becomes such an apparent problem you demand yourself to fix it whereas most guys coast by taking what comes their way without making a true effort to take attraction into their own hands and approach women. You’re on a good path.	/r/seduction	05/05/20 03:47 AM
1	Finally got laid, push and pull technique was the best. Lmao seriously	/r/seduction	04/05/20 06:33 PM
2	Finally got laid, push and pull technique was the best. I’m starting to suspect that the negativity on this sub comes from guys who are jealous and not trying to help themselves and women who think that every time a man learns how to get better at attracting them they are being deceitful. Both of these are ignorance. OP, keep learning and doing you.	/r/seduction	04/05/20 05:31 PM
19	Finally got laid, push and pull technique was the best. Let me get this straight. A guy who noticed a problem in his life and worked on solving it, who showed a growth mentality and willingness to change, should now not be allowed to offer advice because it was his first time? If you aren’t trying to improve leave the sub or leave him alone. There’s zero sense in criticizing someone who got better in an area that this sub is dealing with and is now offering what helped him for others. This is not manipulative, this is simply the law of attraction at …	/r/seduction	04/05/20 05:26 PM
8	Finally got laid, push and pull technique was the best. The key is to like yourself exactly where you are and exactly as you are while being committed to improving those same things. You don’t want to get stuck in an attitude of self-defeatism because it only drains your energy and offers a contradictory vibration. That is easier said than done and I struggle with it too, but it’s the absolute key to life. A sort of combination of zen Buddhism and stoicism. If you can fully accept where you are and everything that’s come before, while putting your en…	/r/seduction	04/05/20 05:09 PM
3	Finally got laid, push and pull technique was the best. Thank you!! The negative comments on here are nauseating. This isn’t manipulative at all this post is exactly what we are all learning to do and that’s how to attract the opposite sex. If he kept doing the things he was doing he wouldn’t have had this success and he did it by genuinely trying to improve and sticking to that plan. It seems by the upvotes given out that a lot of people in this thread are envious of his success which is strange and downright wrong when this sub exists for everyone …	/r/seduction	04/05/20 05:02 PM
0	I Have Been Doing Cold Approach For 2 Years Now: This Is How I Went From Kissless Handholdless Virgin To 15 Lays In 1 Month I mean a lot of people still do the 1-10 thing, you know girls do it too.	/r/seduction	03/05/20 02:33 AM
0	I Have Been Doing Cold Approach For 2 Years Now: This Is How I Went From Kissless Handholdless Virgin To 15 Lays In 1 Month I don’t think he raped her but your line of logic is just so far off. Girls go out to have fun and it’s a weird self-centered tendency to think everyone goes out to have sex just because you do. I’m a guy and I like to dance and party and don’t need to have sex at the end of the night. It’s a creepy way to think to assume that girls need that and that if they didn’t they would stay inside where it’s safe. However her being drunk doesn’t mean she was raped. She saw him again and although his atti…	/r/seduction	02/05/20 06:56 PM
2	Overcomplicate LOL fair enough	/r/seduction	02/05/20 01:10 AM
1	Overcomplicate Money is power and without it you wouldn’t have much say over people’s lives. The American government is the richest in the world that’s why they have the power but does anyone really believe that this quarantine is a power trip to control people? We’re not spending money right now. That means we’re not being taxed. Instead, trillions are being sent in bailout packages to corporations and citizens just to try to keep the economy running. The fact anyone thinks this is a setup for them to exert t…	/r/seduction	02/05/20 01:09 AM
3	Overcomplicate I suppose it works in balance but if I were to choose I wouldn’t put women over personal development any day. If you do all those things mentioned above, if you get jacked, focus on meeting friends that are positive and similarly minded, have a lucrative career path that you’re passionate about and work daily on it to improve and learn, it’d be fairly difficult for girls not to notice this and be attracted by it and equally difficult not to meet girls on the way. Personally I’d rather risk not m…	/r/seduction	01/05/20 07:19 PM
5	Overcomplicate You think they want to shut down the economy? They think about money first and foremost and this quarantine is bad business. Anyone who’s out on the streets approaching as a silent rebellion is just plain misinformed.	/r/seduction	01/05/20 07:08 PM
2	Anxiety and depression can be the result of. your unconscious mind withdrawing it's approval of your life choices. Confidence comes from living in a way that you can be proud of. What is the reference?	/r/seduction	01/05/20 01:05 AM
7	Anxiety and depression can be the result of. your unconscious mind withdrawing it's approval of your life choices. Confidence comes from living in a way that you can be proud of. I highly recommend everyone join this thread. It’s quotes save me on a day to day basis.	/r/seduction	01/05/20 01:04 AM
1	STEP BY STEP GUIDE ON HOW TO APPROACH Lmao yeah if we are measuring ourselves by results we are never enough in the present. Then if we measure ourselves in interactions with people we aren’t connecting we’re pretending. That’s what I got from your convo anyway it was positive for me so thank you.	/r/seduction	29/04/20 08:58 PM
1	STEP BY STEP GUIDE ON HOW TO APPROACH I must say this was an extremely interesting conversation and you guys said a lot in a very short amount of time. The words you’ve just said LKCat hit me like you were talking about me too. Namely about confidence resulting from hard work and effort and being a complete facade. I always measure myself by my results and it’s exhausting and it keeps me from connecting deeply with other people because every interaction is another result to tally. Devilery I similarly am too career focused, not that…	/r/seduction	29/04/20 08:26 PM
0	STEP BY STEP GUIDE ON HOW TO APPROACH Honestly this depends on the situation. If you feel a deeper connection with a girl ask for her number. You’re right it does show more directness. But if it’s a casual conversation adding on insta is a casual way to keep in contact.	/r/seduction	29/04/20 07:52 PM
1	When I'm working towards a purpose, it's hard to get jealous Thank you for this this is why I love this thread, it goes beyond the mere act of trying to get laid. Yes we want to get laid, but there’s more to life and the fact is, those who put their purpose first get laid without giving it a second thought. When I put that thing first, and it’s on my mind over the course of the day, backed by full belief that I am on the path towards it, nothing and no one can bother me. But those other days, where I’m doubtful and noticing what’s going wrong, I look at t…	/r/seduction	28/04/20 08:44 PM
1	There‘s sonething I never understood about seduction Oh for sure not the only two options lol. Don’t mean to come off as a meat head it’s just better to hold the interest for a woman romantically until the last possible second. It’s a huge mistake to tell a girl your feelings early on. You should express only your interest for her in the beginning which is usually sexual. Sexual attraction leads to romantic interest, but the former should come first. No need to act on it and have sex but she should know you are interested in her in that way withou…	/r/seduction	28/04/20 06:35 PM
0	There‘s sonething I never understood about seduction To make it clear, you should let her know early on that you are interested in her sexually, but refrain from letting her know that you are interested in her romantically. She wants to know that you are into her without being afraid that you are going to be needy. Girls are more attracted to guys that will fuck and leave than guys that will call her 24/7.	/r/seduction	27/04/20 10:19 PM
2	A Fix for conversations “drying up” Sounds good lmao	/r/seduction	27/04/20 09:54 PM
0	A Fix for conversations “drying up” I mean working on yourself is just something different for everyone. It’s simply anything that involves learning, creating a skill set, pushing your boundaries and comfort zone, ect. This is how to not attach your value of yourself to what other people think of you, and it’s actually what attracts girls more than anything because you don’t need their validation to feel good about yourself.	/r/seduction	27/04/20 09:28 PM
11	A Fix for conversations “drying up” Exactly the time spent on tinder could be put into working on yourself which is much more powerful. Girls will enter your life naturally when you’re following your passions and putting the time in to build yourself.	/r/seduction	27/04/20 08:18 PM
16	A Fix for conversations “drying up” Tinder and this online game just is boring to begin with personally. By the the time you get a girl on a date you just wasted how much of your life swiping and DMing and staring at your phone. It seems like this is too over the top for me. Focus that time on yourself.	/r/seduction	27/04/20 07:05 PM
0	How To Excite Women Without Trying Too Hard To Impress Them With Your Money Likewise. Good read man	/r/seduction	26/04/20 10:11 PM
6	Do you want to know how YOU can be less needy when talking to girls? Lmao yeah I’m not sure if being aware of breeding while talking to girls is going to be helpful. Otherwise great post though!	/r/seduction	26/04/20 10:07 PM
2	Flirting isn't getting someone to like you, it's finding out if someone likes you. Despite the downvote I agree with you, but it could go hand in hand. Finding out if someone likes you still puts the focus on their opinion. It is however a step forward from trying to get them to like you, a recipe for complete disaster. The most powerful mindset than anything though is to withhold your own verdict whether or not you’d want to sleep with someone early on. You are flirting with them simply to gauge your own level of interest, not theirs. Their level, it should be assumed, will b…	/r/seduction	26/04/20 06:47 PM
1	Flirting isn't getting someone to like you, it's finding out if someone likes you. Unoriginality	/r/seduction	26/04/20 06:41 PM
8	Tips for leaving a girls “Whipped Friendzone” zone and staying friends? Honestly man the best option is really to leave her cold, even if it’s just for awhile, because what she’s doing shows that she isn’t being a friend to you. You can say you are friends, but once she found out you like her she thinks it means she has a leg up on you. A real friend wouldn’t do that, so she has to be made to know you don’t need her in your life, because you don’t. You really don’t. Even if it hurts really bad and even if you are insanely attracted to her, what’s going on now is wor…	/r/seduction	24/04/20 09:21 PM
1	Couldn't have said it better Euphora? Was he trying to say aura or mention the TV show	/r/seduction	21/04/20 11:58 PM
1	Reddit's system might be one of the reasons you still struggle with seduction. I’m pretty sure that’s what the commenter said. Gauge the content of each post individually and how it works for you, not necessarily for how many upvotes it gets. I use this subreddit similarly in that it helps to keep me in that frame of mind where I’m present and open to engaging with others. If that’s being “feel-good”, then yes, I’m quite aware that the key to attraction is your ability to feel good in any given moment. You can call it hippy shit but I call it owning your shit. Owning who y…	/r/seduction	14/04/20 09:39 PM
2	Does not having social media make me appear creepy? It seems to be a growing issue. These companies are smart. They know how to design their apps to get people to be on them longer than they think they are. It might not be a problem for you, but in general it is. Distraction is the number one thing that nullifies and destroys your creativity.	/r/seduction	12/04/20 06:03 PM
5	Does not having social media make me appear creepy? A stalker would most definitely be using social media.	/r/seduction	12/04/20 02:12 AM
25	Does not having social media make me appear creepy? Reading and videos are 10x more productive than anything on social media feeds. Stay off it. Fuck the chicks or what anyone says	/r/seduction	12/04/20 02:07 AM
8	Giving the same energy back or more? Yes absolutely match the energy. Personally I always let the girl give more investment before I reciprocate it. It’s a mistake I think to give a girl too much energy early on. Don’t even think about her in the beginning. She’s just another girl to you. More than anything, don’t try to be interesting or funny. Let her only find out you are interesting or funny when you allow her to. Not before. This is lost on many guys I think. If you try to impress her early you will fail. Let her open up tryin…	/r/seduction	03/04/20 08:43 PM
2	How to go from dating "cute enough" women to beautiful, high-status women I understand. Just think a simple image of you talking would suffice because when I see YouTube, I’m looking for a visual. For those of us on a phone we can’t click off the phone and still listen to it the way SoundCloud would do.	/r/seduction	03/04/20 08:40 PM
3	How to go from dating "cute enough" women to beautiful, high-status women For the YouTube video, the lack of a visual is a click-away for me personally. Like the content on this post though. It’s extremely important to engage in a community that is part of who you are. If you don’t know who you are and what you value in life, women aren’t the problem. Looking up game and techniques is worthless if you don’t have a life and an interest of your own. Meeting people who are passionate about similar things will come naturally but developing and working toward a specific pa…	/r/seduction	03/04/20 08:16 PM
15	What you need are social skills Absolutely love this.	/r/seduction	29/03/20 08:13 PM
1	RSD deleted all their good content, they block comments, they use bot comments; And now this; how much more embarrasing can this company get? For some people I think having guidance is important. I wouldn’t pay for it but definitely see that if someone has had negative experiences with women and socially in general, going out on their own is hard without a helping hand. I see the merit in what RSD is doing even though I have little knowledge of what they actually do lol.	/r/seduction	29/03/20 07:18 PM
2	Girl from 5 years ago wants to meet me again but do I look fat and different now? You don’t look fat at all lol. You’re good bro	/r/seduction	29/03/20 01:19 AM
2	Masturbation You’ll find wildly different answers all over the internet on this one. Posting this here, you’ll see different answers than if you posted on r/NoFap. Here’s what I think. As always, balance is the key to life. However, I do believe no amount of porn is good for the brain. Many here would disagree saying it’s motivating etc, but to me you are creating a false sense of fulfillment and an imagined expectation of reality every time you watch it. The brain has addictive chemicals attached to pornogr…	/r/seduction	28/03/20 02:33 AM
4	PUA is more similar to martial arts than studying academic subjects (like history). You don't improve by reading and debating, you improve by doing and recognizing different things work for different people. What works for one guru may not work for you. Try and test to find what works for you. I think this style is 10x more powerful than asking directly for a date/number at the outset. I see guys do this and it puts a woman’s guard up right away. When you approach casually, not looking for anything from her but simply as a fact that you approach people you’re curious about all the time. This is just what you do. You’re talkative and enjoy meeting new people. This allows her the freedom to make the choice to continue contact with you, and she is more likely to want to knowing that you …	/r/seduction	15/03/20 05:58 PM
23	Do men normally hit their peak later than women? If brad Pitt isn’t still a 10 I’m not sure where the rest of us stand.	/r/seduction	14/03/20 03:39 PM
1	Breaking through the anxiety barrier Yessss okay I’ve been there dude. It took a girlfriend and consistent effort with me, but I completely understand your situation. It’s simple performance anxiety, and the first quick fix, if you’re watching any porn at all, STOP immediately. It creates false expectations and demands upon you. The next thing would be to make sure you find a girl you’re comfortable around, and then completely not think about this problem at all. Pull all attention from it, don’t look it up, don’t even look at this…	/r/seduction	14/03/20 03:37 PM
1	How do I fix subconscious retreat in social interaction? The biggest thing I would say would be to notice it when it happens, then give it a name of some sort, a playful sort of name that identifies this persona side of yourself. Then detach from it when it comes up. Like “that’s just my detached self coming back up. He’s an old version I’m growing through. He still comes up every now and again and I don’t judge him. I learn what he needs right now, and move forward anyways.” Good luck friend.	/r/seduction	13/03/20 10:32 PM
1	How do I fix subconscious retreat in social interaction? You can leave now bro.	/r/seduction	13/03/20 10:30 PM
1	Your Life Changes Forever If You Can Meet Girls On the Street This was a fantastic post. Read it at a perfect time. I came down here to Miami for ultra solo, and since the festival was cancelled, I have nothing to do but try this. I’m not the best at meeting new people but this presents such a great opportunity. I’m here with nothing better to do than walk around the beaches and for the first time in my life try to daygame.	/r/seduction	13/03/20 01:21 AM
2	3️⃣One Approach Every Day Challenge - Day 3 Oh I totally agree with the uncomfortable part when it comes to not making girls feel harassed. I’m not sure that’s what happened here. She simply wasn’t interested, not necessarily uncomfortable. Since we weren’t there we can’t really judge, but I do encourage the OP to keep approaching because it’s the only way you learn these things.	/r/seduction	28/02/20 12:58 AM
2	3️⃣One Approach Every Day Challenge - Day 3 If you never approach women at all, which I think is the case for the OP and is the case for me as well as I’m just starting in this, EVERY approach is a HUGE success starting out. Any time you don’t listen to that fear, that intense anxiety about how she’ll react, any time you override that and you put yourself out there by going up to a girl and saying ANYTHING at all, that is a success.	/r/seduction	28/02/20 12:10 AM
7	3️⃣One Approach Every Day Challenge - Day 3 Asking to have coffee as friends is not unhealthy or insisting. Who knows how she felt about it. Clearly this is a starting point. It’s better than not doing anything and sitting around wondering what would’ve happened. Yes this wasn’t a good approach to it and I always think connecting with a girl on a human level must come first before asking them out, but baby steps.	/r/seduction	27/02/20 05:35 PM
31	3️⃣One Approach Every Day Challenge - Day 3 It’s a success regardless because he tried. People are way too tied into results. Once he does this enough he will get there, it’s the beginning that’s tough. I applaud you good sir keep going don’t give up!! One approach a day this is inspiring stuff I am doing this next!!	/r/seduction	27/02/20 05:24 PM
1	Tonight I’m going to go out and get intentionally rejected by girls Lmao that’s a little too advanced but you’re totally right that’s the next step!	/r/seduction	22/02/20 10:21 PM
1	Tonight I’m going to go out and get intentionally rejected by girls It really does I want to get into sales for the sole purpose of getting rejected consistently.	/r/seduction	22/02/20 10:20 PM
1	Tonight I’m going to go out and get intentionally rejected by girls Exactly!!! Going out last night this has been the only thing that’s worked so far and I’m so happy to have done it. When you stop looking for positive responses they actually come!! No one was snarky and I didn’t even really get rejected at all but I did approach. Nothing crazy as I still don’t have the experience but at least the movement is there.	/r/seduction	22/02/20 10:20 PM
5	Tonight I’m going to go out and get intentionally rejected by girls Okay so it’s been working better than anything I’ve done previously. I had a little to drink which helps but before putting myself in this mindset, I could never approach a SINGLE girl. I think I’m onto something here. Intentional rejection is hard, the first half of the night I didn’t do anything, but it’s slowly getting to me. The part of not caring about the reaction. Only caring about doing the action. That’s the part that matters. I am here to prove to the boss (my subconscious) that approa…	/r/seduction	22/02/20 06:32 AM
8	Tonight I’m going to go out and get intentionally rejected by girls I do tend to overthink but this seems like one of my more clearer thought processes. To be totally honest, I don’t even want to pick girls up. Well, I do. But in the end and for the betterment of my life, what I truly want is to stop valuing their opinion of me so much. And I’m convinced this circular way of doing it will, in fact, get me better at picking up girls. It’s always the paradoxical things that work best.	/r/seduction	22/02/20 03:24 AM
2	Tonight I’m going to go out and get intentionally rejected by girls Thank you lol! I will not stop till I am rejected haha	/r/seduction	22/02/20 03:21 AM
1	What Happens if Being a Player and Practicing Seduction and Pickup is all you want to do?? I enjoyed this thank you! Wasn’t the direction I expected	/r/seduction	22/02/20 02:31 AM
6	Tonight I’m going to go out and get intentionally rejected by girls Hahaha thank you I LOVE THIS! I’ve been out the last few weeks but haven’t had the courage to go up to any girls yet. Today that’s going to change 😎	/r/seduction	22/02/20 12:55 AM
1	Easy and simple: my approaching tactics LMAO I think you missed the rest of the post 😂	/r/seduction	16/02/20 03:40 AM
8	I've read a lot of books, and most were useless. But these 3 have helped me the most: 'Models' by Mark Manson, 'How To Win Friends And Influence People' by Dale Carnegie, and 'Way Of The Superior Man' by David Deida. If I had to start again, I'd just read and revise these books, and ignore the rest. I didn’t read it that way at all. I actually went into it expecting that but the biggest takeaway I got from that book is that people like people that like them. And you can’t fake that, you can’t fake genuine interest in other people. He talks a lot about how important it is to listen to people, to smile at them, to remember their name, to find out what they’re interested in, these are all things I’ve never forgotten. I think all of that is far less about manipulative techniques and much more a…	/r/seduction	13/02/20 01:41 AM
1	Just get rejected Love it bro. It always feels better than not going for it and in the end an abundance mentality is key. Not being fixated on one person that you think is going to change everything for you. They won’t. You do you and go for it anyways.	/r/seduction	04/02/20 03:46 PM
3	Finally made THE approach! My man.	/r/seduction	01/02/20 05:58 PM
27	Finally made THE approach! Did you use the 5 second rule! Count down from 5 then go for it (:	/r/seduction	01/02/20 01:13 AM
16	There is nothing wrong with pickup Honest tip: give more value to the market before expecting anything back. The way this was written I was expecting your sale from the first line. Bury the sale beneath content that is worthwhile in itself.	/r/seduction	31/01/20 02:48 AM
1	Should I give up There’s no such thing as too late! It’s all a mindset my dude !	/r/seduction	31/01/20 02:26 AM
46	There is nothing wrong with pickup Agree with the title but how you presented this is awful. You sort of confirm what people say is wrong with pickup by trying to sell people on your group in the very same thread.	/r/seduction	31/01/20 02:19 AM
1	I just blew it again Thank you!	/r/seduction	29/01/20 06:55 PM
1	I just blew it again YES. This x100. I’ve been meditating a few years now and it’s probably the single best thing for you and your connection to yourself.	/r/seduction	29/01/20 06:55 PM
24	I just blew it again Here’s the trick for this. It’s called the 5 second rule. It’s like this little brain hack, because your conscious mind can want to do something, but your subconscious beliefs and programming will say it’s not safe and you have no experience etc etc. So what happens is that your subconscious feeds these beliefs back to your conscious mind in the form of feelings, that’s the anxiety kicking in. When you feel that anxiety, your conscious mind has to rationalize it. So you come up with excuses. Rea…	/r/seduction	29/01/20 03:40 AM
2	To those of you who went from having zero game to straight up ballers, how’d you do it? Oh right okay I get it. See I can attract initially but have trouble and get anxiety while escalating. The simple key for you is to be as “boy”-ish as possible. I find that when the kid in me comes out at a bar or wherever, when I’m having fun and not caring about girls, they start looking at me and sending me signals. That’s the part you likely have to work on. The main traits of this “boy” is aloof, always curious and bouncing back and forth. When you lose your interest in one thing, you move …	/r/seduction	29/01/20 03:28 AM
1	To those of you who went from having zero game to straight up ballers, how’d you do it? Thank you sm lol!!	/r/seduction	28/01/20 10:40 PM
2	To those of you who went from having zero game to straight up ballers, how’d you do it? You as well thank you!!	/r/seduction	28/01/20 10:39 PM
2	To those of you who went from having zero game to straight up ballers, how’d you do it? Oh man I’ll be honest that’s a more advanced answer than I am currently at. I think I could help someone in the OP’s position where it comes to getting through the lumps of social anxiety but for attracting girls I’m still a novice. I think girls feel attraction for a guy based on his internal energy. It’s almost like they have this instinct that can read a mans mind at all times. Body language they say is the language of the subconscious. If you are thinking about how you can look cool or how y…	/r/seduction	28/01/20 05:05 PM
1	To those of you who went from having zero game to straight up ballers, how’d you do it? It’s just a number bro!! It’s so hard I know but that’s the biggest challenge is ignoring those thoughts that say “I should have this handled by now”. And yeah dude that’s the #1 thing that’s helped me along is trying to find other people that are just like me there. When you do this you start to notice there are dozens of people that WANT you to go talk to them. We are all out and want to meet new people it’s natural. The overthinking is the only thing in the way.	/r/seduction	28/01/20 04:30 PM
1	To those of you who went from having zero game to straight up ballers, how’d you do it? Lmao yeah that’s my mistake! I think when I first started I just wasn’t consistent. I psyched myself out and went a few weeks where never made it out the door	/r/seduction	28/01/20 04:27 PM
261	To those of you who went from having zero game to straight up ballers, how’d you do it? I think I can help you because I was in the same place, far worse off, at your age. Firstly, you’re 20. You have not wasted anything. This took me awhile to realize but try not to say that because every time you do you’re splitting your energy from creating something new. When I was in college I did the same thing. Made no friends didn’t go out and never got laid. I magically got a good girlfriend when I was 23 but always had it the back on my mind, that I never learned how to really do it. So a…	/r/seduction	27/01/20 10:14 PM
1	Ever since the PUA landscape changed on YouTube, this sub also changed You’re right I you can’t really judge someone based on one thing, and he might have some good knowledge on game, but to me that’s a representation of people that take this stuff too far. He clearly has a complex that every women should bow down before him and this makes him aggressive when they don’t. That’s not something I’d ever want to get close to as a man.	/r/seduction	25/01/20 06:59 PM
3	Ever since the PUA landscape changed on YouTube, this sub also changed Idk who Todd is but judging by that video that others put in this sub who the hell would want to learn anything about life from that guy??	/r/seduction	25/01/20 04:53 AM
1	Ever since the PUA landscape changed on YouTube, this sub also changed Strange that this is one of the most reasonable comments yet gets downvoted. I think the direction of this sub is for the positive judging by some of the older posters. I’m not sure how anyone believes that Todd in that video thought the women were unattractive so he didn’t open properly on purpose. He was clearly being a dick and being unaware of himself. If this is what PUA do, I’m staying far away from this type of material. Pick up is only as good as it serves you, and in that case, idc how …	/r/seduction	25/01/20 04:50 AM
1	How do you stop your feeling of self from being dependent on affirmations? Lol it’s crazy reading this and recognizing that you are me and I am you. The above poster is right. We are selfish. But fuck it. I can to venture you have a creative outlet up your sleeve? The biggest thing is focus on is that. Doing whatever it is you know you should be doing. The women, man, they’re just a distraction from what you know is the real problem in your life, the true reason you don’t feel good enough. I feel this way all the time because I’m not a filmmaker. I haven’t made it yet.…	/r/seduction	19/01/20 01:15 AM
13	Finally managed to do some proper touch escalation on a date. I mean he’s just telling a story about a weak point he overcame. Suitable to the thread and relevant I think.	/r/seduction	19/01/20 01:07 AM
1	What are the biggest difficulties that men encounter when it comes to their dating lives? Like he said anxiety is pretty much the equal sum in this equation because it separates you from being authentic around women and people in general. When you’re anxious you’re out of touch with who you truly are because you’re trying to change something, which is all those things you listed are, the ego trying to change something. But change doesn’t happen from forcing it from the outside. It grows from within. What’s helped me along my journey with anxiety is slowly growing more comfortable wit…	/r/seduction	18/01/20 08:03 PM