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thefirstjustin/r/ExRedPill26/03/23 04:08 AM
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The mental issues caused by detoxing from Red Pill ideology is similar to leaving a toxic relationship. You have some of the exact same thoughts after leaving both, and sometimes the best remedy to both is to connect with women platonically and see there are good women out there. Eventually you’ll see the majority don’t fit the Red Pill depiction.
/r/ExRedPill12/10/24 06:42 PM
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You might want to consider hiring a dating or life coach. I’ve got a friend who does both, and he’s helped a ton of men find wives. I heard one person say, when you go out, don’t try to get a date, girlfriend, or whatever, but try to make genuine connections. That changed the way I approached going out, because if you’re striving for genuine connections with the right people, you’ll be amazed by where they lead. You could meet a married couple who just so happens to know a single woman who is ha…
/r/ExRedPill03/08/24 09:40 AM
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What the actual fuck!? If some dude 18+ started pursuing my 14 year old niece, I’d lose my shit! That’s fucked up!
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 12:29 AM
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This is contradicted by their own words. Not even a year ago, they were saying women peak at 23; now it’s 20. I predict they will say a woman peaks at 18 near the end of this year, and in another year or two, they will say women peak at 16. Some of the “feminist” anti red pill talking points are accurate, and the fact they keep reducing the age a woman peaks lends credence to the accusation it’s a predatory ideology.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/24 03:49 PM
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I’ve observed from couples I know 25 is usually when the lines of an age gap tend to blur and not be as much of a deal, and the closer a woman is to 30, it’s not at all uncommon to see age gaps of ten years or more. It has less to do with money and other superficial things. It has more to do with a connection and emotional maturity. Where I live, the difference in the city and 30 minutes outside it are as different as night and day. The young women in the city don’t want a guy that much older th…
/r/ExRedPill01/08/23 09:17 PM
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Promiscuity is detrimental to both men and women. The part of the brain that processes emotions is twice as large in a woman’s brain as it is in a man’s brain, and we produce far less oxytocin than women do. So one could argue the ability to pair bond suffers greater harm in a man’s brain the higher his body count as opposed to a woman’s brain. I can’t remember who said this, but there’s one quote I wholeheartedly agree with, “A lover is not a man who has love 1,000 women one time, but a man who…
/r/ExRedPill08/06/23 08:28 AM
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If I can’t send pics of Richard Nixon to random people, what’s the point in living? In all seriousness, I’ve spoken with plenty of women who have said they got off of dating apps because of the creeps, and they would rather have a man approach them in public. Several reasons have been given, but the most common one is the confidence can make up for a lot of things like height and physique. I closed all of my dating app accounts and deleted them when I had a woman send me her OnlyFans link on the…
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 12:36 AM
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What I find interesting is none of those guys can agree on what an alpha male is. Rollo says 100% of women go for the top 20% of men. Are we left to assume that 20% are alphas? Are alphas supposed to be 6’ or taller, have six pack abs, and have a six figure salary? At best 29% of all men have a six figure salary, and when you factor out the married men, I’m certain that percentage drops. Only 14.5% of all American men are six feet or taller, and only about 3-15% of the population has six pack ab…
/r/ExRedPill16/08/22 05:59 AM
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You’re 19! You’ve got your whole life ahead of you. You’re at a time in your life where your testosterone is the highest it will ever be, and the people telling you to hit the gym are giving you great advice. I’d say in addition to the gym, take a martial art like Karate, Muay Thai, or Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, because you’ll form close bonds with your classmates, which will help with social anxiety. You’ve got years to improve your life, your skills, and your socialization and social circle. You’re …
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 10:11 PM
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I’ve observed self proclaimed “Alpha Males” are incredibly insecure. If they weren’t, they wouldn’t have to tell the world they’re alphas.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/22 08:44 PM
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Nah.. they’ll perceive it as a challenge. Most Red Pillers lack an incredible amount of self-awareness.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/22 08:42 PM
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I admitted it was an absolutist view, and I have no problem with absolutist views. So what’s your point? I gave a rebuttal to that statement in a prior comment, which you can go back and read yourself. It’s apparent your reading comprehension is lacking.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/22 04:36 AM
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https://letmegooglethat.com/?q=andrew+tate+human+trafficking+
/r/ExRedPill03/08/22 04:29 AM
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https://letmegooglethat.com/?q=who+is+andrew+tate
/r/ExRedPill03/08/22 04:28 AM
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I’m going to keep arguing with the dumbass. He’s entered into a battle of wits and facts, and clearly he’s unarmed on both accounts.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/22 04:25 AM
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Go read my other comment. There’s no hypocrisy there.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/22 04:24 AM
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The two aren’t comparable. We are on the fourth wave of feminism, and there are many feminists who disavow third and fourth wave feminism and proclaim themselves as second wave feminists. There are plenty of good, genuine feminists who want what’s best for both genders. Andrew Tate is one man espousing a toxic ideology and an unattainable lifestyle for most men. If a man is under six feet tall, he of all people will do best to avoid anything Andrew Tate says, since he’s said no one under six fee…
/r/ExRedPill03/08/22 04:23 AM
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You admitted to not knowing who he is. So why are you still commenting? You’re coming from a place of ignorance.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/22 04:06 AM
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If you don’t know who Andrew Tate is, you’d do best to either keep your mouth shut, or educate yourself. If you knew who he is, then you would have an absolutist view as well. Absolutes aren’t exclusive to Red Pillers, and Tate is a very polarizing individual, leading many to take an absolutist view of him one way or another. Andrew Tate is the epitome of poisonous ideology, and his advice should not be followed. I’ve yet to see anyone who follows his advice and not adopt the toxicity he espouse…
/r/ExRedPill03/08/22 03:52 AM
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Huh? What you typed makes no sense. Andrew Tate is by far one of the worst people anyone can listen to. The dude is a narcissist and shady as hell, and anyone who follows his advice is doomed to disaster and heartache. How does any of that sound like a Red Pill guy?
/r/ExRedPill03/08/22 03:22 AM
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Get a new boyfriend. He’s gone down that road, and it’ll be an even harder struggle for him to get back from it. You can’t fix him; you can only control yourself. You’ll be better off finding someone you’ll be happier with who won’t adopt the narcissism of that asshole.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 08:45 PM
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I listened to one of his recent podcasts. He said he’s been happily married for 26 years but doesn’t recommend men get married today due to the current state of the “sexual marketplace” and legal system. First, if he’s been happily married all those years, what would he know about today’s sexual marketplace? The only thing he would know about it would be second and third hand information. Second, the legal system as it exists today is the same one that was in place 26 years ago, but great stride…
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 01:17 AM
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It’s bullshit. Studies have shown women are far more likely to engage with an average looking man over the best looking ones, and unlike Rollo Tomassi, I’ll include links to prove my point. Sexual Selection Study https://web.archive.org/web/20091121080804/http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/2009/11/17/your-looks-and-online-dating/ Oxford University Study https://www.oii.ox.ac.uk/news-events/news/new-study-reveals-changing-trends-in-online-dating/
/r/ExRedPill13/07/22 11:53 PM
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Spot on! I’ve seen women reject men based on height only to then go for a guy who is shorter than the dude they rejected. I’ve seen women reject men who had all of the physical characteristics beyond height they said they wanted only to get into a relationship with a man who looked nothing like their ideal mate, and finally I’ve seen women reject a man who makes more money for a guy who worked as a server in a restaurant. Bottom line: speaking in strict generalizations about women doesn’t aid on…
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 06:04 PM
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First, guys who have accounts on sites like Seeking Arrangements aren’t the alpha males they claim to be. Second, anyone who tells you they’re alphas, aren’t. Finally, alphas don’t exist, at least in human social circles due to the complexity of human relationships and social structures, and the studies used to support alpha theories have been debunked. Evolutionary psychologists are finally exploring human social structures, and the latest thinking, which is still very early, is if human alphas…
/r/ExRedPill30/04/22 02:30 PM
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