thefudgeman Archive

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2	When she asks how old you are... You know, she could just as likely be curious/interested in how old you are. I get the feeling here most people here don't understand what a shit test is. See http://www.practicalpickup.com/shit-test-paranoia	/r/seduction	30/04/11 05:09 AM
1	When it's ok to tell her she is pretty? Make no mistake about it: statements of interest are a form of escalation. When is it okay to start escalating? Pretty much from "hello."	/r/seduction	16/04/11 09:20 PM
1	[OKC-R]I seem to have about a 90%+ response rate on sending out messages....here's how. I agree - although it's probably not just his photos. In my experience, your overall profile on OKC is the biggest indicator of whether or not you get replies. I write these messages back and get like 1 in 10 responses if I'm lucky. Then again I'm Asian which does affect response rate (according to OKC themselves).	/r/seduction	01/04/11 10:37 AM
1	Alright, this is cool and all, but, fuck... My style is all subtlety, and I don't want to be too forward. I don't use any lines or techniques, but I'm anything but subtle. My whole "game" is basically this: talk, tease, touch. It can feel natural, if that's what you want.	/r/seduction	25/03/11 09:40 PM
6	[FR] First date with a girl, going swimmingly until I went for the kiss Nah. I've gone on more than one date where the girl straight up told me "I can't kiss a guy on the first date." Seriously there are girls like that still out there. Didn't stop me from kissing them on the next one. If she doesn't let you kiss her, it doesn't mean anything's wrong. She just needs to set a pace she's comfortable with, and some girls are more conservative than others.	/r/seduction	05/03/11 03:02 AM
4	How do "normal" people pick up women? There are naturals out there that are probably better than anyone in the pua community - they're anything but beta. They've internalized what works through a lifetime of practice. Pua merely teaches how to systematically replicate their success. How do the naturals do it? 1. Approach women 2. Flirt with women (push pull, etc.) 3. Take women home or on dates (escalate and close) That's pretty much all there is to the process. The rest is a matter of practice and calibration.	/r/seduction	03/02/11 06:05 PM
1	How do you make a girl want to continue flirting with you? Touching helps but it's not the solution. You can touch her but if you're still having a boring, friendly conversation it won't proceed anywhere. First, vibing is less about the words you say, more about what you do. Escalate the vibe by moving closer to her, speaking slower and holding more intense eye contact. Second, talk about less actual "stuff" and more fluff; i.e. banter, teasing, role playing and fun stories. Save the more serious conversation topics for after she's already attracted to …	/r/seduction	26/01/11 02:29 AM
1	seddit, I'm scared. Day game and online game are your friends. Solo night game takes a lot of confidence to pull off and it doesn't sound like you're quite there yet - I'm definitely not either.	/r/seduction	24/01/11 08:55 PM
2	Who thinks we need a list of "dismantled shit-tests?" I see a lot of clever responses here. Remember that you don't ever have to say anything clever, and that being clever sometimes comes off try-hard. Shit tests are designed to test your congruence, not your wit. If I can't think of anything to say in response to a shit test, my default response is simply "yeah ok" then continue to carry on conversation as if nothing happened. "I have a boyfriend." Yeah, that's cool. Anyways... "Do you always talk to people like this?" Yes, if I think they look in…	/r/seduction	22/01/11 08:40 PM
3	Is there One Source to get all the basics of the game? I agree. It's the biggest eye-opener on game I've read since The Game. Cuts through so much of the industry BS.	/r/seduction	17/01/11 09:44 PM
3	Is there One Source to get all the basics of the game? For well-written basics, try practicalpickup.com. Mark Manson is IMO the best teacher in the industry.	/r/seduction	17/01/11 06:36 PM
5	But If We Started Dating It Would Ruin Our Friendship Where I Ask You To Do Things And You Do Them [Repost from r/funny, but incredibly relevant] You can get out of it. Get good with women, start dating other girls, and keep talking to her about them. Jealousy is like magic.	/r/seduction	16/01/11 11:00 AM
1	8 Epiphanies That Changed My Game I always understood chemistry as just being mutual attraction. If you both like each other, isn't that chemistry? Would like to hear more.	/r/seduction	12/01/11 08:57 PM
13	8 Epiphanies That Changed My Game These are all great except #6 is incorrect. Chemistry (which I'll from this point forward call Attraction) can absolutely be generated. Example: Picture an average looking woman. Now give her nice hair, makeup, sexy clothes and a push up bra. Gyrate hips. Bam, you just got a boner from whence there was none. Well women are like this except even more so. They can meet a guy they really like, but instantly lose attraction for him (usually not through something physical, but instead by doing someth…	/r/seduction	12/01/11 08:42 AM
1	Under 21 (no bars), any ideas on where to pick up women? Any crowded place where women are browsing (as opposed to rushing through like a subway). My favorite are outdoor malls.	/r/seduction	22/12/10 09:30 PM
2	Storytelling/DHV stories, how can I make up REAL interesting stories about myself? Stories are overrated. They suck at building attraction that isn't already there. That said, my favorite stories are all about "worst" things. Worst boss ever, worst first date ever, worst job, worst thing that happened in vegas, etc. Also try "funniest." Also try "best." The nice thing is you can get the girl to start telling her own stories too. Everyone has a best, worst and funniest story about something.	/r/seduction	22/12/10 09:28 PM
3	Bitch shields? I'm no fucking good at them at all. Girls you knew from the past are simply coming up to you in public and telling you you're a dick? That's weird. The only proper response would be to ignore them or at most, ask "Do I know you?"	/r/seduction	22/12/10 09:24 PM
3	My secret weapon 2nd one is award-worthy. You're a genius.	/r/seduction	22/12/10 07:11 PM
1	NEVER tell a girl you "like her" Yep. Never say never. You can say almost ANYTHING and get away with it if you say it from a position of dominance, self control and non-neediness. If she already likes you, you should totally say "I like you." This does two things: -Makes her feel like she's won your approval which makes her attraction stronger through qualification -She will say "I like you too" which is exactly what you want. You want to make attraction official. If it's established that you like her and she likes you, you are…	/r/seduction	21/12/10 08:06 AM