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I appreciate the latitude I’ve been given to save face by recognizing my error lol
/r/seduction21/04/26 04:24 PM
2

Yeah I lost track of the subreddit I was in.
/r/seduction21/04/26 04:18 PM
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Sure it would, if you haven’t read Plato’s accounts of Socrates. He hated Democracy, advocated for tyranny, talked a bunch of his students into committing a terrorist act, and spent all day JAQing off. His image has been polished by a bunch of “free speech absolutists” but if you actually read the accounts it’s hard to ignore what a contemptible piece of garbage he was.
/r/seduction21/04/26 01:08 PM
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Socrates was Alex Jones in a toga.
/r/seduction21/04/26 04:40 AM
1

Jesus Christ what a healthy attitude. This understanding should be applied to everything.
/r/seduction17/12/23 03:29 AM
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"What's the deal with Chads?!?"
/r/seduction05/03/21 10:15 PM
7

Dude fuck your state guidelines, now is not the time to be approaching strangers.
/r/seduction03/07/20 12:42 AM
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It actually takes it’s roots from a Buddhist doctrine called “Sudden Enlightenment.” It was put forth in The Platform Sutra.
/r/seduction28/01/18 06:03 PM
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How's your girl in terms of this part of your life? Is she totally stoked that you're helping other guys get out of their comfort zone or is she lost in terms of why you're talking into a phone while you're waking around and dancing through crowds?
/r/seduction11/04/17 05:52 AM
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Talk to staff members. After you're a regular (three Fridays maybe?) people will expect you, greet you, and you'll look like a popular fixture. Then customers will want to talk to you. Sure, this will only fill up so much of your time (how long can you engage a door guy, a bouncer, and maybe two bartenders?) but guess what? You're only here for 2 beers tops. Once you've spoken with staff and had a beer or two you're off to the next place you like to do it again. Just build a circuit for a few we…
/r/seduction16/01/16 03:12 PM
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I'm going to guess you're targeting women under 25
/r/seduction23/08/15 10:25 PM
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Everyone is telling you not to share this information- I agree that on a date you should put your best foot forward and avoid mentioning your deeper problems like anxiety or depression. That said, if a woman is disclosing those kinds of issues toyou it's like any other kind of subject you can relate to them on. You can use it a basis to relate to her.
/r/seduction23/08/15 07:17 AM
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Smile at yourself in the morning
/r/seduction04/08/15 03:00 AM
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Separate Entirely.
/r/seduction07/07/15 07:52 PM
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Fully willing to listen and I hear you- you make a good argument. I just think that if that's true all it does is move line where the struggle is. It doesn't excuse anyone's responsibility to overcome that or find a way to have a better relationship than that. I might be that we're just having a conversation that is on a better level than much of what is discussed on the internet. I think that's probably the case and we're writing like we're arguing instead of writing like we're teaching.
/r/seduction06/07/15 05:52 AM
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You did. Doesn't matter if one woman gave you the experience that caused you to form that conclusion or if however many women you've been with did. If a million women give you this impression all you're doing is succumbing to it if you take it as truth.
/r/seduction06/07/15 05:41 AM
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Sorry, but as a man you can't let that happen or let your unwillingness to let that happen break your desire to pursue women. That's a huge dead end and you might as well let a woman take your testicles if she can shut down your whole view of women.
/r/seduction06/07/15 05:15 AM
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Good. Don't lead her friend on, be cool, but she's way more likely to be into you if her friends think you're great.
/r/seduction06/07/15 04:56 AM
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Well being in the moment is certainly a great start for figuring out who you could say hi to, hold the door for, or otherwise interact with instead of sitting around thinking all day. I know that's what's helping me about it. It also is a major counter to a lot of anxiety for me- can't worry about shit that isn't immediate or that there's no point in worrying about when I'm paying attention to what's going on right there right then.
/r/seduction06/07/15 04:40 AM
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Start with touching people you don't want to fuck- like the gender you aren't interested in. Let it become a friendly thing for you insteae of "kino."
/r/seduction06/07/15 04:38 AM
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"Shit happens."
/r/seduction09/03/13 09:04 AM
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As a skeptic, I find MR silly as it's reactionary to feminism (presenting me with false dichotomy to feminist agenda). As a male in the industrialized world, conversely, show me the patriarchy. All of these people seem inordinately concerned with their genitals in light of the fact that so many others have very similar genitals. Where Afghanistan is concerned, I'm a fucking feminist with very big, hairy balls. Where the US is concerned, you're all a bunch of silly self obsessed doobs.
/r/MensRights27/12/12 01:18 PM
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Part of me likes a challenge- but women don't like being with men who are trying hard.
/r/seduction30/08/12 01:11 PM
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To give the word "idealize" it's proper treatment (in philosophy,) it's ANY time you prioritize your idea of something over the real thing. This is actually useful criticism in a lot of places, not just in dealings with women (or even people).
/r/seduction17/02/12 03:57 PM
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Last time I checked, I WAS that guy. I've had people call and put me on speakerphone at parties. Maybe (I'm not a PUA) I'm just not doing something right. I think it's kino or something, but it's probably oneitis. I feel like my life will be too dramatic if I date. Maybe at my age (early 30s) I just feel like it's a pain in the ass... I'm hopeless!
/r/seduction22/11/11 08:54 AM
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I read /r/Seddit for this more than to get my wenis wet. Cheers.
/r/seduction08/10/11 02:05 PM
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Excelsior! I've just been fired! In the ass!
/r/seduction19/09/11 01:00 PM
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I'm absolutely furry. I just buzzcut everything down once a month as it's much more comfortable (I live in a tropical place). Just let anyone give me shit about it- there's always some grooming they could be opting to DO instead of ignore that I can advise them on.
/r/seduction19/09/11 08:28 AM
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You have a dad around? I guess it doesn't matter (my father died when I was 11, but my mum had a dynamic with me as I was the oldest before that) Either way, we really do end up dating women who have a high reward vs. what we're good at ratio- if you're already good at arguing with her, a lot has been explained about why you're dating. After all, you're clearly 'compelling" to her.
/r/seduction30/08/11 12:45 PM
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Funny, my mom says I always go for her opposite. She's a "hot" (that's what men tell me) blonde, and I always shark in on crazy brunettes and redheads. I dated ONE blonde- and she was bald. I'm starting to notice that I don't ever even think I'd have anything in common with hot blondes. There's one at work that isn't punk rock and doesn't seem "damaged" (usually, I date women who fit that description at least). I've been noticing that she's very nice to me, and despite all that I've read in this…
/r/seduction30/08/11 11:02 AM
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Last time I went with "we'll just have to agree to disagree." Pissed her straight off.
/r/seduction20/07/11 10:53 AM
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People fail to see that the "Alpha" paradigm holds up in the academic world. The simple confidence to speak is the issue- the comfort with setting the pace and agenda for a discussion.
/r/seduction25/06/11 10:17 AM
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I've done this. The snap was crisp- I cracked up, couldn't help it.
/r/seduction31/05/11 07:17 AM
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The wise man learns of the Tao, calls it true, then Immediately forgets it.
/r/seduction19/05/11 02:51 AM
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When you do something right, it will seem as though you did nothing at all.
/r/seduction21/04/11 06:52 AM
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I got one up on a few of you- was she bald?
/r/seduction18/04/11 12:53 AM
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No, I'd say that the fact that other women ended up involved in the relationships, the roller derby, and the cats pretty much solidify the diagnosis. Until you've found yourself deeply confused about how to alpha a fat dyke with a fake name and the game of a 19 year old, you haven't dealt with fucking dykes. My friend, take it from a man who's deeply tired of attending coffee shop acoustic shows filled with androgynous women- it's all a huge pain in the ass. That's been my mistake- having relati…
/r/seduction18/04/11 12:26 AM
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I have a problem with ONLY picking up femme lesbians. I find it much easier than straight chicks.
/r/seduction17/04/11 11:20 PM
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The bar. Then home to have sex.
/r/seduction04/04/11 02:31 PM
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As a snarky atheist who's work life refuses to stabilize, I find this bothersome.
/r/seduction03/04/11 10:52 AM
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I'd say, "Molly Ringwald was beautiful, and Robert Downey was brilliant. Excellent film."
/r/seduction20/03/11 10:47 AM
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I don't know what you're talking about with this "Asian guys are ugly" shit. I live in Hawaii, andI gotta say I see a lot of very classically handsome Asian guys. I also see very awkward guys of every race with Asian women that make them look like Jim Carry. Seriously, you're buying into some bizarre shit. Wherever you're getting this "I hear I'm handsome but I can think of some ugly guys who are the sam race as me" shit, you should lose it.
/r/seduction10/03/11 09:12 AM
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I am Malcolm X
/r/seduction19/02/11 06:55 PM
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Shit test.
/r/seduction31/01/11 09:44 PM
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HEY! THIS GUY HAD APPROACH ANXIETY AND STILL ENDDED UP RUNNING A TRAIN ON SOME CHICK! Sorry, that' how I read it at first.
/r/seduction16/01/11 06:52 PM
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I wore all manner of facial hair in my teens and twenties. Upon finding myself 30, I decided to get myself in shape, dress more formally, and become clean cut.
/r/seduction14/01/11 04:44 AM
1

I'd like to note that Saratonin disorders cause men false senses of scarcity- seriously, when I got mine fixed all my game problems went away... though Seddit was helping me out before and set me up to succeed after!
/r/seduction07/01/11 03:04 AM
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First off, as a die hard liberal and gun lover, I feel compelled to note that this kind of firearm mismanagement is despicable. Second, Relevant.
/r/seduction06/01/11 08:49 PM
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He needs to pick up a stylist.
/r/seduction06/01/11 10:30 AM
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Or: Eat more Asian food. Sounds allright to me.
/r/seduction30/12/10 06:15 PM
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China town is FULL of shorter, beautiful women.
/r/seduction30/12/10 05:43 PM
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Mussels. Get 'em fresh. Chop a shallot and some garlic- brown in butter in a soup pot. Pour in mussels. Throw in like a cup of decent white wine. Let it heat up until they steam- maybe 7 min with the lid on. When they open, they're done. Easy. Tasty. Sexy.
/r/seduction07/12/10 02:00 AM
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LISTEN TO ME. This is very important. She's interested in you (from what you're telling me) and probably only confident enough to show it when accompanied by her friends. When you approach, TALK TO ALL THREE OF THEM. Ask them all to lunch or some shit. Meet with the "group" two times or so on campus, (or at least offer to- the other two might bow out if she's spoken about you). THEN ask the one out in a moment of privacy or something.
/r/seduction04/12/10 07:28 AM
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You don't need to go to the gym to make yourself look better or feel better. That said, why WOULDN'T you want to go to the gym and look/feel better? Seriously, don't you think you'd approach better women and deal with them exceptionally if you felt "better?" Shit man, life isn't a game of giving up advantages. You're in your early 20s too, I assume- you're gonna watch everyone you know in your peer group fall off and fall into shitty shape in the next five years. Get out ahead of the pack. Do wh…
/r/seduction04/12/10 07:21 AM
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I started getting into bars without being carded and talking to women when I was 17. I "looked older for my age" (though at 32 I look like I"m 24) by dressing the part. Wear button up dress shirts (the fun is in loosening them, along with your tie, eventually untucking them, as the night goes on). Get a haircut you find in GQ- don't go with trendy shit. Classic is the watch word. You'll pull better women with the right attitude and increase your perceived value by looking like you've got a tradi…
/r/seduction04/12/10 07:14 AM
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You can't try to hide things- you have to transcend them.
/r/seduction17/11/10 11:48 PM
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Anything I can fix (physical fitness, bad habits) I strive to fix. Other shortcomings (I have a big head, crazy family, occasional quickshot in bed, etc.) I take a page from Richard Pryor- joke about it sincerely and for real laughs (not just to seem okay with it). Comedy, at it's best, comes from sore places.
/r/seduction17/11/10 10:25 PM
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If what you're interested in is his evolutionary work (as opposed to his work as a leading atheist,) The Selfish Gene or The Blind Watchmaker are where you should start.
/r/seduction15/11/10 03:10 AM
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If you need help, you can't handle it.
/r/seduction16/10/10 02:55 AM
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Most women worth having sex with have personal preferences about how you have sex with them. Porn gives you only one view of sex (usually). The very best thing about sex with a real woman is that she isn't like having sex with the focus-group idea of porn viewer's sexual preferences.
/r/seduction03/10/10 02:41 AM
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She's in your bedroom. She has given you all the advice you need.
/r/seduction26/09/10 02:53 PM
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"You have something on your shirt." Contact, plus neg. "Something on your cheek" is even better.
/r/seduction12/09/10 05:07 AM
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Work. Learn to enjoy good, real food and cook it. It will help your game and your fitness. My own angle is "intelligent guy in a backwater town," so I've benefited from knowing about "film" rather than "movies."
/r/seduction24/08/10 06:03 PM
2

I would never date a girl from my gym- it could get nasty and cost me the gym. This, like almost all good advice on this planet, is a variation on the first rule: "Don't shit where you eat."
/r/seduction19/08/10 02:17 AM
2

Focus on the half of PUA that is based upon your own view of yourself and how you think about life rather than the whole "a thousand "no's" make a "yes" thing. In short, you're in a situation where you can apply the better parts of PUA that every man can learn. Probably the best thing for a male of your age.
/r/seduction13/08/10 06:25 AM
2

I could watch this over and over. Totally a great resource for feeling better about your own game.
/r/seduction10/08/10 08:31 PM
7

You've all brought shame on your clan and ancestors.
/r/seduction08/08/10 03:32 PM
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If a woman is spending time with you after about 1 AM in your place, alone, she wants to have sex with you.
/r/seduction08/08/10 06:23 AM
1

Nothing I can't live with.
/r/seduction04/08/10 05:01 AM
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Cooking. Science.
/r/seduction02/08/10 08:38 PM
1

It'a an old saying.
/r/seduction12/07/10 10:09 PM
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First off, /r/bodybuilding has some decent tips. Personally, I started out at home with a bench press, some hand bells, and a lot of situps. About 6 months later (once I got the habit together and was doing like, 300 situps so I just had to get on a machine for core work) I joined a gym. I used to drink protein and take multivitamins, but I'm kind of a skeptic about everything (surprise, I'm on reddit) so I kind of drifted away from all that and it hasn't hurt me at all or stopped me growing. BU…
/r/seduction12/07/10 07:14 PM
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I'm about 180 lbs. I think I'm around 5'9? Still work out thrice a week, still love doing it. I can do all types of shit physically that I couldn't before, I eat whatever I like, people ask me to help them do physical stuff all the time which is great because helping people is always good, etc.
/r/seduction12/07/10 07:08 PM
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No no, I'm 31. No where near my 1st time.
/r/seduction12/07/10 07:00 PM
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I came early.
/r/seduction12/07/10 06:37 AM
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I got nothing to hide! Still was a great time.
/r/seduction11/07/10 11:38 PM
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Both. I lost it early with a girl the other day and we just totally laughed about it. I'd have been destroyed by that before.
/r/seduction11/07/10 11:07 PM
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Your testosterone isn't reflected in your hair growth. Gene expression is. I had a bad breakup once. I started lifting weights thrice a week- eating to grow, working on keeping my place nicer, finishing school, improving my cooking, etc. I just focused on me and my future. I'm 30 lbs of muscle bigger now, nobody screws with me, and I'm a million times more confident. Unlike other mammals, we as humans don't just have to accept our pack ranks. Get on it, be a doer, llive like the person you want …
/r/seduction11/07/10 08:34 PM
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Go in next Tuesday. Waitstaff usually have a pretty regular schedule. Try to get in her section and talk to her and ask for a coffee. Don't let on that she's the reason you're there per se. Just eat there around the same times of the week until you can talk to her. I can't advise you on the art of talking to women- I'm not that great myself- but I've worked in food service and know how schedules work and I'm emotionally slow so I get the whole "friends tell me she was flirting with me" thing all…
/r/seduction10/07/10 08:37 AM
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I'm in a similar situation- I guess my best advice is that if you know a woman is interested you can't fail to at least get makeout time. If you can at least get out of platonic relationship status, all you have to worry about is what you want in the long run.
/r/seduction02/07/10 08:48 AM
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Another wise band once advised that you "diss yourself in '89..."
/r/seduction22/06/10 05:27 AM
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I'm just going to post here to check in for answers later- I have the same problem. That said, I had sex with a woman I've always wanted (for like, 12 years, since we were teens,) the other week and had no problem with this because I just admitted to myself that she was batshit insane. Maybe because I really knew her it was easier to do.
/r/seduction13/06/10 06:01 AM
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Just stop hanging around. It's not what you want, it is what she wants- you don't need her to step away, you should.
/r/seduction07/06/10 06:01 PM
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I went through the automatic doors My shopping cart ran in to hers Our eyes met for a second, then she turned away And after just a little while I went in to the canned goods aisle And there she was just standing there smiling I was hoping she'd look at me But she was checking out the lima beans And artichoke, my heart was broken in pieces By my supermarket fantasy I didn't want to seem obsessed I checked Farina off my list But I couldn't keep my mind off those perfect lips I saw her start to wa…
/r/seduction29/05/10 07:12 AM
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Maybe you need to build a solid friendship. Getting together is very different than being together- relationships are practical, not exciting.
/r/seduction28/05/10 07:06 PM
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Oh that's the case- but it's a prerequisite for me.
/r/seduction18/05/10 05:09 PM
2

I just want to say that this thread's title sounds like a Strokes lyric.
/r/seduction13/05/10 10:36 PM
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Seriously, you cut through all the bullshit of my question and got to the meat of the issue. Thanks again.
/r/seduction11/05/10 10:09 PM
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THANK YOU.
/r/seduction11/05/10 06:22 PM
1

See, I'm not like a hippie casual guy- so for me I'm like "I kissed her, we spooned for several hours, that's being sexual". Like I figure I should be following up and trying to get together again soon. I'd consider those things like appropriate starting points and sex something I'd go for later- but do women expect me to try to get into the pants directly in situations like this? I wonder if I'm being flagged in and failing to read things properly- like am I a prude?
/r/seduction11/05/10 06:18 PM
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*Sorry, marking to watch what people respond with.
/r/seduction11/05/10 05:32 AM
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I actually do decent for myself but I'm not all that into most Asian girls If you're not using your Asian card, can I like, trade you something for it?
/r/seduction10/05/10 06:12 PM
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I have the same problem with women from the states- it's not just that she's asian. That said, it would help to know if she's just ethnically asian or FROM an asian nation. Also, what nation?
/r/seduction04/05/10 08:39 AM
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You could be READING the texts in an unassuming way. This is a major issue I've come across (I'm 31, single for about 3 years, in a relationship 7 full years before that). I became single, did so in an area of the nation where I'd be dating far less frequently if I stuck to women my age, etc. and found that texting- and the way that the younger-than-me women did it, was complex. It's totally impossible to read flirtation from normal discussion in text like, 90% of the time. If it's clear that on…
/r/seduction03/05/10 07:10 AM
1

If they recognize you well enough to have an opinion about you they'll remember how much or little you drink. Tip well and you'll be welcome there.
/r/seduction22/04/10 02:51 AM
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Failures are the clearest markers of the road to success. All success is improvement on previous failure.
/r/seduction18/04/10 08:20 PM
1

I'm clearly narcissistic/Machiavellian. It helps to be shy (nobody knows how contemptuous I am of many people I know).
/r/seduction30/03/10 07:47 PM
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That's some James Bond shit. Well done.
/r/seduction19/03/10 04:00 AM
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They usually like "Baby" or "Honey" just fine.
/r/seduction13/03/10 01:05 AM
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