thegg99 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	How to deal with the voice in your head that says that no one could be interested in you? Read Double Your Dating.	/r/seduction	18/10/15 04:30 PM
1	How to deal with the voice in your head that says that no one could be interested in you? It sounds like you just have bad game, which can be improved. It's a skill. I'd suggest reading "Double Your Dating" by David DeAngelo (pdf online, google it).	/r/seduction	18/10/15 01:17 AM
3	Why can't I convert numbers into dates? Hey, its X. How was the rest of your night? Strongly agree. She should never be having to make any decision other than yes or no, and ideally she shouldn't even realize she's doing that. "What's your schedule like" = "Please plan the date for me and do all the important work for me." Women should never feel they made any decisions or had any responsibility in anything that happened (as part of the seduction process). Rather it should appear, if she was questioned on why she went out with you, wh…	/r/seduction	17/10/15 10:27 PM
1	How to deal with the voice in your head that says that no one could be interested in you? cognitive behavioral therapy Focus on the behavioural part, ie "just do it." You'll get results and positive reference experiences (e.g. remembering a girl being very interested in you, being happy to be around you, being upset when you decide not to hang out with her, her wanting to have sex with you and enjoying it) and that will erase the previous "nobody wants me" beliefs.	/r/seduction	17/10/15 05:03 PM
3	Why is it that the moment a girl becomes invested in me, I suddenly lose interest? I'm not trying to be snarky, low self-esteem can genuinely cause exactly what you are describing.	/r/seduction	10/10/15 03:45 PM
23	Why is it that the moment a girl becomes invested in me, I suddenly lose interest? You have low self-esteem and can't be attracted to a woman who would be attracted to you - her value collapses in your eyes.	/r/seduction	09/10/15 09:13 PM
1	I'm so anxious/scared of getting sexual that I start to dread hanging out with a girl, even though deep down I WANT to get sexual Do you have any advice to lost it without paying tho haha? I know at the end of the day I really need to just push through but it's hard as fuck for me I honestly don't know much about it. If you're covered by your parents insurance, I'd consider trying therapy. The downside to that is that therapists have a blind spot when it comes to getting things taken care of, so don't tell them about the escort plan. The only real advise here is to learn some methods to calm yourself (with respect to breat…	/r/seduction	09/10/15 01:38 PM
2	I'm so anxious/scared of getting sexual that I start to dread hanging out with a girl, even though deep down I WANT to get sexual I will probably take this advice if I haven't lost it be January Don't "probably" do it then, commit NOW to actually doing it. Set whatever date you want (ideally 3 months), but COMMIT to it or it's pointless. On a side note where should I actually find legitimate escorts? I don't want to risk any sort of trouble I don't know honestly, just google your city and escorts. There's a big industry built around them, and make sure you pay well for this. Set yourself a limit of 2 times and stick to it.…	/r/seduction	09/10/15 04:02 AM
2	I'm so anxious/scared of getting sexual that I start to dread hanging out with a girl, even though deep down I WANT to get sexual Some practical advice: Give yourself 3 months to lose your virginity, and if you can't by then, go to an escort and get it over with. Do your research, spend some money, be careful with the escort, but get it over with. The point is to avoid the worst case scenario of always putting it off and letting this phobia get in your way. For people like you who get panicky when the chance at sex actually appears and run away from it, it's not a game problem (getting women to have sex with you) but a psy…	/r/seduction	09/10/15 02:05 AM
1	I'm not about to keep buying drinks for these girls over and over. How to gracefully not pay, but maintain attraction? Read "Double Your Dating" by David DeAngelo. The "cocky and funny" method is essentially flirting.	/r/seduction	02/10/15 12:09 PM
1	How do I flirt? Read "Double Your Dating" by David DeAngelo. Google it. Read the entire thing.	/r/seduction	02/10/15 02:02 AM
1	I'm not about to keep buying drinks for these girls over and over. How to gracefully not pay, but maintain attraction? This is the equivalent of asking "Guys, I'm tired of walking to work. Is there some way to use round shapes to get to work?" Read The Mystery Method. You're trying to figure out how to invent the wheel - it's been done and there is a whole world beyond it.	/r/seduction	02/10/15 01:56 AM
3	What make a woman unattractive? What turns you off? Do you set standards for the women you date/have sex with? Most men (including myself, probably) don't know what they want. You know why we say "don't listen to what women say, watch what they do"? Same applies to men.	/r/seduction	26/09/15 01:52 AM
2	Going out with a girl from tinder tonight. Trying to break out of my shy shell. Need some advice. Treat her like you'd treat your GF (when things were going great for you). Don't read anything here, it will just screw you up and make you paranoid/anxious.	/r/seduction	19/09/15 08:11 PM
1	What do you think about the idea of completely not focusing on girls but on yourself to be really the best version of yourself and then wait for the girls to chase YOU? That's like saying you're going to build the most skills you have but never apply for a job or never start your own business, or saying you're going to get the best grades you can get but never apply to any universities because you'll wait for everybody to come to you. Sure, it may work, but it makes more sense to both develop those skills AND apply to what you want (or start your own business, etc). You're just afraid of rejection and want a way out. "Guys, if I get a 6-pack and make $100k+ per…	/r/seduction	19/09/15 01:54 PM
1	What do you think about the idea of completely not focusing on girls but on yourself to be really the best version of yourself and then wait for the girls to chase YOU? Bad idea and sounds like its based on fear of rejection or fear of approaching. Guys will do anything, rationalize any belief, upvote any post, if it allows to not approach and face rejection. Build your life all you want, that's great, but you also need to approach if you want real results. And you have to learn how to approach, how to manage the first minute, first 10 minutes, first hour, first day of an interaction, and then you go from there with the rest of your usual life/social skills. Se…	/r/seduction	19/09/15 01:52 PM
1	Just from a psychological perspective, but why do people show interest and take the initiative to say we should do ____ then flake out by not responding to messages or not showing up to hang out? Read The Mystery Method, it's answered as is how to change your actions so this doesn't happen. BTW nobody here has come to close to the answer yet.	/r/seduction	05/09/15 11:08 PM
1	RSD Best videos? That's a plus, I mean if THAT guy is getting insane results...	/r/seduction	29/08/15 02:08 AM
-2	Seeing a girl with alot of jealous guys orbiting. How to handle? Does it matter?	/r/seduction	22/08/15 07:08 PM
2	Seeing a girl with alot of jealous guys orbiting. How to handle? Any other brain busters? This is the part that triggered him. You essentially said it was a dumb question to ask because the question was so obvious.	/r/seduction	22/08/15 06:56 PM