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1	I recently saw something that made me think of the RP view that feminism is sexual strategy for women So then you agree, hypergamy is alive and well. Got it lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/22 05:57 AM
1	I recently saw something that made me think of the RP view that feminism is sexual strategy for women That’s literally the agreed upon definition of hypergamy today. Yes, women who marry men more wealthy then themselves are hypergamous. Stay at home moms: hypergamous. Here’s another post talking about hypergamy today and how it is still sticking around despite women being independent: https://ifstudies.org/blog/whither-hypergamy	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/22 05:16 AM
1	Anyone notice that in a lot of male-oriented space, the general consensus is that they hold themselves accountable for their self improvement, while in female-oriented spaces, they focus on placating their members? I still think OP makes a good point. While FDS is obviously on the extreme side, women in general seem to take less accountability for perceived shortcomings and in the west, it seems the “treat yourself/perfect the way you are/everyone is a queen” mantra is promoted. At the same time, it makes sense to me as to why. Women are more emotional and giving direct feedback like “hey, you’re fat and need to lose weight” is much more likely to result in tears than telling a man the same thing. Women co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/22 04:31 PM
1	I recently saw something that made me think of the RP view that feminism is sexual strategy for women You are going off a very strict, old and limited version of hypergamy. Here is an article that elaborates on hypergamy in its modern day form and how despite a more egalitarian western society, it still prevails today. https://www.womenshealthmag.com/relationships/a36958388/hypergamy-definition/ Women not wanting to marry down is indeed hypergamous (and by default marrying either at the same level or preferring to marry up) in the same way that men marry down is hypogamy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/22 03:21 AM
1	Redpill content online is so cherry-picked that it’s often disingenuous and inaccurate. I mean maybe some men feel that women are missing out and that they’re gonna get payback later on, but I don’t share that sentiment…seems a bit incel like lol. Yes, a woman’s “party years” are often discussed in TRP, and I think this is true and can be attributed as one of the reasons why women are pushing back having a family and half of women at 30 are childless, along with career prioritization. Also, I think everyone has a preference in terms of how many past partners they’d prefer their spo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/22 11:17 PM
1	Redpill content online is so cherry-picked that it’s often disingenuous and inaccurate. Lol I mean: 1.) The RP doesn't say "women age xx have xx amount of partners," so regardless of any data, it wouldn't change any of the RP views I hold. 2.) Anecdotally, I don't know that many women who would claim they only have 1-5 partners. Granted, I live in a big city and I'm sure that plays into it. If you showed me data that said that I guess I wouldn't really have an opinion on it. It also wouldn't change my stance on RP. I think I would still say that women are more promiscuous today tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/22 07:05 PM
1	Redpill content online is so cherry-picked that it’s often disingenuous and inaccurate. Nope. I didn't view the world through a RP lense until my early 20s. It's not that it confirms a pre-existing view of the world I already had. More like I didn't understand why certain things would happen between men and women, (my experiences and others) and while reading RP content it was a bit of eureka moment where it all made sense. Once I familiarized myself with a lot of older RP info, seeing it play out in the real world happens constantly. I think what RP creators say about the promiscu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/22 06:17 PM
1	I recently saw something that made me think of the RP view that feminism is sexual strategy for women Hypergamy in it's simplest form is marrying up. Women still marry up today on average, meaning husbands on average are still the primary breadwinner. Abortion and BC did give women more opportunity to pursue their career, yet they are still preferring to marry a man with more money than them. https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2017/09/20/americans-see-men-as-the-financial-providers-even-as-womens-contributions-grow/ https://ifstudies.org/blog/better-educated-women-still-prefer-higher-earning-…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/22 05:32 PM
2	Redpill content online is so cherry-picked that it’s often disingenuous and inaccurate. Because I have found it to be the most accurate when it comes to seeing what is going on around me in today's current dating world. It's advice has also been the most beneficial.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/22 05:26 PM
0	Tinder and other dating apps are rotting the brains of women You do realize this hasn't necessarily been MY experience right? You can still look at societal trends without being a "normie" lol Also, I will say, for a guy as good looking as Austin Dunham, he does very well on dating apps, especially Bumble, where women are just looking primarily at the top 10-20% of guys. I honestly think more women would reject him in person just because he's shorter, not to knock him but I've seen videos of him before doing street interviews. To be fair, I'm not ugly and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/22 05:25 PM
0	Tinder and other dating apps are rotting the brains of women https://news.stanford.edu/2019/08/21/online-dating-popular-way-u-s-couples-meet/	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/22 06:39 AM
1	I recently saw something that made me think of the RP view that feminism is sexual strategy for women It's funny because I did back up all my shit with facts, and even agreed with you on certain points, yet you tried to discredit those and come back with random stats that still prove my point. You said: Feminism diminished hypergamy. Legit hypergamy is literally marrying up. Equality means women don’t need to marry up anymore. Most women today are in “class-match” relationships where they’re earning similar salaries to their SO. There are more breadwinner wives and stay at home dads than there e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/22 03:57 AM
1	I recently saw something that made me think of the RP view that feminism is sexual strategy for women Bro I’ve lived in the US my whole life. Dating apps ARE the #1 couples meet nowadays. Fucking Google it. And just because you have a million dollars doesn’t mean you are good with women. I can tell you have no idea what’s going on in the dating scene and you more than likely suck with women or are married and think you know everything. It’s comical dude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/22 01:09 AM
2	Tinder and other dating apps are rotting the brains of women I guess I'm not sure what the point you are trying to make is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 11:33 PM
2	Tinder and other dating apps are rotting the brains of women And yet, the vast majority women are in committed relationships, even among the 18-29 age group yawn False. https://www.bgsu.edu/ncfmr/resources/data/family-profiles/brown-manning-relationship-status-trends-age-gender-fp-21-25.html 18-24 The percentage who were single increased slightly, from 87% to 89% of men and 80% to 82% of women. 25-29 Between 2019 and 2021 the share of singles increased slightly, reaching 60% for men and 47% for women in 2021.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 11:31 PM
16	Tinder and other dating apps are rotting the brains of women It's funny because you're clearly speaking from a female lense on dating apps. Women get burnt out on dating apps from too many choices, dating shitty men, etc. OLD is an ego boost for a lot of women knowing that there's that many men validating them. Men get burnt out because most of them hardly get any matches. OLD is depressing for most men because they get so few connections. So saying "oh as women we just do xyz"...yeah, because you're literally spoiled for choice on them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 11:20 PM
7	Tinder and other dating apps are rotting the brains of women Online dating is now the #1 way couples meet. This isn't a dying fad. Women spend less time on them because they have WAY more options to choose from and they are the ones being pursued. It's not hard for a woman to set up a date on there. Anecdotally, I've had women tell me they made an account only to be immediately bombarded by matches. It's true, most women are spoiled for choice on these apps. And it's not even the time spent on the app that's the issue. For women, it's knowing that there a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 11:17 PM
1	I recently saw something that made me think of the RP view that feminism is sexual strategy for women No, I'm saying social media/OLD DID grant women more access. I'm not changing the topic, and feminism and abortion/BC are very intertwined, as history would show you. Plus, all I said was that feminism + BC + abortion = accelerated hypergamy. I didn't argue for/against anything, I just said what accelerated it as opposed to the other commenter who said feminism wiped hypergamy out. Please learn to read more carefully.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 10:35 PM
–	For men who have been cheated on: were there signs that you see in retrospect/ignored? I can't say I have proof that a girl has ever cheated on me physically, but I've definitely had a girlfriend "emotionally" cheat on me through texting/whatever. I honestly think women are much better at covering their tracks than men when it comes to cheating, as I've seen it play out in friend's relationships. However, I think there is one commonality I've seen that still puzzles me to this day and I think is a HUGE warning sign for men out there. And it's this: 'There's this guy at my work...h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 09:28 PM
1	I recently saw something that made me think of the RP view that feminism is sexual strategy for women Can you point to exactly where I said that...? Oh right, I didn't. Feminism accelerated hypergamy through birth control, abortion, and promotion of hook up culture.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 09:22 PM
1	I recently saw something that made me think of the RP view that feminism is sexual strategy for women I live in the US. Either you are completely removed from modern day dating or just truly oblivious. Yes, 40 years ago you could fly a plane to meet someone halfway across the country. But how would you even know that person existed. The fact you're trying to deny that anyone can jump on instagram and discover someone halfway across the Earth in 2 minutes is hilarious. It so much easier today. And yes, millionaires do still have to put in some sort of effort to meet women. You think your bank acc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 09:18 PM
0	I recently saw something that made me think of the RP view that feminism is sexual strategy for women OLD and social media is truly to blame for this, and it's quite obvious as to why. More options - whether real or perceived. It doesn't take a genius to understand that a somewhat attractive girl 40 years ago would mostly be limited in dating to the men in their city. A girl nowadays can reach a 100,000 new eyes just by having a well put together public instragram account. It's a simple numbers game. Anecdotally, I've talked to many attractive women who have had several men offering to fly them …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 07:25 PM
4	Does my privilege prevent me from understanding the issues brought up in this sub? Good point, but i think that many of the "opportunities" women seem to have aren't actually opportunities at all and are more like fantasies. 100%, but most women today don't understand that a lot of these men who they perceive to be "better" options are most of the time just trying to get laid. At the same time, most men are just trying to get laid, so I understand as to why they would go for the best option. However, I agree with Kevin Samuels in that most women think they can land a high valu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 07:16 PM
1	Redpill content online is so cherry-picked that it’s often disingenuous and inaccurate. Considering most RP pinciples were around before facebook was even big, that's just not true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 06:52 PM
-1	Redpill content online is so cherry-picked that it’s often disingenuous and inaccurate. False	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 06:51 PM
1	Redpill content online is so cherry-picked that it’s often disingenuous and inaccurate. • FreshandFit - They only invite the kinds of girls onto their podcast that affirm their beliefs. These women are caricatures of what the RP believes is wrong with “modern women” (usually they are strippers, OF models, highly successful “boss babes.”) Rarely do they have a room full of regular women (if ever). They've had panels full of "regular" women (look at the episode with Destiny and all his friends). I think what Myron says is true...the software may be different but the hardware is the s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 06:49 PM
5	Does my privilege prevent me from understanding the issues brought up in this sub? I do also agree that app based dating/social media is messing everything up and resulting in more men feeling this way. I'm a 6'2" 200 lb guy making 6 figures and I've still been disappointed with today's dating world. I think the biggest thing nowadays is you really understand how many options women have and how soon women will drop you if you do one thing wrong because they have 10+ guys messaging them a day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 06:41 PM
1	I recently saw something that made me think of the RP view that feminism is sexual strategy for women Divorce rates have been on steady decline since the 80s. Yeah...and so have the marriage rates. People are also choosing to get married later. More wealthy people are more likely to stay together than cohabiting poorer couples, who are more likely to have children and split up. To act as though marriage isn't going down with the ship is to be oblivious to the obvious rn. Feminism didn't dismantle hypergamy, it ACCELERATED it. Women nowadays have access to more men then ever before. With dating a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/22 05:04 AM
1	Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP? When you fail to address counterpoints, turn to sarcasm I see is your motto. When did I state TRP is flawless? Better yet, when did I say it was a philosophy? For someone so adamantly against TRP, it's ironic that you still thinking "dating is about fucking" and use terms like "lay count." Yet here I am, a RP guy trying to tell an anti-RP person that dating is more than sex and that your "lay count" isn't indicative of your true success with women. r/exredpill isn't about the actual RP. It's abo…	/r/ExRedPill	08/12/22 08:08 PM
1	Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP? Well that was a clusterfuck. If you genuinely approached 1000 women in real life and "barely got laid" then yes, you either didn't understand the advice or lack situational awareness and didn't change up your methods. Or you didn't improve in areas that would have in turn improved your chances with women. Bottom line is, you are the one who made a whole Reddit account dedicated towards being against TRP, yet when you receive feedback as to why you're wrong about RP and don't understand it, you c…	/r/ExRedPill	08/12/22 07:07 PM
1	Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP? TRP has brought me success. And yes, TRP doesn't promise success because it isn't some manual guaranteeing young men will get laid if you follow these 10 steps or something. This isn't very hard to understand. TRP is a set of ideas on how dating/relationships work. It is not an IKEA instruction set. No dating coach is willing to say that their advice is 100% guaranteed to get you sex/a gf/etc. Why? Because promising that would be insane. There's no guarantee that you apply the knowledge correctl…	/r/ExRedPill	08/12/22 06:18 PM
1	Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP? That's the thing, TRP has provided me with more success than any other dating advice there is. Clearly it didn't for you, and I now understand why. You shouldn't be "paranoid your girl is going to cheat because of hypergamy" if you understood it for what it is. You shouldn't fuck up your social life because you are RP. If you understood shit tests, you'd be more likely to have the social awareness to understand when a girl is actually testing you and when she is showing disinterest. Bottom line …	/r/ExRedPill	08/12/22 04:56 PM
1	Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP? Again, you keep applying TRP goals as if they are the 10 commandments, set in stone and shouted out with an iron fist. While yes, TRP does mention men's desire to want to have sex with multiple women throughout their entire life as well as women's hypergamous desire for the best man, nowhere does TRP say that the end goal is polygyny. The vast majority of men could not pull that off, practically OR economically. Monogamy 100% does fit the puzzle, if you want it to. If you want to try polygyny, i…	/r/ExRedPill	08/12/22 04:13 PM
1	Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP? For someone with the name RedPillDetox, the below statement is mind blowing: The goal of dating advice is, you guessed it, fucking. As someone who is RP, I can't believe I'm saying this, but no, the goal of dating is not fucking. It's whatever dating goal you may have, whether that's a one night stand, a relationship, marriage, etc. PUA was soley about fucking, as I continue to say. TRP goes wayyy beyond that. TRP is not a "rebranding" of PUA, just as "sexual strategy" doesn't apply solely to in…	/r/ExRedPill	07/12/22 11:59 PM
1	Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP? I guarantee I'm more "old school" than you are when it comes to TRP. I'm talking before TRP was even a thing and it's orgins. While (like I said) the pickup communities sole object was to have sex, TRP's is not. I can tell you not only have incorrectly attributed that goal, but that you also assign that goal yourself. Rollo Tomossi (who many frame as the godfather of TRP) is a GREAT example of showing that TRP's "goal" isn't getting laid but rather awareness considering he's been married for 25+…	/r/ExRedPill	07/12/22 10:43 PM
1	Ask yourself: Do you really have results with TRP? The goal of red pill is to become a playboy. Lol. No, no it's not. On the very least, if you haven't laid an abnormal amount of women simply because you joined and implemented the advise from red pill, it is not working for you. TRP isn't a "get-laid-quick" scheme. I understand why you are trying to paint it as such, in order to sway people to disregard it as false info. Yet the reality is it's more of an awareness of what's really going on between the two sexes, which is why it's called the red…	/r/ExRedPill	07/12/22 10:27 PM
-1	Aging? My point this entire time is that men care about appearance way more than women do. And the studies show this. I'm not sure why you continue to try and refute that point when their not even mine. Dating apps are indeed relevant and are some of the best ways to poll how people date in the West, given that apps are now the #1 way young people meet. You then try to explain the study in your own words as to why, instead of just accepting that the study shows that men and women peak at different time…	/r/ExRedPill	06/12/22 08:43 PM
1	Aging? Direct quote which summarizes the study: In short, heterosexual men will find 20-year-old women most attractive regardless of how old they are. Women, on the other hand, tend to find men of a similar age to them most attractive so as they get older, women will generally start to be into older men. There you go. So yes, the study does indeed say that men find early 20s women the most attractive. On the other hand, men peak later in life than women when it comes to attraction garnered from the opp…	/r/ExRedPill	06/12/22 07:32 PM
1	Did TRP cause you to push your friends away? If so, why? It was always meant for good. TRP started out as basically the following: "here's the reality of dating/women....here's how to move...cool, got it? Now work on yourself." Nowadays people thinking of TRP as a bunch of incels in a basement who have never talked to a girl in their life that worship Andrew Tate.	/r/ExRedPill	06/12/22 05:13 PM
0	Aging? I'm 28.	/r/ExRedPill	06/12/22 05:06 PM
0	Aging? Where am I arguing that women want old men? I literally said that I agree, women tend to go for men +3 years their age. Also, you're using anecdotal evidence to base all of your claims. Just because you don't know any women sleeping with men in their 30s doesn't mean there aren't plenty of women in their 20s doing so. Men care significantly more about looks than women do. The study I posted showed that: men from 20-50 literally universally said women age 20-24 are the most attractive. How does t…	/r/ExRedPill	06/12/22 05:05 PM
1	I'm so sick of hearing RP whiney men bitch about "waiting for sex" or the "male sexlessness epidemic", as if they are entitled to sex to begin with. Not sure how or where you got that from what I said	/r/ExRedPill	06/12/22 04:55 PM
-5	Aging? Yet they look great well into their 40s and even 50s. Most women actresses struggle to maintain the same level of perceived beauty at 40 as compared to when they were 20. It's funny because women try to lie to each other and themselves that they can look just as good at 35 than they did at 25. Yet they know it's not true and they also understand how much their beauty means to the world/men around them. That's why makeup exists and nowadays botox is more common then ever. Funny, but sad.	/r/ExRedPill	06/12/22 03:33 AM
-4	Aging? https://metro.co.uk/2019/02/22/men-regardless-age-will-always-attracted-women-early-20s-8718590/ you're right, women are most attracted to men +3 years above them. Yet men always find women in their early 20s the most attractive. Sorry, but it's true. It's also true that men peak OVERALL usually in their 30s and 40s, when they are more financially established. Women put SIGNIFICANTLY less emphasis on looks, thats why men can still be successful with women despite not being very good looking if t…	/r/ExRedPill	06/12/22 03:21 AM
1	Is it ridiculous that I'm jealous Women can use Onlyfans as extra income? You do realize how stupid you sound right? Oh, I made an OF page and I'm not automatically in the top 1%?? Pyramid scheme alert!!! It's like any other job, you have to have talent/online trend awareness/marketing/etc to be successful.	/r/ExRedPill	06/12/22 03:10 AM
-8	Aging? Ok I've read all your comments and I'm going to explain what TRP concept truly is: IN GENERAL, women tend to put LESS of an emphasis on looks compared to men when it comes to selecting someone they want to be with. Most people would agree that men are more visually stimulated than women. For this reason, TRP says that younger women "peak" when they are most attractive simply in terms of when they are the most desired by the most amount of men. This isn't saying that every woman hits her physical…	/r/ExRedPill	05/12/22 07:12 PM
0	Is it ridiculous that I'm jealous Women can use Onlyfans as extra income? I have. It's not a pyramid scheme.	/r/ExRedPill	05/12/22 06:58 PM
1	Logical contradictions in red pill ideology I'm not sure where you pulled ethics from. In terms of TRP, male self improvement would come in the form of exercise, career, finances, how to date women, etc. Obviously there is overlap between men and women here, but I can also think of plenty of reasons why men need special movements to improve themselves. When men are around only other men, they are going to behave/motivate/communicate differently then if there are women there, in the same way that women like to have girls nights out, etc. A…	/r/ExRedPill	02/12/22 12:15 AM
1	Logical contradictions in red pill ideology First, what mg is your Adderall perscription? lol Voting: Rollo never says women shouldn't have the right to vote, despite you trying your hardest to extrapolate that somehow out of this podcast. The amount of times you use " that implies" is astounding. You try to make it SEEM like he is saying one thing when in reality he isn't. For example, you say: 1:54:19 He also considers the american work place (paid work) male space, so that implies that he thinks women should not work. This is Kathy Gri…	/r/ExRedPill	01/12/22 09:58 PM
3	Ex-gf might have left me for someone else and lied about it. Help! Since no one seems to want to say it, yes...it sounds like she dumped you for someone else.	/r/ExRedPill	29/11/22 07:32 PM
1	Is internet lying ? So its somewhere between 35-50%. The future for marriage is bright! lol	/r/ExRedPill	28/11/22 10:17 PM
1	Is There a Reason for the Obsession Over Making Money Online? I mean all the arguments I hear from the opposition are the same as well: "it's a scam/grift/etc." The reason why there's an obsession over making money online is because EVERYONE is online nowadays. The internet has allowed people the opportunity to reach people halfway across the Earth in a way that they never could have before. Sneako is correct - content creation (regardless of what kind of content) is some of the best ways to make money nowadays, especially if you target a niche where you w…	/r/ExRedPill	28/11/22 10:13 PM
2	Tips for guy going to bar for first time? (21m) I find it strange that despite all the cries for equality, why are men designated as the end all be all of consent when it comes to alcohol? Too drunk to drive would be anywhere from .05 to .08 BAC, which would be anywhere from 2-5 drinks on average. If this were the case, an insane amount of young people would be having non-consensual sex every day. That being said, if she plans on getting hammered, reasonable advice would just be to stay away from her. OP doesn't need to become a babysitter fo…	/r/ExRedPill	28/11/22 09:55 PM
1	Redpillers constantly say that women are "attracted to guys that are willing to walk away." I like how everyone has their own interpretation of the redpill and that oh it must be wrong if it's RP...facepalm Women are indeed attracted to guys that are willing to walk away. All this statement is saying is that women are attracted to men with a backbone. The RP isn't "encouraging people to drop hints they may leave." Dropping hints like that would insinuate you aren't willing to actually walk away. The RP is instead saying to actually walk away when you feel like the relationship is don…	/r/ExRedPill	28/11/22 09:49 PM
1	Logical contradictions in red pill ideology Well for starters, TRP isn’t out there trying to take away women’s right to vote or ability to leave a man. Obviously TRP has spanned its reach over time, but I’d say basically red pill foundations revolve around male self improvement, the idea that women are largely hypergamous when it comes to mate selection, and looking at/adapting to unflattering truths in the dating world. I think Tomassi’s “The Rational Male” is often regarded as foundational RP knowledge. TRP basically tries to equip men …	/r/ExRedPill	25/11/22 09:34 PM
1	Logical contradictions in red pill ideology What you have posted isn't RP idealogy. Tbh I'm curious as to where you heard these things, because as someone who has watched TRP grow over the last 10+ years, I've never heard of half the points you said.	/r/ExRedPill	21/11/22 11:53 PM
0	Logical contradictions in red pill ideology The OP clearly has no idea what actual "Red Pill idealogy" is. I've never heard TRP say they want to take away women's right to vote and that women should not be able to leave a man. To me it just sounds like OP saw some Tik Toks claiming that the TRP is this and that, when in reality they don't know it well enough to claim they have evidence of it's flaws/contradictions.	/r/ExRedPill	21/11/22 11:52 PM
0	Is it actually critical to maintain “masculine frame”? That's a lot of questions lol but I'll give my opinion on some: How do you feel about stay at home dads and strong female CEOs? Stay at home dads: if it works, great. Strong female CEOs: awesome. What about women who prefer sad boys (there are lots of them) and men who prefer tom boys (there are lots of them). I'm not up to date on hip lingo, but if a woman prefers a genuinely depressed person, that may say more about their mental health than anything. However, if you're referring to an edgier m…	/r/ExRedPill	21/11/22 11:41 PM
2	Is it ridiculous that I'm jealous Women can use Onlyfans as extra income? You don't understand what a pyramid scheme is lol	/r/ExRedPill	21/11/22 07:41 PM
-2	Is it actually critical to maintain “masculine frame”? I genuinely think women are evolutionary hardwired to seek "protectors" and men are wired to seek "caregivers." Evolutionarily, it just makes sense that a woman would want a man capable of protecting her and her family and a man would want a good mother to care for his future children. And women are primarily the caretakers, especially for young infants. While I agree somewhat with what you said about the importance of emotional range, I also disagree that men should "drop masculine frame." In f…	/r/ExRedPill	21/11/22 07:25 PM
1	How exactly is money a huge deal for dating? I fully understand what you are saying now, however, using the term "match" kind of implies that they would match whatever level of financial stability you are at as well...thats why I assumed you meant that you would only date someone at the same salary level or above yourself.	/r/ExRedPill	21/11/22 05:14 PM
1	How exactly is money a huge deal for dating? You're still contradicting yourself. I don't know how much money you make (feel free to say if you feel comfortable), but you explicitly stated that you want a man that makes at least equal to what you make ("to match what I bring to the table"). Therefore you do care about how much money a man makes. The average male salary in the US is somewhere between 37k - 50k a year. A man could have a career, be financially stable, and be financially literate and make $45k a year. If that was/is under you…	/r/ExRedPill	17/11/22 10:05 PM
1	How do redpilled men feel when women from their past/or present find out about Redpill? The vast majority of women I have met are not even close to RP aware. Only now, with the emergence of Andrew Tate (who I wouldn't even call true RP) are they beginning to explore the space and understand what the RP even is. If a girl were to call me out on agreeing with a lot of RP stuff, I'd just be like "well that's what I believe and have seen play out over the past decade to be true." I would feel no shame or embarrassment because I have none. I feel like a lot of people have serious miscon…	/r/ExRedPill	17/11/22 09:37 PM
2	I'm so sick of hearing RP whiney men bitch about "waiting for sex" or the "male sexlessness epidemic", as if they are entitled to sex to begin with. I think you're a bit confused as to where the "waiting for sex" terminology comes from. RP guys standard as to when sex with a woman you are dating to occur isn't necessarily a date number, or a time, etc. Instead, it's when there's true "burning passionate desire between both parties." So this could mean first date, second, fifth, whatever. What the RP is saying by you should never "wait for sex" is when a woman would tell the man she is dating that "she is not having sex until ____." The argum…	/r/ExRedPill	17/11/22 09:27 PM
1	Positive self-help? The Book of Pook. Free online.	/r/ExRedPill	17/11/22 09:15 PM
0	How exactly is money a huge deal for dating? This is what is commonly referred to as womanese in TRP, no offense. but the amount of money that they make does not matter to me. but I do want him to match what I bring to the table already and just want an equal partner to match them. Translation: money does indeed matter to u/avotoastisgreat and for you to be a potential candidate for her, you need to be making at least if not more than what she makes.	/r/ExRedPill	17/11/22 09:14 PM