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| 1 | abundance of attractive female vs menI have seen half naked bare footed malnourished kids begging on roads and eating from garbage in India. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 04:07 PM |
| 0 | abundance of attractive female vs menBeing underfed and starved is not healthy or beautiful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 11:21 AM |
| -1 | If women approached men more, would there be less men identifying as incels?Ok. I am talking about men here. No teenage boys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 05:18 PM |
| 2 | If women approached men more, would there be less men identifying as incels?He gently rejected you. His reason is just to make you feel not bad. Men don't reject women they are attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 04:19 PM |
| 6 | Prettier, dumb women will always triumph over an average to less attractive intelligent women.5-6? Is that a self rating? A true 5 woman is a real pick. There is no way men will ignore a 5. I understand there are women who are never picked but a 5-6 rated woman is not that. I get if you are ignored in dating apps but you are pitted against extremely hot women. There is no way you are ignored by men in real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Women don't need marriage in 2022Good points. Just do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 05:48 AM |
| 5 | Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to?For many | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 02:03 PM |
| 21 | Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to?Men or for that matter women have every business to consider a prospectives N count. Do not pretend that it does not matter to suitors. It does. Many people do not want to be with a cum dumpster or a community dick. With men ... especially they usually lose their standing among other men if they were to date a promiscuous woman and it hurts more than being loveless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Upper middle class women are single at unprecedented rates - here's why.As a man and a human being with common sense, I will say this. Never lower your standards no matter how outageous it can be. It's better to be single and lonely than settle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 08:46 AM |
| 2 | Most women find very few men attractiveWill a 18 year old guy attracted to an ugly overweight girl? I mean that must be very desperate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 10:36 AM |
| 11 | Most women find very few men attractiveI mean do men find most women attractive? I may notice two or three women in a busy street and think wow. Most women are not attractive to me. I think this work both ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 07:39 AM |
| 0 | If a woman isn’t interested in you within the first few minutes, just never botherYou did comment on behalf of most women, didn't you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 03:30 AM |
| 1 | If a woman isn’t interested in you within the first few minutes, just never botherLol. Nope. An average woman is overweight and men have been moulded and shaped to desire women of specific types by the media. An average women is not sexually attractive to most men, especially millenials and the gen after. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 03:29 AM |
| 0 | If a woman isn’t interested in you within the first few minutes, just never botherThe reverse is true as well. Most men are not interested in most women. May be for a quickie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 03:27 AM |
| 5 | For those of you who had fatherless homes, how did it affect you negatively?Fatherly figure is a must for boys. Lack of it affects them throughout their life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 05:28 AM |
| -2 | PPD has become the gender wars arena, especially when it comes to the sexual history of women.Studies? Seriously. Studies on social subjects are infamous for inaccuracies and bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 06:33 PM |
| 11 | Are short (for) athletes able to have casual sex?6' 3" doesn't look different from 5' 9"? Lol. What are you on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Why is it most women view low self esteem in a guy a red flag, but most guys view low self esteem as not a deal breaker?Only men looking for easy sex. Noone is looking to marry women with low self esteem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do women complain that men put low effort but also claim they are too desperate?Putting too much effort on any other person is useless. No person with self respect should do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Studies show that majority of men prefer women age 18-25 but why does it feel like more people are dating other people who are more close to their age?Men are picked for financial stability and women for looks. That's the age old rule. And quite explains this trend. Doesn't mean a 18 year old will fall head over heels over a 50 year old man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 06:12 AM |
| 2 | A woman won't respect you if you don't have a big dick.Incel : The beginning | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 04:47 PM |
| 1 | How common is it for women to settle down with dorky/unattractive men while fantasizing for more masculine, attractive men?Too much work. Better hire a prostitute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 07:09 AM |
| 7 | Why is there a discrepancy in what men believe how women respond to men crying in relationships compared to what women believe how women respond?Always. Always listen to bros. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 01:56 PM |
| 1 | If you had $10M that could only be spent on improving your dating/sex life, how would you spend it?10 million to improve dating / sex life. Man, are u that repulsive to women. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 11:25 AM |
| -2 | Is the main reason ugly men fail because they only go for women too attractive for them?I see a lot of ugly men with beautiful women. The reverse is quite rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Do you care less if you're cheated on by a woman with another woman?Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 02:11 PM |
| 4 | Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference?So they do crave dicks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 08:54 AM |
| 2 | Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference?Then why are they bi. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 08:09 AM |
| 0 | Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference?Eventually they do crave for a dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference?Ok. Get out of the reddit bubble and think for a minute. Will most women actually date and marry bisexual or transmen? Pretty sure for the most, it is a huge turnoff thinking about their man being with other men. Reality outside social media is very different and it's much more conservative that SM addicts would like to believe. Sex, dating and marriage are discriminatory in nature and there is nothing homophobic about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Would you marry a chronically ill woman that may die at any time?No. I am not going set myself up for that kind of life. Life threatening diseases and mental health are one of my vetting points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 01:32 PM |
| 33 | According to surveys, among people over 50 women are less interested in dating and relationships than men but among people under 50 women are as interested in dating and relationships as men. What is the reason behind this difference?Men above 50 are looking for caretakers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Monkey Branching: The Best Mating Strategy For MenMay work in high school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 02:07 AM |
| 0 | Do Tall Woman Struggle as much as much as shorter manNo. Short height doesn't make a woman attractive. Men are known to love women with long legs. I am just 170 cms but I really find tall women beautiful and graceful. But with all good things in lives, too much height on anyone or lack of it doesn't look great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 06:04 AM |
| 5 | Does the average guy really not get casual sex?Men are luckier in the sense, that their persona overcomes physical traits. Men complaining lack of affection and sex usually have a very lacklustre, boring and many times repulsive personality. Rejections based on height or other happen mostly in online dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Pregnant woman intentionally hits motorcyclist, flees home to grab a gun and proceeds to be shot and killed by motorcyclist.If they had called the police and let the police do their job, this would not have happened. She should not have lost her life. This is not pussypassdenied. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 26/11/21 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Did this sub help you in actual dating life?Life outside is not so black and white as it is in reddit. It will look there is some gender war going on if you live by reddit which is hardly the case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman?Anyone who follows Internet dating strategies and cultish forums should be avoided to keep sanity. People with common sense don't need strategies from strangers on internet to draw their boundaries and vet people. "Oh, my ex used to hit me but thanks so and so subrredit, I left him". Really, you needed a subrredit for that? Do you need a subrredit for every other aspect of your life? That people follow these subs and forums and engage in heated debates to fight for the honor of mods says a lot o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 06:21 AM |
| 8 | How 'Golden Penis Syndrome' is ruining dating for university women: Deficit of male students means men develop inflated egos and become 'Casanovas' who 'cheat' - despite a 'lack of social and sexual skills'Same can be said of women as well. A well maintained and beautiful woman in her 40s will not find it difficult to attract men. Do you think men won't kill each other for a chance with Monica Belluci? Let's talk about average men in their 40s- balding or already bald, dad bod, and mid life crisis. You think he will be attracting women in their 20s. I just reached 40. And I definitely don't want to be with a woman that young. My niece's are in their late teens and their thought process and beliefs… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 11:32 AM |
| 14 | How 'Golden Penis Syndrome' is ruining dating for university women: Deficit of male students means men develop inflated egos and become 'Casanovas' who 'cheat' - despite a 'lack of social and sexual skills'I studied in a place where women were more than 60 percent of the students. Our campus was in a different place and our school shared premises with Botany and other subjects dominated by women. And I can tell you this Golden Penis Syndrome is nothing but a hit job to attract likes Only people who found it hard and difficult to find partners were socially inept and entitled people who hoped to be pursued for their nonexistent charm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 11:27 AM |
| 17 | They forgot how to spell "raped a 14 year old"Abdullah bring the rocks | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/10/21 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Denied!She looked suprised!!!! | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/10/21 11:48 AM |
| 296 | A kick to the nuts ends up in shattered jaw/glassHave to give to these bitches for thinking they can take down a 6' 6" guy | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/10/21 09:40 AM |
| 1 | What is something you're "supposed" to be physically attracted to but actually turns you off?Big ass on thin thighs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 02:43 PM |
| 1 | The separation between the blue pill and the red pill is the belief in loveThere is nothing such as unconditional or true love. Any 30+ adult who believes in it is an idiot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 06:05 AM |
| 88 | Netflix Fires Black, Pregnant & Trans Staff Member For Organizing Walk-Out Over Dave Chappelle CommentsIts not for organizing walkout but for leaking sensitive data to Bloomberg. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/10/21 02:29 AM |
| 18 | No fault divorce should be prohibited when children are involvedGod, every single reddit post makes me hate relationships and marriage. Then I see my friend circle and real people and see how many of them are in loving relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 06:08 AM |
| 2 | Would you rather be an attractive man or an attractive woman?Don't care about attractiveness. I just love being a man. Life is more fun for us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Is using a penis extension sleeve pathetic?She is giving you signals that you are inadequate for her. You can walk away with your dignity intact. The reaction would be totally different if you had wanted some sexual physical feature enhancement on her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 04:13 AM |
| 0 | Do you find women on dating apps are markedly different in SMV, or are the women you meet on OLD basically the same women you meet IRL?To be honest, why will anyone be dating online. One, lack of your demographic preference in your locality. Two, you are a fucking weirdo noone wants to hang out with. Three, you are trying to hook up without effort. Four, you want to try out the types you have fetish for- this includes extremely small petite women, tall men, big ass, small boobs and big dicks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 04:18 AM |
| 3 | Why do women want to get married?Number one reason to be a family. To raise kids. To be mom and dad to kids. Social acceptance. If a woman craves that and if you cannot provide that, it is best to break up instead of wasting her time and killing her dreams after spending a decade with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 07:15 AM |
| 2 | "Pornsickness" is exclusively a concern of undesirable womenTbh, the media and porn have huge role in shaping preferences. I know certain cultures prefered slightly chubby women and hairy men. Now even that have changed. Its high time we as a people need to take a step back and actually evaluate the effects these have on men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 06:10 AM |
| 1 | "Pornsickness" is exclusively a concern of undesirable womenTo be honest, most women are just a compromise for men. They are an option when they cannot get the hot women they actually desire. A lot of performance issues stems from this fact. Lot of blame is laid on women for preferring top notch men but men are not quite that different in their preference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/21 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Do you think a lot of women just aren’t physically attracted to most of their partners?This post assume men are attracted to most women. Well here is the news, they don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 03:48 AM |
| -1 | Girl slaps random guy when it's her mistake and tried to use 'I am a girl, you can't slap me' card when he slaps back.Don't they burn women in there? Fucking currycels crying feminism and Misandry. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/09/21 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers of PPD - What is your most "Blue Pill" belief? Bluepillers of PPD - What is your most "Red Pill" belief?Prioritising yourself over others... Saving your ass unless when it comes to your mother or child. What pill is that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 05:17 AM |
| 1 | This video is about two women who tried to beat a man for some comment he made on Instagram. Not because of sexual harassment as is being claimed in an earlier post in this sub. Additional info in comments.What's the story behind this? Why is the younger indian chick in pajamas? And what are they saying? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 31/08/21 05:35 PM |
| 15 | Grown Woman Crying, Because She Can't Post Explicit Content On Onlyfans Anymore!Job? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/08/21 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Talking past each other: a specific example of how dating advice given to men from women can actively hurt a man's development.It also implies the man doesn't have close male friends and interacts mostly with women. Such man is bound to be failure in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Talking past each other: a specific example of how dating advice given to men from women can actively hurt a man's development.Why will a man seek dating advise from women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Onlyfans shuttering their sex content and how it may impact the dating marketLets hope that some other app doesnt come to fill the void. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/21 02:17 PM |
| 3 | What is concerning about much younger woman/much older man age-gap relationships?No matter how much it butt hurts people, age gap relationships will always be there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 01:41 PM |
| 7 | What We Saw In Afghanistan Today is Proof That Men Don’t Even Protect Submissive WomenHow do you know women are not supporting Taliban? Look at the female islamic fundamentalist gatherings that spew hatred. They demand exactly what Taliban is Implementing. Heck, even many muslim women in India and Bangladesh are big fans. Look at Duktran e Millat and their ideology. Look at the videos of Pakistan Army getting attacked by female students of a infamous islamic seminary, all of them clad head to toe. I feel sorry for ethnic minorities and women who want to flee. But this empathy for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:16 AM |
| – | I have an amazing idea.You really don't understand female psychology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 07:53 AM |
| 5 | I find it kinda sad that so many women are not aware of their worth or their value and believe it entirely stems from their sexual appeal more than the type of person they are.At the core of everything, our values are determined by sexual attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 06:19 AM |
| 6 | Why is dating an overweight single mom better than porn/escorts?Full power to you, but some men just will never get any women. Let them have an avenue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 04:39 AM |
| 6 | Why is dating an overweight single mom better than porn/escorts?For men with no luck with women or want to remain relation free, I strongly recommend escorts. There is nothing wrong with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Using an escort to boost your SMV, a legit strategy?Master kill joy is here!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/21 02:53 PM |
| 7 | Does this figure appear plausible to you: “The research, conducted by Jay Teachman, found that women with 16 or more sexual partners prior to marriage had an 80% rate of subsequent divorce.”IMO, both men and women with high n count cannot be a reliable and suitable partner. There is absolutely nothing wrong in asking someone's n-count before deciding to go ahead with the relationship. A high n-count is indicative of lack of self-restraint and control; more so for women. And these are the qualities that you develop over your childhood. You cannot teach an old dog new tricks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/21 04:00 AM |
| 0 | What's the appeal of women to you?Tbh, outside sexual appeal, there is hardly anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 06:21 AM |
| 1 | What's the appeal of women to you?Other than sexual appeal, nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 06:20 AM |
| 1 | What does the opposite gender that you desire/interact with look like?Men in my circle get offended and feel emasculated if a woman insists on splitting the bill. Not a single one has ever fallen in love with girls with model looks. Instead they fell in love and pursued woman who are above average in looks. Reddit seems to be out of touch with reality... At least on the topic of men and their aspirations. Or may be what I am reading here is specific to American culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Age Gap Relationships Should Be DiscouragedYour disapproval means nothing to two consenting adults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 03:17 PM |
| 28 | CMV: The vast majority of men's dating struggles would be resolved by pursuing fat womenNo need to settle. Settling is disastrous life decision. An undesirable woman popping out your children will shackle you to the bottom of the pit of hell. Hire an escort instead. So work hard to earn enough to afford them regularly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 05:02 AM |
| 12 | Women Don't Have it Easier Than Men, Attractive Women DoAnyone who says ugly men have it worst are disillusioned. Other men don't shun ugly men for their ugliness. There are many confident ugly men leading good lives. Some people should come out and start socializing instead of being weirdos and see the truth. There are many examples of ugly men near us who are doing very well. Ugly women have it worst. They are judged severely and no other characteristics override their looks. And ugly women of color have it worst. They don't progress much in their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 03:25 AM |
| 3 | To solve many male issues (simping, sexlessness etc) we need to teach boys sex itself isn't that importantVisiting Escorts should be normalized. Not some dirty secret that dies with you. There is nothing inherently wrong with rejected men paying for sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Guys would do better for themselves to avoid dating women who identify as feminist or subscribed to the FDS mentality. Here is why.I am as far as traditional as I can go with being married to a very successful lawyer. Yet I dont understand why feminism is a red flag? I am not talking about attention seeking superficial clowns. There are many places in the world that absolutely could do with feminism. One thing I agree upon is avoiding people, both men and women, who follow dating strategies from internet forums. It only proves they don't have any filters on their own and need to be told. I am quite sure most of these people… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 01:03 AM |
| 0 | Men want to feel needed and provide.It can be bought | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 05:55 PM |
| 0 | Men want to feel needed and provide.Noone remains a virgin if they put their mind to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 04:27 PM |
| 5 | Lets be honest: men aren't primarily attracted to 'natural' women that don't take care of their appearance that much. Makeup and other enhancements workBlue pill men are such an embarrassment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 01:01 PM |
| 4 | US Nationwide Research (using a stratified sample of 334 women) finds only 16% of women 18 – 24 report finding bald men attractive, versus only 44% of women 35 – 44.So it's good news right? Most balding men are anyways in 35 plus group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Would you be supportive of your boyfriend getting a hair transplant or would you tell him to shave it off?Unless they find an actual cure or some technique to increase the hair count and strengthen the current hair, I find it pointless. A life long dependance of medicines is not worth it. Good news is hair cloning is expected to hit the market this decade and will completely change the game. Bad news is if you will have to sell a kidney to afford it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 02:43 PM |
| 10 | Would you be supportive of your boyfriend getting a hair transplant or would you tell him to shave it off?Bald genes are mostly inherited from maternal side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 02:39 PM |
| -1 | One of the reasons the manosphere shouldn't lambast childfree women is that it openly discusses how "kids will wreck their bodies."Okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Non redpill individuals what advice would you give to an average dude having trouble with womenSelf improvement. If you can't attract women, then you cant attact women. Instead spent time on something worthwhile to improve other aspects of your life. Look your best, wear your best. Pursue activities. Live life. Get off social media completely. It's a cesspool. Do not settle for someone you are not attracted to. It will kill you from inside. No pussy is worth that trouble. And if you really really want sex, hire a quality escort. Just that part of your life a secret. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 05:25 AM |
| -3 | One of the reasons the manosphere shouldn't lambast childfree women is that it openly discusses how "kids will wreck their bodies."Monogamy and marriage doesn't make sense if one choose to be CF The whole institution is build to raise children. It is a sham with no children. Why would any man choose to be tied down if not for his progeny? A man has absolutely no reason to be in a relationship with a CF woman. Problem is only when he fake commits to get sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Experiences dating as a betaSo much effort and money on women you don't really know. Why not just pay for an escort with porn body or whatever you fancy if you are desparate for sex? And there is no drama. Who is going to judge? For relationships, I feel you should only consider someone from your social circle. This is the only way to avoid women with issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 09:48 AM |
| 2 | Fear of solitude is what often keeps many couples togetherSolitude is not loneliness. Solitude is beautiful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 08:47 AM |
| 0 | Men should normalize wearing height extenders, as they are comparable to make-up for womenNo self loving and self respecting man should do this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 04:35 AM |
| 3 | How can women get a man to commit to her?Men commit when they are in love or they have absolutely nothing better to do. Most fall in second category. Commitment issues are when the man is not really into you and he thinks has better options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Men want relationships more than womenI don't believe in journals where conclusions based on questionnaires are passed off as scientific fact? There is a lot of bias in such reports. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 06:23 AM |
| 1 | High Value DatingIMO, High Value Woman and Men: Dont let anyone take them for a ride Are observant Dont take political and social extremes Talk to the point without ad hominems Keep fit and moderate in diet Invest in future Strongly guards their personal space and does not invade others Highly involved with their children and are strict when required Engages in hobbies Spent lot of time outdoors | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Alright so if we shouldn't take advice from the opposite gender on how to attract them, Men how do you attract desirable women? Women how do you attract desirable Men?Keep yourself well groomed. No homeless looks. Wear matching cloths. Join hobby groups. You should actually enjoy doing it. Be Ambitious. It can be acquiring new skills or degree or a certificate. Go out more. Improve social skills. If you are balding don't keep the fringe hair. Shave it off completely. Do not date women with mental issues, women with traumatic past and women in constant agony. They will completely bring you down and screw your mental well-being. Better to remain single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Do most regular men want a woman that is 50/50?Most men I know pay for dates. IMO, it makes sense to pay for dates if it's a woman you already know and is from your social circle. But it should be a 50/50 with women you hardly know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 04:12 AM |
| 0 | Role reversalIf man does not lead and head his family, he is bound to fail. All this talk equal partnership is good to hear but blows up on the face few years into marriage. If a man cannot be the leader of his family, it's better he does not marry. Otherwise he will face a lifetime of resentment and hurt till a divorce or meets death. Remaining bachelor is not bad option if you set your finances right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 03:05 PM |
| 1 | “He’s not emotionally available”. But is she?Emotional intimacy and availability means men give up their piece of mind so that women can unload their emotional turmoil. It can really fuck up the mind with kind of trauma many women carry. Stay away from any woman who talks like this. No sex is worth mental health. They should be unloading it on their girlfriends instead of seeking men. The only woman who gets to do this should be your wife. Not GFs. Not FWBs. Always choose a woman without mental issues for sake of your sanity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 04:42 AM |
| 3 | Women don’t have to fuck to show interest on the first dateThis scenario only works out if a man's friend circle knows her or the man himself seeks advice. I am not making assumption about any woman. I making assumption about woman in my example. And we are talking about women who keeps the man waiting while she didn't do the same in earlier relationships. Are we talking about the same type of woman? Also in my first comment, I said a mans social circle is a huge factor, not whole of it, in his decisions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 01:32 PM |
| 4 | Women don’t have to fuck to show interest on the first dateLet me give an example. I went on a first date with a girl. And I tell a good friend or a person I look up to about my date. If he tells me how this girl is not right because she has a history, how she slept around while keeping me waiting... You get the picture? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Women don’t have to fuck to show interest on the first dateOkay, fair enough However let men have their own yardstick to judge potential relationships. Just as women are completely in their right to walk away with whatever excuse, so do men. And there is one thing about Men that women don't understand. Our rapport with other men. The need to be respected by other men. Men have a social order where there are peers, juniors and seniors. And our place in that order. And this is an inherent factor that guides many men about relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 12:57 PM |
| 4 | Men are forced to date crazy to gain experienceHire a sex surrogate(think they are called this) to learn skills. That costs money. So earn as much as you can. This is more time effective and cost effective way to ace the game than dating. Of course, you need more than basic social skills. That's a prerequisite. Btw, this is just a fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 03:36 AM |
| 0 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.I think you have a comprehension disablility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 08:59 AM |
| 3 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.After nutting I am like meh when I see a 5 or 6. But man, nofap makes even a 4 look like 8 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 05:10 AM |
| 5 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.I don't consider it a benefit to approach women who I would not have otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 04:59 AM |
| 2 | Women have historically contributed less "direct benefit" to society because, until recently, we were banned from participating in such pursuits, not because we do not need to compete sexually like males do.Ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 04:56 AM |
| -1 | Women have historically contributed less "direct benefit" to society because, until recently, we were banned from participating in such pursuits, not because we do not need to compete sexually like males do.Yeah someone is going write this up in a journal and get cancelled. My source is anecdotal for I belong to one such soceity. So either you believe it or your don't. However if you want proof, travel to these places and write down your experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 04:53 AM |
| -1 | Women have historically contributed less "direct benefit" to society because, until recently, we were banned from participating in such pursuits, not because we do not need to compete sexually like males do.Even in matriarchal and matrifocal soceities, there were many more male inventors and thinkers. It was the men who laid their life to protect the way of life. Something to think about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 04:49 AM |
| 2 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.Why? I have gone without fapping for a year. And all the benefits are just pure imagination. And dangerous. The increasing risk taking behavior is a huge negative for me. Trying restrain myself to approach women who I would not have after nutting... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 04:42 AM |
| 13 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.So what? If men prefer dopamine rewards from porn, what's the big deal? Their life, their choice. Many realize this and yet they don't mind. As long as their means to sexual release don't harm anyone, I am okay with it. Are we moving towards a nanny state? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 04:36 AM |
| 2 | Men are more likely to agree in what women are attractive, while women are more likely to disagree in what men are attractiveWomen do love certain type of man. It's just that they are not very vocal or honest about it because of societal pressure. Are you honestly telling me there are many women who prefer a basement dwelling middle aged gamer over a fit and good looking man with job stability and positive outlook on live? All this rubbish is just blue pilled men coping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 02:14 PM |
| 35 | Why all the hate for TRP?I hold TRP views on many issues. Like building yourself and being masculine and all that stuff.. It is their overfocus and obsession with women I really hate. End game is to marry and settle down with a woman who matches your frequency, and not give shit about other women. If you can't, then live single. That should be the motto of every man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/21 05:50 PM |
| 1 | The only reason women are happier while single than men is because they get validation and sex much easierIf buying sex is decriminalized and not shamed, most men will be happy being single. That's the truth. Unhappiness in most single men is related to sex nothing more. What radfems are trying to do is to make men dependant by calling for ban on sex work and solicitation; so they hold the power on men. Mad powertrip. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 04:28 AM |
| 1 | The 80/20 rule has always been present in human evolution and has nothing to do with dating apps or modern social media.That means 80 percent men should be fucking sex toys or their hands. The fact that overwhelming majority of men marry or have sexual relationships debunk this rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Does making one wait for sex actually help anyone? If yes, then how long?Most of times, she is trying to get as many free lunches at expensive restaurants. So as a man, what you have to ensure is the woman is not on welfare, has financial stability and she is doing this to vet you..and she has used the vetting strategy on her past partners as well.... If you cannot ensure any of this avoid such women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 03:12 PM |
| 4 | Are there men here who are happy or content to be single?I was single till I was 27 when I met my GF and now my wife. I was absolutely happy being single before that. There was lot pressure from my mother to marry a girl she had found for me. But I wanted solitude. I was never into partying and didn't want to get married or settle down. To escape my mom, had planned my immigration to Canada. But then I found her. My wife is exact opposite to me in character. An extrovert. We are happily married. We have a son. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 01:29 PM |
| 4 | If you were a Male Gold Digger, what would your strategy be?It does happen in the East. The girl's father is the final boss battle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 01:25 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W]Whats the most obvious hints/signals men have missed from you?It's not that men don't pick signals. Most of the time we don't want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 11:07 AM |
| 5 | Dating subs on reddit are extremely gynocentric and create unhealthy and unrealistic viewpoints on datingAll good and rosy for feminists till a day one guy with power and charisma loses it... Men are like pack animals and they only need one strong leader to pack together and flush feminism down the toilet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 10:38 AM |
| – | Q4W : Woman, If you were a 5’5 average build male with an extremely average face, how would you go along finding a girlfriend/wife, especially if you were already struggling? What would your dating strategy be?Vikings were 172 cms tall on average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/21 06:53 AM |
| – | FDS contains 0 HVWAnd that's we do in Reddit, right? And that's why we have PPD because we all let it all be without any questions and move ahead... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 05:48 AM |
| 1 | You can't call a woman's change in her male preferences with age 'maturing' because the geeks she 'matures' to like get way less affection than the Chads she liked in young age. That is settlingTbh a woman in her early twenties is different from one in her mid thirties. Her tastes would be different and she has much more world experience. This reflects in choice of partners as well. And that's what we call maturing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 02:30 AM |
| 8 | I’m confused - why very attractive women stick around dating apps?Except rich men often complain not getting matches in OLD. So these women are looking for someone atleast in their league when it comes to looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Would you support your boyfriend/husband for the rest of your relationship?Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 05:00 AM |
| 7 | Q4W: Would you support your boyfriend/husband for the rest of your relationship?As a man, it is humiliating to depend on a woman financially. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 03:37 AM |
| 5 | Are there men who actually PREFER an average woman over a stunning one?Just went through your post history. Saw some of your posts in FDS. Seems like you were big time FDSer but then you got ditched by them. And now you have gone on a posting spree in past few days that totally contradicts FDS philosophy. You need a serious detox from Reddit and take a step back and take stock of things and what do you really want in life. As to your question, I think you don't much life experience if you have really haven't seen men who are loyal to their average looking and somet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Where can I find a sub like r/seduction but for women?It all depends on your aura and your interaction with people. Unless you are obese or downright unattractive, may be, yes you don't stand a chance. But I have seen most obese and unattractive women in relationships. So back to the first point, the vibes you give. One way to improve your vibes is to cut off toxicity from real life and social media, and improve your lifestyle. Be happy and confident. Happy and confident men and women attract good partners and relationships. But keep your filters u… | /r/seduction | 26/06/21 05:08 AM |
| -4 | Men should not waste time focusing on dating appsYeah..men are going to say No to easy pussy..shut up already | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Young men and sexlessness: Why's this going on?How many men actually approach women IRL outside the bars or similar social settings? May be very few. I have seen beautiful girls rarely been asked out. Truth is we men don't put any effort because the reward is not instant we can gratify ourselves much faster with no effort from porn. And then post nut, we look for hookups in OLD apps. I am an early millennial and see how drastically different are the late millennials. There are some really good looking men who should have no problem in findin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 02:54 AM |
| – | The underestimation of possibilityFuck that. I have my hands and good imagination. All my interest in women are pre-nut!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Women are sexually attracted to Masculine Men only. The Red Pill is true because it explains this dynamic.Can we have topics other than dating in PPD, please .... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 08:35 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Only men can change the messed up dating market by having higher standardsWhat's wrong with current dating market? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Discussion about sexually successful deadbeatsWhat's an LMV? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Men need to take a woman's income into consideration because when there's a big income gap, the woman will most likely see you as a markWith that figure and your age, marriage should be the last thing in your mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Men need to take a woman's income into consideration because when there's a big income gap, the woman will most likely see you as a markBetter than getting fucked in the ass by divorce settlements. I strongly believe in considering only women with the same financial status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 06:45 AM |
| 11 | Men need to take a woman's income into consideration because when there's a big income gap, the woman will most likely see you as a markMarriage should be between financial equals. It's self defeating to marry someone from much lower paygrade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Can someone please give me some good reasons why any financially successful man (or woman) should ever get married in today’s day and age?Only one reason to get married for both sexes is giving birth to and raising biological children. Nothing more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 04:42 PM |
| 5 | Would you want to find your soulmate?There are no soul mates. Any organisation or industry propagating it is building a scam. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Waiting for sex, and wanting a provider as an independent woman - thoughts?I think you are a troll. If you are every bit a woman as you projected here, you will not be asking for redditors view. Heck, you will not be even on reddit. A woman such you described will be engrossed in her hobbies and confident about herself. Such woman will not find difficulty in attracting men of her liking. Even if she fails to do so, she won't be bothered much and happily remain single without giving the whole situation a second thought. I have been seeing some similar tone in previous p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 03:28 PM |
| 1 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?Most people are not yogic gurus or stoics to control emotions such as love or hate. Young people cannot switch off and on their emotions. It is not a skill to most people nor do they develop it. Basically you are telling the young girl in my earlier example to stay aloof, do not indicate interest and just wait for the man to approach, and later live with regret. This has happened to so many men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 04:41 AM |
| 1 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?As if love is an emotion that can be switched on and off. I do agree with the contention that men should be the ones asking out once the woman indicates her interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 03:42 AM |
| 2 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?Fair enough. I cannot debate this. However, men with hardly any experience may not pick up the signals. But still, your thought on this looks quite fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 03:14 PM |
| 2 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?What are your thoughts if a woman has really fallen head over heels for a guy, and who later on lives with the regret for not approaching the guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 02:55 PM |
| 22 | No hymen, no diamond: The sexual counterrevolution is comingNarayan is Indian. And in India premarital sex is a deal breaker for both men and women. It literally destroys the family name. If premarital occurs and becomes known to others, the people involved will be married off, and sometimes in rural India, honor killings. Narayan cannot be a good sample from the west for a case study on such subjects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 01:42 PM |
| 0 | For a woman, it's way more profitable to be dumb and hot than nice and kind.If you are a woman, it's easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Most men aren't born ugly. They're ugly by choice. Getting called creepy has more to do with a lack of proper social etiquette, which can affect grooming, appearance, and people's first impressions.What I fantasize may not be something I want IRL. Simple. Transexual porn, for instance, is a huge market. But most men will not sleep with a transwoman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Are social skills genetic/inherited?In a way, yes. My wife is quite bold and expresses her opinion clearly and without fear. And this has made her a successful lawyer. My son has picked up this trait. If I married anyone else, I would doubt this would have happened. I am so glad I married her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Dating social skills are rarely factored in when talking about the "average man", and that's a problemOne problem with all these, why is no-one talking about women who are lonely and cannot find love? Do they not exist? There are women who are educated and smart, but socially awkward. There are women who are eligible but with below average looks. We are conveniently ignoring their existence. By implying women cannot be lonely is implying they should be willing to accept whatever comes their way.. which is quite disparaging thing to believe in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 12:20 PM |
| 3 | For a woman, it's way more profitable to be dumb and hot than nice and kind.Do you want to be lusted after, and dumped after few times of sex? Or you want to be loved, marry and be a family? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 11:51 AM |
| -1 | Do you think prior sexlessness is a common reason as to why some men might prefer younger women?No. Porn is the underlying reason. It sets impossible standards on men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 11:40 AM |
| 1 | People being born naturally RP? A discussion.Nope. Even as a child, I was more concerned about my Mom than my Dad. A child resonates with women and their struggle more. Yes, I grew up to a typical man but if a woman ever leaves me for my masculine ideas, I will have only myself to blame for. No, I am not changing. I am what I am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 12:30 PM |
| 4 | [CMV] Red Pill is an elaborate ritual to gain self esteem but ultimately a placeboPlacebos have given men raging erection. So as long as it works for male benefit, who the fuck cares. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 12:37 PM |
| 12 | There is no incentive for Kevin Samuels to be telling you the truthInstead of sweeping comments, generalizing us and them, can you speak to the point as to exactly what he says is annoying you? Him being blunt to women? I saw the hate he got when he showed mirror to a 25 year old high school dropout who expected a tall and handsome man earning a 6 figure salary. She being an average looking girl expected a tall handsome african american man. When Kevin Samuels showed her the mirror, he was lambasted and haunted by people like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Most of the women on here have perfectly realistic standards and demanding they lower them is bad adviceWhy is that there are hardly any evenly matched couple outside celebrity couples? IRL when I see most men and women, I tend to believe all this standards people set are not set on stone. Most of these members of gender brigades are exactly like the people they ridicule on reddit and end up falling for people they caricature on reddit. Having standards is okay. But are you going to reject your feelings for someone who don't meet some of your standards but you have fallen head over heels for that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Most of TRP "truths" are symptoms of America being a dysfunctional societyMy post was based on some quick thoughts I had on the issue. My contention is it is perfectly okay for women to choose men based on what they want in them - for instance, finacial security, height, looks, big penis, good sex... anything. I can be wrong and I ready to change my position on this if I get a solid argument against this. Yes, I agree with you that animal behavior is complex and I posted all this from limited understanding of their behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 10:07 AM |
| -5 | Most of TRP "truths" are symptoms of America being a dysfunctional societyI think this is quite overthinking on your part but the truth is far simpler. It is natural for females of any species to vet for an idle partner. Males fight amongst themselves to win the mating rights. And inspite of that females can simply reject them. In greater apes, the predominant male keeps a harem, and all the other males have to suck it up. I believe it is perfectly okay for a female to seek security using the age old standards of good looks, sexual performance and financial security. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 08:08 AM |
| 5 | Do you still love your wives now that they’re no longer young?Frankly speaking, I was always attracted to older women. I love stretch marks, and maturity in eyes. Even in my 20s I preferred women in 40s who are fit and healthy. Now my wife is nearer that age I love her more sexually. But many 35 plus old men are attracted to much younger women. So I am not the yardstick. Also you really can't control you fall in love with. All standards and vetting fails when you fall in love. So that is another aspect to everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 08:46 AM |
| 5 | If you're in the bottom 50% of men, dating is not a worthwhile endeavor.Calling BS on this. Islam clearly prescribes taking women and children as sex slaves. Read about Muhammad's pillaging of Banu Qurayaza. Where alll boys and men except prepubscent ones were murdered. Women and young girls were taken as slaves. The most beautiful ones went to leaders of expedition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 02:32 AM |
| 18 | If women shouldnt feel proud about talking money from simps and losers, then men shouldnt feel proud about fucking Pick Me Girls and female losers.I have read so many posts by gender brigades. Truth is men and women crave for affection. There are simps and there are pickmes. It has been always like this. It will always be like this. I don't think there is necessarily anything wrong with any of it. We are just born to fuck, chuck out few offsprings and die. Screw all labels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 03:31 PM |
| 74 | If women shouldnt feel proud about talking money from simps and losers, then men shouldnt feel proud about fucking Pick Me Girls and female losers.Oh god, these labels... Pick mes, simps.... Damn it, miss my pre reddit days when I had a life outside. Damn it, Covid. Most people, men and women just want to go on with their lives. Many are good. And there are horrible men and women. Just get over it and live your lives. These kind of gender rabble rousing doesn't do good for anyone's mental health. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 03:26 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Online dating (OLD) is the most 'Honest' and 'Truthful' way to find out how attractive you are as a man.Some ugly people are very photogenic and reverse is true. Photos can be very deceiving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 06:47 AM |
| 1 | What the fuck is wrong with aggressive white knights and fat female friends?Not ops fault. He listened to his dick like most Bros. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/21 09:39 AM |
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