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thegraveyardcowboy/r/seduction22/09/19 05:51 PM
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He has an inner game confidence that's very efficient. Looks are no guarantee. And many chics don't like his type of look besides. He's one of the better ones I've seen on YouTube honestly. Thanks OP.
/r/seduction24/12/19 11:37 PM
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Yeah I like what Dr Robert Glover ("No More Mr. Nice Guy") says about choosing the women that choose you. Meaning, why would you want a woman who wasnt that into you? He also encourages to "not try to win them." That gives them all the power.
/r/seduction12/12/19 02:37 AM
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Does being a cat make you better with women? My guess is yes.
/r/seduction06/12/19 06:39 PM
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Great post.
/r/seduction06/12/19 01:23 AM
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Awkward and sloppy.
/r/seduction30/11/19 05:25 AM
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Using your dad as an example, someone could make a YouTube video about this called, "Why Sociopaths Get Lots Of Girls"
/r/seduction30/11/19 05:24 AM
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I relate to lots of what you said and my total number is somewhere in the 50s or 60s. I think those pains from early adolescence probably speak to so many on this forum, and perhaps it is that shame, that early rejection, that enormous heartache that we are trying to solve because on some level we see our own potential as a sort of hero. I'm still trying to heal these same things myself at 43. The psychologist Carl Rogers talked about happiness as learning to bring your ideal self closer to your…
/r/seduction29/11/19 07:20 PM
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This is so funny that it doesnt matter. You should use this story on the next girl. Go ahead and blow it with this one but enjoy the f-up. Smoke twice as much before next approach hahaha.
/r/seduction27/11/19 10:51 AM
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Me too. What's even more messed up is I've had 9s and 10s and I still feel this way. Like, "well, I lucked out this time but..."
/r/seduction27/11/19 10:42 AM
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Easiest way was to hang out with weird girls and go to parties with weird people. 2nd easiest way was to act defiantly proud of my weirdness, as in "f--- you I'm weird."
/r/seduction27/11/19 10:31 AM
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I agree with zmarris3 on this. I dont necessarily think it's always a game like this. I know things have gone well for me when I spoke openly of feelings in general from the beginning - not feelings about them or "complaints" about life but more like a deep philosophical "this is my inner process" kind of way, more like therapy-ish but without showing too much agony. Then when I had feelings for them i could express them and it was consistent with my personality - a kind of invincibility against…
/r/seduction27/11/19 10:18 AM
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Totally. Its human. You may not always be in this space, but now you are, so embrace it. In a situation like this I say feel the feelings. Express them. If she's not on the same page, then feel the sadness and loss. Then get back out there. Confidence will come from that.
/r/seduction26/11/19 11:26 PM
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Yes! Glad someone said this. If you're involved, sexually and romantically, with a girl for 2 months and she just ghosts, forget her. That's immature at the least; at most, its indicative of serious mental issues. A girl with any integrity would even tell you after a couple of dates why she doesnt want to continue.
/r/seduction26/11/19 11:16 PM
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In my experience the lynchpin upon which this suffering/jealousy arises is in needing validation from others. I think the surest way to become innocuous to this is to be happy with your own life, whatever that takes. Getting the approval of one person (her) wouldn't make you happy anyway, if that's all you had.
/r/seduction07/10/19 10:49 PM
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This is the key to everything, in my opinion. Please share more about this topic.
/r/seduction05/10/19 07:59 PM
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And told her the rationale for it too.
/r/seduction05/10/19 01:47 AM
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She sounds like a virgin who isn't quite ready yet but will be soon enough.
/r/seduction04/10/19 11:01 PM
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This applies to all momentum "muscles" I think. Very good point. Reminds me of a phrase I heard, "Never stop moving. Rest in motion, like lying down in a boat."
/r/seduction04/10/19 10:56 PM
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I had that happen, but it was a girl I met on the beach one night. I concluded she was promiscuous, wanted to have sex that night, I was a decent enough pick, and she was running low on cash. At the time, though, I accused her of being a hooker who couldn't command full price, and I didnt give her the $10. She was probably 7/10.
/r/seduction04/10/19 10:53 PM
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King of the sandbox.
/r/seduction29/09/19 12:28 AM
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This is ingenious insight. I've had this experience before, and you're spot on. I bow.
/r/seduction29/09/19 12:26 AM
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I wrote the above because I've had this situation before.
/r/seduction28/09/19 04:18 AM
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I've had this situation before. Stay in contact. Don't bring up the subject of her love life. Go out drinking and f-close.
/r/seduction28/09/19 04:17 AM
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I think she is a female player. The hands washing routine is standard for all boy toys, a great idea for both your sakes. She may be back. But her pattern is that she switches boy toys and lovers in a way that keeps her from getting attached. This was your initiation trial, but it was one text too many from you after. She probably got burned bad once or twice in early years, so after sex with one, time to switch lovers again or hit the field. It's a rotation. Don't dwell on her but dont forget s…
/r/seduction28/09/19 04:12 AM
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I agree with this. Think of that drug dealer teenage dude in the movie in American Beauty. He was uncannily confident, mysterious, and spoke softly. I think you've got to find the confident character that most closely resembles your inner authentic self.
/r/seduction27/09/19 04:49 PM
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UPDATE: I ended it. Followed the advice above. Whew.
/r/seduction25/09/19 02:30 PM
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No.
/r/seduction24/09/19 06:56 PM
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What country is this?
/r/seduction24/09/19 01:14 AM
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I think status helps but is still an outer layer. The deepest core confidence is feeling complete inside independent of everything external.
/r/seduction23/09/19 08:48 PM
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Any body language, facial expression signs?
/r/seduction23/09/19 08:43 PM
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Script: (You run into her next time.) You: We meet again.... Her: (giggle, looks away quickly. Says something.) You: Let's meet somewhere else next time, say (suggest a place) If lines are said with ease and confidence, could be number close?
/r/seduction23/09/19 08:13 PM
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Youve got a good look at the basket. Go ahead and shoot! I'd say I've had about an 80% conversion rate on that kind of situation.
/r/seduction23/09/19 07:52 PM
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Maybe if I apply the principle they will grow back lol
/r/seduction23/09/19 07:19 PM
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Thanks. Good stuff.
/r/seduction23/09/19 04:46 PM
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What balls lol?
/r/seduction23/09/19 04:46 PM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction23/09/19 04:45 PM
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That's the concern. Which has deep roots in childhood trauma. On the other hand, I am having to learn some detachment, albeit with some "relapses" into giving my power away. It is a trial by fire but it could be the challenge that teaches me non-attachment, which, as many of you mention, is a key state to embody. The safety is simply pulling the plug, telling her when were sober, as another comment mentions, that I cannot do it anymore. The exit button so to speak. If it gets bad enough I think …
/r/seduction23/09/19 04:43 PM
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What do you think is the key to taking it lightly? As opposed to heavy and emotional?
/r/seduction22/09/19 08:54 PM
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I thought of that. This is why the expression exists.
/r/seduction22/09/19 08:04 PM
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Missing out on opportunities for convenient sex. I guess I could resolve that by getting out there and getting other women though..
/r/seduction22/09/19 07:51 PM
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Agreed. Game over. Good job. Ask her when she is in a good mood though. If for some reason she hesitates at first (which I dont think will happen), that doesnt mean she doesn't like you. She may just need a day to think about it and then come back, ready.
/r/seduction18/09/19 08:31 PM
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Just ideas: Maybe go for short, average or below average-looking women. Build up, warm up, you are you g and have plenty of time. Reassure yourself by knowing that. Maybe take a 6 month break, get the grades up, find some interests, go to gym or run. And if an opportunity paradoxically presents itself during this time, hey, take it.
/r/seduction18/09/19 08:19 PM
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Just ideas: Maybe go for short, average or below average-looking women. Build up, warm up, you are you g and have plenty of time. Reassure yourself by knowing that. Maybe take a 6 month break, get the grades up, find some interests, go to gym or run. And if an opportunity paradoxically presents itself during this time, hey, take it.
/r/seduction18/09/19 08:19 PM
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Just ideas: Maybe go for short, average or below average-looking women. Build up, warm up, you are you g and have plenty of time. Reassure yourself by knowing that. Maybe take a 6 month break, get the grades up, find some interests, go to gym or run. And if an opportunity paradoxically presents itself during this time, hey, take it.
/r/seduction18/09/19 08:19 PM
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