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| 1 | Do I have to accept that learning "game" will be painful, embarrassing and overall mental torture?Don’t look at it in a negative look at it in a positive | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us?I would say improve your communication skills and legit just talk to any woman you find attractive. Don’t always talk to them to shoot your shot but strike up conversations to get comfortable. The more comfortable you are talking to women you find attractive the less nervous you will be and easier it’ll be to go to the next level. | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us?At 15 my step dad told me he has 3 girlfriends at my age. Since then I became fearless when it came to women. Confidence is key | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 03:06 AM |
| 1 | I think i need to lose weight before datingYes or they want someone that is trying. Ask them to workout with you or help you with your diet and go from there. | /r/seduction | 17/07/26 02:11 PM |
| 1 | I think i need to lose weight before datingYou can still get a gym rat woman while being bigger if she sees your active | /r/seduction | 16/07/26 06:26 PM |
| 2 | I think i need to lose weight before datingYes and no. You should lose weight but definitely date while your doing it so that new found confidence can go with experience | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 03:48 PM |
| 2 | 18M How do I avoid becoming an incel?Join groups on campus, get friends. Also know that yes school is the main thing but social improvement and networking are also extremely important | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Guys who have gotten addicted to cold approaching women tell us your story?I love beautiful women so having the chance to be in the presence of them more clicked my brain several times in life | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Do you have to be good looking to use Tinder?Recently, I always get liked and talk to beautiful women but they are unserious and most women I match with on Hinge and Bumble I meet within a couple weeks | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Do you have to be good looking to use Tinder?Hinge and Bumble are so much better | /r/seduction | 26/06/26 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Date was going very well until I said one sentenceShe didn’t want sex just to kiss | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Do girls appreciate "non gym but sporty" physiques at all?Yes | /r/seduction | 27/12/25 06:38 AM |
| 1 | As a guy in his 30s, is it easier to get dates with women in their 40s or women in their 20s?32 and late 30s women love me for some reason | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone had a "ho phase" as a guy in their early 30s?On my second hoe phase now, slightly more expensive but so fun | /r/seduction | 19/11/25 03:45 PM |
| 1 | I don't think race that matters when it comes to seductionIt only matters when you have a preference. I prefer black women and had a hard time living in Boston suburbs because I just didn’t run across them enough and had to settle for women I didn’t really enjoy that much | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 04:55 PM |
| 1 | How to get into the right mood before date or being social without alcohol?Music something smooth and relaxing | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Any guys 5'4" or shorter doing amazing in dating ?My stepbrother but he has the confidence of a 7 footer | /r/seduction | 24/09/25 06:58 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal going on dates with women who want to settle down when I dont?Don’t do that you are going to waste a ton of money | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 07:50 PM |
| 4 | If you want fast results, the club is the only realistic optionJust drink soda or water | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Women on this sub - Why if you go on a first date with a guy and there is no spark. Its over and there's nothing the guy can do about itJust because someone thinks your handsome does not mean they want to fuck you or be around you all the time. Conventional attraction and wanting to fuck someone comes from different places! | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 02:49 PM |
| 0 | Is paying Tinder worth it?Would recommend purchasing Hinge or Feeld to tinder | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Toronto is hell if you're a normal black dude tryna dateConfidence and you need to get out there and shoot baby shoot | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Meeting girls at collegeEasiest time of your life | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Same-Day Hookups – How Did You Do It?My most memorable was when u was in college, met this young lady walking to our downtown section. We talked but I didn’t think anything of it. Saw her living the downtown area asked her if I could come back to her dorm and the rest was history. | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Why liberals get more casual sexWomen don’t want to be judged | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 06:36 PM |
| 1 | On first dates that seem to go well, about how often are women inviting you back to their place?Didn’t do this enough in my last year where I went on something like 20 first dates. It doesn’t hurt to offer! | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 04:53 AM |
| 1 | To all the playersYeah I’ve used the would you like to come to my place and I watch a movie. It’s worked a lot. Also have said some wild shit like damn can I taste you tonight and it’s worked a couple times. Just really depends on how well you’re vibing and how bold you can be. | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 04:52 AM |
| 1 | How does sex between actual friends usually happen or start?Women usually will pursue it if you are friends and have never fucked. I’ve had several women friends and friends past flings we were all cool with try and fuck on some late night or random night type shit. Alcohol not involved every time. I don’t knowingly go after my friends or fuck females I’m truly friends with. Just don’t think it leads to anything good unless you are trying to be with that woman. | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 04:41 AM |
| 3 | How does sex between actual friends usually happen or start?Ladies and gentlemen this is why if your girl has male friends then you are in an open relationship | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Has directly asking women you have known for a while to fuck actually work?Two things I’ve noticed 1. Either the guy is so attractive to a large portion of women they can do and say anything, this is the most rare but I had a homie that looked like insert biracial basketball player and one that looked like Asap rocky. They didn’t have to pursue beautiful women it just fell into their laps. 2. Me and my other homie basically became hunters in high school and acquired some much experience it becomes like clock work talking and seducing a woman. I’d say I was conventional… | /r/seduction | 19/08/25 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Has directly asking women you have known for a while to fuck actually work?But you got the number so you have a different perspective | /r/seduction | 19/08/25 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Has directly asking women you have known for a while to fuck actually work?Yes but most men are so afraid to say that. If we asked attractive women when was the last time a man actually asked to have sex and not beat around the bush I bet it’s rare | /r/seduction | 19/08/25 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Has directly asking women you have known for a while to fuck actually work?Tricky because one of my rules is no coworkers. I would say it in a PG-13 way like I would love to be intimate with you or something like that but say it in a phone call and not through text. | /r/seduction | 18/08/25 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Direct approach vs Indirect approach?Indirect will get more numbers but your hit rate will be 10 times lower trust me on that. | /r/seduction | 15/08/25 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Any social media channel to follow where they MOTIVE GUYS TO APPROACH? I am not talking about how to approachI like this guy https://youtube.com/@nicolettidaniel?si=ouxrJMA34FV_nGGF | /r/seduction | 15/08/25 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Has directly asking women you have known for a while to fuck actually work?Women are even more horny then men they just hide it better. It’s a reason vibrators are so damn popular. | /r/seduction | 15/08/25 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Has directly asking women you have known for a while to fuck actually work?They wouldn’t if they actually enjoy having sex with you | /r/seduction | 15/08/25 04:06 PM |
| 3 | 38, divorcing after 17 years—how do I re-enter dating in 2025?My dad isn’t even divorced and he’s 50. He has women of all ages throwing themselves at him, stop with the whole women would prefer to not date guy straight out of marriage. Women like anybody | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 05:46 AM |
| 3 | 38, divorcing after 17 years—how do I re-enter dating in 2025?I would only recommend Feeld and Hinge but the paid versions and only stay on them for no longer than a month. He needs practice talking to women anyway he can | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 05:43 AM |
| 2 | 38, divorcing after 17 years—how do I re-enter dating in 2025?Three things 1. You need reps I would go on as many dates as you can set up but keep the cost under 40 dollars be creative. 2. If you’re going to use a dating app, use Feeld or Hinge if you have the scratch I’d even pay for it. 3. Try to get in better shape, not saying you need to be a model or anything but you want to be the best you can be and women notice this shit. 4.. Back to number 1 you need reps so no matter what you looking for you need to actually be in the field trying to get as many … | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 05:42 AM |
| 19 | Never be apologetic, defensive, argumentative with women, double down insteadAgree with all of this, women are turned off by men that say one thing and back down from it. I’ve experienced it and heard Alan Roger Currie and Patrice O’Neal later Dante Nero talk about it. When you stand firm in what your saying you will cause the women to either be confused or intrigued both are good outcomes | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 05:37 AM |
| 4 | Has directly asking women you have known for a while to fuck actually work?If you haven’t had one night stands, weekend flings, fucked women without dates the you shouldn’t be allowed to comment on certain post because it’s a lot of dudes in here that have obviously never had a one night stand because if you plan on having one sex needs to be talked about in order for it to happen, dick doesn’t just end up in pussy. | /r/seduction | 09/08/25 06:43 PM |
| 6 | Has directly asking women you have known for a while to fuck actually work?This man gets it. How do you think men have one night stands, signed a guy that just had a one night stand a couple weeks ago. You need to be direct and let the woman know you want her physically and then put the ball in her court. | /r/seduction | 09/08/25 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Has directly asking women you have known for a while to fuck actually work?For me, actually yes. I have asked women for both head and to fuck and it’s worked but it’s not what you say it’s how you say it! | /r/seduction | 09/08/25 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Older waitress flirted with me at a salsa club, gave me her number, but our 'date' felt like I was just a ride for her — what happened?Once she said she needed to meet someone else cancel the date | /r/seduction | 08/08/25 02:44 PM |
| 0 | Lady Killers of Reddit. Whom have slept with a lot of women and had a lot of girlfriends. Do you still cold approach? Why or why not?This | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 02:25 AM |
| 6 | My wife wants me to PUA...Just be you, be the same way you did in your player days. | /r/seduction | 23/04/25 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Successful womanizer for years, now in healthy relationshipYou’ll enjoy it but the urge will be there until your 50s I’ve heard since the door has been opened | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 12:17 AM |
| 0 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Get you some confidence then and talk to women they like all kinds of men | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Help!!! Hooked up with a ClassmateI would just tell her you want to keep things just casual and if she insist on going further drop her | /r/seduction | 23/03/24 06:48 PM |
| 1 | FR [20Y/male] slept w 3 girls on holiday w the boys in 5 days & how I did itGo do something you love and you’ll make friends. I love basketball so I always go play and meet people. If you like chess go to a chess hall guaranteed to meet people of common interests | /r/seduction | 31/08/23 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys rack up bodies with girls you aren’t extremely interested in?Lmao the story of my life, I have close to 100 bodies and about half were ones I really wanted and half were just something to put my meat in | /r/seduction | 14/07/23 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys rack up bodies with girls you aren’t extremely interested in?Lmao the story of my life, I have close to 100 bodies and about half were ones I really wanted and half were just something to put my dick in | /r/seduction | 14/07/23 07:46 PM |
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