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Would you even want a woman that wouldn’t care if someone was a nazi or pedo or even just boring as long as they were hot? I don’t know a single woman in real life that WOULD be okay with that but let’s say hypothetically this is the case. Why would you even care, those women sound ridiculously shallow. Surely it’s good to have these people remove themselves from the dating pool by dating each other? Also think this doesn’t reflect the fact that you can be average-looking or even stereotypically…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:26 AM
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Trying to make me out to so sound holier than thou and pompous so you don’t sound as vile as you’ve made yourself out to be. Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:36 PM
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Don’t say “too” - I DONT look down on sex workers so you and I are not the same. It’s my experience that people say something followed by “.. but I have the balls to admit it” usually are one of a minority in their thinking. You’re implying that I feel the same but won’t admit it, which isn’t true. I just don’t feel how you feel towards people. If someone had a career as a prolific criminal I.e. gang member, robber etc THEN I would likely look down on them but apart from that, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:31 PM
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My, you sound lovely. And yet you were trying to catch me out thinking I looked down on sex workers?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:27 PM
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I used to work in retail. Absolutely hated it with a passion. Also often had to deal with “gross” stuff like people peeing in changing rooms believe it or not. Did I look down on myself for doing that job? No, nor did I look down on anyone else for doing it. Would I ever want to go back to that field of work? Nope! Would I do everything in my power to stay out of that field of work? Yep. Doesn’t mean I now look down on people who do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:20 PM
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I’ll leave it to you to read back over my comment to see I never wrote anywhere that I “look down on them”. I don’t look down on anyone for their profession, even if I wouldn’t do it myself. It’s like free speech - I fully support everyone right to free speech even if I don’t agree with what they’re saying/wouldn’t say it myself. Keep reaching though!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:15 PM
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Why isn’t that allowed? If a woman decides completely of her own free will to be a prostitute I’d support her rights to do so (doesn’t mean I’d be a huge fan of what she does necessarily or not find it gross but I’d defend her right to do it). That’s about being able to choose what you do as a job. If a guy I was dating told me he’d visited sex workers I’d still be grossed out - like this man actually went and handed over money to someone who may or may not be exploited, who knows, and he was ok…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:23 AM
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I’m very happy and in a long term relationship - I still like entertainment though 🤷🏻‍♀️ hence coming to this sub. Bit of a reach to say only happy people are in this! Also I’m not a purple piller…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:08 PM
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What’s wrong, the fact that she’s disputing you makes you mad therefore she “shouldn’t be here?”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:30 AM
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So because some women fancy that body type… ALL women fancy that body type? Sigh. Why don’t the men on this sub understand that just like men, women like different things. Some will be attracted, some won’t. It’s not hard to grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:14 PM
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A higher level is subjective and men value different things to women. You might look at a woman’s ex and feel you’re coming “second best” because you don’t look the same or earn the same etc, whereas women don’t (as much as bitter men on here like to think) don’t look at men and literally cross things off their checklist. They’re an ex for a reason. Doesn’t mean because you’re not as (subjectively) good looking or rich as them that they were right for that woman. They might be built like a Greek…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:02 PM
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This reads like an incel trying to justify hurting/spurning the woman who (in his imagination only) fucked him. I suppose you’ll also cry that you can’t find anyone to have sex with you and that women are only interested in “chads” whilst simultaneously thinking about how you can best “pump and dump” them. Do people honestly think this way? This is so transactional and frankly weird - as though men and women go through life trying to get the one-up on each other and treat each other like shit, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:43 PM
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You think taking away birth control won’t impact “too much” of womens rights? Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 05:03 PM
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Based off your, quite frankly, strange answers I don’t even see much of a point in responding because I genuinely don’t understand what you’re actually trying to get at? Pointing out the difference between something being subjective and objective is in your words a way of me coping with my flaws… hmm okay? Me asking someone what they’d prefer me to wear so that they can feel more comfortable is rude..? Not sure what “sandals” argument I gave.. Also not disagreeing with you that everyone has thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:49 PM
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There’s so much to unpick here haha. So suddenly the fact that there’s a difference between “subjective” and “objective” is just a ludicrous tactic women are using to just be rude? What are you even on about? You haven’t addressed the point at all! Secondly, you coined it anecdotal for me to speak about my experiences in dating and yet you’ve stated that women will feel possessive if they.. are seen out with someone that doesn’t look scruffy? Also not sure what you’re getting at there. Secondly …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:11 PM
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I am and so has the other commenter, you seem to think it’s this wildly rare find and it’s very much not! I’ve also been asked plenty of times about MY height by men before actually meeting them - notice you stay quiet about saying they’re rude as well? Also as previously mentioned it’s very much not the same thing - “flashiness” is subjective and height difference is not. My intentions for asking height come down to my experiences of it actually mattering to a lot of men and me trying to make t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:44 AM
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I’m not saying someone PHYSICALLY cant wear heels if it means they’re taller than their date - I’m saying I’ve literally been in the position where a guy has clearly not been happy that I have arrived and am taller than him in heels? Not sure how I could make that any clearer hon
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:31 AM
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The only reason I have actually asked is because I’ve been on dates where the guys been CLEARLY so uncomfortable that I’m taller with heels - and exactly the same as you most times guys ask me instead of me asking them! 😂 Most of the guys on this sub refuse to believe that lots of women just don’t give a damn about height difference and lots of men do, hence my downvotes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:30 AM
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Lmao it’s really not, why can’t you dress flashy if a girl isn’t a stick - doesn’t mean she isn’t good looking or somehow lacks an ability to dress well?! yOu ReALlY tHoUGhT yOu DId SoMeThInG tHeRe DiDnT yOu 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:28 AM
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Screams insecurities that you assume she’s being a shallow bitch when she’s maybe trying to figure out whether or not to wear heels if she ever goes on a date with you? When I’ve seen pictures of a guy on tinder where he seems like he might be my height or shorter I’ve tried to bring that into the Convo before in case they’re sensitive/insecure about me wearing heels on a date and being taller than them (which has happened. Height difference never bothered me but I’ve spoken to multiple men who …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:38 AM
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I think it’s “gross and dehumanising” that a guy on tinder will come across interested in a woman just because he “wants a warm hole.” Jesus Christ this sub… Why not just come out with it and say you hate women? And why would you assume women are out there knowingly and willingly being a “hole” for some twat instead of assuming that these men are shitty and manipulative?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:36 PM
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I love how both of your scenarios make it out to be essentially the woman’s fault haha. Either they’re shallow enough to only care about a man’s height/face that they initially overlook terrible hygiene and then have the gall to complain later or the woman are “no catch” themselves. Why didn’t your thought process include the idea that maybe these men put their “best selves” forward in the first few months/years of a relationship then become a slob?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 09:31 PM
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Thanks for the thoughtful reply, I think I definitely understand what you mean. Do you think if you’d had instances where you yourself had maybe been slightly coerced or manipulated into any sexual act you would feel more of an ability to empathise with a woman in the same situation who now no longer struggles to say no?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:19 PM
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Can I ask, what about if the woman is simply someone who used to be manipulated or persuaded into sexual acts she didn’t want to do but is now more comfortable saying no? Would you still feel insecurities around that? Also I’m all for compromises in relationships but I do think when it comes to sex it’s a bit more tricky. Compromise in this case is doing something you don’t really want to placate someone and I don’t think anyone should feel that pressure when it comes to sex. Fair enough, discov…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:04 AM
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So you’re saying you want to wait to have sex until the day you get married? If so that’s fair enough, seems a lot like you’re just saying “well whatever reasoning you used for your argument I’ll use for mine” even though they’re two completely different things.. By your own logic then, you’d be happy to wait for sec until you’re married - but you’re still arguing for OP’s post about stringing women along to get sex WITHOUT marriage? … I think you’re a tad confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 10:21 AM
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You’re equating sex to… marriage? If you can’t think of how you would work out if you were being scammed by a woman you can just say so. You’re not-so-subtly avoiding the answer. You also just said that a man potentially wrecking an innocent woman’s life by stringing her along and wasting years of her life is nothing compared to a man being hustled out of some resources (whatever the fuck that even means since you still can’t even define it), and then called the former “collateral damage.” You’r…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:42 PM
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I wasn’t hyping up the risks for women, simply naming some of them as you did for men. That’s my bad - I meant to say originally that im not clued up on other “pill” ideologies - TPP is the only one I’ve ever looked at on Reddit. And if people get their ideas about life and the opposite sex from this sub then god help them. It’s not that SOME people on this sub say horrible things about women, the overwhelming majority seem to. And the overwhelming majority of commenters seem to agree with these…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 07:35 PM
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That’s a lot of words to simply say “women who want a ring too fast.” That’s pretty subjective - how fast is too fast? Given that there are men openly trying to string women along with the promise of a marriage, why SHOULD they wait 10+ years for a ring? See the irony? Also your inability to properly define ways men can suss out the scammers suggests you don’t have a clue and would probably wreck a perfectly good relationship by accident because you’ve gotten the wrong end of the stick about wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:49 PM
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Okay - men can be creepy by staring/stalking/harassing women. They can be creepy by not taking no for an answer. They can be creepy by being sexual too fast when it comes to dating. They can be creepy by trying to find out personal info such as where you live (wanting the exact address) very early on in dating. These are all clear examples of men being creepy - can you now do the same for when a woman is a scammer? My point is nowhere in OP’s post from memory since it’s now been deleted, was the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:29 PM
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You’re right you didn’t say it - I’d assume OP was talking about the vast majority of women because why write such a vile post for an “issue” that isn’t even widespread? If you think that’s me being sensitive then okay lol. You still haven’t explained in what way men can suss this out - it’s pretty obvious if a guy is being creepy even to other men, not sure what the threshold is when it comes to women scamming men in relationships. No one said their instincts weren’t accurate - I would say it’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:09 PM
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And you think that women in the vast majority of relationships try to scam men out of their resources? That’s a pretty sad world view and to my knowledge unsupported by fact. Also how does one identify if they’re being scammed as a “beta” - is it if the woman requests something specific as a birthday present? Or wants to be a stay at home mum? Nothing in OP’s original message talked about this in particular - just mentioned stringing along women/girls in general. Also if you thought you were bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:57 PM
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I agree that in some countries divorce courts mainly “favour” women although ofc we would need to look at the reasons for this in the first place - e.g. a man who’s beaten his wife probably isn’t going to be looked at “favourably” by a court - although obviously when this isn’t the case it shouldn’t favour women for no reason, I completely agree. In terms of risks for women - the trauma of pregnancy and childbirth can result worst case in her death, if not that then countless medical issues that…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:53 PM
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Then I must have misunderstood your point. A man who gets scammed/hustled out of his money isn’t anything but a victim - I don’t get the BB label here. Avoiding a scam isn’t the same thing as stringing people along and lying. If you live your life doing that and treating people like shit to avoid getting treated like shit yourself, you’re gonna end up pretty fucking lonely IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:42 PM
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I’ve got to be honest I’m not clued up on the different “pills” - I’m mainly on this sub for a debate and because I find it interesting (and concerning) reading what gets discussed. I think the problem with the whole BB thing is it’s so generalised and I don’t think it actually reflects real life - it more reflects what we consume from the different forms of media. In terms of risk - there’s huge risk for both men and women in getting married, having children etc. I don’t believe that’s gendered…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 03:13 PM
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Not all women consider themselves to be modern day feminists for a start so that’s a skewed sample right there. Also, why WOULDNT women complain about a lack of good men when OP is literally telling men to not be good men by lying and stringing women along… you act like shit it only makes sense you’re gonna get called out for it. The irony on this sub is unreal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:08 AM
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So only “alphas” get to have happy stable relationships? I don’t think so, that’s just something guys say if they’re struggling in the relationship department to put the blame on someone else (I.e.) woman are gold diggers and shallow etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:06 AM
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You think women won’t realise what’s happening? You think they’re stupid enough to accept that as a deal? No, they’ll ultimately realise that you have no relationship goals with her and move on to someone that’s better than you in (by the sound of it) every single way and isn’t a piece of shit. Then, when a guy who actually likes her and wants to build a life with her comes along, she’ll end up in a happy relationship while you’re alone desperately trying to get laid again with someone. It’s alm…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 07:21 PM
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Or you’re just wrong and trying to imply that women should have to try and force themselves to do things they don’t want to for.. some unknown reason which you don’t seem to be able to explain. Agree to disagree eh!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:55 PM
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You’re unsympathetic to women not wanting to do things sexually they’re not comfortable with? Because men have to attract a women themselves instead of relying on someone arranging for them to get a woman? I just still feel like that’s such a weird reach if I’m understanding you correctly. I don’t see the correlation between the two at all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:49 PM
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Ah okay fair enough. So I think I’m slightly misunderstanding - is your point simply that because men have newer “expectations” on them that women are hypocrites for not doing the kind of stuff you see in porn? Because it seems like apples and oranges - I.e. men are expected to make more of an effort in terms of their personalities and appearances = women are not expected to do wild porno stuff in real life. I’m not really seeing the correlation
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:53 PM
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I would hardly say that being a decent human being is indicative of me being the morality police or a conservative Christian (of which I’m neither) lol. I’d say it’s the bare minimum for being a nice person? Besides you didn’t answer my original question - does changing expectations for both men and women (in different ways) mean either gender should have to do things they’re not comfortable with sexually?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:46 PM
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So because most men can no longer rely on matchmaking or even “buying” a wife and instead have to show that they’re decent human beings, women need to start doing things they’re uncomfortable with sexually or they’re hypocrites? The lack of awareness here is pretty staggering. Men AND women have ever changing expectations - men used to provide for women COMPLETELY when women didn’t have the right to work (or would be shamed for doing so) so now that that’s not the norm should they also do sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:51 PM
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Oh I misunderstood! Thanks for clarifying
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:01 AM
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Whereas OP is DEFINITELY generalising by saying “average” men will never be truly fallen in love with by women - despite all of “average” men walking around with loving wives
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 08:10 PM
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He’s saying that his ex was in love with him and sexually attracted to him... I’m confused as to where the bullshit is with that statement? He didn’t even mention men in general he was just talking about his own experience and you labelled it as a “massive generalisation”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 08:09 PM
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So the anecdote he wrote is totally correct and good evidence but his anecdote is bullshit? Do ya think you might be dismissing things that don’t fit to world view..?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 05:14 PM
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I get what you’re saying, there are definitely more risks to women but that doesn’t mean women find male sexuality disgusting it just means they want reproductive control ie not being raped. I don’t think he would agree with our last point, he seems to think women wouldn’t be traumatised at all if they got given money after being raped
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 05:53 PM
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What if you’re not living in a location where you don’t have access to the morning after pill? What if the pill doesn’t work? Paternity fraud is awful but it’s not the same thing as rape - you can’t compare them. Both are horrible in different ways. Ha, you’re clearly not a woman and don’t understand how that works! More lubrication doesn’t necessarily equal less pain. What makes you actually think it’s about money? In that case you wouldn’t care if your wife, girlfriend, sister or mother got ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 12:09 PM
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Pregnancy with a rapist is different to pregnancy with a consensual partner. Oh so because the rapist could catch an STD it’s okay? And what about all the other examples I gave you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 11:48 AM
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You honestly believe that a man forcing himself onto a woman only affects her because she isn’t getting paid for it? You think a woman would be totally fine with the emotional and physical trauma, potential pregnancy and STD’s if he slapped down some money after? You’re definitely trolling. Do you think a man would be affected by rape in the same way then? You’re conflating someone sexually assaulting a woman with male sexuality... I think you’re a tad confused
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 11:27 AM
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You’re shit posting right? You don’t actually believe that rape = women who have sex but don’t get paid for it? Or that women are disgusted and HATE male sexuality? There’s a lot of stupid, bitter guys in this sub but surely no one is that stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 11:11 AM
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When women are nice they’re usually doing it because they’re manipulative and narcissistic? They don’t value or appreciate kindness? Seriously? The lack of self (or otherwise) awareness on this sub often astounds me
/r/seduction23/09/20 06:33 PM
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I have a pretty big chest for my frame, always have done. My sister does not. The things she can wear and look elegant and graceful in, I would apparently look slutty in according to society’s standards. I grew up dealing with family get togethers where my mum in particular would try to pick what I wore (mainly crewnecks or turtlenecks) because she would be embarrassed otherwise that I looked inappropriate. It gave me a weird level of shame about my chest and body in general, and took me years t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 05:13 PM
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Fuck holes? I’m gonna go ahead and assume you’re single. Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 01:38 PM
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I think it’s lazy to say that “selfish assholes” get women and try to encourage other men to be the same way. Placing value upon yourself is a good thing by all means, but not to the extent you treat other people badly because you think you deserve to. If a guy has to be a selfish asshole to get a girl there’s not only something wrong with the girl that wants him but with him too. Is this honestly the kind of message we should be sending? Be a dick, manipulate a girl into thinking she’s not good…
/r/seduction22/04/20 11:02 AM
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You clearly haven’t been reading through the history of this sub then because I’ve seen multiple guys agree with me. That’s like me saying oh you must be a man, because a specific group of men on this sub keep posting stuff about having self respect which generally has little to do with the process of seduction and more about making bitter, angry men feel better by putting women down. With regards to your comment on masculinity, if you think men can’t display their feelings you must be very inse…
/r/seduction21/04/20 09:38 PM
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This sub seems dominated by posts that talk about how women aren’t all that and men should “treat ‘em mean” so to speak because that’s all they deserve unless they prove otherwise etc etc, it just seems kind of bitter. Yeah for sure, if someone treats you badly (man OR woman) you should look out for yourself and not play into their hands, that’s surely a given? Not putting anyone on a pedestal because of which genitals they have should probably be common sense as opposed to seduction techniques.…
/r/seduction21/04/20 09:07 PM
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Imagine reading a comment and twisting it to suit your own world view and try and make yourself look better. Also no need to take it personally, I’m assuming something struck a nerve there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 06:57 AM
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No probs. I think useful is pretty subjective, I’d like to think most people are nice not to get some use out of you but just to be nice. I guess it also depends whether a relationship or a casual fling is what you’re after. Also I feel like you can be both dominant AND nice, I don’t think the two are mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 02:49 PM
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Does that mean all the trash men that go on Jerry springer after cheating are attractive? No. If I find out a current partner has cheated in the past especially multiple times I’m gone
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 10:16 AM
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https://www.google.co.uk/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/science/brain-flapping/2016/may/12/science-hasnt-proved-that-women-go-for-bad-boys https://link.springer.com/article/10.1023/A:1025894203368 https://www.google.co.uk/amp/s/theconversation.com/amp/do-women-really-go-for-bad-boys-heres-the-science-that-settles-the-question-59409 https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nice_guy - see results of research which can be double checked against the scholarly articles https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/10546171/ htt…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 09:41 AM
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Ahh I see what you mean. Yeah I’d say I disagree with that idea. I’m sure there are women who are attracted to assholes but there are plenty that aren’t. I think the issue is these blanket statements which cover the entire female population, I think people have got to realise everyone’s different. I’m not some sort of biological miracle because I’m not attracted to dickishness, I’d say it’s a fairy common trait
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 09:23 AM
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Some of these sources are dubious to be honest. If I searched I could no doubt find the same number if studies saying the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 11:03 PM
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I respectfully disagree, I don’t think myself or my friends are largely different to anyone else which is my point I guess. I just don’t recognise the kind of women these posts allude to. I agree that a big part of modern day feminism seems to be geared at sexual liberation, and I know women who are happy to have one night stands etc, but the majority of posts I’ve seen seem to indicate men think ALL women will drop their knickers the second someone’s a bit of a dick to them and the whole “nice …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 08:48 PM
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4) wouldn’t apply to me because I don’t have casual sex or one night stands, although I take your point and can understand that may appeal to some. Apologies, I’m new to this sub and not sure what AF and BB are. What is the evidence that these decisions are made on a subconscious level? I know for myself personally I’d be very aware of the thought process I mentioned originally, maybe there is some attraction on a subconscious level but that would be overridden by my other conscious decisions. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 07:52 PM
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Genuine question - I keep reading, not only on this sub, but generally across Reddit that girls like assholes. I really don’t understand this - if a guy is an asshole to me, or anyone else in fact, my attraction/interest in him is going to drop to 0. Why is it that so many men seem to think this? Yeah sure there are guys that are dicks that get girlfriends, there are also a lot of lovely guys that get girlfriends. If a guy is kind and thoughtful, that makes me think long term about the fact I am…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 07:10 PM
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Great insightful post. The only thing I’d add is as a women, a man can be doing all the right things but if I get the impression he is looking to just get laid and that’s it (as someone that doesn’t want to have sex outside of a relationship or at least doesn’t want ONS) it’s not going to work. It doesn’t mean I don’t find him attractive, or funny, or a genuinely nice person it just means we are in two different head spaces. That’s one reason for things not progressing that I always wished some …
/r/seduction25/03/20 09:35 AM
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This sub isn’t exclusively for “average or bad looking dudes how to get laid” it’s about seduction in general, whether you’re in a relationship or not and whether you’re male or female, regardless of what you look like.
/r/seduction22/03/20 07:36 PM
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You can’t know that! That’s like a woman saying it’s pretty standard for most men to be rapists, it’s silly. Unless you know most of the women in the world on a personal level, which I’m assuming you don’t. I’m guessing there’s about as many manipulative women as there are manipulative men. Besides, my point is that this sub recently just seems more overwhelmingly negative towards women, when seduction doesn’t need to be about that. I don’t know, I’m just guessing here but the tone of a lot of p…
/r/seduction22/03/20 05:26 PM
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Well that’s my point I don’t gain much any more. I used to think it was a really good sub for advice but lately it’s felt like a “how to not let evil women manipulate you” sub. There have been some guys on here agreeing with it but also a lot of guys calling out the same bullshit I am. Like if you’re the kind of person who thinks it’s a good idea to ignore all women as standard and then only pick the “sweet looking ones” to give attention to there’s something wrong with you as a human being. Any…
/r/seduction22/03/20 05:14 PM
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I’m convinced this sub is becoming overrun with incels. Also, any post that begins with ‘most women’ or ‘most men’ should probably be treated with a fair degree of wariness.
/r/seduction22/03/20 04:38 PM
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You can tell she’s a ‘slag’ by the tones of her voice?? Yikes.
/r/seduction20/03/20 10:44 AM
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You seemed to agree with the comment about women having no reason other than security, if I misunderstood that then my bad. I disagree. None of that provides me security.
/r/seduction17/03/20 09:06 PM
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I highly doubt that most women agree that all they care about is security and that security is the sole reason they enter a relationship. We see each other often and share aspects of our lives together, just because you aren’t married and living together doesn’t mean you can’t do things together
/r/seduction17/03/20 08:35 PM
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I know right? Like girls just approach men with a clipboard of requirements and if they can’t provide “security” (whatever that entails) it’s a no from them! Becoming pretty disillusioned with this sub, seems more and more full of redditors who believe they hold the secret to what ALL women want ALL of the time
/r/seduction17/03/20 08:24 PM
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You don’t need to resort to being rude to get your point across. Or maybe you do? I’m dating a man right now, we live separately, I provide for myself unless we are treating each other for dinner etc. He doesn’t provide me with security. He provides me with the other things I listed. My job gives me security, as does my home. Also, even speaking in general terms that isn’t an accurate representation in my experience.
/r/seduction17/03/20 08:18 PM
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“She will choose a relationship when she needs security. Other than that she has no real incentive to have a relationship.” Really?? ^^^ it honestly blows my mind how people on this sub in particular come out with statements like this so confidently. Have you ever considered girls might want friendship, love, someone to laugh with, someone to share their life with, intimacy, sex...? You can’t honestly believe all women just want.. security?
/r/seduction17/03/20 07:48 PM
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Congrats! I’d love it if a guy approached me in real life, kudos to you for having the courage to put yourself out there :)
/r/seduction12/12/19 05:50 PM
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Again I’d respectfully disagree, I can’t say I’ve ever personally felt that but for many people I’m sure that’s the case. Thanks for clarifying though! :)
/r/seduction12/12/19 05:48 PM
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(26F) I only really disagree about women loving the player vibe - that is actually a major turn off for me, and that comfort is the opposite of sexual tension. If I’m comfortable being around someone I’m less likely to be too nervous to fully enjoy them etc. But on the whole I get your points and it’s a really well thought out post.
/r/seduction12/12/19 10:32 AM
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