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I applaud your honest and "what you see is what you get" approach you seem to be taking. This will serve you pretty well if you're looking for a no-bullshit type of deal. For this instance you probably should have neutralized the question. I would have probably tried to get a laugh from her saying something like I'd pine away for you every night staring at your fb page and liking all your IG posts.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 05:48 PM
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Cool friends are around when you want. Real friends are around when you need.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 05:40 PM
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Maybe the gold diggers. Most of my better looking female friends actually fit OP's assessment.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 05:21 PM
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Honestly, I've never noticed this before. Huh.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 05:19 PM
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Yeah same dude talking. He gets me going.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 04:08 AM
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Bro, it truly depends on what type of person you are. There's a lot of different stuff over at r/getmotivated. Personally, I dislike hearing a bunch of stuff about people being selfless and more of the "mushy" uplifting stuff. So as a veteran I pull up YouTube and watch military motivational videos. MBest11x for starters. I probably have watched this video 100 times: https://youtu.be/ntGRosZ6VzU
/r/askTRP02/07/18 03:16 AM
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Sidebar is huge, man. Help this scrub find the info on conversation starters and texting. Like a good reply to "haha" out of the blue would be to say "I know. I'm so funny."
/r/askTRP23/12/17 10:51 PM
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I would wager she didn't think not spending Christmas with you and her family would be a huge deal and wasnt expecting such a reaction. Was your reaction harsh? Yeah. Did it get the point across? Also yeah. Now she is in full recovery mode because she realized she probably was the inciting incident in what will probably be the breakdown of a relationship.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 10:15 PM
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This reeks of the friend zone. No.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 10:08 PM
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Upvoted for the "scratch my back and I throw you a bone" principle. As previously said, if she's not interested she'll find another shoulder to cry on.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 10:07 PM
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Approaching at all (in highschool) is usually a win
/r/askTRP07/12/17 06:47 PM
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Self improvement. Edit: just taking a hour or even a day to do nothing and relax is something the soul needs every once in a while.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 06:44 PM
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Think about the context and if she said she was I to dbags as a bad thing. Also, I've heard a woman say this and it translated as she just wants it rougher in the bedroom.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 12:00 AM
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Women are lazy. They just want to hear your suggestions until they like one. As for the interview stuff, I'm formerly guilty of this as well. It's good if you're normally a quiet guy like me but you wanna wait until after the first meet. It's bad if you wind up on the first date/meet with nothing to talk about.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 11:18 PM
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Agreed. Gotta deal with the consequences of your own actions.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 11:00 PM
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Sounds like you hit it off. Should be an easy second time. Could text her and say you've been a little busy but day dreaming about her on top of you and bla bla bla then ask what she's up to tonight.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 10:59 PM
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I would ask your doctor about it during your next visit. Google can only get you so many answers. If you're worried about chicks finding it weird and repulsive then I'll leave you with this bit: I have a pectus (concave) and have had nearly zero problems with attraction. It's extremely noticeable but not too bad of a depression in my chest that it presses on my lungs. I'm fit but not massive or hulk status or anything like that. Edit: mine and yours are about the same
/r/askTRP19/07/17 02:45 PM
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Take a knee and drink water.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 10:16 PM
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How to Win Friends and Influence People. Read it. Will change everything.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 10:13 PM
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For real. Everyone you hear saying anything negative about you batting above your average is either jealous, superficial as fuck, or both. If you're good looking enough to get them to go on the first date then it's up to your personality to keep them around. Only real argument against your looks that's viable is one that could come from your girl: you don't turn me on (anymore).
/r/askTRP14/07/17 10:11 PM
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Be alone with your thoughts, man. Meditate. Doesn't always mean sitting cross legged with your eyes closed, for me it was sitting in my car while listening to music and burning a few cigs. Eventually you'll have what alcoholics refer to as a "moment of clarity" where you'll see how the life you are leading is nowhere near as good as it could be. Then take the first step towards a new life.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 10:05 PM
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Not really TRP material, man. Try another sub.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 09:56 PM
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The three days rule is stupid. You like her? She like you? Call her right now.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 09:55 PM
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I wouldn't stand for this at all. Being at home is one thing but being angry because I'm busy at work and can't take your call is not acceptable. You need to have a serious conversation with her that her actions, attitude, and comments are not acceptable. These are beyond shit tests. If you let her get away from saying things like this then you can expect to hear it the entire relationship. Don't let her set the tone that belittling you is okay. Also of importance is that when you get comments l…
/r/askTRP14/07/17 09:53 PM
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You have to play this tactfully though. Start small. If she doesn't reciprocate or closes off when you touch her then she's not having it.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 09:47 PM
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Seriously. He's only gonna go further into that downward spiral. He needs someone qualified having a real talk with him.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 08:37 PM
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Lifting more is only a band aid. You need a cure. Change your wardrobe up. Talk to your female friends, get the name of a good stylist, and tell him/her your problem and see if they can't get you a look closer to what you want. As a last ditch option you could always get a badass tattoo. Learn to keep your face expressionless aside from your eyes.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 08:33 PM
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There's a huge percentage of women who morally don't think they should give it up on the first date no matter how much they want to. As stupid as this rule is, it usually signals a great ending to date #2. Date #2 should happen quickly after the first. If a great date on across several clubs/bars ends similarly then she might be one of those girls. If she's just looking for a good time out and a hook-up then you haven't demonstrated that you're better to whatever else she has available to her. I…
/r/askTRP14/07/17 08:22 PM
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Up your appeal while simultaneously telling her she is not worth your time but do it tactfully. Don't say it outright. No call no shows are as bad for dates as they are for employers.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 07:33 PM
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Ran into the same issues myself when I was home on leave in the military and such. Go for the older chicks aged 25-35. Used this to much success especially when it came down to having a place to smash. Women that age at bars can be anything from divorcees looking to live the single life they missed out on when they married young to straight crazy, controlling bitches that everyone else noped out of. Be wary. Watch out for single moms claiming to be on the pill and wrap it up. There's a 29 year o…
/r/askTRP28/06/17 12:14 AM
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You've stumbled upon the great red pill question.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 12:02 AM
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All rep pill stuff aside, you gotta just use common professional sense here. Start up some side action and it could go down hill where your job is on the line.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 11:59 PM
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She is testing you and trying to manipulate her into serving her emotional needs. Read sidebar asap and take control of this first thing. You're probably not the only guy on her radar. I believe she is trying to coerce you into a relationship without putting a title on it. I would make it seem like she isn't the only girl on your mind and let that fact slip to her. Force her to make a grab for you first. Again, read the material.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 05:09 PM
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Never too late. Read through and you will see guys in their 40's swallowing the pill for the first time.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 05:03 PM
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It's in how to get laid like a warlord.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 09:58 PM
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I'm sure there's more.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 09:48 PM
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Make sure your worth and unique value to the group is established. Start throwing jokes back. "I'm like this because I deal with your crap constantly." Or "I have to chime in occasionally so people don't think you're the only retarded one." Make it clever.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 09:45 PM
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As Tucker Max put it one time, "I just tried to find the edge and make enough friction to get off."
/r/askTRP22/06/17 09:40 PM
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Research. You can do both simultaneously. It's all about diet and types of exercises you're doing. Look into TRP t shirt test and decide what you should look like/size you should be.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 09:38 PM
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If it's stupid but it works....
/r/askTRP22/06/17 09:10 PM
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Read more on escalating. Tinder is usually pretty fast paced but there's smooth and then a tad brutal like I see you doing.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 09:00 PM
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Correct. There's a girl out there with a bj that's a better anti depressant than Xanax. Go find her.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 08:49 PM
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The best answer anyone can give you is to read all the material in this sub, apply it to your life, and find out for yourself what it's like to bag a 10.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 08:43 PM
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Women lie to manipulate men. Surprise.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 08:14 PM
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You seriously need to research this sub. Edit: it's totally possible to have a big number history and not have a fucked up past.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 07:37 PM
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She hooked up with guys on tinder. She then told me she was always "looking for a relationship" Shady. Not much more needs to be said. Case in fucking point.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 07:36 PM
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I'm not the one backwards, OP is. Look through his posts. His every comment defends his moral views of dumping a woman because she had a casual hookup with another guy(s) with no "looking for love" mentality. He doesn't belong in TRP. You're all coaching him like he's actually reading the material. I'm trying to wake the fucker up and make him think about what he really wants. If he wants to keep looking for true love in the right, self respecting woman I would recommend he check out two x chrom…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 07:34 PM
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I'm starting to lean this way as well. Dude just wants validation for his actions and insecurities. He doesn't provide many details about his gf past either other than "shady."
/r/askTRP22/06/17 07:19 PM
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Pump brakes. I'm not telling OP he has to commit. I'm telling him he can't get as hung up with sexual history as he is seeming to. Being that way makes it hard to deal later on in life. Chicks only tend to have higher number as they get older. He is being insecure. Also, prostitute is a big jump from "shady" sexual history. Your use of "200+ dicks" is also pretty unrealistic barring that profession. Other than that I'm in agreement. If he can't deal then he should break up.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 07:16 PM
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Props to mom
/r/askTRP22/06/17 07:05 PM
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This. Get over her past. Start thinking about your future.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 06:33 PM
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You've got a handful of people who can make gold posts and comments and a lot of sheep still learning who think they are enlightened.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 06:27 PM
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Him and there's a lot of rp wannabes in here with bad advice.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 06:22 PM
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Grow the fuck up. Be respectful of her past and supportive of the woman she is trying to be. The number of guys she has been with and what she has done with them is almost none of your business. The only REAL reasons you would need to know about who and how many she has been with is for health reasons and to know if she has drama with any of your mates. Both my number and my girl's number are very high (27m/28f both over 30 previous partners) but neither if us judge each other for past lifestyle…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 06:18 PM
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This post hit a little close to home for me so I thought I'd type a bit. I loved soccer more than life itself when I was growing up (still mostly true). I was working my way into early stardom in my local soccer community through grade school. I was diagnosed with severe juvenile rheumatoid arthritis (some possibly genetic thing, no cure known) in my off foot in 5th grade and then again in my dominant foot's ankle in 8th. It hurt just to stand. Kicking a soccer ball was out of the question. Doct…
/r/askTRP11/06/17 04:32 AM
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This has less to do with your friend being a blue pill and more to do with him being an idiot and not so great human being. If a dude I was barely friends with disrespected me through my gf he would get pulled aside and a stern warning. If one of my best buddies did that I'd go right past that to considering breaking his legs. Your good friends should know better. A guy who doesn't know me to well has that exact excuse yet will still be educated when he steps out of line. Your friend is going to…
/r/askTRP11/06/17 03:48 AM
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