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thehedonistvagabond/r/askTRP28/03/18 01:11 AM
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thehedonistvagabond/r/askTRP07/03/18 12:22 AM
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Dude fuck yeah. How old were you? Also, how did you afford the backpacking?
/r/seduction27/03/25 02:46 PM
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The girl I'm currently with has parents whom have a rather large amount of money, and she's been spoiled but very sheltered. From me she's mainly seeking the father figure to replace her very absent and... very shitty... actual father. You also have to check whether its a nouveau riche type of growing up, or rather the family grew up with money and they're more or less aristocratic. In London there were 2 types English girls, those coming from upperclass posh families with great british accents …
/r/askTRP05/02/21 04:47 PM
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Yo lemme reply in the morning as its 1 am here i gotta wake up early for work. As for keeping the girl you have to understand where she is in life, and what your weakpoints are. If she is spoiled and is from a big city, and her parents are middle class, and she grew up with amazing social life, then you have to rely more on being fun and easygoing and generally cool, and work on your fitness and your looks and ur job and vacations and stuff, but if shes like from some rural place and not raised …
/r/askTRP05/02/21 06:25 AM
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Yeah, been through a few years where I would go out three times a week to exclusively just game chicks, and I am so over it. I just wanna focus on work so I have an LTR of a year now, and its great. Well you have to look at it from historical perspective. Bulgaria was really bad communism over there, while Yugoslavia thrived culturally. Generally theres loads of stereotypes for the bulgarian chicks being IG hoes, full of plastic surgeris, super easy to sleep with, dumb as a rock, golddigers, I m…
/r/askTRP05/02/21 05:46 AM
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I come from the region but have lived in London and NYC since 6 years ago when I went to college. Serbian are way better than Bulgarian ones, but let me tell you a secret, go to Montenegro. Bulgarian girls hold the stereotype of being hookers, as back in the days the poverty was so bad out there that many had to resort to prostitution. While you're there check out this escort website that its like super popular over there, you can get a premium hooker for like 100eur. Adamieva.info Belgrade has …
/r/askTRP05/02/21 04:18 AM
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What if I say no to something and she does it anyway? It would mean a soft next but if it were more than a few soft nexts in a row recently it would mean a hard next? The boundary is actually pretty trivial, but still bothers me.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 04:13 AM
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Yeah i was doubting whether to post this on askMRP
/r/askTRP25/02/20 11:45 PM
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What about it being with an LTR and not plates
/r/askTRP25/02/20 11:39 PM
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Hmm, my normal self is very energetic and hyped up and happy so thats my flatline behaviour. I think the trp community needs to come up with different disciplinary measures for ltrs? Plates you can just ghost them or whatever, but with ltrs is different...
/r/askTRP25/02/20 07:22 PM
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Move on as in hard nexting them?
/r/askTRP25/02/20 07:21 PM
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Whats the solution tho?
/r/askTRP25/02/20 07:14 PM
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well what other disciplinary measures can be taken? How to vary the soft nexts so that they are effective even after a few times?
/r/askTRP25/02/20 07:14 PM
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See a professional immediately. Also, he TRT might help him, as in testosterone replacement therapy
/r/askTRP20/02/20 05:06 AM
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Theres no unicorn farm but theres unicorn spots where unicorns hang out no? Whats the stereotypical hang out place for these girls?
/r/askTRP29/01/20 07:21 AM
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Keep us updated
/r/askMRP11/05/18 03:29 PM
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Haha okay thank you for the info!
/r/askTRP28/03/18 01:22 AM
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“Gotta return some videotapes” method hahah Also how do you game an LTR?
/r/askTRP28/03/18 01:09 AM
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What if you live with them?
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:14 AM
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you can use the leverage to make her ur sex slave like the sultans and the girls in their harems
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:10 AM
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Hows ur sex with her?
/r/askTRP27/03/18 11:03 PM
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Well social customs kind of set the norms so that people know what to do or what stage they are in. Thats why we have different cultures and different relationship/dating rules. Thats why there are arranged marriages and no sex before marriage somewhere in india, while the US has the tinder culture.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 05:29 PM
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Hahah sounds right. I know you are living in Germany right? Have you dated any muslim/turkish/middle eastern chicks?
/r/askTRP26/03/18 05:27 PM
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GNO?
/r/askTRP23/03/18 09:13 AM
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I know how you feel I had a gf of 2 years who cheated on with my best friend of 15+ yrs. Check your iron levels, thyroid hormones, folate, b9, b12, all that. Do some health check ups. A lot of people are using LSD, Psychedelic Mushrooms and MDMA to get over some hard memories. Try that. Also, once you fully embrace what happened and constantly remind yourself that emotions are just chemicals in your mid that evolution has provided us with in order to have better surviving capabilities, then you …
/r/askTRP22/03/18 08:49 PM
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When she gets mad withdraw your attention. Dont talk to her for a week or until she apologizes. Read about soft nexting and the 12 levels of dread
/r/askTRP22/03/18 08:41 PM
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Hmm now that you told me it seems like common sense but unless you have told me about it i wouldnt have known. Thanks! So if someone has a stronger frame than myself, how do I protect my frame?
/r/askTRP22/03/18 06:12 PM
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Okay understood. Thanks!
/r/askTRP22/03/18 05:36 PM
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Very well said i will save this comment. What if the ppl ur seeing dont share your values or beliefs or moral code or boundaries? You just next them?
/r/askTRP22/03/18 05:23 PM
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Yes I understand what you are talking about so clearly! Thank you very much! It gets very sour if they lose the respect they have for you as suddenly theres nobody leading. It happened to me once with an ex. But what you are telling me about is so familiar! Tell me how do you set boundaries with someone like this? If their internal values are representing their immediate environment, that means her internal values are always based on external forces... Thats like she only would have boundaries b…
/r/askTRP22/03/18 04:07 PM
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What about internal values that they have? Their beliefs? Their boundaries? Their moral code? If I am the leader then I would need to set up all of this?
/r/askTRP22/03/18 04:00 PM
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She also tries to emulate my frame. If I dread, she would most likely too, if I become more relationshippy, she most likely too. Shes just kinda mirroring me. How do I respond to this?
/r/askTRP22/03/18 02:00 PM
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I’ll try to get a harem once I have my career stuff sorted. My work always flourishes when I am in a relationship. Also yeah I get what you mean exactly.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 01:41 PM
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I did actually reflect on myself and my preferences, and why I attract these women. It stems from my role models growing up, the women in my family. For some reason I am attracted to very submissive girls that emulate my personality and adopt my likes and interests. I have had 2 long relationships so far, and both were with girls like that. With both once I gained enough comfort, I stopped “playing the superman”, and they lost interest. I essentially made them from a gf to a mom kind of role. If…
/r/askTRP22/03/18 01:39 PM
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I think thats pretty common sense isnt it. My question is asking for something else
/r/askTRP22/03/18 01:16 PM
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Its very true what you are talking about... are there any posts you recommend for associating with high value bitches?
/r/askTRP17/03/18 04:32 PM
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It doesnt affect anything if shes a student, but these days all they do is want to go out. When I am in a relationship I am way more efficient in terms of doing work or exploring ideas that I wanna work on. It also feels way more comfortable generally.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 04:10 PM
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Despite us being young and students?
/r/askTRP17/03/18 03:57 PM
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Hahaha you made me laugh with the last bit. What if its her first relationship and she has no clue what to do and what not to do?
/r/askTRP17/03/18 12:47 PM
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Yes
/r/askTRP17/03/18 07:04 AM
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Cheated, its obv a hard next but i mean generally how do you argue
/r/askTRP07/03/18 12:26 AM
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Yeah I will, you also commented on my other post as well thank you for that! I just wanted to know whether i fucked up by arguing with her and showed emotions and insulted her. Any links posts about how to argue with LTRs when its their fault?
/r/askTRP07/03/18 12:24 AM
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Well its not right exactly. RP is about bringing that responsibility to the female once again. In my grandmas time if she committed such a thing, she would have to move countries and change her name. And this is europe i am talking about. Your definition of an alpha male is flawed. Read rollos definition. Fucking is an intimate thing. Its too commoditized these days. Read casanovas autobiography. Every single woman he banged was asking him to get married. He banged 120 women in total in the 18th…
/r/askTRP06/03/18 08:17 PM
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Okay thanks for the support and advice !! Much appreciated. All the best!
/r/askTRP06/03/18 08:11 PM
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Yep I realized. I already fucked an old plate yesterday. Read my update. Should I just break all contact or should I plate her if she agrees to basically just be my sex slave?
/r/askTRP06/03/18 07:10 PM
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This is why western women cheat so much. Because they know theres not gonna be any consequences. Think about it. Also game theory on a societal level
/r/askTRP06/03/18 07:04 PM
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Lots of red flags. I should have thought objectively about it. Small lies to me and to her parents. I was so dazed by her submissiveness its just crazy that I let all this pass
/r/askTRP06/03/18 07:03 PM
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See my other comments
/r/askTRP06/03/18 05:00 PM
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Yeap... its a lesson.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 03:29 PM
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Shall I revenge on her with some nukes? But outcome would be really hard for her...
/r/askTRP06/03/18 03:29 PM
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Individualism is the greatest cause of collectiveness
/r/askTRP06/03/18 03:28 PM
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Explain ur reasoning
/r/askTRP06/03/18 06:06 AM
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I dont think you get the bigger picture.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 05:46 AM
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Had one for 2 years when I was 15 till 17. One from 18 to 19. And now I am 22. Theyre not rly LTRs but rather Gfs
/r/askTRP06/03/18 05:45 AM
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Yeah its pretty bad i am not gonna do it. But look at how the middle east does it. It works there
/r/askTRP06/03/18 05:43 AM
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Well I was dreading hard. So hard she thought she wasnt my girlfriend. She should still feel immoral about seeing other people in the same time. Shes very weak willed.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 05:24 AM
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I agree, but she sounds so convincing.... or rather I want her to sound so convincing. Jeez i should get my shit together
/r/askTRP06/03/18 05:21 AM
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She needs to be punished.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 05:20 AM
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You are so right! Thanks seriously. Its so hard to look at things objectively. Ive developed oneitis and my subjective reality is biased as fuck
/r/askTRP06/03/18 05:20 AM
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They need to be taught the consequences, just like the middle east does. Society knows that if they cheat, theyre done
/r/askTRP06/03/18 05:18 AM
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Why? Society should punish immoral behaviour
/r/askTRP06/03/18 05:17 AM
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Pictures. If her family sees them shes done. And this would echo in the society greatly. Its punishing bad behaviour. Girls still cheat coz they are taught nothing will happen to them if they do
/r/askTRP06/03/18 05:17 AM
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Yep. But dont you think maybe plating would work? Ive either developed oneitis or I just want to fuck her hard especially because shes rly submissive
/r/askTRP06/03/18 05:15 AM
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Surprisingly, my gut throughout the months has been quite turbulent. Like I knew something was kinda wrong but I suppressed it. But 3 days ago when I confronted her, my gut was pretty dead. We fought, or rather she begged and rationalized, for like 2 days straight, and my gut felt quite right. Why did my gut feel quite right?
/r/askTRP06/03/18 05:13 AM
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Why? Why would society be neutral about immoral things?? Shes amoral in the first place. Its a societal punishment
/r/askTRP06/03/18 05:11 AM
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If Karma existed there would be no cheaters. If we dont do anything about them then who would? They would just continue doing the same low life shit. Theres a theory that islam started because the women in that society were just fucking the top 20% of the guys. I mean, islam works in the middle east. Theres basically no cheating coz obviously they get punished hard. And everyone is a virgin before marriage. And also guys can marry more women in the same time. Its been like that for 1500 years an…
/r/askTRP06/03/18 05:08 AM
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I hoped. I actually hoped. She sold me the dream. I am such an idiot for developing oneitis
/r/askTRP06/03/18 05:04 AM
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Yeah ive read that one...
/r/askTRP06/03/18 05:02 AM
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I would like to try it, but I am not sure if I could handle it. I’ve actually developed an oneitis for her despite being careful not to do that....
/r/askTRP06/03/18 05:02 AM
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She moved countries for uni, so when she came here she started seeing me and started going out. And yeah trust me, my evidence would do a lot of harm, but I just am too weak to send it.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 04:59 AM
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Well I dont think cheaters should just be forgotten about. There has to be some kind of karma that comes back at them. I am just so tired of them I swear. This is my third LTR that cheated. Maybe its because I am still at university so its like more promiscuous here or maybe its just that i am fucking beta as fuck.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 04:55 AM
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I find her pretty special because she let me take her virginity. Her virginity is really special to her since they only do that after marriage where she comes from. Shes not that special unicorn, but shes really submissive.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 07:04 PM
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The other chick is fairly promiscuous. Shes just for sex, not a keeper. By using the evidence I would greatly help society and men in general. A story like that would be noted down heavily in every girls brain. I am also this revengeful because Ive had terrible experiences in the past because of cheating. LTR of 2 years cheated with my best friend of 15 years.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 07:00 PM
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Watch some Mad Men and man up. Also, stop all contact with that bitch. Start seeing other girls.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 06:30 PM
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Dont ltr her obviously. Demote her to be your plate
/r/askTRP05/02/18 03:03 AM

Consider yourself like in high school. Take many extracurriculars, as in go jogging, marathon running, book clubs, kick boxing clubs, baking and cooking classes, whatever really. Go alone in bars and clubs and even just saying "Hi" to girls is gonna get you up on track. You're doing very well in your career, so you have no shortcomings. Be a well-rounded person and topics are going to naturally come. Read all kinds of stuff that you have never thought you would ever want to read. Remember, love …
/r/seduction05/12/17 06:50 PM
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