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Question For Womentheherosmyth/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 09:08 AM
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I hope this is a wake up call to all the women being sold this stupid lie. Yeah, it CAN work, but think of the ramifications if it doesn't. Not being able to have kids because you wanted to outsmart mother nature so you could "have it all".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/20 04:31 PM
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I feel the same way. As stupid as the plan may sound to me for various reasons (look for a husband past your prime, sell him on fertilizing frozen eggs, wanting to become pregnant in a higher risk age, hoping everything works out as you had hoped at the stake of possibly not being able to have kids, as a last resort deciding to become an old single mom), I take no pleasure in this. I'd much prefer if feminism wasn't selling women these stupid lies. You can't have it all, and this lady happened t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/20 04:26 PM
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Yeah this really does seem like OP just read a minimal amount and made up her own mind about how to fill in the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 11:14 AM
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This has to be a troll make an example out of some of the retarded things that get discussed here. I refuse to believe otherwise.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 04:30 PM
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But.. but shouldn't I be 400 pounds of muscle with 3% body fat, billions of dollars in the bank, never smile at anything and through my abundance mentality hold a break up over my girl's head every time she disobeys my orders?
/r/askTRP23/04/20 11:53 AM
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But they also don't want every man to expect them to act like that, which is more so the issue here. Yeah and they better not expect me to be content with her slutting the fuck out on another man's cock and only giving me plain vanilla sex. "That's in my past." Yeah, and you are in mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 11:28 AM
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This. I can't exactly blame girls for having no clue about size when lots of dudes add 1-2 inches to their size.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/20 02:52 PM
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8 inch boner not huge? Wtf
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/20 02:47 PM
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I like watching a show when I eat. I have at times sat there for 30 minutes struggling to find something to watch on Netflix as my food turns cold. So I say "fuck it" and watch something I already watched. Options =/= worthwhile prospects. Also who gives a shit what she thinks anyway.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 02:40 PM
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Not gonna lie you are a great bot
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 11:09 AM
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Makes me think of Theredpill vs Femaledatingstrategy In both communities they advocate an "I am the prize" mentality. In TRP, though, you come in as a worthless piece of shit blue pill beta. You have to work on your body and your health, work on your finances and living situation, work on your social skills and game, work on your frame, your emotions, your spiritual side, your style, your looks, and only then may you dare think highly of yourself. In FDS, you are a queen as long as you're not a …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 11:03 AM
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Who defines "what you're supposed to do"? You named some examples of people making reasonable requests. Not all nagging is reasonable or necessary, or just not at the pace you want to operate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 06:54 PM
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Agreed. This has been my understanding too. If you say "wanna come over to my place and fuck!?", even if that's what she wants, there is no plausible deniability there. Being outed as a slut is something women try to avoid at all costs, presumably due to some ancient mental firmware we still operate from even though times have changed. Back in caveman days, a woman that was easy to fuck and who slept with many men was a bad pick to reproduce with, because a man could not be sure the child was hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 11:45 AM
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I have heard the sentiment a few times that if a man doesn't want to date a single mom he's just immature and not a real man. But come to think of it you may have a point that I do mostly hear about it in the manosphere. Just because it's a man sharing his experience on being shamed for it doesn't make it any less valid, but I am struggling to think where else I heard it at this moment so I'll concede that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:51 PM
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In today's context, I find it pretty hilarious that men are shamed to raise other people's kids. I don't care what anybody says, it's not your responsibility, no matter how much people tell you to "step up and be a man." What does that imply anyway? That if I'm not into raising another man's kids, I'm not a man? I get that there are cases where the father dies etc but that's arguing on the exception. It's not my responsibility to cover for a woman's shitty partner selection and dead beat dads. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 01:53 PM
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Pointless thread. You're trying to use ill formulated reasoning ("it's the lie that makes me not want to pursue") as a jump off point to show hypocrisy ("well what if they lied about being less attractive!") People want to date someone they're attracted to. If you advertise yourself noticeably more attractive than you are and I'm not attracted to the actual you I'm not interested. If you turn out to look even better than I would have expected you to, great. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 11:58 AM
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Managing the hair that naturally grows on your face is about the same as caking your face with chemical powders, creams and sludge that are made in a factory? Lol, I can't even
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 11:34 AM
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And it's as simple as that. You're free to not deal with people if you think they're hypocritical, illogical, stupid. This "they don't have the right to reject xyz" gets into pretty creepy territory though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 11:23 AM
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As others have pointed out, the best revenge is living a great life. It's true, and if it fuels you, fuck it bro, use it. Other than that, meditate. It literally teaches you that you are not your thoughts, that they're just involuntary blips that jump into your consciousness that you don't have to inhabit or get lost in.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 12:40 PM
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Tens of millions of married men disagree. And how many of them are happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 03:23 AM
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Sure, sounds like you need to get something off your chest bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 03:22 AM
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Become someone living an awesome life and develop frame and game in the process. Be on top of your health, physique, financial situation, relationships etc. In the mean time risk management will work. A lot of guys could do this if they just started taking action and stopped feeling sorry for themselves. Some dudes really don't have the potential to do this, but a lot of men could get their shit together and attract women if they stopped being so pessimistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 07:41 PM
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Nothing wrong being with a woman who is only with you for what you can do for her, and not the person you are, while behind your back she is attracted to dudes she actually wants to fuck? Ooooooooookay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 04:22 PM
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This is why I say I don't mind a woman's n-count. My concern is with whether we have an amazing sex life and are satisfied with each other. You fucked 74 dudes? You fucked a guy with a giant dick? You had anal with a guy who you couldn't point out in a police line up for a million bucks? Good for you, I hope you enjoyed yourself. I plan on enjoying myself before I settle down. If we have great sex and she's really satisfied, great. If she's not satisfied because I'm not an amalgamation of all he…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 04:27 PM
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Most women don't care if you want to date younger. It's that whenever I read about it on here and subs like this, it's written with this dripping resentment-laden revenge fantasy language. Your post is fine though, it doesn't have that. I do understand that. It comes across as a sort of middle finger to women they consider to be post-wall. And to be clear, I think younger women have a higher potential to be attractive for the reasons I mentioned, but I also think women in their 30's can be reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 08:29 PM
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I meant to paint a bit of a contrast to set two different types apart. I see I might not have been clear in describing the second guy, but I meant to describe someone who is involved in his marriage, cares about his wife, AND wants a fulfilling sex life. I personally have become disillusioned with the idea of marriage. Having a great relationship with someone I get along with, share interests with and care deeply about sounds nice, but a great sex life matters too. And putting the fulfillment of…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 06:19 PM
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If you're content or even happy with what's on your plate, why worry about what the next guy has on his? Good for him, I hope he enjoys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 06:02 PM
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Exactly. Op says AFBB is rooted in the belief that women intentionally make “rules” for betas but not for alphas. That's not what it's rooted in at all. At best, it's a marker to look out for to see on which side of the spectrum you fall. It's a symptom, not the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 05:22 PM
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Because people lack nuance in their thinking and expression. Yesterday I made a thread asking if women who disapprove of an older guy dating a woman really can't understand the visual appeal. A lot of replies were along the lines of "yeah, but no young girl would ever want to date a guy 10+ years her senior." "It can only ever be for the money." Even though I have seen and heard of plenty of examples to the contrary. It's fine if you think a certain way, or all your friends think a certain way, …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 05:05 PM
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The fact that there are a lot of idiots who look for the best looking girl he can find, lock her down "cause the she's mine", marry, don't put any effort into themselves or the relationship, and get mad when their wife stops caring and sleeping with them is not lost on me. But this sounds like you have something against guys just expecting a good sex life in their marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 04:03 PM
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I do agree. One person always controls the frame more than the other. And as he has more life experience he can give her guidance in situations that a guy her age might not be able to. But I'm not advocating some manipulative situation where the man pressures her to be his servant/sex slave/baby momma because she has no reference experience to indicate that it's not normal. Although some here can't seem to fathom any other reason to date younger women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 01:09 PM
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A biological defect that makes him want sex. So in order for a guy to impress you he must apologize for his nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 10:43 PM
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Lol ok. Nice talking to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 07:40 PM
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I feel horrible about what they're going through. Still it's kinda weird to get lumped in with such individuals for something as basic as being more attracted to younger girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 07:10 PM
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I think a lot of women just find it easier to find a winner at the finish line instead of using what society views as her prime years on a guy who may or may not pan out. True. I obviously appreciate that there are a lot of women like you who date young men. It's funny that a lot of women here can accept this, but there is not a chance in hell to them that a younger girl would date a guy for anything but his money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 06:19 PM
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She said what you said she didn't say, see what I'm saying? I never said the wall is a hard border that once you pass it, no man will ever so much as look at you again, so I don't feel the need to defend that statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 06:11 PM
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I wouldn't want it to be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 06:01 PM
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Yeah, definitely. It's just that you're fucking up if you think you can summarize the entire group of men who want to date younger girls that way, but I don't deny the existence of creeps, pedophiles and power hungry manipulators.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 06:00 PM
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Hahahah hey I'll take it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:47 PM
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I love that you mentioned some very laudable reasons to date younger, yet all people (women) here seem to be able to come up with is that you're a deranged, creepy, a pedophile etc lol. Just proves my point I guess. Or "no younger girl will ever like you!" Don't even worry about it, life will teach me that if it's really true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:45 PM
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You're trying to paint the worst picture possible and then extrapolating it to everyone. There is something wrong with him if he goes for the youngest possible woman at all costs and doesn’t take body type, facial structure, common interests, personality into account over a number! Sure but I wasn't talking about this type of a guy until you brought it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:40 PM
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And what do you mean when you say older? I mean I get it if the guy could have been your dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:33 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:32 PM
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My mom is exactly your age and young dudes are always approaching her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:31 PM
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It's incredible to me the weird accusations people seem to compulsively default to. A shallow manipulative man child. So much for shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:30 PM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:28 PM
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What’s not hot? “He’s my first and only boyfriend, Reddit. Is it normal for him to nag me for sex acts/belittle my education/hate on my friends/hold his money over my head/tell me I’m naive and stupid?” Don’t expect praise for preying on the naive and vulnerable. Why is that automatically the level of individual your mind goes to when talking about this? Nagging for sex? Belittling your education? Hating on your friends? Where is this coming from...? We're talking about a guy who happens to be o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:24 PM
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women do not care who you date. Come on now. So you proceed to blame it on women shaming you, shaming young women into not dating the older men they would surely be interested in if it weren’t for those evil feminists telling them not to. stop strawmanning us. I feel like you're doing more of that. Blaming women? Blaming feminism? I don't recall blaming anyone. This is stating the facts. Yeah I can tell the two apart. Also if I can't pull this off, I'll take my lesson from life slapping it in my…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:17 PM
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Then I'm not talking about them? I'm asking about the ones who can, AND want to. But you've already made it clear that there must be something wrong with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 03:18 PM
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Hence why I feel comfortable saying that the guy who can do it is a rare exception. We might be talking about a small percentage of the male population but it's still an interesting question nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 03:12 PM
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From that standpoint maybe older women verbalizing their disapproval for such relationships makes sense though. If 98.5 out of 100 times it's dodgy, then statistically it makes sense. That's just a hypothetical number and I'm not sure what it really should be, but that's something to take into consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 03:07 PM
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Well thank the heavens that there is the red pill to snap men out of that fantasy :-p A woman isn't going to love you unconditionally because your mommy tells you you're special.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 02:59 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 02:56 PM
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especially considering that women between 25-34 Yeah but you don't impregnate her in the same week you meet her. Vetting if she's a suitable long term partner and mother for your kids takes time. There is not really any 'should' when it comes to sexual preferences, I just think it's important and interesting to remember that those preferences are a result of the culture we grew up in, not the result of our 'natural' preferences. Hey I completely agree with that. I am unsure of the exact time per…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 02:56 PM
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Red pillers also say 80% of guys are undesirable to women right off the bat so it's not like we believe every guy can do it. We could even say a man who can pull it of is a rare exception. Still, my question remains the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 02:46 PM
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Maybe I'm projecting my experiences on other men but I would think guys who do their fair share of approaching are very in touch with the fact that they will be rejected way more than they'll succeed. I'd have to laugh in his face if a guy was seriously upset by that. But it might exist, crazier things happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 02:40 PM
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Seems to be a lot of discussion going on for something that was exhausted 10 years ago but thanks for contributing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 02:36 PM
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I wasn't denying that they play a factor. Nor do I deny some dudes being driven to date as young as possible and wishing they could date even younger because they're pedophiles. It's sad, but I wanted to leave that for what it was and talk about the instances outside of that where the desire to date between two people (where the guy happens to be older) is not driven by ulterior motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 02:35 PM
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See this is so funny about what you are saying though. You say older men are repulsive to younger girls, and say your mom gets hit on by younger guys in the same breath. I'm not saying the average Joe will look like some Adonis when he's 37 and can drown himself in 21 year old poon. But are there men who are lucky enough to age well enough so he can still find a younger girl who is attracted to him? Of course. And really the question was why should that be ridiculed IF he can pull it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 02:15 PM
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Even though the three I dated 1) one owned a luxury car and a fancy city penthouse and owned a prestige business 2) one was internationally famous and someone I idolized when young 3) was a local celebrity of sorts and highly talented cool guy. Younger women are fully aware these men are still single because they want to be and can play the field with younger women, and even to the younger woman that is a turn off, and kind of pathetic. Here you are, the younger woman, having fun getting experie…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 01:32 PM
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Looks are more important for a woman to attract a man than vice versa. If you want me to concede that a lot of men don't age well I'll give you that but some men take care of themselves and stay good looking, just like women can.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 01:21 PM
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but if your definition of who you actually be with is limited exclusively to women under 25 Never said I think that. I think women can still be beautiful in their 30's and 40's. But it's harder to pull off. Yes a woman can look like a mess all her 20's and then start caring about her appearance at 31. That's a personal choice. I know a lot of men here don't like to believe it, Don't they? I think most men are aware that women age and looks fade, and I think generally people base their relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 01:18 PM
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Okay so it's not transactional relationships that weird you out, it's when people are honest about it. For that to be true I'd first have to accept the notion that a relationship between an older guy and a younger girl could only be about money, which I don't think is always the case. If the woman is attracted to a man for who he is, and the financial stability something she expects, but is not the sole basis for her attraction to him, that's not transactional to me. Women wanting a status boost…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 01:04 PM
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I'm okay with being called more shallow. I'm not looking to excuse any behavior, just wanted to see if and why people have a hard time admitting the truth to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 11:27 AM
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Sure, I don't disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 11:16 AM
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Sure, we'll go with that. But that's different than saying "I'll pay you €xxx for sex." They care about their own status, not that of the woman. Whether you make 27k a year or 100k a year does not make you more attractive to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 11:14 AM
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How is that relevant though? Are you saying we should be pushing different standards for attraction? Reminds me of the body positivity movement. "you should be attracted to women regardless of their weight". Uh, no I shouldn't? Maybe body shape, body hair, hair style, skin tone preferences change, but attraction to age? I think that's just an innate part of our biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 11:11 AM
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Yes most men don't age that well either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 11:04 AM
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Because the young dudes don't have status and resources yet, and women care more about that than men do. Both of which are more likely things older men have acquired.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 11:04 AM
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Yeah, and that must get into some weird lust for power and control over them or something, which is kinda creepy. But I'm glad you can acknowledge the visual appeal. sugar babies have made this experience so accessible to men so it’s really not like society is tryna put a stop to it. The transactional nature of that weirds me out. But to each his own. I don’t know why you need the support and understanding of older women to do what you wanna do if you personally don’t feel it’s wrong I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 10:29 AM
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So do I, I see beautiful women in their 30's and 40's. Just not as often as in their 20's though. I'm currently 29 y.o. so I'm curious to see how that changes as time progresses. But especially women who kept in good shape can be very attractive still.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 10:10 AM
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I do not not see that women 18-25 are more attractive than women beyond 25 We do, but that answers that. Yes, guys like the idea of being able to attract beautiful women. Some of those reasons may stem from a lower consciousness of wanting to impress. I'm not above that. Yeah, shame. I think women should be able to date a younger guy if they want. Really? I don't see that. Older guys try to look young if they still care about their appearance. Maybe we don't dye our hair or use make up but I str…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 09:54 AM
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Just curious you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 09:47 AM
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I don't belong there yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 09:44 AM
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Whether you agree with it or not, I think a lot of that stems from the paradigm that older women who have had their share of sexual partners are less likely to be able to pairbond with the guy they get into an LTR with. Men still like and want to date women at that age, it's just not their ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 09:44 AM
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This is spot on. As a 6'1" guy a woman saying she only likes guys 6'3"+ is hilarious to me if that ever were to happen because I know I won't have trouble finding someone based on my height. But if on a societal scale you're being made to feel worthless about the attributes you were(n't) born with, that reaffirmation can be tough. So it's easy for me to say I just like to hear the truth. But yes, I do love hearing the complete truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 10:38 PM
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I mean it must suck to be made to feel worthless about your height, looks or penis size, and I can empathize with that (as with girls and their insecurities). But if that's a guy's motivation to look for a virgin, I'd say it's on him to put his feelings on the line to find a woman who loves him for what he can offer, rather than expecting a woman to have a low n count so his feelings are protected because she has no reference experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 10:15 PM
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If she was cheating with a man, a guy might think she was looking for better dick, which can be a painful thought. If it's with a woman, you won't really be jealous of not being able to offer the same things a woman does. How can you be expected to? But yeah it's still your partner breaking trust, so she can fuck off... Unless I can join in which case I'll consider it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 09:31 PM
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What are they insecure about do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 09:21 PM
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Yeah... I'll stick to condoms lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 07:10 PM
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It's funny that with zero context whatsoever, you're still already assuming the guy was at fault first. Very telling of your mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 06:44 PM
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I think you have some things confused. The red pill is seeing the truth of women's nature and sexual strategy and acting accordingly, rather than living the blue pill lie. Often this results in self development to become the high value male. Pick up artists mimic alpha behaviors, often with no intention of actually becoming the guy they're trying to portray themselves as.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 04:34 PM
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Exactly my view. But the male BC pill would probably tank your testosterone or something so I'm not too interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 04:26 PM
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That doesn't prove it's bullshit. Men generally want to spread their seed far and wide. The instinct = AMALT, not the actual practice. Same goes for women saying "I'd never leave my man for some Chad, so hypergamy is BS." That's not what AWALT means. It's just the hypergamous instinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 04:20 PM
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People tend not to appreciate what they can have easily. People who lack easy access to this make the mistake of thinking they'd be happy if they could just get it more easily. It's misguided thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 04:10 PM
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Hypergamy is an evolutionary mechanism to increase the chances for survival and prospering of her and her offspring. Casual sex for women is a cultural push by feminism that women shouldn't have to hide or be ashamed of their sexuality, and should be free to sleep with whoever they want. The two are not related.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 04:03 PM
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What I dislike most about women can be pretty much summed up in this 28 second video. I understand hypergamy, I understand why women say one thing but do another, I understand the constant testing, but for the love of God, get this idea out of your head that there are no consequences to your overstepping. Women will get in a guy's face and think they can do anything with no fear for repercussions because they feel protected by social conventions. They unironically say they will slap the shit out…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:54 PM
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Thanks for making a compelling case against men, I see your point now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:31 PM
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I don't really mind a high n-count in a woman. That being said, I'm not the guy you're going to change your life with. If you have fucked plenty of guys on the first date, did threesomes, had sex at parties, took it in the ass from a dude whose last name you don't even know, what have you, and you think you're now going to make me wait 7 dates and have vanilla sex with me because you "changed your ways", you are out of your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 03:00 PM
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What are you hoping to accomplish with that?
/r/askTRP27/03/20 08:33 PM
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Women can to a much higher degree because we don’t have this “dick must get wet” drive. This being the basis of your argument for why women have an easier time being single is what I objected to, because it failed to take a lot of other factors into account. OP literally says what she wants and it’s a partner. She’s just more willing to not settle on what she doesn’t want because yes women don’t need dick. But she does want one though. I fail how to see how that would be "wgtow". More like not f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 06:28 PM
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Yeah let's just forget about a woman's desire to be in a relationship, to have kids, to feel affection. Women don't need dick therefore the majority would be fine with being alone all their life. LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 04:53 PM
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I don't quite understand you. It reads like you've already made up your mind that you want the reasoning to be that they're afraid, and you completely reject anything to the contrary. When guys point out that they are not afraid but disgusted, you counter with logic that you miserably fail to see is half-baked. "You fantasize about the sluts you see in porn, so clearly you find them appealing." The argument that being sexually aroused by a woman doesn't mean she's a woman one wants to have kids …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 02:16 PM
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Well hey, fair enough man. I've been with two virgins and you can indeed have incredible sex with them. At this point I'd just rather not put up with the waiting etc. But to each his own man I hope you find what you're looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 12:08 PM
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Disagree with what? I don't recall saying that what I prefer has the highest chance of succeeding. I'm not talking about you specifically because I don't know you well enough to say this, but a lot of people with your stance conflate "higher chance of breaking up" with "it's guaranteed not to work." I've read all of the sources innovative_being provided in this thread. I've listened to Rollo Tomassi say women with higher n-counts have a decreased ability to pair bond. Great. I'm aware. Taking th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 11:33 AM
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Hey power to them if they want to fuck around before they get settled. It goes for them as well. Maybe they just want to enjoy themselves before having a serious relationship. But I was arguing against the point that men with high n-counts don't suddenly become loyal men and good dads. Hence my point. Or is that not what you meant
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 11:27 PM
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Mhmm. I always think it doesn't mean anything to have your girl say sex with you is amazing if she has nothing to compare it to. You can make her cum every time you fuck but she's still gonna want to know what it's like to have sex with other people. If she's raked up a few numbers and she enjoys sex with you, you know you're giving it to her good.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 11:22 PM
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Do I respect a woman who is great and accomplished at her career more than a woman who let her potential go to waste just because it's less mentally strenuous to sit behind a till all day? Sure Does that have any bearing on which of the two I'd rather have a relationship with? I'm not sure I can give it a resounding no, but it's way down on the priority list, behind things like do we have a good time together is she high maintenance how good is our sexual chemistry can we have intelligent and nu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 08:41 PM
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I'd rather be with a pretty cute girl that doesn't get on my nerves and who I can have fun with rather than a dropdead gorgeous idiot who I can't connect with that's on her phone all day. So I don't subscribe to this notion that all men care about is looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 08:27 PM
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I think my girl should count her lucky stars if it just stays with me watching porn, and not me leaving her or just cheating. I am absolutely repulsed by the audacity of women to think it's their decision to just completely shut down a man's sex life. Let me be very clear. I am very quick to look to a man to see how he is to blame. I subconsciously do it instantly. It's the first thing I try to get clarity on. Are you a lazy fuck in bed who only cares about his own pleasure? Did you let yourself…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 07:50 PM
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High N men are problematic because they are more likely to have diseases, engage in high risk behavior that puts their partner at risk Moot points because they're not unique to men. and once they start families are more likely to cheat and have side children or will abandon one set of children/wife for another. Fair enough. The counter to that for the other side of the aisle is that high n count women are more likely to get impregnated by another man and pass the children off to her partner as h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 06:41 PM
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I doubt it's the actual virginity so much as it is her lack of reference experiences they care about though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 06:27 PM
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Meh, I'll take a woman who trough having had plenty of sex prior to me, can take a dick, knows that she likes sex, knows what she likes, and is not shy about it, over some shy inexperienced prude with whom I don't have to be intimidated that she liked a previous pp better than mine. Been there, done that. Her holding giving her v card up to me over my head was pretty annoying too. As if she gave me the keys to some magical kingdom. It's not that special.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 05:47 PM
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Pretty useless account to be honest, because the comparison of your 20's and 30's doesn't hold any weight. You didn't know how / care to be attractive in your 20's, and you only really started putting effort into your appearance in your late 20's. Well yeah, then of course you'll be more attractive now. Post wall isn't some desolate wasteland where no guy would ever want to touch you. They still want to fuck you, why wouldn't they. Some men will even want a relationship, but the guys you want wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 04:36 PM
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Seriously man. Every topic gets stretched into a 30-120 minute video. Who has time for all that?
/r/TheRedPill23/03/20 12:19 PM
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Exactly. As if we can't see a relationship potential in a girl unless she's the hottest thing we've ever seen. I'll take a cute girl I love spending time with over a drop dead gorgeous girl who I don't like all that much. Also since we're talking about post nut clarity, sexual connection matters too. Girls may think their pussy is like the song of a siren but if you're not that great in bed... Yeah I'm not interested in repeating that borefest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 11:53 PM
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When did I say he should accept his fate? You didn't. I took some liberty to extrapolate based on the pretty bleak statement you made here. So fair enough if that's not what you meant. "If you need a self-help subreddit to aid you in becoming your 'true self', you are likely going to be a dullard-nothing-blockhead for the rest of your life." Maybe he should go find some more quality material from accredited professionals that isn't filled with toxic rage and blatant [unwarranted] misogyny. Maybe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 11:14 PM
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Yeah. Some kid who had all the building blocks to have a great life, but met with terrible circumstance that changed him and made him a lesser version of his true self before he had enough agency to realize the consequences of his (lack of) actions. God forbid that person goes on to search for answers as it pertains to becoming the person he knows he can be. He should just stay in the shit and accept his fate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 08:50 PM
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Considering historically speaking around half of all men did not reproduce, I wouldn't say scarcity of sexual options is unnatural. I also strongly believe there was a hierarchy of men. I find it hard to believe all men were alpha badasses. I don't think everybody is meant to be a top dog, alpha guy who gets women, has all the resources he could ever need, and doesn't give a fuck. But at the same time I don't wish that scarcity on anybody. The guys who are willing to set their egos aside, learn …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 08:44 PM
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In my eyes you're taking this discussion to a pretty unproductive place. Why are we getting into pedophilia now? We can agree that it's wrong, but it's not the topic OP brought up. He was talking about a 36 y.o. dating for example a 21 year old, and why he gets flack for that. If this man walks into a birthday party with this 21y.o., and their respective ages are discussed, women will often become indignant. And THAT has nothing to do with what you said. Also come on. Cooooooome ooooooooooon. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 08:17 PM
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Haha it always makes me laugh when people put words into your mouth / try to tell you how you feel about something. OP: going about his life "mm that's odd. I notice this girl still checks my stories even though she rejected me, let me ask what's up with that." Retards: "dude you're obsessed with this shit that's why ur not getting any!?"
/r/askTRP17/03/20 09:29 AM
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Why you see women and the world differently after you've been stripped of a fantasy you were operating in and made aware of how intergender dynamics truly work? I'm a little confused what kind of answer you're looking for exactly.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 11:03 AM
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Yes, reciprocity was a bad word to use on my part. There is indeed no guarantee she won't cheat if you don't. What I meant to explore was if it would bother one to be cheated on, and if so, is it then not hypocritical to do the same. If your options are to stay single and fuck whoever you want, find a relationship that is open (for you), or enter an exclusive relationship to then cheat, why go for the latter if you know you want to fuck around. I was wondering about how one reconciles that. Inde…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/20 09:47 PM
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Can't harm? If he doesn't text her as much as she likes, it's likely because he has no time/desire to do so. And his time and desire should be the driving force of how he approaches this girl. Mental point of origin, remember? Also you don't do yourself any favors by entering her frame. Not to say women can't make fair and reasonable requests off of you but this is just to smooth over her insecurity which is her problem, not his. "I'm just a busy guy, don't take it personal." Especially if you h…
/r/askTRP05/03/20 11:51 AM
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I'm not enslaved by a girl, simply because she gave it up a few times and does little nice things here and there. Right, I agree. If no specific terms have been discussed she is certainly not owed any exclusivity. I was more interested in a situation where you gave her the explicit impression that you are. If I'm, or any man rather, in a "relationship" where they're unsatisfied they are well in their right to do whatever it is they want to do to be satisfied. Mhm again I don't disagree with that…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 09:20 PM
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There is no ultimate argument for or against it. Though I would like to point out that women wearing burkas is something that is forced upon them, whereas you're not forced to act like you want a committed relationship to then cheat. You can very well be upfront about your desire to sleep with others and find someone who accepts that. So I think it's a question of reciprocity. Do you not care to treat others how you'd like to be treated (maybe because you don't care or you don't think it matters…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 01:02 PM
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He didn't say cheating is a lifestyle or a tool box, he said red pill is a tool box. Cheating is an end (or means to an end) that some pursue with this box of tools. I agree we can have a discussion about the "should" aspect in terms of the ends people are pursuing, but there is no point in saying the red pill "should" be about this or that. That's like saying nature "should" be about XYZ. There is no place for it. Oh and stop sounding so angry, nobody cares and it's the least effective way to g…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 12:52 PM
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I don't agree with how Brandan framed his argument. He reminds me of those people who claim that the only reason one could ever buy a nice car is for validation, which displays a vast lack of imagination, or at least empathy. Also I agree "express your feelings" was perhaps not the most effective choice of words. But what would you say if the argument was that cheating is [enter spicy pejorative here] because you're unwilling to deal with the consequences of being upfront about your desires as a…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 12:42 PM
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Moral hazard and strictly out of bounds without full agreement. It's betrayal of someone who is supposed to come first, wounding at a deep level. I come first, not my partner. I'll make sure to be happy within my relationship so I have the bandwidth and desire to make her happy. But yes, I do agree that promising loyalty and then sleeping around behind her back isn't right. Some people here have a very one sided approach, saying that something "not being right" doesn't mean anything in the grand…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 12:24 PM
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Exactly. That two day break question just sounds like she wants to take another dick guilt free. Because, how about for just not talking for a day or two? Do you really need to temporarily end a relationship for that? Of course not. Maybe I'm jaded for not being able to think of any other reason than that, but whatever issues she claims to want to solve aren't going to be solved in 2 days of OP not texting her whining about his feelies.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 02:36 PM
1

You keep playing like you'll pay them? Or are you upfront on the date?
/r/askTRP18/02/20 01:07 AM
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She didn't say she wants to, as if it's some fantasy. She said she WILL. Because it's not cheating. Maybe the dude can get some benefit out of this which is cool, but to say it's not cheating because you're just experimenting is pretty retarded. Makes you wonder what else she rationalizes.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 02:21 PM
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This is definitely a red pill you need to swallow. Accept female nature for what it is. If you are of no use to them, you're invisible to them. And why be upset about that. They're playing their own game, trying to get the best for themselves. They don't run a free respect and appreciation charity. You see it all the time with married guys. They lose their job and all of a sudden two months later their wife doesn't love them anymore. Except you gained a lot of value instead of losing it but you …
/r/askTRP14/02/20 08:57 AM
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Guys who insist LMS is all that matters should read this (though they'll probably just block it out). Game and frame really can put you ahead of guys who at first glance are higher SMV than you.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 12:05 PM
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Nah my experience is a bit different. I was in a relationship where she made the first move. I got this job, and she was one of the girls working there. I thought she was pretty and everything, but given that I was new and she was already established and knew everyone, I didn't want to just straight up approach her and have it blow up in my face if the feeling wasn't mutual. Well lo and behold after a few days of working there she actually expressed her interest in me, asked for my number as I w…
/r/seduction17/01/20 11:59 AM
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Sounds like that was him making a conservative estimate based on the fact she had an STD scare. But yeah 10 is way too low.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 11:20 AM
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Like others have said, forgive, but not forget. You are in the place of all places that openly discusses female hypergamy. Women's dualistic mating strategy. Alpha fucks beta bucks. She wants a guy who can provide for her, she wants a guy who she wants to procreate with, and those don't have to be the same guy. You should know these things. So if she put you in the beta category and is openly flirting with other guys, why be mad at a woman for doing what they'll do? YOU allowed it. You didn't se…
/r/askTRP03/01/20 06:05 PM
1

Why do you say that?
/r/askTRP24/12/19 09:56 AM
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Or she wouldn't because she's a vindictive cunt who thinks that's a little victory. And I don't think that's what he meant. Sounded like a tit for tat approach. But to your point. Don't get me wrong I think there is more to it, given the amount of time between the break up and her reaching out. But I'd just shoot her a little text telling her the reason (on the off chance that she wanted to know) and make it clear that I'm not interested in discussing it and that the conversation is over. Even i…
/r/askTRP06/12/19 11:46 PM
1

I see it differently I suppose. I can definitely picture situations where if someone chooses to ignore the other person completely it comes across as more butthurt than to just give it a small nonchalant reply like it actually doesn't affect you. And even if she was just trying to get me to acknowledge her to prove something to herself, let her. I'd just laugh it off. Have what you think is a little victory. How stupid do you have to be to think you actually proved a point by getting me to reply…
/r/askTRP06/12/19 11:39 PM
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So you base your behavior off of what women would do?
/r/askTRP06/12/19 10:46 AM
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All the "don't give her closure, don't give a fuck about her feelings like she didn't give a fuck about yours" in the comments sounds pretty vindictive and reactive to me. As a man, you decide what you tolerate. You have boundaries, and if people cross them, there will be consequences. She thought she could dump her emotional baggage on you, and you said fuck that. You did what you had to do. But all this "hah fuck this bitch this will show her" kinda shows you haven't gotten over it yet. I'd te…
/r/askTRP06/12/19 10:44 AM
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Exactly. I wouldn't give her the opportunity to play any games on me or to get me emotionally attached again. So no meeting up, no calling. I'd text her the reason in case she really wanted to know. That doesn't take anything away from me. She now has the information she claims she was looking for. Any further discussion or whatever is not happening. Done.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 10:05 AM
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I can see that happening for some guys. Either they are just not that great to look at, they have a (too) arrogant vibe or whatever the case may be. But I'm pretty sure the majority of guys will get a lot more choosing signals if they get their shit together as opposed to being a lazy slob. And even if that's not the case you can still approach em yourself.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/19 09:42 PM
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I don't mean to be disparaging but your comment sounds very defeatist though. You don't have to be a top 1% guy. Maybe this is us looking at the same coin from two different perspectives, but I don't think getting a nice physique, a decent paying job and some social skills and red pill awareness are such a tall order. And again, this needs not even be pursued for women. Improving your health and fitness, finances and social skills will increase your quality of life without question. Female atten…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/19 08:33 PM
1

How did I fail to understand that?
/r/TheRedPill03/11/19 06:56 PM
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Fair enough. What I meant to say is that I do agree with the quote by the comedian, I just don't think sluts are bad. I won't sing your praises for indulging often in something that is regularly available with little effort. Just like I don't look up to a fat guy for eating a lot of junkfood. To me, he's a fat guy. I don't respect the behavior, but I respect his choice to do it. Same with a slut. Fuck however many guys you want. Maybe we can work on getting some of that sluttiness my way. I don'…
/r/seduction01/11/19 12:26 AM
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Who says I mind sluts? Having a high lay count as a man is different to having a high lay count as a woman in terms of effort required. Doesn't mean I resent it or think it's bad, but calling out differences as they are is not wrong imo
/r/seduction31/10/19 09:17 PM
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Why even go through all that trouble, man? It doesn't matter what she acts like with him, what matters is that she did this to you. It's unacceptable behavior. I'm not sure how hard it would be to get out of this situation, but if you can get out of it with minimal loss, do it.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 09:07 AM
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Bro just assume she did and feel the pain. You're concerned about a battle, focus on winning the war. You're one fucking young motherfucker and you already have access to this knowledge. Study it, take action on it, and you'll create such a great life for yourself you'll one day call her and thank her for waking you up.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 12:43 AM
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That's right. ANYMORE. You did care, but then you found other like minded men and agreed with them. Once you've made your necessity into your virtue, like Rollo Tomassi says, and you've built an identity around your predicament, confirmation bias sets in and you subconsciously want to stay consistent to that identity. Your ego-investment into this identity now counterbalances your lingering but still present desire to fuck women and whatever else. Because if I could offer you something on a silv…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 08:31 AM
3

Do whatever you want man?
/r/askTRP23/10/19 08:36 PM
1

You can get hard, so it's in between your ears It takes a while to resensitize (is that a word?) after all the porn you've watched. Porn teaches you to be turned on by watching constant novel visual stimulation. The very second the coolidge effect starts taking effect, you click to watch something else, and you get another dopamine hit. Unless the girl you're fucking is a shapeshifter, you'll have to get used to the difference in pace. Just don't watch that shit anymore and you'll start noticing…
/r/askTRP23/10/19 07:27 AM
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AWALT means all women have the hypergamous instinct in their firmware, just like all men have the desire to spread our seed in as many women in our firmware. Not all people are slaves to their instincts though. The whole point of TRP is to take a peek behind the curtain of intersexual dynamics so you can operate from a position of improved clarity, not to become a cynical fuck who tosses in his own windows so nobody else can. Don't put yourself in a position where you'll be raked over the coals …
/r/askTRP23/10/19 06:53 AM
1

Or if you can correct a girl and make her look goofy in a funny way with a playful raised eyebrow or something. But yeah offering to correct people's English I think he said is kinda tryhard.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/19 04:57 PM
5

What about kissing and receiving a BJ? Guys have mouths too. You are enlightening me thank you!!
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 08:03 AM
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Being a cunt to people and being called strong for it. Thinking they can assault/slap/throw drinks at men with no repercussions whatsoever. Causing a huge fight in the house with her man. Who do you think is getting dragged out of the house when the polive show up? Exaggerating emotions to get their way. Fucking the poolboy, divorcing her husband who has been nothing but good to her and taking half his assets. Taking advantage of beta orbiter men by giving them a little bit of false hope. Lying,…
/r/askTRP30/09/19 11:21 PM
2

Ah I see now. I might've taken your comment without the proper context of the one you were supporting. I agree
/r/askTRP29/09/19 07:07 PM
2

You shouldn't discourage people from seeking knowledge because you failed to strike the right balance in the past. Nothing wrong with supplementing your action with some knowledge. Just don't be an idiot about it.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 05:17 PM
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You feel wronged for making mistakes that you were lead to believe would benefit your relationship. You can be angry about it until your head explodes, but everyone fucks up a relationship. It's part of life. Worrying about it is literally wasted energy beyond what lessons you might glean from it. You are young as fuck. Do what red_pill_botherhood says and you'll live a life way beyond what you would have lived if you remained in the blue pill. And in 5 years you'll look back at this and laugh y…
/r/askTRP05/07/19 01:42 AM
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I stumbled onto this subreddit by mistake, didn't know it exists. As a red pill aware guy, I kind of see what you're saying, but it strikes me that it's not the red pill so much as it is what its proponents make it into, that you're angry with. ​ For me it's great, because it unveiled a lot of mechanics of intersexual dynamics. They claim to speak the truth about women from an evo-psych perspective. I am always sceptical of people claiming to speak the one truth. All I know is that looking throu…
/r/ExRedPill29/06/19 12:56 AM
1

Yeah no kidding you robot. You're dealing with fickle people. Often whether or not they want to meet up with you hinges on how you make them feel before trying to set up plans. Say some funny shit here and there and ask or suggest compliance on a high note. Just keep the frame. Your life doesn't revolve around keeping her entertained. You're a man on your own clock.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 03:40 AM
5

Him: I'm gonna fuck your booty tonight Her: what? No.... How dare you Him: fucking bitch! How dare you! Block
/r/TheRedPill22/06/19 08:46 AM
1

The problem that popped out to me is that you sound like you heavily rely on the interest you get from women. Only 5's and 6's were interested in you. You say you approached all of 3 times and got shut down. Well no shit man. It takes a while to become decent at cold approach pick up. Somewhere in the comments you agreed that the nose did affect your frame because it was so egregious that people mentioned it all throughout your life. I don't doubt that getting rid of weak points in your looks an…
/r/askTRP19/06/19 09:57 AM
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All is justified in the name of equality
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 12:04 PM
2

Well that seems more like competition anxiety. Which is a part of dread, but what I was thinking was coming home late occasionally, flirting with girls, stuff like that. It's not so bad if it blows up in your face outside a marriage.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/19 08:21 PM
6

I'd say having the option to leave without having to hand over half your net worth puts you in a better position to apply dread game. Although you still must be careful for common law marriage.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/19 01:45 PM
3

I’ve been having an existential crisis myself lately. I mean I’ve known for a long time that one’s life eventually ends, but sometimes the reality of it just sinks in extra deep. But if it was a choice to be made where you could decide on never existing, or coming into existence, living life in all its glory and tragedy, and then going back to ceasing to exist, well I’d rather have lived. We’re alive now. We’re all in. I can squander my time by sitting here lamenting my inevitable death, but whe…
/r/askTRP19/04/19 09:04 PM
0

“Cause I can’t be bothered with people who don’t respect me and my time.”
/r/askTRP17/04/19 09:33 AM
21

Man I miss that MFer. He was truly ahead of his time. Not always the best at verbalizing why it worked, but amazing nonetheless.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 07:14 PM
4

My girlfriend farted, what do I do? Soft next, go radio silent for 7-10 days then re-engage like nothing happened
/r/askTRP05/04/19 08:10 PM
1

He calls himself that because his students have generated that much, not because that’s his own net worth.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 11:23 AM
3

Care to elaborate on the situation? I really don’t understand what’s going on here. You made a year’s worth of travel plans while you two were not even together at the time? Maybe I read that wrong. Also, you two already had a break up date planned? Did she agree to be your girlfriend you’d take her to travel with you or something? I really don’t get it.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 02:57 AM
1

Curiosity, regret minimization and the journey itself. I’m not far on my journey, but I’ve been a miserable fucking loser for long enough. I know what it’s like, I know what it has to offer, and it ain’t pretty. I don’t want to be the dude in my 40s lamenting that if I’d have just got my shit together in the past (now), my life could have been so much better. Instead I have to watch from the sideline. What can life be like though, if I really grab it by the nuts, squeeze and twist. That’s what I…
/r/askTRP31/03/19 08:13 PM
5

Do those purple pills taste like grape juice or?
/r/askTRP28/03/19 10:58 PM
24

Damn.. screenshotted this. Spot on
/r/askTRP27/03/19 09:44 PM
2

The impetus for me to make that change was the anger I felt when I realized how much of a lie I was selling myself. It wasn’t that I needed all that information, I was just afraid to act, and I was using “but I need to know more” as an excuse. Whether you’re afraid of being embarrassed for not knowing enough, or you’re afraid to succeed, whatever the reason may be, just start anyway, and then reality will teach you what the things are that you need to know, instead of making up fantasies in your…
/r/askTRP26/03/19 12:16 PM
2

I have done the reverse. I went from getting looks regularly to not getting noticed at all, as I gained more and more weight (in fat). I am currently cutting back down again. I think you should try the gym, but commit to doing it at least 8 weeks and determine if you feel any better about yourself etc. That’s the real prize. Getting healthier, feeling better, sharper, and feeling a sense of accomplishment. Saying you might be able to muster up the willpower if it gets you more female attention i…
/r/askTRP23/03/19 10:05 PM
3

I think as TRP grew in popularity, it attracted not only Chads learning the truth about women to use it to their advantage, but also guys who don’t quite have their shit together, but woke up from the Disney fantasy society pushes about love and relationships. Seeing as being the best version of yourself so as to raise your SMV is an integral part of TRP, that becomes part of the vocal points of discussion, especially for these guys. Where the rest of society does not actively encourage this, if…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 12:29 PM
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It depends where one comes from and where one wants to arrive, I guess. The first two posts you quotes don’t strike me to come from a place of doing what needs to be done to fulfill their sexual desires, so much as they sound like people who were deeply hooked by instant gratification, and found joy in life after they beat their addictions. Just to speak for myself, I’m currently in the process of ridding myself of all the forms of instant gratification that are toxic to me. I resolved to do thi…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 07:53 AM
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If you want to fuck a woman you’re attracted to, and she happens to be older, do it. If you have to compromise your sense of self worth to get your dick wet, get your shit together so you can actually fuck who you want. Edit: typo
/r/askTRP18/03/19 01:04 PM
2

I too hope to one day have to make the conscious decision to scale down my sex life because it’s too much haha
/r/askTRP15/03/19 03:04 PM
17

Porn. Wastes hours a day, trains you into spectator mode and for me anyway it trained my brain to expect new visual stimulation every 17 seconds. Going limp during sex = no bueno. I suspect it even deadens your experience of life in general because it just fries your dopamine receptors. Weed. Once in a blue moon now is fine, but several times a week is just a waste of time and money myan Video games. The idea was to just unwind and play some games an hour a day, but I never ended up sticking to …
/r/askTRP15/03/19 10:07 AM
1

I completely agree. Your life is a reflection of the contents of your minds. Dr. Phil actually had a good quote too on the Joe Rogan podcast. “In life you generate the results you think you deserve”. Certainly the foods you eat, the thinking you engage in, the constructive or destructive habits you’re acquired all play into how your brain functions, and in turn how your life will turn out. I do disagree with your last point. There is no use in being down about that. It is what it is. Look at it …
/r/seduction14/03/19 09:56 AM
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That can happen, certainly. I think it depends on the thought behind not wanting to talk to certain people. If OP wants nothing to do with anybody, “just cause”, yeah at that point you’re just isolating yourself, and potentially missing out on great people and what they have to offer. I do think that in order for someone to want to keep interacting with someone over the long term, there has to be an exchange of value though, and I took it that OP just saw no point interacting with her. And by va…
/r/askTRP14/03/19 09:23 AM
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Cause some people just don’t want to come across as dickheads for such trivial things. Who knows she’ll spread word of how rude he was telling her to “beat it” (given how girls can take things) which affects others’ opinion of him? Also what a bizarre diagnosis at the end. What if he just rather not interact with her because he sees no point to it at all? Not wanting to have conversations to nowhere with everyone on the planet means you’ll never get laid or any success? You engage in some seriou…
/r/askTRP14/03/19 12:06 AM
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That’s all we get to hear. He actually gets to see her, her body language, hear her tone, the eagerness to talk to him (in contrast with others) etc. I read these and give OP the benefit of the doubt. If he’s right, he’ll get advice fitting to his situation. If he’s not right, he’s got bigger issues to sort out.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 11:58 PM
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Not that it’s my job to decide for him but as an outsider, why should he tell you though? Look at how you started. They are good kids “yeah not thanks to you though”. What possesses you to assume someone you don’t know is a bad father if you have no solid reason to conclude that?
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 11:54 PM
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Fuck with her could mean pull something that makes her leave him alone, which doesn’t have to come off as rude. And it still doesn’t prove your ass backwards mindreader nonsense. “You’re asking us how to break contact with her, but I think you’re just trying not to like her, and in fact like her.” This isn’t the girl gossip reddit. And people ask all sorts of stupid questions here. Doesn’t prove anything.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 07:19 PM
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Sounds like you’re reading into it too much. I think he just doesn’t want to be rude.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 12:19 PM
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Did you even read what he said before you equipped your cunty tone? He said his wife has always made more than him. So what’s the need for him to pay child support. Stop being offended before you even found your reason to be. Edit: AND she left him for a guy with more money on top of that.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 11:14 AM
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The moment you let go of this defeatist attitude, and the moment you decide that all these problems you have are not going to be the boss of you, but instead resolve to figure it the fuck out, life will become a lot more interesting. You want some value to offer? How about you’re the guy that started with absolutely nothing and made something of himself because he refuses to sit and complain like a little bitch. Where he didn’t have money for the gym he did push ups and pull ups in the park. Whe…
/r/askTRP01/03/19 06:43 PM
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"this TRP method doenst always look like ultimate guide to women and men relationships." Depends what your goals are. It certainly is not meant to get you to the "let's all be equal, happy wife happy life" type of relationship. Do you have an example? ​ "I also had few girls that were my life long friends, some helped me more then other guys who i considered friends" I can't speak for the rest of the red pill men but I'll never claim women can't be decent human beings. ​ "and these women have de…
/r/askTRP27/02/19 07:59 PM
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I lift, I bought some tanning oil, low v neck tee, and I’m getting that separation on the pecs. What do I do at the party? Xd these guys are hilarious
/r/askTRP27/02/19 10:06 AM
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Exactly. It is what it is and there’s nothing you can do about it. Just be happy you see reality for what it is and act accordingly.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 09:59 AM
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THANK YOU! Exactly what I was thinking. “I’m a bonafide fuckboy” 3 seconds later “Women have an n count of 5 and it sickens me.” C’mon dude. Come the fuck on.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 09:51 AM
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A lot of people here don’t like Jordan Peterson, but in dealing with these situations, I think he provides a perfectly laudable framework to work yourself out of the pit you find yourself in. I know you want to get laid but you need to do some work on yourself. The basic breakdown is that first, you have to be honest with yourself, so you can use your inner compass to navigate towards a better place. Now on the surface you seem pretty honest about your situation, but addictions hijack your compa…
/r/askTRP18/02/19 01:35 PM
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I think one of the pernicious effects of porn is not just the constant dopamine hits, time wasted etc. But also the fact that you’re essentially training yourself to be a spectator, which goes hand in hand with cuckoldry. I suspect this has something to do with the steady rise in popularity of that genre, although there are other conspiracies out there about it that are beside the scope of this discussion. As for advice, I think you’ve gotten some solid advice already.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 04:25 PM
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So what if he’s judgmental? Is that not politically correct? Who cares. The people you surround yourself with have a great effect on who you become. Can’t blame a man for being particular about who he wants to hang out with.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 12:15 PM
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Needing coffee in the morning to function properly makes you kind of a little bitch in the first place.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 06:57 PM
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Especially the aloof thing. What do you get together and sit there like you’re Clint Eastwood? Be aloof when the “where is this going” talk comes up. But when you’re hanging out, just be a fun guy, laugh, pull her into your frame, your reality.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 07:32 PM
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Is being 6’7” really that big a factor? Legit question I really don’t know. I am 6’1” and I feel like it’s perfect. Tall enough for most girls, but beyond maybe 6’2”-6’3” it just becomes goofy IMO (no offense Julien just personal opinion).
/r/seduction19/11/18 02:36 PM
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Mmm I do get what you’re saying, and I tend to think along those lines. I want to make a lot of money, but I always remind myself not to think it will bring me happiness. I am improving my body, but not in the spirit of “gain muscles so I can get girls”. The same goes for success with women. A lot of your reply is predicated on the assumption that I (or people in general) want success with women to get validation. I know that to be a stupid pursuit. It’s like trying to fill a bucket with water, …
/r/askTRP07/11/18 12:13 PM
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No, you really didn’t get it if your take away message is “I don’t see the point in going to the mall and spending hours of my time just approaching women.” That’s not even the point of the red pill. The point is to look behind the curtains to see the true mechanics of women’s dating, sexual and reproduction strategy. It’s about accepting women’s true nature, and not being bitter about it but accepting it and strategizing accordingly. That knowledge is a lens through which one can see intersexua…
/r/askTRP06/11/18 01:33 PM
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Hmm? Is that really what the red pill is about? This community doesn’t represent blaming women IMO, but operating from a place of understanding of their sexual and reproductive strategy, so one can act and strategize accordingly. Being mr Nice guy clearly is not the way to be successful with women. So this sub teaches to break away from that lie, and to focus on one’s own purpose. Your SMV raises as a byproduct. And then you are free to play the game on your own terms. I love women. I just won’t…
/r/askTRP06/11/18 01:11 PM
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What trouble? Getting kicked out of a book store? Who gives a fuck dude..
/r/askTRP04/11/18 08:31 PM
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I don’t believe you need to stop jerking off, do it once in a while to drain the poison, just not excessively. Going a week without jerking off will light a fire under your ass to go interact with women (not that having jerked off 3 days ago is a valid excuse to avoid women. You get what I’m saying). At least I’ve found. But porn is the culprit IMO. First of all you’re jerking off to other people fucking, so you’re training yourself to be a spectator (a reason why cucking is so popular now?). Yo…
/r/askTRP03/11/18 10:28 PM
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If you’ve got some extra fat, lose it. That’ll reveal some size hidden under your fatpad, and also be favorable for the proportional size perception of your dick to your body. If you watch porn, stop watching it. They select guys with big sizes, and they use camera tricks on top of that to make it look even bigger. This gives you an unrealistic perception of what is normal. Beyond that, you’re average sized. Stop and consider what that means for a second. Most (like 75%) guys are within an inch …
/r/askTRP31/10/18 12:10 AM
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There’s about a 20 minute video on Youtube where Sam Harris and Dan Harris explain meditation on the Joe Rogan podcast. I’m sure if you look for it you’ll find it. I really like their explanation because it made something clear to me that I never understood. Beyond all the tips people give like sit down, quiet your mind, focus on your breath, when a thought pops up refocus on your breath etc. They explained that the benefit you’re after is actually in the moment where you realize that you’re thi…
/r/askTRP29/10/18 09:55 PM
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I second this advice. I’d just like to add taking a mindful and introspective approach of your progress. Work on a select few things at a time. Read good books or other info about the subject. At the end of the day, analyse the most notable interactions of the day. Think of the things that went well, and the things that could be improved. How well are you applying what you’re learning? What are the highest leverage sticking points you could work on? If you find yourself in such a situation again…
/r/askTRP27/10/18 05:40 PM
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I think you missed my point. I agree with you on paper, and it strikes me as very common sense which topics shouldn’t be allowed to be discussed (from one’s subjective point of view). What I was getting at is the fact that we share the planet with people that legitimately think not buying their radically progressive crap makes you worse than Hitler, looking at a woman for a second too long is equal to raping her, and saying or doing anything for the betterment of men makes you a patriarchal miso…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 06:03 PM
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What you’re saying works in theory, but in reality we’d end up right back in the spot we find ourselves now. Not providing certain ideas a platform to be discussed sounds fair. If you want to talk about ethnically cleansing your country, maybe you shouldn’t get to speak. The problem is who gets to decide what topics are, or are not permitted to be discussed. Having the ability to not allow certain ideas a platform to be discussed is a powerful mechanism that will want to deploy for their own sub…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 09:04 AM
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I think you’re right to want to find a balance. I don’t like posts like these, encouraging guys to forget about women for a while to increase one’s SMV until it’s sufficient. As much as this sub preaches not putting women on a pedestal, in not interacting with women for the purpose of setting out to become this awesome guy with high SMV who makes all the panties moist, you’re doing exactly that. You can approach, even if you’re not “worthy” by whatever standards you measure yourself with. Who ca…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 02:10 PM
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I fail to see how allowing yourself to pursue women only after you’ve reached what is in your mind a sufficient level of success, is not putting them on a pedestal. Start now. Even if you’re fat. Even if you’re poor. Who cares if you don’t live up to your ideal. Who cares if you don’t live up to their ideal. We don’t put them on a pedestal, right? If you only start gaming after you’ve become some greek God that is your status quo as far as women interacting with you goes. I actually think it’s p…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 10:29 AM
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I feel the same. I am 27 now, and I basically pissed away the last 7 years of my life. There were minor achievements here and there, but momentum was largely missing. I have tried many times to get my act together but it never really stuck. Finally I feel like all the lessons from my previous failures and other puzzle pieces are coming together to the point where I can make lasting changes. All this lack of achievement makes me feel old (for where I am in life anyway. I know I’m not old in and o…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 12:06 AM
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