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At least one of the women was hurt by me when I chose to go exclusive with another and she felt cheated. But I guess that’s the price we pay in dating when it doesn’t work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:40 PM
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You might be right. The thing is, for me, it was a marked change of behaviour and attitude from only experiencing very few women and having long term relationships, to “dating”. I remember feeling like an arsehole at times. I was actively trying not to fall in love really fast like I normally do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:37 PM
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Yep. Obviously some women do marry in their 20s. I said “a lot of women” don’t settle till their 30s. That’s become really common. Especially with high earning women. They’re the ones having real trouble finding a man they feel suits them because there’s so few men that fit their standards and the ones that do will probably want a younger woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:22 PM
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I didn’t really go into detail about my “bad” phase. It’s probably no where near as bad as you might imagine. It was just a period of dating a lot after having my heart broken. Telling myself that if we haven’t had a conversation about exclusivity, it can’t be assumed and I don’t have to tell them about the others. Although a few just assumed I was seeing others. I was just acting a bit cocky and most of the time putting my needs first. It was like 8 months or something. It all ended the very mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:17 PM
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Yeah, and if they’re very high value men, if they wait until they’re 35 to settle down, and they want a family, they’re not going to be looking for 35 year old women - more like late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:09 PM
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Absolutely all types. Quite a few from very stable conservative normal nuclear happy families.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:07 PM
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You mean the nice guy thing? I agree. Good guys are strong and competent and choose to be good. ie guys that can fight but only use that when necessary. Nice guys are weak and have no choice but to be meek and compliant.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:46 AM
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Yeah, they really don’t. I’ve gone through periods of bad behaviour and being a jerk and being rude to women got a lot more sex than being respectful. But that was short term stuff. Or medium term and then it dies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:43 AM
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A lot of women don’t settle for a good guy until she’s desperate and in her 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:41 AM
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But in the west, most people are fat. So are most people just very dissatisfied with their partner’s looks? I guess so.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:40 AM
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The evidence seems to suggest the opposite is true and in fact women prioritise looks much more than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:38 AM
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Nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:37 AM
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As Hitchens said, being boring is the worst sin of all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:36 AM
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Oh, I read it. It’s your standard response to everyone that you accuse them of not having read and understood the post, but most of us have. Have you read your post? 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:45 PM
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You could answer my question if you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:43 PM
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It has everything to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:42 PM
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I also think you come across as terribly judgemental of people. It’s like you really think loads of people are just helpless, useless, not worthy at all. To have that opinion of someone just because they’ve made poor decisions on who to date in the past seems just plain wrong to me. Loads of us make mistakes and it’s not our fault if we’re abused by someone else. To think that “good” “moral” people should only ever consider dating people who have perfect mental health seems horrible to me. You s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:18 PM
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Which is worse in the long run when a good guy gets hooked by a nasty selfish woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:11 PM
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And look what happens to the young men who have decided they have no chance of a real relationship. Don’t incels spend their time playing video games in their mum’s basement?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:09 PM
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That’s actually true. Left to ourselves, men do t need much. We wouldn’t have the same drive to work, to invent, to create if it weren’t for women and having families. It’s the motivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:08 PM
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Women do the same thing to get commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:07 PM
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I’ve slept with a lot of people without knowing their past sexual relationships, past traumas, unresolved issues. Does this make me a shitty person?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:06 PM
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Yeah, if you’re ugly and play hard to get, you’ll just get ghosted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:39 PM
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It’s not hard to imagine that many people with below average looks have below average personalities due to the adversities they’ve had to face. You might think that those adversities would improve you, make you stronger etc, but to many it turns them bitter, jaded and just unpleasant people to be around. It’s incredibly unfortunate. Life really isn’t fair. Some live on easy mode and some get dealt a shitty hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:15 PM
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Testosterone definitely has positives and negatives. I think there’s something to the fact that we do actually see a drop in testosterone in new fathers that seems to actually help their new role.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:12 PM
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Stoicism is the only way. There is no one coming to save you. You only have yourself. And if you want a partner, you simply have to become the type of person who is highly valued. There are no two ways about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:31 AM
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Your pride in your own lack of concern for fellow human beings is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:28 AM
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When male MPs in Britain wanted to start having a minister for boys/men’s issues like we have a minister for girls and women, feminist politicians like Jess Philips laughed in their face and said they can have that once all the feminist issues were solved. This is on film if you want to watch it. When women say they don’t get in the way of men trying to help men, they don’t know what they’re talking about. They do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:24 AM
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Feminists have a long history (going back to the opening of the first women’s shelter) of blocking and trying to shut down help for men who have experienced abuse at the hands of women. It’s really shameful.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:20 AM
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They do and they are increasing in numbers, thankfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:17 AM
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100% misandrist bullshit. You really believe men only help women in order to have sex? That’s completely crazy. So when I helped an obese woman out of the sea when she was struggling last summer, I was only doing it so I might have sex with her? I can tell you, that’s not the case. You’ve been completely brainwashed if you think men are really like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:15 AM
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Let’s close down NHS mental health services then 🙄. We apparently have no responsibility towards each others wellbeing. Just sort yourself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:11 AM
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They won’t care. They’ll just blame men for their own struggles while giving support and sympathy to women for having similar feelings and problems. The sympathy gender gap is huge and as it seems to be evolutionary, it probably can’t really be fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:08 AM
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How true really is it that a conservative won’t date a leftist, and vice versa? How many people consider their political stance such an important factor of their being that you have to agree with them to have a relationship? My immediate thought is that people’s politics tend to change as they age. Will they divorce if their partner doesn’t change with them? My second thought is that most people are relatively centrist and could under some circumstances be persuaded to vote left in one election …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:40 PM
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Is there something about yourself that you're scared she'll find out?
/r/askTRP16/12/19 06:48 PM
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