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Appreciate it man.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 06:38 PM
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Man. 134 days later and I'm in the same position you were at the time you made this post. The shame is real
/r/askTRP04/04/21 05:19 AM
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Not OP, but I personally have found that it does. Sleeping with women becomes your priority instead of pursuing your mission / purpose. It's all about balance imo
/r/askTRP16/11/20 03:47 PM
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Never heard it so elegantly said before. Very profound and clicks with red pill philosophy
/r/askTRP16/11/20 01:53 PM
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(Not an expert, just giving my advice). Personally I see two options. Withdraw attention. If she's being distant and unresponsive then do your own thing without her and let her come back to you. Don't send her anything, don't be desperate, just focus on you. When you asked her to go out to eat and she gave you fickle replies, literally swipe her off her feet in a fun manner and take her to your car to go get food. Women are emotional creatures, it's up to you to be the captain and "calm the seas…
/r/askTRP19/09/20 08:12 PM
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Hey man, your comment moved me. I'm in a very similar situation - currently in the military but I rediscovered my passion for music. What were some big steps you made to reach your goals? I'm assuming you're writing now. Did you go to school for it? Or get out and apply for writing jobs? Move into a new city with career potential? And lastly how are you sitting financially? That's one of my biggest worries getting out. Any information is appreciated, thanks dude.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 03:40 PM
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Read the book Climategate, new perspectives on climate change might ease your mind or at least challenge your current beliefs. Do you really think all civilization as we know it is going to end by 2050? Do you know how many times we've heard the same story the past hundreds of years? My point is - don't worry about it. Focus on living your life, no point getting your balls busted over something you can't control anyways
/r/askTRP04/06/19 03:19 PM
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If I was a woman, I'd want a man who's... -Intelligent, doesn't have to be Bill Gates but not an airhead -Independent -Not poor or at least not terrible financially -Ambitious, has goals in life -Doesn't have kids -Monogamous -Confident -Fun -Not addicted to porn -Sweet but strong, an asshole when he needs to be -Obviously handsome -Good sense of humor, can laugh at anything -Similar values Obviously no one's perfect, everyone has flaws, but there's a list on the top off my head. Shit am I gay n…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 01:39 PM
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Sounds like a confidence issue and a severe lack of outcome independence. Self improvement is good, not having a DGAF attitude is bad. I got the same issue. Usually if I get rejected I laugh and shrug it off because who cares, they're the one missing out; however, every so often I'll get rejected by a chick I'm into and my ego takes a blow. Queue the self reflection and self improvement cycle.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 11:12 PM
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Dating wise: Great, you're the new, exotic mysterious dude. Chicks dig it. More fish to choose from and play with. Non-dating wise: Great. Gets you out of your comfort zone. Sometimes it's shitty and you can get lonely, but as long as you have some buddies to shoot the shit with and hobbies it's bearable. For me it improved my relationship with my family back home as well. It did the opposite with my childhood buddies back home though, but that's life.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 05:21 PM
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Sounds like you just want something more meaningful than one night stands. I'm no expert, so take my opinion with a grain of salt, but that's completely normal in my opinion. I feel the same way, plates/sluts weren't doing it for me so I took a break. I have a solid mission in life and I am completely happy without a chick, so it wasn't too hard to disassociate from hoes. Sounds like you need more internal happiness. Once you have that chicks will naturally want to be apart of your life, from th…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 05:13 PM
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Thanks for your input. Yes, primary goal is self-fulfillment and self-improvement. Always. I can be happy with or without a woman or a family; however, I'd like to have a family someday in the future. I don't see a problem with that.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 10:56 PM
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10/10
/r/askTRP12/11/18 10:47 PM
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Nah.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 05:38 PM
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Orange County native here, I agree and disagree. The area is nice and clean and the women are smokin; however, from my experience a good portion of the women are also pretty boring and materialistic. That's not to say there aren't cool chicks - I've met a ton of them, but a good percentage are hallow and boring because they're attractive and they know it and because daddy spoiled them growing up. They all think think they're the next OC housewife. Man, I miss it though.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 01:37 PM
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Lol I totally get it, and part of me agrees with you. Super gay of him? Totally. Should he be over it now? Yeah, and for the most part he is but I know deep down he's wary. At the end of the day I guess I value friendship more than pussy. If I can't control myself with one chick that my friend is eyeing (even if he's being a faggot) then in my opinion I'm a shitty friend. I'm not trying to be the alpha chieftain of a group of Neanderthals that fucks everyone's woman to prove his dominance and th…
/r/askTRP21/10/18 07:45 PM
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Urban Dictionary definition of ghosting: When a person cuts off all communication with their friends or the person they're dating, with zero warning or notice before hand. You'll mostly see them avoiding friend's phone calls, social media, and avoiding them in public. That or tell her you're gay.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 05:28 AM
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I would, and if other more important plans come up tonight give her a rain check. Just don't be too eager/available or chances are she will lose attraction. That's my two cents.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 10:14 PM
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https://www.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_your_body_language_shapes_who_you_are?language=en
/r/askTRP20/10/18 08:01 PM
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It's going to take practice man, that's what growing up is for. You're young, you will develop these skills over time and eventually you won't have a problem with any of the issues you're currently facing. When I say act humble.. this is sort of what I mean. For example, "Hey man, heard you won that debate last weekend, congratulations you're the shit." "Thanks man, I appreciate it, it was tough and I'm stoked. Couldn't have done it without all the help I received from so and so." Body language …
/r/askTRP20/10/18 07:56 PM
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This is the gayest thing I've seen in weeks and just yesterday my buddy jokingly slid a Joker card with a photo of man jacking off on it under my door.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 07:44 PM
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Nah man. Don't drop hobbies you like and are good at just to be liked by other people. It sounds like you're trying too hard and begging for validation from your peers - people sense that and don't respect people that fish for attention. You should do stuff/participate in hobbies because YOU want to do it, who gives a fuck what other people think. Sounds like you need to care less what other people think. I think that's step one for you. Be genuine, funny, kind and as I stated, don't give a fuck…
/r/askTRP20/10/18 07:37 PM
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Definitely. That's what happened to me as well on that camping trip all those years ago - I was labeled as the bad guy by all of my friends (including the girls that went) and she got off scot-free. All OP can really do is explain what happened and go from there.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 07:31 PM
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Not trying to be an asshole here, just honest. I think those hobbies are kinda cool, but let's be real. You're in high school, those are pretty nerdy hobbies so you're going to be surrounded by nerds and therefore labeled as a nerd. Mock trial? Nerds. Writing? Nerds. Debate? Nerds. Don't get me wrong, they're great hobbies that will set you up for success in the future, but chances are you're not going to be the next Prom king. You want to become popular? Stop giving a fuck what other people thi…
/r/askTRP20/10/18 07:25 PM
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I agree. Eventually either 1. She'll find some other guy that wants the same thing as her and she'll fade away. Or 2. Her desire for a relationship will become unbearable and you'll have to cut the cord. Or 3. She'll find some beta guy to date and fill that relationship role in her life but she'll still randomly hit you up at 2am and you'll basically be her side hoe
/r/askTRP20/10/18 06:58 PM
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Shiiiiit. It's easy to give you my opinion from the couch, with that being said I would tell your friend what happened. A real friend would tell his bro he fucked up and own up to it. Expect him to be pissed off at you, do your best to make amends but expect the worst. Shit happens, learn from your mistakes and don't do it again. Additionally this chick sounds like a hoe, and if your friend has a thing with her then in a (twisted) way you're doing him a favor by highlighting her promiscuity. Unl…
/r/askTRP20/10/18 06:48 PM
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Lol, honestly I feel the same way too. I get rejected by a lot more blondes than brunettes, and all of my exes have been brunette and a majority of my plates are brunette as well. Then again, I'm also simply more attracted to brunettes. I don't know the answer, but if I had to guess I would say that blondes are used to being treated as that typical hot blonde captain of the cheerleading squad chick so as a result they're egotistical and shallow. "Blondes have more fun! I'm a typical hot white gi…
/r/askTRP20/10/18 06:36 PM
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Suffering / going through hardships / personal trials and trial and error helped me get to the point now where I really just don't give a flying fuck when I go out. Life's too short to care what other people think of you when you're at a club, bar, whatever it may be. Besides, people who don't care are always the ones having the most fun. I guess my advice is... just put yourself out there man. Like teentrp2000 said, start doing embarrassing things and after a while you'll get used to it and rea…
/r/askTRP20/10/18 06:26 PM
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Eh, I wouldn't say she's trolling you. Give it another shot, just keep her low on your list of priorities. If she flakes again I would next her. Also, be careful with this chick - I would definitely not go in raw. Additionally, dispose of the condom yourself
/r/askTRP20/10/18 06:05 PM
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My mother was over protective (don't ever have sex, drugs are bad mmkay) and emotionally unstable growing up due to her bitter divorce with my biological dad and her failed subsequent marriages that followed. She cared about me a lot but it was tough for her to play both the roles of mom and dad while keeping her career in law enforcement intact as well. I didn't like my father growing up and I especially hated going to his house as a kid (there was always fighting going on at his house between …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 12:33 AM
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Give her a tour of your place, crack jokes, offer a drink, basically be a good host. Have fun with it man, have a plan (let's watch this movie, etc) and as other people already said escalate. Touch her arm a little bit when you talk (playfully at first, maybe she says a joke or you poke fun at her) and keep the mood light. If it gets later in the evening and things are going well you will feel the sexual tension, and, when there's a solid moment of silence between the two of you, just look her d…
/r/askTRP17/10/18 10:28 PM
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100% man. I don't know what me and my buddy were thinking last night, we're usually pretty good at this but we shit the bed. Will definitely remember your advice next time this situation arises.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 02:10 PM
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Ha the movie was bloody awful. Some terrible homemade horror film. Yeah. You're right. I'll keep that in mind and I'll give it a shot. Thank you.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 01:38 PM
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Agreed, my plan was to fuck but I moved too slow. I thought the movie would be fun and help build more sexual tension but instead it dried her out - in other words I should have went straight to fucking. Thank you
/r/askTRP08/10/18 01:20 PM
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You're right, thank you. I moved too slow. I'm used to having to work for it - this chick wanted it right then and there and when I didn't execute the window of opportunity closed. Onto the next one
/r/askTRP08/10/18 01:16 PM
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