theironjawn Archive

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4	How do you handle your friends? I grew up in a similar situation. I beat my head against a wall for years hoping he would change and figure out he was hogging all the action. Self awareness is a rare thing. Most people have to feel loss in order to change. Why change when you’re constantly winning?	/r/seduction	29/07/26 06:57 AM
1	Pursing a girl from my cousins friend group. How to do this without him knowing ? The hesitancy to avoid social ridicule or make waves is normal. But it is a signal that you have fear you need to overcome. Part of getting good at pursing the women you’re interested in within social groups is being able to read the social landscape and getting the necessary green lights. First, what’s your relationship like with your cousin? It sounds like he might be older, or that you’re intimidated by him? Is he a guy that’s genuinely “in your corner”? Or does he play insecure status games …	/r/seduction	28/07/26 11:49 PM
1	79 Women Later: Everything I’ve Learned About Women, Attraction, and Dating The one caveat I’ll add here: if you’re a man that has something they want, a lot of women will ignore confidence to get that thing thru you. Not like confidence that’s in the toilet mind you, but your average guy’s fluctuating confidence. Not talking specifically about gold diggers either. It’s a spectrum based on a woman’s values.	/r/seduction	25/07/26 03:38 AM
1	How do you stop putting women on pedestal for their beauty ? I still think women are beautiful and it’s what initially draws my attention. But when you get enough experience, you realize if you want a serious relationship, or even a casual relationship without drama, you learn to value personality traits and the things that make spending time with someone consistently enjoyable. Most men will give away literally everything for a hot woman that gives them attention - their money, time, respect, power. It’s a big part of why the dating market is so skewed. …	/r/seduction	24/07/26 12:21 AM
1	Why a woman would do this That sounds to me like she doesn’t necessarily have cold feet about you - she seems to have cold feet about intimacy. Sounds like a situation that required a gentle guiding hand. The thing that stuck out the most to me was pushing the kiss in the bedroom. Did you bring her to the bedroom because she wouldn’t kiss you earlier and you tried to brute force intimacy? Usually a kiss happens before the bedroom and is the prelude to more.	/r/seduction	21/07/26 03:00 PM
1	What is the best book that will improve your game? I might be able to help you understand a little better. It sounds like you’re framing this kind of advice in terms of mechanics rather than emotion. For men, it’s easier for us to understand things like a process (A to B to C). But attraction, as we all inherently know, is an emotional process - and a woman’s experience of attraction isn’t linear, but changes moment to moment. This book is advocating that you recognize how you authentically feel, and you express those feelings in a non-needy way…	/r/seduction	30/01/26 10:01 PM
1	Become a Host (and Bang the Participants) Entitlement can backfire. People often respond to arrogance with disgust. A more useful and grounded target is presence and bold action which signals a healthy amount of arrogance without collapsing into performative projection.	/r/seduction	06/01/26 11:48 PM
1	Become a Host (and Bang the Participants) Status is only one variable. The tangible (mostly superficial) things men understand like money, status, and looks work to attract attention. Attraction is primarily about emotional leadership. That’s why a rich guy can’t just flash his bank account and get instantly laid - among other reasons.	/r/seduction	06/01/26 11:44 PM