| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 133 | She fell into my lap | Field Report | thejewkrainian | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 01:17 PM |
| 4 | How to talk about sex with my girlfriend of 4 months | thejewkrainian | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 02:07 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 10 | How do I find cool guys/wingmen to go out and pick up girls with?I’m in North Jersey. I work as a bartender, so most of my coworkers are my age (21-28), single, and pretty social (you have to be to be a server/bartender). So maybe work at a restaurant for 1 or 2 nights a week, or make friends with people who do. | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 03:09 AM |
| 11 | Should you always approach even if you don't want to?Depends on the reason. If it’s because you’re nervous and don’t want to, you probably should. If it’s because you aren’t in the right mental/emotional state, or you’re just tired, or just don’t want to, then why would you? | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 05:03 PM |
| 1 | How to hook up or meet goth emo girlsBe goth/emo lol. Works for me | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 12:46 AM |
| 14 | Clean shaven or stubble?Some women like bushy beards, some women like stubble, some women like clean shaven faces, some women like mustaches, some women like on and on and on. The look that’s most attractive to women is the look you feel the most confident in, and best matches your own personality/style. Example: I rock a mustache and stubble, and it works for me with my tattoos, long hair, and edgy personality. Style is about self-representation, and your facial hair should reflect that. | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 01:07 AM |
| 1 | She fell into my lapYeah :/ | /r/seduction | 21/07/24 08:30 PM |
| 1 | She fell into my lapI’m actually starting therapy on Tuesday, thanks for your advice. | /r/seduction | 20/07/24 04:27 PM |
| 1 | She fell into my lapC’est la vie | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 01:13 PM |
| 1 | She fell into my lapNever even thought about that but you’re right she’s probably just as confused and disparaged from this situation as I am! As a rule I don’t double text, even sending a text to confirm our date (which I probably could’ve worded better) was out of necessity not actually start a conversation… | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 11:40 AM |
| 1 | She fell into my lapI’ll get it together with the next girl, she was just practice I guess | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 02:23 AM |
| 2 | She fell into my lapI’m gonna take some time, meet other girls, work on myself, and maybe text her again in a month. | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 08:42 PM |
| 2 | She fell into my lapTbh I think I smoked too much weed with her and I got anxious. I definitely wanted her. | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 08:28 PM |
| 2 | She fell into my lapYou’re right I had a good time, that’s what matters. Dating is supposed to just be about fun, not sex… I guess it’s easy to forget that sometimes | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 08:18 PM |
| 1 | She fell into my lapLike you said, it’s a mindset. Luck doesn’t have anything to do with it! | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 08:00 PM |
| 1 | She fell into my lapYou’re spot on! It’s cool to know I’m desirable but frustrating to know I’m stupid 😂 | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 07:59 PM |
| 1 | She fell into my lapYou’re right OG | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 07:05 PM |
| 2 | She fell into my lapYou make a good point. I’ll probably end up texting her but I can’t promise I’ll be sober when I do 🤪 | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 05:13 PM |
| 3 | She fell into my lapTbh if I ever do talk to her again this is probably what I’ll do. | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 04:22 PM |
| 5 | She fell into my lapNothing to lose but my self respect. If she doesn’t respect me enough to simply text “hey this isn’t gonna work” and cancel the second date, I’m not going to degrade myself and beg her to change her mind. | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 04:22 PM |
| 7 | She fell into my lapIdk that seems too desperate, it’s not like I need her I’m just horny and I think she’s cool | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 03:53 PM |
| 1 | She fell into my lapThat’s some good advice, thanks! | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 03:31 PM |
| 2 | She fell into my lapOn Tuesday, we made plans for Saturday. She didn’t respond after that. I waited to text her until Friday “Hey, it might rain tomorrow so we may have to think of a backup plan when we hang out.” She didn’t respond, and I took the hint. | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 03:29 PM |
| 3 | She fell into my lapI would love to, I texted her after the date and we made plans for the next week, concrete plans with a set date, time and everything. She said she was excited and couldn’t wait, then she ghosted me as soon as the plans were made though haven’t heard from her since. The ball is in her court if she ever wants to see me again. | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 03:01 PM |
| 2 | She fell into my lapOn to the next one :D | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 02:54 PM |
| 5 | She fell into my lapThink about it opposite in what way? | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 02:06 PM |
| 23 | She fell into my lapI definitely won’t let it happen again, this was my first date with a girl I wasn’t dating in over 5 years and it was a fun experience I don’t regret. I’m just upset this situation left me with a stupid case of oneitis for this girl for no real reason. | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 01:54 PM |
| 3 | How to talk about sex with my girlfriend of 4 monthsWow thanks for this response it was really thorough and well written. Lots of good advice, I’ll make sure to keep in mind (especially the condom lmao) Also, You’re right I actually don’t know if she is a virgin, I kinda just assumed it because it seems like the most likely assumption | /r/seduction | 26/05/19 01:40 AM |
| 1 | How to talk about sex with my girlfriend of 4 monthsNo idea, like I said we’ve never brought the topic up. This probably sounds pathetic but I have no idea how to even mention sex to her | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 03:33 AM |
| 1 | How to talk about sex with my girlfriend of 4 monthsWe’ve made our and we touch each other a lot. And no we don’t have any place we’d be able to comfortable hook up which is actually one of the biggest reasons I don’t escalate. Honestly though at this point I’d settle for sexting, but even that I don’t know how to initiate | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 03:31 AM |
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