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thekidbass/r/seduction10/04/16 11:33 PM
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Baby steps man. Baby. Steps. You don't need to be redpilled, lose your virginity, gain confidence, and become outcome-independent all in one night. What I suggest you do is slow down from all the complaining and begin focusing on what you can change. Realistically, time spent complaining is time spent not improving your current situation. Take a close look at your current situation. Why do people not respect you? Why do you want to have confidence? What does confidence mean to you? Lastly, it is…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 03:40 AM
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Interesting. Thank you for that. But when it comes to having a conversation for example, how does that dynamic still get implemented?
/r/askTRP08/10/17 11:02 PM
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Don't shit where you eat.
/r/seduction24/06/16 11:48 PM
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Give me an example of when it was a disaster
/r/seduction24/06/16 11:46 PM
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Just realize you gave her the platform to treat you like shit. Good on dropping her, but don't let it happen again.
/r/seduction24/06/16 11:46 PM
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Swallowing the pill.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 10:58 PM
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Game isn't a quick process. You can read a lot, but it's more about implementation and action. Practice the fundamentals and evaluate yourself.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 10:57 PM
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You leave. Walk away. Don't turn back. Was in this situation before, I got my shit and didn't talk to her until she came to my circumstances. She caved a month later.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 07:14 PM
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Interesting. I mean everything that I'm into, im already doing. I agree that I seek validation from external sources. I want to stop that exact neediness. I constantly need to tell people what I'm doing and how "cool" my life is.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 07:41 PM
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Also how do I " steer the topic onto" my qualities? Can you give me an example or two. Much appreciated.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 05:46 PM
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This is amazing thank you. Do you have any posts I can read? Maybe video?
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 05:45 PM
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Are there specific ways to ask questions without being boring?
/r/askTRP21/06/16 05:41 PM
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Thank you for your comment. I assumed since it was getting upvotes people are seeing but not responding. Thanks for the link.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 04:29 PM
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Go out. Women are everywhere.
/r/seduction29/05/16 01:33 AM
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Just take this idea and really consider it. The first picture a woman sees of you on tinder is how you will be perceived. Bio is the second layer. That means before you can actually talk to her, your bio and your first picture have to generate some sort of feeling from her. Edit: For qualification, I have 900 matches on Tinder.
/r/seduction27/05/16 05:48 PM
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Man I used to be famous on social media, but that shit gets to you. A study was just realized a few days ago showing a correlation between social media usage and depression.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 03:35 AM
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Do not actually read these books.
/r/seduction22/04/16 07:58 PM
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Without DIRECTLY saying it. Flirting is communicating sexual interest indirectly.
/r/seduction22/04/16 07:57 PM
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Are you asking how to guide the conversation in your favor? If she's going to constantly talk about herself, that should show you some insight into her personality.
/r/seduction21/04/16 11:16 PM
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Just something I asked myself once that changed my entire life. Would you ever date yourself?
/r/seduction17/04/16 10:49 PM
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"Already with the intimidate questions?"
/r/seduction14/04/16 01:26 AM
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If you follow Gary Vaynerchuck's rule, you know its all about jab jab jab jab jab and then a right hook. You just threw a right hook and added 0 value to the conversation.
/r/seduction10/04/16 11:32 PM
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Completely concur with this guy . Also, if you can't really make someone feel safe through practice or implementation of some technique. Your presence has to do that. A strong frame should exhibit the ability to feel safe both emotionally and physically.
/r/seduction10/04/16 01:47 AM
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She sounds a little too emotional and impulsive. You can reach out if need be, but think from your end if you actually want a woman like this.
/r/seduction06/04/16 06:11 PM
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Reading a book and actually applying it.... Two different things.
/r/seduction08/02/16 01:51 AM
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Dude, don't plan our your interactions. Do whatever feels natural. It's the only way to learn. Sure you might want to implement some principles in your head such as abundance mentality and independent outcome, but don't start formulating a plan on when to touch her. Example being: Okay when I get out of the car I will hug her and put my hand behind her back and hug her tightly. Don't do that. Not everything will go according to plan. Just do whatever feels natural. In my personal opinion, at the…
/r/seduction29/12/15 05:39 PM
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So..... Models.
/r/seduction29/12/15 05:37 PM
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I'm about to get on a flight but I'll comment an article here that may help in a few minutes, and I'll post it on the subreddit as well. Give me a bit. Here you go mate: http://illimitablemen.com/2014/04/13/monk-mode/
/r/seduction27/12/15 05:06 AM
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My fault dude, I responded to the wrong comment at first. Uh I grew up fairly poor so I value my time now a lot more than I used to. When you give up watching Netflix and being on social media for hours a day, your life takes drastic changes. If you want some tips for college and just time management in general, feel free to message me.
/r/seduction27/12/15 03:19 AM
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Haha I'm a full time student, but I work part time at an accounting firm and part time as a financial analyst.
/r/seduction27/12/15 02:32 AM
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Exactly man. I don't understand the reasoning behind that. You look so pathetic when you extend your money to someone in transaction of looking good/nice. I find it pathetic. Glad you see it the same way.
/r/seduction27/12/15 02:09 AM
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Backstory: Had sex with a girl a few nights ago after I met her at a club. At this point she has no idea that I have money and that I am financially stable. After doing some research on me she found out that I am fairly well off, and starts texting me to "take her to a weeknd concert". For those of you that don't know Weeknd is a famous singer from Canada but is well known in NY- he had a huge concert at Madison Square Garden. Anyways, she keeps asking me and I ignored her texts throughout most …
/r/seduction27/12/15 01:23 AM
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You have to look at what place she is in. Look at the environment she's in, where Hollywood provides tons of facades. And why are you so quick to judge her man. Sure he might be skinny, but he could be way more alpha than you. Sure he might be skinny, but he could have mastered the Models mindset way better than you.
/r/seduction23/12/15 03:15 PM
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There's a difference between calling people out to better them, and calling people out to be an ass. As long as your intentions remain positive, there shouldn't be a problem.
/r/seduction21/12/15 07:06 PM
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Only the men were told
/r/seduction21/12/15 01:13 PM
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I meant frequently as in you don't go around telling people or assuming people have trouble hearing. The same way you don't go around staring into people's eyes, but when you do either of them you would get the same results for a majority.
/r/seduction20/12/15 04:42 AM
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No it's a progressive situation and actually does occur. Obviously it doesn't occur frequently so it's hard to imagine, but I've seen that situation unfold before.
/r/seduction20/12/15 04:34 AM
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Hahaha, I've actually been getting my cousin to improve himself. He comes from a tough background so I took him in and I never thought he'd approach a girl in front of me. He has a tough exterior. Doesn't socialize much, so when I show him how wide my network is he seemed intimidated. Made me super happy to see him approaching girls with little to no discomfort.
/r/seduction20/12/15 04:21 AM
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How would an outfit say that you're probably sexual? It's just an article of clothing. I highly doubt that the way you dress will have a negative impact on how others see you, but there's a reason why people that stick together tend to dress the same.
/r/seduction20/12/15 03:51 AM
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It is the definitive book to body language. One of my favorite books. Here's the older version of the book in PDF: http://www.researchgate.net/file.PostFileLoader.html?id=53413e7ad3df3e806c8b4570&assetKey=AS%3A273544229916696%401442229435083
/r/seduction20/12/15 03:41 AM
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Your style is an expression of yourself, so mimicking somebody else might give off a false impression. There's a reason why you may think MFA provides a boring style to you, because its not compatible with your style. Walk around the streets of NYC and you'll see a shit ton of styles, each manifesting a personality of the dresser. Play around with clothes and find what suits you. It's not about being a lady killer for every single lady. It's about being a lady killer for those that you're actual…
/r/seduction20/12/15 02:44 AM
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1,000 is a bit of an exaggeration, but I do believe that if you ignore the fact that your height is a problem, then that problem will disappear. Many people don't realize the power of the mind. When you attribute something with a negative connotation, it will only grow. Of course it would be better to be taller, but being tall isn't always better. Turn your disadvantage into an advantage. You're shorter, which means its far easier to gain muscle mass and the physique you want. Tall people tend t…
/r/seduction19/12/15 11:18 PM
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I second this, but recommend going to sephora and getting a few free samples of colognes you want to try out for a week or two. I got about 5 samples, received major compliments on two of them, so I bought those 2 only.
/r/seduction19/12/15 11:15 PM
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By far for me was guided meditation. The most wonderful and amazing thing I have done. I have ADHD... you can only imagine how difficult it would be to sit down and tackle this thing that people called "meditation". Oh how much easier it was when I was guided. My favorite guide is: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jyy0ra2WcQQ
/r/seduction19/12/15 11:11 PM
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So.... Models.
/r/seduction18/12/15 01:47 PM
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^ Best way.
/r/seduction10/12/15 12:52 AM
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"Point out SOME things"...
/r/seduction08/12/15 01:28 PM
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Dude it's fine to see her again, just make sure your life doesn't revolve around her.
/r/seduction07/12/15 02:09 AM
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Hey mate. No it doesn't count as double texting. You only double text when you're in need of a response. Something along the lines of "Hey" an hour passes she doesn't respond so you go "Hello...." That stems from neediness because not only are you bothering her but you're texting her twice showing that you're constantly checking your phone for a response from her. Text her that, seems pretty nice. Just stop being afraid of the outcome. You might lose her, you might not. Just enjoy the moment. Yo…
/r/seduction07/12/15 01:53 AM
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Neediness stems from negative intentions. People are usually needs in relationships to fulfill some insecurity they have. You seem fine from the context you've given us. Texting her is not making you needy, its just a form of communication. Being needy is when she doesn't respond, you start texting her again and again. When she says she's busy, you continue to bother her instead of giving her space. When people do this, they're needy from the negative intention of insecurity- essentially they're…
/r/seduction07/12/15 01:45 AM
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Forget weed and alcohol. They're human just like you. All humans need connection, conversation and interaction. Just always keep that in mind. I've had multiple girls thank me for approaching them and turning a boring night into at least a semi interesting one.
/r/seduction07/12/15 12:27 AM
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Tennis, ping pong, and basketball. Fitness is not a supplement to your life... It's something necessary.
/r/seduction06/12/15 08:51 PM
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Depends on your intentions behind what you say. Also, don't plan out your lines. Let them be spontaneous. Really helps you improve your game that way.
/r/seduction06/12/15 02:59 PM
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Well you just did what everybody needs to learn to do- have HONEST COMMUNICATION. Nothing to lose, much to gain.
/r/seduction06/12/15 04:53 AM
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Confidence in yourself.
/r/seduction05/12/15 04:53 PM
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Potential study date?
/r/seduction04/12/15 11:12 PM
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Only reason to fear judgement is if you do not accept yourself. True confidence is not I'm upset if she doesn't like me, it's im okay if she doesn't cause I know I have a great value to whoever my partner is.
/r/seduction04/12/15 05:47 PM
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Simply when they see you with another girl, they get all energetic and make asses of themselves by ASSuming shit. It's a good thing. If she's bringing it up, that more than likely means she's interested herself and wants to identify and then eliminate competition.
/r/seduction04/12/15 05:43 PM
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You now have a medium for communication. However this medium is only good enough for setting up a face to face meet up. Set up a date.
/r/seduction04/12/15 05:41 PM
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Hahaha. I have a shit ton of FR's available, a lot of things on my bucket list have been crossed. This one was just a great and hilarious coincidence.
/r/seduction04/12/15 05:35 PM
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Why not use a journal?
/r/seduction03/12/15 11:23 PM
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Yes but these feelings are transitory. They're the trade off between staying and leaving. What do you get when you leave her and move? Opportunities for work, a new environment, and who's to say that you won't find someone like her in this new place you move to?
/r/seduction03/12/15 02:01 PM
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You're not fulfilled with your own life. Let go of her. You said it yourself "I only want to impress her and make her happy..." Make yourself happy first. Even if that involves leaving her, starting life fresh, and making good decisions now that could be terrible later. It's how you learn to live life and love yourself while doing it.
/r/seduction03/12/15 01:23 PM
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If you're around NY, it would be my pleasure man.
/r/seduction03/12/15 05:19 AM
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Edited my post for you
/r/seduction03/12/15 04:06 AM
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Edited my post
/r/seduction03/12/15 04:06 AM
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This is why I think people should journal. So your first time at this bar, you realize the girl initiated everything. She's the one that made you comfortable, she's the one that got you to start talking. The second time you went there, no girl initiated and that is why you got depressed. The problem lies in the fact that you rely on a girl to initiate the conversation first. You're at a bar? Many things you can do. I live in NYC and my first time at a bar wasn't all that crazy but I opened up tw…
/r/seduction03/12/15 12:12 AM
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In my high school, mind you there are 4000 people, we started out with hugs and then a kiss on the cheek later. Even if you were just friends you would kiss on the cheek. I'd go for the hug. When you're in college, you'll start with the handshake most likely.
/r/seduction03/12/15 12:08 AM
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Texting game is slowly dying out. I always call the girl a but after texting. One time I texted a girl and set up a date... Never called her. When I made her laugh on the date she sounded like a fucking dolphin
/r/seduction02/12/15 08:41 PM
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There is way too much calculation in this.
/r/seduction02/12/15 08:40 PM
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Your best source is to actually go out and do it.
/r/seduction02/12/15 08:39 PM
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The time I approached a girl to find out later after I had sex with her, that I had sex with her older sister. Backstory of how I met the younger sister and found out I slept with her older sister: I'm only 19 FYI. I was with my best friend, Ben, at a lounge around our area. We walk in and I know the host very well so he seats me and brings out my usual hookah set with two beers ( I don't get IDed at this place ) I barely even touch my beer before I see this ridiculously cute short haired girl w…
/r/seduction02/12/15 08:39 PM
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Yeah and then you can do something along the lines of " it's jake from state farm... We're running a promotion. Date for two at ____ at ( whatever time ). Free of charge. Limited time only."
/r/seduction02/12/15 06:08 PM
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Would be funnier to actually pretend you're from state farm....
/r/seduction02/12/15 06:00 PM
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Power of habit- Charles Duhigg.
/r/seduction01/12/15 09:50 PM
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If we are talking for an hour, an there is no escalation... Then most likely I'd be bored. Kino kino kino.
/r/seduction15/11/15 03:45 PM
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Reddit.com/r/theredpill
/r/seduction15/11/15 03:19 PM
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How do you have an " awesome sexual life " but you've never kissed a girl? Anyways.... Learn how to escalate and build momentum in your interactions. Once you kino and build gradual momentum, the kiss becomes a natural step in your interaction.
/r/seduction15/11/15 03:18 PM
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Are you escalating and building momentum in the interaction? Two very important things.
/r/seduction15/11/15 03:15 PM
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Nothing at all, rather there's a greater post than this about monk mode from one of the great redditors that spends his time on that subreddit. Link: http://illimitablemen.com/2014/04/13/monk-mode/
/r/seduction10/11/15 10:19 PM
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If she contacted you, you should have just taken that evidence to court. That's a huge piece of evidence.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 12:58 PM
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My very red pill professor in high school taught us this poem. It was so beautiful I used it for my essay for the college of my dreams. I got in, and received a letter saying how the poem and essay moved all the directors that read it. It's a truly fucking beautiful poem and shows the core of a man.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 03:06 PM
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The red pill
/r/seduction05/10/15 03:17 AM
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Why are you rejecting yourself...
/r/seduction05/10/15 03:16 AM
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Someone took two pictures of me (before puberty and after) and then put them side by side. I was in Zara at about 9pm in Long Island. The casher flips out when I go up to the register and she's like " YOU'RE TRENDING ON INSTAGRAM YOU'RE ALL OVER" and as it turns out a shit ton of people were posting up my pictures? It was weird. One of them that had 1million followers, their instagram was Oktweet, blocked me after putting up my picture? LOL. It was very weird.
/r/seduction04/10/15 02:43 AM
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Whats up brotha. I used to be instagram famous ( I have pictures for proof if you need it ) and honestly it helps with shallow insecure girls. It gets boring as fuck when you deal with girls that only care about the virtual world. I had a picture of me with almost 90k likes. I used to walk around the mall and girls would come up to me and shit. It was ridiculous. It did help me once or twice. I went to a modeling gig and on my way out there was a shoot going on for adidas and one of the girls ge…
/r/seduction04/10/15 02:15 AM
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Mark Manson's method. He's a genius.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 09:54 PM
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I just say, Facebook is for friends. I'm trying to be more than a friend. If she doesn't want to be more than friends, considered her filtered out of your life. You want to be with woman that want to be with you. Don't waste your time with a girl who will use an excuse to not give you her #
/r/seduction05/09/15 09:32 PM
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Being vulnerable is not a bad thing. I just think you were too negative, and making it seem like she's the only form of happiness available to you. There's a healthy form of vulnerability and an unhealthy form... I believe you chose the latter. That is what she found unnattractive.
/r/seduction19/08/15 07:52 PM
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Yeah I get that but why emulate? Why not become?
/r/seduction12/08/15 12:55 PM
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Why watch a James Bond movie and copy a character? That's not the real version of yourself and can be problematic when you actually get into a relationship..
/r/seduction12/08/15 10:56 AM
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Rejection to me isn't " ew you're ugly get away from me" it's " we are not compatible right now ".
/r/seduction09/08/15 07:26 PM
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My example of this is when a chick asked me what I thought of her outfit and I said that top is off.... It doesn't really fit. But you make it work. Harsh tease cause she spent time dressing up for our date but I complimented her
/r/seduction09/08/15 06:51 PM
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I don't really believe in rating from 1-10 on attractiveness. It's either 1 or 0. 1 I'll have sex with her, 0 I won't. Mark Manson presented this idea and I believe it works wonderfully.
/r/seduction28/07/15 03:44 PM
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I don't believe women shit tests for negative reasons. I believe that it's their natural being and that how a guy responds to it is just a manifestation of his core personality. If you don't let it bother you, then she won't " shit test you". If you don't like something she does, be a man and say that you don't like it. Like Manson says: " Honest Communication."
/r/seduction28/07/15 03:42 PM
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Smooth man. Love the approach, baby steps are the way to go.
/r/seduction11/07/15 04:23 AM
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Everybody has a story, a certain set of experiences that made them who they are. I feel like it's beautiful to learn about a person as much as you can. I learned so much through people, it's quiet amazing. View every person as a library of information about certain things. I met a dude at a store shopping for fishing poles. We talked about fishing and my past experiences, and then his, and how he got into fishing. He harpooned a fish in his village when he was 9. He taught me a lot and we remain…
/r/seduction07/07/15 06:21 AM
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Had a lot of pleasure reading this FR. From the books you listed, I noticed Models by Mark Manson is missing. You should definitely look into that as I think it will only up your game.
/r/seduction07/07/15 04:12 AM
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No need for the dumb idiot.
/r/seduction06/07/15 12:33 AM
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Eau Savage.
/r/seduction05/07/15 01:34 AM
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That attitude made me go from happy to shitty real quick. Chill out my man, physical attributes do play a role, but only a partial role in seduction. Like yourself before a chick can like you. Love yourself before a chick can love you.
/r/seduction22/06/15 12:06 AM
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At the end of the book somewhere, Manson gives you a way to change your habits by implementing his things little by little. The true book that changed me is the Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg.
/r/seduction20/06/15 11:35 PM
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My guydude I have a good story for you. I was at the gym- mind you I'm only 18. Anyways, this chick thats 22 years old, places herself next to lat pulldown machine while I'm doing cable rows. I reach for my water bottle and we made small eye contact and I just say " Working out only gets worse in the summer, you can't catch a break with this heat." Conversation went forth, we are both working out on back so we just talked about our workouts, and then a bakery across the street that she never tri…
/r/seduction20/06/15 07:29 PM
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Dude I know LI is difficult, the area mixed with the women just makes things worse. I lived there for a bit. I'm assuming your parents are making a decent amount of money, and LI has a lot of resorts and clubs. Try tennis or swimming. You also have LA fitness next to you, that gym is always PACKED. There's basketball there, racquetball, swimming, and a lifting floor. If you really want to find something you will. Also you can create something todo. Remain positive.
/r/seduction19/06/15 10:40 PM
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Exactly what Mark Manson says on Models.
/r/seduction09/06/15 04:27 PM
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You're seeming to figure things out by experimenting which is all fun in itself. There's no need to google things, just explore. Sex is about both partners having fun.
/r/seduction08/06/15 03:43 PM
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Lol.
/r/seduction08/06/15 03:42 PM
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This post may be too extreme, but I strongly believe in communicating during foreplay and intercourse. It smooths things out and allows for maximum pleasure on both sides
/r/seduction04/06/15 08:53 AM
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I think your action has to match the energy level present in the conversation or scenario. When I'm super pumped and full of energy I'm smiling and radiating too much positive energy I feel like I can run forever- I go for a hug. It's genuine and the girls can feel that. I'm also 18 by the way. I do the whole handshake thing sometimes followed by a kiss on the cheek depending on the place I'm at- usually a lounge and a chick I know introduces me to her friends or something along that scenario. I…
/r/seduction04/06/15 08:51 AM
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You're too invested in other people's opinions of yourself.
/r/seduction03/06/15 06:35 AM
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Man chill out. Get out of your head, you're good enough. You're under unique circumstances, and experiences, that made you into who you are. At the end of the day your past experiences make you who you are, and that in turn makes you unique. You're good enough, believe me.
/r/seduction25/05/15 08:59 PM
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When they have headphones in, I usually just mouth words, but don't make any sound. It's just to mess with them, and then they take out their headphones and I tell them I didn't say anything I was just messing with them. That leads into laughs, and then I continue the open with " what're you listening to?". And conversation begins.
/r/seduction25/05/15 05:39 PM
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Confidence is not " She will like me." Confidence is " I will be fine whether she likes me or not."
/r/seduction15/05/15 08:58 PM
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Completely agree, very very often they are exaggerated
/r/seduction15/05/15 08:56 PM
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I'm 18, and his story might be bullshit BUT once when I went out to a hookah lounge there were 2 girls already smoking and drinking and my friend and I decided to sit down and pretend like we knew them. Later we were hooking up, and the bill came. The girls paid for my beer, and my friends beer. We didn't really have to do much. They just offered and it worked out that way.
/r/seduction15/05/15 05:46 PM
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Your friends are holding you back.
/r/seduction15/05/15 05:45 PM
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Yeah guys.... lets just remember not every girl is like this.
/r/seduction15/05/15 05:43 PM
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What do you like? If you like facial hair and want to grow it out, then do it man. Don't live for what other people might like on you. Do what you like, because what will happen is the women that DO like it, will be even more attracted to who you really are. The women that don't like it, they'll either put up with it, or not. It helps you screen and filter the girls that like what you like, and appreciate your ability to grow a nice beard from the girls that don't like it and find it unattractiv…
/r/seduction13/05/15 11:00 PM
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If a girl really wants to see you, most likely she would reschedule after using an excuse. Something like " oh I can't do it that day, but how about the day before or the day after at 4pm?" If she's not doing that, I'd let it go.
/r/seduction13/05/15 03:35 PM
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You're more invested in other peoples opinions of yourself, than you are invested in your own actual self.
/r/seduction13/05/15 02:28 AM
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Attraction always has an expiration date.
/r/seduction12/05/15 11:26 PM
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Many people live, not many are alive. Do whatever makes you happy. Explore the world, the internet, your mind, and your body. Take on some new things. I never played ping pong unit last month and I can say fairly that I fucking love it, and I'm pretty damn good. I've gotten 2 phone numbers, and had a date start with PP. Explore your limits. "What a shame to live, and not know what you were capable of."
/r/seduction12/05/15 07:39 PM
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Just the simple fact that she's mentioning " not having sex" means sex was on her mind. Had a girl tell me once before " we aren't having sex tonight" and I retorted with " someones been having some dirty thoughts on their mind". We had sex that night. Words are cheap, actions are gold.
/r/seduction12/05/15 05:54 PM
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It may be because I'm younger (18 turning 19) but I've had a majority of my dates consist of the girl driving or taking a train for about 45 minutes to an hour to come see me, and then another 45-1 hour on the way back. I know how you feel, its difficult because you feel very limited. The girls for me really don't seem to mind, and I do live in NYC where trains are an actual thing that people come across some point in their lives. My suggestion to you would be step back from seduction and work o…
/r/seduction12/05/15 05:52 PM
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I don't believe that what you're doing is wrong at all. Do you know what you want from seducing women? Are you going on Tinder dates expecting to just have sex? Or are you running through women expecting to find one that suits you for a relationship? Underline exactly what your purpose is for your actions. It'll help you understand yourself a lot more.
/r/seduction12/05/15 05:50 PM
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I have honestly never not kissed on the first date. If I'm interested in a chick, I want to make sure she's interested in me. Life is short, don't waste time.
/r/seduction05/04/15 12:54 PM
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I never said communication would make them have sex with each other. He can identify the situation, understand where everything fits and leave if he feels he can do better. Communication removes the fog.
/r/seduction03/04/15 10:39 PM
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Communication is key
/r/seduction03/04/15 09:57 PM
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Whats up turtle. She's just one chick with a specific view like that. You can play it off with a saying I grew up with " Different folks, different strokes" meaning different people are into different things. If she doesn't like the fact that you're trying to take her out, and she's telling you that you're rushing it. Tell her life is short, live it well, and have fun. Otherwise, on to the next one. However, if you feel like you shouldn't rush it, and both your views on relationships match, then…
/r/seduction03/04/15 06:56 PM
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Dude the day doesn't matter, when it comes to a second date, if the first one went well then she's waiting for another date. Give her a call whenever the time is right for YOU, and see if the time will fit with hers. If not, work around it, set up a date, and don't look for " optimal times" we don't know it. Only she and you do, by looking at your schedules.
/r/seduction03/04/15 06:54 PM
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Never heard of the spitting it out thing. Gave me a great laugh. This is what I do, but to me it all boils down to passion. You can't really practice these or train yourself to make it happen, it just kinda does. Slow neck kisses and gentle biting Shoulder kisses and gently brushing your lips against her Nipple sucking -Lots of teasing with kissing (like when I pull away to just look at her with a " fuck me " kind of face, she'll try to come back in for kisses and ill move away and she'll laugh …
/r/seduction03/04/15 06:52 PM
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This is how most of my pickups go. I target something that I find interesting, something that's easy for me to talk about. Its quick and effective, and doesn't require some bullshit extravagant tactic. Love this simple FR man and show her how we get down in MARIO KART!
/r/seduction03/04/15 04:02 PM
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If you are jogging and so is the girl, try a " tag you're it " and lightly touch her and then jog away a bit. A little risky but if it works well enough it'll be hilarious and a great opener.
/r/seduction03/04/15 01:14 PM
1

Did you read what he wrote? " I would happily go and introduce to one of em , but I don't know how to keep the conversation going with a girl "
/r/seduction03/04/15 01:13 PM
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The impact of social media on modern dating/courting.
/r/seduction02/04/15 07:09 PM
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Well through text a lot of the time when people say " lol " they aren't laughing :(
/r/seduction01/04/15 10:12 PM
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Don't buy those DVD's. Im sure you can find the pdf of Models online, BUT support his revolutionary book on dating by buying a copy. Its like 12$ on barnes and nobles. If you want to deal with your "creepiness" then Models is your way to go. Most things that you need to know will come from actual practice on the field. You can tell any athlete how to do something, but it will take them hands on practice to actually get it done, and to actually learn something. Best of luck man and if you need un…
/r/seduction01/04/15 10:12 PM
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Are you nervous in person? I used to have a similar problem, witty through text but silent in person. I bridged the gap by realizing that I was nervous in person years ago. Finally realized that if they like me through text, they'll love me in person. I became comfortable, and my true personality was present in person.
/r/seduction01/04/15 10:01 PM
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No.
/r/seduction01/04/15 10:00 PM
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^ all you need to know
/r/seduction01/04/15 05:15 PM
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Since its your first girlfriend, I'd just give you two pieces of advice. Don't become clingy and view her as the only girl in the world that's alive for you. If something goes wrong, or if she has certain personality traits that piss you off or turn you off, then leave. Don't be clingy. Also be outcome independent, don't expect that she'll have sex with you, and all that fun stuff. Don't have this preset notion that having a girlfriend means certain things. Just stay chill, enjoy the ride, and l…
/r/seduction01/04/15 01:33 PM
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I'm a fairly well looking guy, so I've had girls call me a player and some other hilarious things. I always respond with " Oh we're already judging this early in our relationship" and the script gets flipped on them.
/r/seduction01/04/15 10:55 AM
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Hypothetical scenario: You are standing at a bus stop, and a dog walks up to you. Not fully walks up to you but has its head in your direction while looking at the floor and just waits there. You would go up to the dog and see whats going on. Run that parallel with the chick, you should have checked what was going on there. Started some kind of conversation, if she rejects you, oh well nobody is there to see what happened.
/r/seduction01/04/15 02:18 AM
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No.
/r/seduction01/04/15 12:10 AM
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A lot of the information in these comments may be correct man, but let me just give you what I think is the golden rule. Take everything a single step at a time. The reason for time, is so everything doesn't happen at once- Albert Einstein. You may gather 100 books of knowledge, but it will all be useless if you don't stop every few times and work at your own pace. I think the first step you should do is figure out who you are, and what you want from life. I think seduction comes from within, kn…
/r/seduction30/03/15 10:56 PM
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Outcome independence.
/r/seduction30/03/15 10:19 PM
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Its cool man, just don't have preset notions. Judging people/events/life will lead you down a hellhole. This case is a perfect example haha. And for the date, make it seem important. Tell her its an emergency even if its just bowling. I've texted girls " EMERGENCY haven't seen you all week! Bowling tonight, ill pick you up at 9?" It adds a lot of excitement.
/r/seduction29/03/15 10:13 PM
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AH you had a preset notion of how far you think she was willing to go. What I would do is set up a date ASAP. I would probably even go as far as texting her right now and saying " EMERGENCY: In the urgency to go bowling. I'll pick you up in a few hours?" And just make you damn move. You can even tell her the second you get out of the car, that you're glad to see her, life is short. Grab her face and kiss her. Don't make it such a big deal man, she's already holding your hand, she's just waiting …
/r/seduction29/03/15 10:06 PM
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You don't date an ex.... they're an ex for a reason.
/r/seduction29/03/15 10:00 PM
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Honestly, it'll be fun to throw in some tension. See how she reacts when you guys hold hands. If you guys hold hands but she laughs when your mutual friends catch you guys. It becomes a funny game of how far can you go without getting caught. In the core of the matter though, if you really do like this girl, COMMUNICATE BEFORE THE DATE. Call her and ask her how she feels about the situation and if she wants her friends to know whats going on. Throw in how you want things to roll also. Do you wan…
/r/seduction29/03/15 09:57 PM
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Why didn't you just kiss her a few dates ago...?
/r/seduction29/03/15 09:55 PM
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Indeed it is. I bought it for 1 penny at a bookstore :)
/r/seduction29/03/15 09:25 PM
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I think the reason you feel that you're being too pushy is because you make yourself seem like a robot. " I petted her back " " i did this, I did that " Just let things flow naturally. Don't force the kino, don't robotically think about it. Your question of " what is good escalation from her on now " you're thinking too much with your dick. You want to escalate in respect to not only your wishes, but hers also. Having sex on the first date or first few dates, is nice, but its not a requirement. …
/r/seduction29/03/15 05:08 PM
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Keep it chill man. You said you moved on, so no need to stress. When you're there just do what you normally do and work the scenery. Maybe you'll find someone even better.
/r/seduction29/03/15 04:05 PM
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Exactly what you said- I call it tender-aggresive.
/r/seduction29/03/15 03:27 PM
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Im going to give you my own experience. I'm not trying boasting man just want to spread knowledge and I have a crap ton of texts to prove it from multiple woman. A lot of women tell me " I don't ever kiss or have sex on the first date but with you I did, idk why!!! " I know why. Its because I make them feel comfortable. So the first thing I offer as a part of myself is the ability to say whatever one feels without feeling like they're being judged. We always feel like people are watching us, wom…
/r/seduction29/03/15 03:09 PM
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Well you usually go on a date with a person you feel a connection with. Its all speculative in my opinion. I want to see the real science behind it. Its still a fascinating read.
/r/seduction29/03/15 01:47 PM
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My english professor and I are really good friends. He's young ~ 26. He did this with another girl, she was aware about it, she even brought it up. It didn't work, and he ended up disliking her the next date in. I think it works if you're in a really controlled environment. Whereas looking into ones eyes is apt in almost any place.
/r/seduction29/03/15 01:37 PM
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Its all about being comfortable. Emotional arousal is one of the best ways to do so. When I go on dates, I of course escalate using kino, but I start with emotional arousal first. From my view, emotions are where many problems/solutions arise. When you feel comfortable/happy/sexy then escalation can arise. You have to get to know her and what makes her emotions aroused. People love the feeling of really knowing someone in such a short span hence the "I feel like i've known you forever". In short…
/r/seduction29/03/15 12:39 PM
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