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I’m sorry I snorted at this lmao😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 12:56 AM
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I just want to know how there are people walking around who feel entitled to another person’s body like this. “You had sex with others, so you just have sex with me” wtf????
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:16 AM
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Definitely couldn’t ever be with a conservative man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:03 AM
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The government doesn’t pay the medical costs for when a child is born. The parent/ insurance does. That’s the difference. ETA: If the cost is insignificant, why can’t the men who want it just pay for it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:51 PM
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So why can’t the men who want it pay for it? If they are dirt cheap
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:45 PM
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And this shows you don’t know how to read statistics. According to a study done by the NIH in 2006, there are 300,000 paternity tests done in the US every year. I get that that was almost 20 years ago, so I’m going to be generous and use 1 million based on an article from CNN. 32% of 1 million is 320,000. Take a minute and guess how many fathers have at least 1 biological child in the us today. Over 70 million.320,000 is less than HALF OF ONE PERCENT. So you want the government to spend hundreds…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:28 PM
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No. When you say mandatory, I’m assuming this means that the government must pay for it. There are over 3 million babies born in the US every single year, which would cost hundreds of millions of dollars a year. In the US a lot of people do not have healthcare, ability to get medication they genuinely need, struggling with crippling student loan debt, children are hungry and you want us to spend that money on fucking paternity tests???? Paternity tests are widely available. If you want one, get …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:06 PM
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Why would I be in the mood and want to have sex with a man who doesn’t help maintain the household? Explain that for me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:20 AM
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I don’t think he does I’m afraid
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 03:15 AM
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Shared values are important to me, so it would be a conversation that needs to be had. I’ve broken it off with men for this before lol. We’re just not compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:43 PM
3

I know you probably think all women lose their sense of respect when it comes to men with money, but the real world doesn’t operate like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:42 PM
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Definitely. You couldn’t pay me enough money to date a republican
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:40 PM
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You don’t have to get married. But if you don’t, you need to disclose that to every woman you deal with,because that is going to be a deal breaker for many. What would be shitty of you, is if you knew this and just strung them along giving them false hope that you’d one day propose. And if they don’t want to be with you, it is what it is. Find someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:55 AM
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I haven’t had sex in maybe a year or so? I do have a vibrator and it gets the job done for me and with more favorable results: 100% orgasm guarantee and no risk of pregnancy or std. could I be having sex if I REALLY wanted to? Absolutely. But I just don’t feel like doing so and if I were to be having sex, I would want it to be while in a committed relationship. Again, this is a another thing I could have but chose not to chase. The thing is a lot of men can’t make a woman orgasm, so to me there …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 12:53 PM
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What? Lol. If a guy acts weird, I leave him alone and move on. How is that hitting a fiber?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 10:17 PM
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That has nothing to do with me. You act crazy I exit stage left
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 09:57 PM
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I’ve never met a guy who said he was a “nice guy” who didn’t act like a piece of shit when he didn’t get what he wanted so🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 08:27 PM
4

The same way you make friends with women. Look at them as actual people and not just someone to have romantic/sexual relations with
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:45 PM
9

Dudes are here complaining about not having enough sex daily. You think that having them wait till marriage won’t make it worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:14 AM
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Why can’t you have a stable family in a monogamous committed relationship? A good amount of woman don’t want to have children without being married. This is especially true if she or you wants her to be a stay at home. The women you see who have children with men who they aren’t with most likely thought they would be with this person for a long time and eventually get married. How does marriage contribute to stability when it is so easy to get divorced? Divorce is not easy. It can be a long, dra…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:10 PM
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Why does there needs to be a “pants” why not just work together?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:21 PM
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Apparently not
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:33 PM
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It doesn’t matter if you are a spouse or parent, people are still allowed to WANT and ENJOY things in life. For some people, they find fulfillment in a careers for reasons other than purely monetary gain. If I was offering a position that would increase my salary but would have an overall net-negative impact on my spouse and children, I just wouldn’t take it. Money is a crucial part of our lives, but it’s not the only thing that needs to be considered when making decisions. Do people not get dep…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:30 PM
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It was a reference to the original post about men wanting submission from women. Simple
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:11 PM
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Because men are by default better leaders and women should just accept that! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:03 PM
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Your partner is still allowed to have a career they worked hard for and want to continue to progress at, especially if they enjoy it. Some people have careers that are very location dependent and would be forced to leave it entirely if the move puts them in an area where they will not be able to find work. If you are both working and doing good, rejecting said offer will not be detrimental to both of you. However, a move that vastly favors one at the expense of another can be. Are you not worrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:48 PM
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Depends on a lot of factors such as: Your partners ability to get a new job What would their pay would be? How it would also affect their career prospects If you have children, how is would their education be affected? Proximity to family? And many others
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:23 PM
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And yet nobody wants to ask why women don't have positions of leadership especially in military areas, also did you know many militaries have to lower the physical standards just for women, very interesting Could be for multiple reasons. Women don’t enlist nearly as much as men do. So if there is more men then women, of course men are going to be more likely to be in positions of leadership. Also coupled with the sexism and misogyny displayed by many men in the military. Also I would encourage w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:18 PM
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Yes both sexes can become great leaders which is what l said in my comment but men are obviously better leaders since the best leaders in history, majority were always men Is it because men are solely better leaders, or does women not being able to get in leadership positions not have anything to do with it? Then there's the biology aspect, women tend to be more emotional which am not trying to say is a bad thing but again this is what makes them fall short of their leadership skills compared to…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:02 PM
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I'll say for majority of men that say they want a submissive woman, they just me non-argumentative, which in that case I can easily see why you will want a woman like that and I would like a non-argumentative person. I don’t really think that has anything to do with submission. It’s just negative personality traits
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:58 PM
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I don’t really see that as leading. Just pulling your weight as a dad and member of this household.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:56 PM
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I have serious questions about the places you guys frequent if you think that most men are into submission. Never said anything about most men. Not wanting an overtly aggressive, obnoxious and entitled woman who will like them is NOT, nor EVER WAS, wanting submission. Never said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:50 PM
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Only thing I can say is sorry and I hope you get what you are searching for.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:46 PM
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The questions were simple and you just decided to go off on the deep end. Relax
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:44 PM
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You are free to do so lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:43 PM
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Ok. So what does submission look like you from a woman in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:24 PM
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Why does someone have to wear the pants?why not just work together?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:24 PM
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How exactly is working together with your significant other “lowering yourself”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:20 PM
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It is how things have been with men and women throughout the whole cultural history. Culture changes as time goes on. I think we can agree that there are many things that were normal in times past, but we look at with contempt now. Likewise, as women have become more independent, less are being submissive. It’s just how things go. Ask any woman how they like it in bedroom. You'll get overwhelmingly "I love when he dominates me" It is just manifestation of their natural desires. What you and your…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:16 PM
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Still wouldn’t be with him. We have fundamentally different views and a relationship wouldn’t work between us.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:08 PM
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No. Doesn’t affect me in any way whatsoever and I don’t view it as a negative, so there’s no reason to worry about it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:06 PM
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You can’t rebuild society with humans sweetheart
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:59 PM
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So what is the solution then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:05 PM
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So shouldn’t the solution be for people to support access to mental health resources then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:20 PM
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That is um……. Disappointing. And strange……
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:04 PM
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Are dudes really that down bad to be having sex with people they aren’t attracted to? Y’all can’t be that desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:18 PM
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I want people to be happy as long as it doesn’t happen at the detriment of others. And to be honest, a lot of men I’ve seen complain about being single, are single for a reason. If you let them talk for a few minutes, you can usually figure out why. At this point I just feel indifferent. Just don’t be an ass I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:13 PM
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Lmao same
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:16 PM
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I feel like Meg would be the type to toss a girl around 😭😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:49 PM
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I created a post a few days ago addressing this exact same thing and a lot of people weren’t getting it. If you knew that you didn’t like what was in front of you, that is a you problem. Not a her problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:29 PM
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My desire to not harm other people….. cause I’m a normal person. And normal people don’t seek to make other people’s lives difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:14 AM
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Because purposefully striving to inflict pain on people who have not harmed you in any way is wrong???? Are you stupid or are you dumb?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:54 AM
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I just want to know what is the big hoopla about having a submissive wife. Can someone explain it to me please?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:42 AM
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Ahhhh the good old atheists and agnostics don’t have moral because they don’t believe in your God. Meanwhile you praise a God who has no problem committing genocide, allowed satan to slaughter a man’s family so he could prove a point, told a man to kill his son to prove his loyalty to him, and said if there is no evidence of a woman being a virgin she is to be taken to her fathers house and stoned to death by the men in her city. And I am the immoral one lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:39 AM
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Lol like men weren’t out here treating women like property in hyper religious societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:16 AM
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He knew she was a surfer before than proceeded to say he fact she was a surfer and did surfer thing made him insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 06:08 PM
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And said boundary was apparent before you became exclusive. So said guy made the stupid decision of continuing on knowing she exhibited a behavior he didn’t like, and tried to change her to fit what HE wanted. That’s a you problem, not a her problem Again this. You made the assumption they would change. That’s your fault and problem
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:33 AM
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I hope you’re beyond smoking hot because if you aren’t, there’s plenty of fish in the sea.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:32 AM
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And said boundary was apparent before you became exclusive. So said guy made the stupid decision of continuing on knowing she exhibited a behavior he didn’t like, and tried to change her to fit what HE wanted. That’s a you problem, not a her problem
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:29 AM
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Yeah this is kind of unhinged, but go off I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:25 AM
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If I knew a guy was still flirting with women after we were getting serious, I would just leave him alone. Boom, problem solved
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:05 AM
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Then You’ll end up in a miserable relationship wondering how you got there like the reply to this comment underneath you. You lost either way. It would be been better for you to just be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:03 AM
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I just searched it, and it makes perfect sense. Someone mentioned this in another comment and I didn’t know what it meant, but it’s full circle now. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:52 AM
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That’s not for you to do. Trying to change people will only make them resent you. The relationship is done anyways because I imagine you wouldn’t stop there. You get dumped, and then you’re back at square one. Congratulations, you wasted your time. Then you’re going to have the nerve to be upset about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:47 AM
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Then he shouldn’t be surprised when she dumps him and ends back on square one. People don’t have to deal with your foolishness because you couldn’t stand to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:44 AM
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If it’s not too much trouble, can you expand upon this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:39 AM
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It is up to you to decide what things are deal breakers for you and what you can deal with. Other people shouldn’t have to deal with you trying to change them because you can’t handle being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:38 AM
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Apparently they don’t bc some of these comments are crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:37 AM
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We don’t get a say in what our taxes do. Welcome to real life
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:33 AM
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I was implementing your logic to the OP, not you directly. Like I said just getting over it won't work we see couples everywhere. Live my life and we will see how happy you'd be before you want to assume. That is a you problem, not anyone else’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 04:15 AM
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I admit what I suggest is immoral but unfortunately I don’t see any other prospect of succeeding in dating without making these immoral decisions, dating seems like a dirty game until you win Just stay single then. Don’t rope other people into your life and try to change them so you can get what you want. Because when it’s all said and done,you’re going to be sitting their wondering why she broke up with you for trying to do that exact same thing. Fine someone who shares similar interests with y…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:45 AM
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It said issues are borderline deal-breakers, than just stay single. You don’t have to deal with them and vice versa. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:23 AM
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And men should just leave women they view as “sluts” alone. Boom. Everyone is happy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:08 AM
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Why would you not just chose to be with someone that aligns more with your beliefs instead of trying to change them.? Would that not make more sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:08 AM
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You did the right thing for your situation though. You recognized that it wasn’t for you and moved along. I’m more so talking about someone who would know this and instead of just leaving the other person alone, they continue on and then try to change them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:05 AM
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You don’t have anything to complain about because you continued to pursue someone knowing that they exhibited qualities that you didn’t like. So yes, that is your fault. you should’ve looked elsewhere or stayed single. Your singleness is not everyone else’s problem. Nobody owes you a romantic relationship, so get over it. And judging on your comments in past posts, it’s not hard to assume why you aren’t in a relationship. I wouldn’t want to be around someone like you either. And any woman with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:48 AM
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Most of the women decide to stay single have had relationships before and sex but for men you are forced into being single without ever having a chance and that is nothing to be proud or happy about. Even worse is when people who constantly get into relationships act like you aren't missing anything when they will never experience being single there whole life. And what do you expect everyone else to do about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:01 AM
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That’s his problem then, not anyone else’s. A woman (or anyone else for that matter) should not have to deal with someone trying to change them into being their “dream” partner because they can’t find someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:53 AM
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The comment was a reply to a man pursuing her despite her knowing she was hard working. Don’t make your reservations other peoples problems. If you know you can’t deal with something, it is stupid to pursue someone with that exact thing. That is the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:49 AM
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If I let a guy and knew he frequented strip clubs (and I KNOW that makes me uncomfortable), I would just stop dealing with him because it’s obvious we are not compatible. I would be stupid if I continued on and got mad about it later. Just like if you knew she was a party girl and cuffed her, you don’t have any room to be upset c you knew what you were getting yourself into. That’s your fault. Just find someone who isn’t a party girl. If you had done that before, you wouldn’t have wasted your ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:46 PM
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But is t you making your reservations that you clearly knew beforehand your partners problem wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:08 PM
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So a woman dressing sexy automatically signals that she is single. Lmao. What a life to live to think others are constantly trying to center their existence on getting attention from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:02 PM
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But is it not wrong to put that consequences of you overlooking that onto your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:57 PM
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I’ve always gauged sexy as to how I feel when I wear something. Not others perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:48 PM
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Sorry I meant heels can be comfortable. I guess I wasn’t clear enough. Just because a woman dresses sexy doesn’t automatically mean she is vying for the attention of men. Why not trust that your partner will not be flirtatious or act inappropriately with men Despite what she’s wearing?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:47 PM
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So the solution is to change your partner to align with your interests. Why not just leave those people alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:41 PM
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If that’s what you want then ok
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:27 PM
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Than that is your fault
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:23 PM
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If she dressed like a “slut” and you find this abhorrent, then why did you even continue seeing her?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:13 PM
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If you knew she dressed sexy during the getting to know each other phase, would it not be your fault for assuming she would change if you guys became exclusive? Why not just wait it out to find someone who aligns more with your interests?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:08 PM
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Then you would carry blame for making that assumption. Why didn’t you make your concerns be known beforehand by saying,”hey I know you like to dress sexy, but if we become exclude it would make it uncomfortable.” You knew what it was before, did you not. Why didn’t you just date someone who didn’t dress as sexy then? Why try to mold your partner into what you feel is your standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:06 PM
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My answer to a part of the question included me having prior knowledge. If I knew he had a porn issue (which is something I wouldn’t want in a partner) before I was dating him, I wouldn’t have moved forward with him. Likewise, if you as a man know you don’t want to be with a women who dresses sexy, then would it not be counter intuitive to continue pursuing her knowing she does this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:02 PM
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Women wear tight loungewear type dresses around the house all the time. Just because a dress is tight does not automatically make it uncomfortable. Same thing goes for heels. What’s wrong with a woman feeling sexy and confident about herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:53 PM
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Why did you automatically assume this person was going to automatically change their whole wardrobe if you guys became exclusive? Would you not partially carry blame for making that assumption? If you knew you didn’t want someone who dresses more sexy, why didn’t you instead go be with someone who didn’t present themselves as that from the beginning?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:51 PM
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Sometimes you just stare at them and think to yourself,” Sir, you don’t have any business being this fine. Please!” stares with lust in eyes ready to get home
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:48 PM
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Partially. The Jonah Hill situation made me remember the post mentioned in the OP. Honestly, I’ve seen numerous women on Reddit recount a similar experience with boyfriends. I’m glad you were able to find someone who aligns with your interests. It may be hard but once you find it, it’s such a beautiful thing!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:46 PM
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I guess we just have to agree to disagree then. When I’m shopping for myself I don’t think about what men would think. I consider what I like and feel comfortable in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:41 PM
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Can you give an example where this may be a issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:38 PM
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I never insinuated anything of the matter in the post……. What is with the feminist diatribe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:35 PM
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I just wanted to comment to tell you your username is hilarious. That is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:34 PM
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Taking your first paragraph and applying it to he situation in the OP, why would the guy not thought that she would carry the way she dresses into the relationship? And if he assumed she would change, is that not his fault? Why would he not have just turned around and pursued a woman who dresses more modestly in the first place. Would that not have been a more viable option?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:32 PM
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I may understand someone thinking that, but it isn’t the best generalization to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:26 PM
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I understand. I hope you find the love that you desire. Thank you for your input and have a great day!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:23 PM
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Exactly! If I know my man is fine, I’m just going to let him be fine? As long as he doesn’t get flirtatious with other women, I would have no issue. That’s all mine when we get home anyways😝💅🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:21 PM
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I guess it’s just one of those things that vary depending upon what it is. In your example, that’s fair because hinge is a app meant to facilitate communication between people who are single or are in open/polyamorous relationships. But I think it’s not fair for a man to pursue me knowing I dress sexy, then get mad at the fact that I indeed dress sexy. If you don’t want to be in a relationship with someone who dresses sexy, why not just be with someone else entirely?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:16 PM
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Why not just for themselves? It just seems like an unhealthy cycle of constantly seeking validation from others for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:13 PM
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Can’t get with a hot girl then have a problem that she is indeed-hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:11 PM
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That would depend on the women you would ask. I personally don’t. If I share something in social media, it’s because it falls into a few categories: I like it and want to share my love of something or just want to generate conversation. Some women may give you a different answer
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:11 PM
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The fear of being alone can really drive people to accept and do some crazy things. Thank you for your comment!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:08 PM
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There are certain men out there who cannot handle being with high achieving women because it bruises their ego. There are still some of them that attribute to a good deal of their masculinity on their ability to provide, and that includes financially. One could hope that they do some self introspection. But hey, can’t force anyone right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:06 PM
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Understandable. Thank you for your input and I hope you have a great day!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:01 PM
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I must be the center of he universe!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:59 PM
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Is their solution now to essentially “create” their ideal partner? Why not wait it out, do some self reflection (“why do these things make me uncomfortable “), or just resign yourself to the idea you might be alone forever?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:57 PM
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Do you feel comfortable with compromising on certain things or are you okay with being single for a longer period of time. Maybe even permanently? Curious
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:56 PM
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This is very true. It’s sad how many men think women center their existence on men. A creator on tik tok made a video saying that some men view women posting pictures online as “advertising” they are single. So when she is no longer single, posting pictures should stop. Some food for thought
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:53 PM
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I don’t know how to quote a part of a response, but lol on the Jonah part. That situation triggered the memory of that post.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:50 PM
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People change and I 100% acknowledge that. So question: if your partner makes a demand for you to change a behavior, which of the following do you :do automatically give into their request, stand up for yourself, or try to work out a compromise? I feel like it honestly would depend on what the issue is. But to answer your question, I would express my concerns and help them if they are willing to make a change. But I would leave them if not. Also, I would not have continued dating them if I knew …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:47 PM
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There has been a video making it’s rounds on social media where a guy says that due to their parents, people automatically conflate obedience with respect. I haven’t been able to stop to inking about it since. Do you think another part of it may because these individuals fear they may not find the person they want so may resort to “creating” them instead? Another thought I had
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:40 PM
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Reminds me of dudes that say women shouldn’t dress sexy, then will proceed to pursue one who does. When he gets her and tells her it makes him uncomfortable and she doesn’t change, it’s disrespecting him. Just find someone who aligns with what you want. Is it really that hard????
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:01 PM
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I saw a video recently by a creator who said that many people equate obedience to respect, and I haven’t been able to stop thinking about it since.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:52 PM
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I don’t understand why people aren’t getting this. It’s so obvious. If you have a boundary, why date someone who violates that? This is one of those things that makes me think am I going crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:58 AM
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And if she goes through something emotionally traumatic, are you not going to support her? Some people should really just stay single
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:28 PM
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If you’re asking for a woman to be a virgin, I really hope you are a virgin yourself. Do you really think virgins don’t have emotional trauma? What is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:16 PM
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Your political views often times reflect your values. So if your a left-leaning woman who supports the lgbtq community and believes in the right to chose, being someone who is the exact opposite can seem like shooting yourself in the foot. If you got pregnant and wanted to get a abortion, there is a very good chance he wouldn’t support you. And if you live in a state like Texas where one could get sued for doing so, it could potentially be a huge problem. There was a woman who was killed by her …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:59 PM
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I would forgive him for myself but I would still leave him. There are so many layers when it comes to infidelity that I don’t think many people truly understand how bad it is. Cheating is already bad enough, but the way the situation unfolds makes it so much worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:45 AM
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These are the exact same men who say they are “shocked” and “deeply saddened” when their wife files. Like yes I’ve been asking you to help for so long now and you’re surprised when I did the exact thing I said I would if you didn’t get it together.🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:24 PM
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I’ve been having this conversation with my parents more as of late. My mother has had health issues for over 2 decades, so my dad was the sole provider. Despite this, they are a team. My dad has never had a problem taking over housework, cooking, and school stuff over the years. There has been times where it was just him due to my mom being in the hospital. My family is made up of immigrants, so nobody really had the “luxury” of trying to negotiate over who did what because of what type of job t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:21 PM
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This is the perfect answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:21 PM
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Hell no. I’ll pick my pets over them every time without a second of hesitation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:18 AM
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I love my dad to pieces. My mother has a lot of health issues, so he was the only one working. Despite working long hours and laborious jobs, he always showed up for me and my brother. There have been times where he was asked to work more hours and said,”Nope. I have kids at home”. He has shown up to school events in his dirty clothes from work because he wouldn’t have had time to go home, shower, and come to see me. If he really couldn’t be there, he would call to make sure he knew how proud he…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:38 PM
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Porn is considered entertainment whether you like it or not. There have been pushes in the past to get it banned and it didn’t work, so have fun with that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:04 AM
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I’m assuming you are in favor of porn being illegal as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:53 AM
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The option of severing all ties is no longer there. What kind of shit is that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:15 PM
5

This isn’t limited to region??? I literally see women talk about this every day
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:39 PM
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One of your conditions is they can not get a divorce, so they will be forever tied to someone when they shouldn’t be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:35 PM
1

So you don’t think it’s possible that someone who wants to make sure their partner never leaves will suggest this and get them to follow, to only turn around and treat them horribly?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 02:03 PM
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No. I just say no thanks and go about my day. It’s not a big deal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:41 PM
1

Ah yes….. trapping people in a marriage where they can’t leave is such a good idea. It’s not like we haven’t already seen the negative outcomes of that before. Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:37 PM
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Are you being purposefully obtuse? The issue isn’t mothers having to be mothers. The issue is woman being the primary caretaker of the kids despite dad being in the same house, handle the majority(if not all) of the household chores, and whatever else goes on in the family while the men just go to work and come home.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:48 AM
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That’s true. Depending on what era you lived in, you were still essentially guaranteed a spouse because women had to rely on men due to not having as many rights as them. Today, unless you find a woman who shares your bigotry, has a Im not like other girls thought process, or just plain doesn’t care, it’s going to be harder for you. Spoiler alert: women don’t want to willingly be with misogynistic men. People end relationships over that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:56 PM
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The answer to this is going to depend on the social circle and upbringings of the responders. Around me women are still expected to be the primary caretakers and homemakers , even while most being employed. Everything from the kids appointments to bills falls on you. If things go wrong you are somehow blamed for it. Men get props for doing a little what you do on a daily basis. It’s laughed at if he doesn’t know basic information about your children meanwhile if you did the same thing everyone w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:32 PM
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I don’t have any issue with prenups and think they are a good idea. I honestly think more people should get them regardless of financial status. A prenup that is drawn up with representation on both sides and is fair is great.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:23 PM
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Lmao ok sir
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:21 PM
2

I do not desire a traditional household in the sense of me being a stay at home mom while my husband works. These kids are equally yours as they are mine. therefore, you owe it to them to give them 110% just like me. The point of me settling down and having a family with a man is so they could have a stable and loving father figure in the household. If I wanted to be doing mostly everything, I wouldn’t have needed you to do that. I happily would’ve skipped to the nearest sperm bank and gotten a …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:20 PM
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Men-says and holds misogynistic beliefs. Also men- “omg why can’t I get a girlfriend “😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:08 PM
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Michael B Jordan, The Weeknd, and Trevor Noah
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 12:21 PM
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As a woman, my main concern is having a partner who is going to be as active as me in the parenting process. I have zero desire to be the “primary parent” in a relationship. I would much rather just not have children and be alone if that’s the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 03:43 AM
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You think LMAOO
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 03:28 AM
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Funny because I don’t have any desire to be with a woman. I guess I don’t know myself then🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 11:34 PM
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Just say you’re homophobic and go.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 11:28 PM
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I don’t know how to reply to certain parts of a reply so I’ll just use a numbered list. Sorry I’m advance. I do not think every “good law” needs to be federal but Roe was already federal before. We saw what women went through before it was legal with many getting sick and dying from back alley abortions along with child poverty( amongst other things). Judges agreed that tor was settled law when they were going through their confirmation process. I believe the government has a responsibility to i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 10:57 PM
1

Staunchly pro choice. Overturning Roe v Wade (especially after judges said it was SETTLED law) was terrible and everyone who has functioning brain cells knows it. Look at all the things that have happened since: women getting extremely sick and literally at the brink of death, little girls having to travel over state lines to get abortions stemming from RAPE, women being forced to give birth to a no viable fetus because she didn’t have the money to travel for an abortion. When the opinion leaked…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:03 PM
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I’ve seen these red pill guys go on about they’re single bc the dating market is so bad. I don’t believe it for one second. I honestly think they know they can’t get girls. What self respecting woman would even want to be with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:08 AM
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This has to be a troll post because I cannot fathom a rational human being typing this out, reading it over, and thinking this was a good take.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:01 AM
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Nothing. Absolutely nothing. I don’t think a lot of People understand that these people they follow online have an advantage: they have a lot of money and or clout. They can get away with saying crazy shit like,”there is nothing wrong with a man cheating if he’s providing for his girl”🤦🏾‍♀️. YOU can’t. I’ve been seeing more and more posts about women breaking up with their boyfriends bc of this and they either don’t think they’re wrong or double down in their position. And since a lot of these p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:16 PM
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Yeah I got into an exchange with him and he tried to say unwanted chronic sexlessness was a crime🙄. It’s really hard to care about these people
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:47 PM
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I was referring to a sentiment I’ve seen a lot of men share both on this sub and online in general. Things like,” people put women above men. They have it easier. Men are suffering…” so on and so forth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:06 AM
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You don’t have to be in the top percent of men to subjugate women sweetheart. Not how it works. But otherwise, if you relegate men to that then that’s on you IG🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:34 AM
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I wasn’t talking about you specifically. I’m saying men in general
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:28 AM
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A random thought that passed through my head: it’s interesting how men have had a centuries long head start on women, but sm have managed to fall “behind” This was not meant to make fun of men or issues they may have. It’s literally just a random thought I had
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:22 AM
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The issue I see a lot of people running into with this is that the woman were doing this beforehand ANYWAY. So you go on dates and get to know each other while she was dressing like this with seemingly no issue, then when you’re exclusive you say “hey you dress like this and I don’t like it, so you need to change “. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a guy who wants a woman who is more modest. Kudos to you. Go out, find her, and date her. It’s stupid to do the opposite and then when she decl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:20 AM
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This statistic doesn’t say much. Who initiates the divorce isn’t the issue, it’s WHY they are filing that is the issue. There are a million and five reasons why someone files for divorce. Human beings are varied creatures therefore want different things. Are there more cut and dry examples of women wanting outrageous things in terms of a man? Absolutely. But those are very fringe examples. Most things that I have heard women want are sensible. Treat people with respect, pull your weight in this …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:56 AM
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How would the right to sex be enforced?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 06:09 PM
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People should continue having sex with people they are attracted to. There is no way to be helped
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:54 PM
7

So what should a woman do then? If she’s not attracted to you, she’s not gonna want to have sex with you. What is the way around that? You said that being chronically sexless should be a crime. Can you tell me how that should be dealt with?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:21 PM
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I think it has more to do with working on individual qualities and habits that can prove harmful in a relationship. Because at the end of the day, in order for a relationship to last you need to actually like the person you’re with and want to be around them. They’re a lot of guys out there who just aren’t good people, so I wouldn’t touch them with a 10 foot pole.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:08 PM
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Nobody owes you sex If chronic sexless is a crime, what is the solution then? Forcing women to have sex with men who they are not attracted to? Is that not rape? That’s not a problem for a woman to solve. People have sex with people they are attracted to. If not, it doesn’t happen. End of story This is not an episode of black mirror where we can see into the future or alternate realities. If you try to hook up with a girl and she declines, you’re out of sight and out of mind within 24-48 hours. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:00 PM
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It never fails to amaze me how guys act like this and wonder why no one wants to date them, let alone fuck them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 02:38 PM
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Because nobody has to compromise their desires in order for you to get your dick wet. Use a fleshlight Rape is a crime that involves violating one’s autonomy and causing great psychological damage amongst other things. That is no where near a woman just not wanting to have sex with a man. If you never wanted to get involved with that person, it’s not a loss. They just go about their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 02:29 PM
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No they shouldn’t. Sex is not a right. You’ll never fall over and die if you don’t have sex. So pitty fucks are the answer? If a woman doesn’t want to have sex with you, that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 02:16 PM
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If you view it as an issue that men can’t satisfy their desires, what is the solution then? Said solution can not involve women having to compromise their beliefs and standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 02:13 PM
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