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Things that never happened right here.
/r/MensRights01/03/22 06:31 PM
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Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:16 AM
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I feel like going out of your way to do that means you have a power dynamic sort of fetish in which you like to have control and dominate a person. Ofc younger people are more vulnerable to that. I feel this is a common fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:41 AM
0

So desperately want to excuse middle aged men dating teenagers. Its honestly pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:37 AM
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Fetishism at that point tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:35 AM
1

My boyfriend is like that, but wants to co own a house, have kids, share funds etc. i said that’s fine but I’m not having another kid, buying a house with someone or sharing a bank account unless I’m married to them. Balls in his court 🥸
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:24 PM
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What does it matter? When I barely had any partners under my belt no one believed my head count. Now that I’ve had a few in my 30s still no one believes my headcount. So what’s the point, exactly? Just because I’m good at sex doesn’t mean I’m promiscuous. The dudes that care about this are just overly concerned that I’ve been pleased better by another man. It’s like me wasting energy thinking about if my boyfriend has had better sex than with me. Maybe he has, maybe he hasn’t. Doesn’t matter. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:15 PM
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Every-time I see a dude trying so hard to be the alpha I assume he’s compensating for something small.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:50 PM
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Yep, I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:02 PM
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The general public, as a whole, is pretty idiotic. Allgasnobreaks could serve as a free infomercial for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:31 AM
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I think I know who you’re talking about. And if he so he definitely purposely picks to show the dumber girls lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:27 AM
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Everyone with a channel molds what their viewers see to cause a specific and planned reaction out of them. Especially on YouTube. It’s naive to think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:17 AM
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All of those reaction YouTube videos, especially those with agendas, are staged in a way to instigate the reaction they want. Grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:24 AM
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You’re speaking too many facts
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:44 AM
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Literally all of that is staged for idiots to feed their dumb mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:42 AM
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Made up concept. Most people, male or female, will be very tempted to leave if someone they perceive is better approached them with interest. Men do it quite often, especially when their wives get older. Maybe you should realize that a lot of red pill concepts were created around blatant hypocrisy. Men also statistically leave their wives more often when they get sick. Idk maybe realize your own bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:41 AM
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Different women like different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:33 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:27 PM
2

Do you boo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:58 AM
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The mature thing would be to learn from the situation and take accountability and move on, everyone has bad breakups. Doesn’t mean you have to turn to extremism and sexism. Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:17 AM
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Seems like the common origin story to a lot of red pill men: a bad breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:56 AM
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“Hey are you into red pill stuff?” Alternatively “What’s your Reddit handle?”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:55 AM
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No. I wouldn’t date him at all. That’s a whole pathetic degenerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 03:52 PM
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all of them do, adult women, have a story. all of them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:25 PM
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What the actual fuck? You’re gaslighting every woman by saying they are all or mostly all exaggerating about their experiences and in reality, those rapist, stalkers, users were just misunderstood. Do you even care to acknowledge how moronic that sounds?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:20 PM
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You wouldn’t know, you’re not a woman. You are dismissing our worries despite every one of us having a story about assault, stalking rape or abuse. Ignorance. I hope anytime you have a problem people around you promptly tell you it’s in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:19 PM
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You’re a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:16 PM
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Too high for us to believe that it’s not that common. When every woman has a story about it, it’s common.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:16 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:15 PM
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He’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:49 AM
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I’d never pay for someone’s nudes that’s so weird so me. Porn is free. I also don’t tend to follow absurdly beautiful people, I feel it affects your perception of reality to continuously expose yourself to sexual imagery throughout the day. I want to be productive in life so I really avoid that kind of fixation. So idk. A good sense of humor and a nice beard is probably what would turn me on the most in a shallow way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:48 AM
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While I’m in not rush, I’ll start losing my patience by year 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:39 AM
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Not a single one had an intention outside of wanting to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:45 PM
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Moron. That’s what you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:10 PM
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“Aren’t allowed”? Who the actual fuck is stopping you? It should be Illegal to be as stupid as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:28 PM
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OP doesn’t have the ability to pump and dump
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:26 PM
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I lost brain cells reading this absolute bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 10:24 PM
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I’m paid, baby. You look desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:37 AM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:12 AM
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Yeah sure, it’s just more frowned upon for women on a societal level— in that aspect you’re right. But some women definitely do consider it. I don’t really ask or care anymore, you can usually tell when a guy is a total hoe lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:08 AM
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Mad
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 02:33 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:19 AM
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Shockingly, different women prefer different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:19 AM
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It’s almost as if you don’t consider us human beings just breeding cows 🐮 I’d rather die alone than be with someone with that mentality, and I’d do so happily. Good luck finding your own little, loyal, young, beautiful breeding cow!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:55 PM
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Going with the flow of our little debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:53 PM
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You said femicides weren’t common, that is why we strayed, love.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:52 PM
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The study found that nationwide, 91 percent of women killed by men were murdered by someone they knew and that the most common weapon used was a gun.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:50 PM
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We are still talking about femicide, keep up or look up the definition. Those are homicide statistics not violence, that’s a whole other worrisome statistic. But tell me more about how women are the problem 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:41 PM
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Female all race homicide is #4 leading cause of death for women in the USA. Nationwide, 1,795 females were murdered by males in single victim/single offender incidents in 2019, at a rate of 1.18 per 100,000. Of the 1,795 female homicide victims, 1,166 were white, 501 were Black, 53 were Asian or Pacific Islander, 39 were American Indian or Alaskan Native, and in 36 cases the race of the victim was not identified. 1.7k out of 100k is pretty common. Much more common than the counterpart you were a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:38 PM
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If your wife cheated and said don’t worry I just wanted a new hot piece of ass on the side I’m not emotionally attached to it, you’d somehow feel better? Because I wouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:29 PM
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Femicide is not uncommon at all. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:24 PM
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Sorry, both cheating scenarios are equally garbage and done by garbage people and you trying to make one less than the other is nothing short of pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:23 PM
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Lmao who the fuck even said that? It’s just a fact, femicide by males is a lot more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:23 PM
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Statistically, it’s not close by a long shot. But sure, definitely happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:19 PM
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Infidelity is about availability and character. I’ve had endless opportunities and never cheated, even when in an argument. Morals matter, for whichever gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:19 PM
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They’re endlessly bitter about young women in their 20s enjoying their single time just as men are. Older men want young women, but only if they’re pUrE
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:16 PM
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No. Wrong. Everyone should delay marriage until after 30. Marriage is a big decision and marrying someone in your 20s is pretty moronic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:15 PM
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You do understand that some women indeed instigate divorces with bad behavior, right? Yes. I never said all men behaved this way, I never said all women are innocent at all, matter of fact my others comments say blatantly that there’s shitty people on both sides. What I was trying to explain is that the spike in divorces filed primarily by women now is because past generations of women didn’t have that same liberties and often getting divorced was a worse sentence than staying with shitty people…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:31 PM
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Common doesn’t mean all, whatsoever. Sorry for what happened to you, she sounds abhorrent. Anecdotal evidence is just that— I could sit here and give you plenty of first hand experiences of men being fucked up perverts, it doesn’t mean anything but that it happens and that shitty people exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:26 PM
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I’m aware I’m more skeptical than the average person and while it hasn’t saved me completely from heart ache, I feel it’s kept me from getting completely wrecked by others.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 11:07 PM
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That there is a sliding scale of pervert behavior, sure. Lol but it’s almost always an escalating situation and granted most of these men will argue to their death that their victims “looked and acted very mature” so how could they ever help themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:52 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:34 PM
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Yeah, it was like a secret we all knew about that men had wives and side pieces often and women just had to put up with it. Maybe it’s years of pent up societal resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:31 PM
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The only solution to that would be: women become easier and less selective or men become more selective as women are. Societally speaking, there are many more downsides to women being less picky as we face overall higher risks in all aspects. I wish people would just stop being dishonest assholes. In general.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:24 PM
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If you have to ask this, you’re part of the problem. Simply put, sexualizing just about everything female related. Constantly ogling, having porn or sexualized images on all of your platforms, even the ones mean for socials. Texting/sexting/commenting lewd things to women you don’t know, especially if in a relationship. Being inappropriate with women, especially those much younger than you and especially if you’re taken, and extra pervert points if it’s a family members you’re being inappropriat…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 09:36 PM
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Well, it’s a cycle. Person gets hurt so they go on and hurt the next. It’s just that much easier for women to cheat as far as willing participants go, most men have to work at least a little bit for it. That’s pretty much the only difference— men are easier to court.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 09:30 PM
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Absolutely. It can happen in any direction, but it’s definitely more prevalent for women to be victimized by abusive partners. I’ve personally seen both, abusive gfs and abusive bfs, the difference is that most of the guys that are the victims, at least the ones I know, never report it. Some more women do, but I’ve also known more of them to die or get close to death by a partner…. It just isn’t the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 09:07 PM
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Your point is null just like your existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 08:34 PM
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Could be. My area of the USA is primarily hispanic and in my culture it’s absolutely unheard of for men to do much housework besides the lawn if you have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 08:33 PM
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I never implied that was the sole reason, matter of fact I stated two factors— the cheating and the fact that women are doing double the work load by working and then tending to the house. If you’re going to argue outliers miss me with your bullshit because we all know most men don’t touch a majority of housework, especially those 30 plus. English my first language? You’re a nonsense condescending imbecile that ironically didn’t grasp from my first response that I was talking about two different…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 08:25 PM
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I agree with you, but that tends to be a certain type of people that engage in that behavior. I find it harmfully common now that men engage in risky porn on all platforms and skew their expectations of women to match that of porn. They are never satisfied with the real deal or even normal sex, they expect aggressive gymnastics and a perfect body. I think there’s detrimental trends on both sides and it all comes down to depravity and what we choose to do with it. At my age now, I find it easier …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:51 PM
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Thanks for revising, I understand where you’re coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:47 PM
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Filing a no fault divorce is just an easier way to walk away from the mess. That’s by no means accurate. If I wanted to gtfo from a relationship I’d file no fault too and fuck off from his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:44 PM
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I agree, I just hear this argument so often from men saying that it’s worse when women cheat because it’s emotional whereas for men is physical— and honestly it’s total bs and shredding of any self accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:42 PM
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I don’t think all men are bad and always feel bad by those affected by bad women. I think the cheating gap is closing and I also think women have developed a way to be more discreet about it, seeing as we have had more to lose from it over the years (death for one). But in no way is the divorce statistic to be used to victimize men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:40 PM
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Anecdotal example from you so I’ll serve you the same: I have never, ever in my 30 years cheated having had so, so, so many opportunities at my feet. And I will walk the fuck away from a relationship of any length if I so much as catch my significant other flirting with another woman. It’s that simple. I expect what I give and excuses are nothing but weakness that plague my ear. Don’t care to hear them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:34 PM
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Lmao not you saying it’s okay for men to cheat but not women. Get the fuck out of here. Any cheater is a garbage piece of shit, period. I don’t care for weak explanations of weak behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:31 PM
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^ this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:35 PM
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This is a common story, honestly; even if it’s not with a 15 yo it’s usually a much younger woman. Yet men use this divorce figure constantly To put down women as if they’re not the ones that nevertheless cause the situation that leads to the divorce. We don’t want to stick around perverts anymore we rather leave. They can die mad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:34 PM
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Numbers still show men cheat a lot more than women, so why wouldn’t we ask for divorce? Additionally, men expect women to work and pay half the bills and still do all the housework creating bitter women who rather be alone than taking care of a grown ass man. It’s that simple. Stop using this figure to make women into villains when we just don’t want to keep up with the bullshit anymore. Party is over, you don’t get to have a wife and a side piece without consequences anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:31 PM
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I make it my absolute life goal to never fuck over anyone I date. Unfortunately they didn’t get the memo and I’ve been the one shredded to pieces at times, but you learn and move on (with a lot of patience). My trust in people was never the same after, so I understand him, but it should be noted that it happens often and for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:28 PM
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Wrong. Men are by far much more shallow they just settle because sex is sex for them but if they ever even have the slightest chance with someone even .5% hotter they’ll take it, making them unreliable partners most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:38 PM
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I rather die alone than give random creeps online looking to capitalize on my vulnerability the time of day. Die mad about it, losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:34 PM
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god I hope so I wandered in here almost by mistake—the old Reddit rabbit hole— and I was severely disappointed in humanity all over again.
/r/askTRP07/08/21 03:11 AM
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You’re using this propaganda only to fit your narrative. Simply don’t be monogamous then. If you’re attempting to convince me that it’s okay for men to cheat but not women because of biology, it doesn’t matter how many words you look up on the thesaurus you’re still a moron. Female cats go out and fuck the whole cat neighborhood when in heat in hopes of getting pregnant. By your same ideology of us just being primitive beings as far as mating goes, women when ovulating would go out and fuck as m…
/r/askTRP30/07/21 01:21 PM
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Haha, I was ready to roast you too but I saw that you’re a fellow diamond hand. Hope amc hits 46 by Friday T_T
/r/askTRP27/07/21 12:55 AM
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I’m a bit impressed but nonetheless disappointed that such successful women would lack a moral compass in this realm. But that’s my ego speaking, of course. The logical thing would be to encourage them to go on if that’s what makes them happy…. I guess? Yes I would turn you down. Mainly because I’m not a cheater. But if I was heart broken enough and trying to get some quick revenge, I probably would shag you! Who knows, leaps in emotional distress can make anything happen. But if you’re saying t…
/r/askTRP27/07/21 12:49 AM
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Heh. I don’t doubt it! Confidence is probably a persons’ most attractive quality subconsciously, although a pretty peace certainly doesn’t hurt. This wasn’t about wether or not you pull women, it was about you complaining about the quality of women when they’re older, describing trashy scenarios to prove your point, right? My counter implies that it has much more to do with you and the type of cockroaches you’ve decided to bed. Everything is a choice.
/r/askTRP27/07/21 12:39 AM
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Sad.
/r/askTRP27/07/21 12:32 AM
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You attract gross people because you’re a gross degenerate yourself.
/r/askTRP27/07/21 12:04 AM
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This absolutely does matter for men. Someone who has conditioned himself to fuck multiple partners consecutively or at a rapid rate, will more than likely continue this trend and cheat therefore become a shitty ltr partner. I agree with the other redditor, you’re some loser rping as a girl.
/r/askTRP26/07/21 11:46 PM
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This is the best comment.
/r/askTRP26/07/21 11:43 PM
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This is moronic. We have computers in our pockets and consume coffee ice cream as a society, we’ve evolved well past these primitive instincts. Stop.
/r/askTRP26/07/21 10:49 PM
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Someone requiring honor while acquiring a prostitute just wow. Lmfaooooo
/r/askTRP26/07/21 10:38 PM
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So, basically double standards? You all are fucking lame.
/r/askTRP26/07/21 10:34 PM
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This comment section is fucking gross. Wow.
/r/askTRP26/07/21 10:27 PM
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Cop out. Lame.
/r/askTRP26/07/21 10:08 PM
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Nah. I have a very high libido. I still manage to not be promiscuous. Excuses, excuses. Hold yourself to the same standard you hold women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:35 PM
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Met my bf online, we’re very compatible and happy. This sounds more like your experience, albeit I agree that men have less standards If the goal is to get laid, women can be more selective because of abundance of options. Nothing to brag about, since women are condemned regardless if not picky enough. And it’s also gross if a man is too available and willing to fuck everything. I personally stay clear away from such.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:24 PM
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Bro, someone fucking ignoring you isn’t violence against you. We choose to be rude or ignore creepy dudes because we have friends and family(or ourselves) that have been sexually abused, stalked, etc. stfu. You don’t have the slightest idea. One or your fucktard incel friends literally just sent me “women deserve to be enslaved” Lunatics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 03:36 PM
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Mansplaining the threats we face in society to me. Nice. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:45 PM
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That’s just factually inaccurate. That happens with both genders. I see if all the time on both sides. People with very low self esteem don’t think they deserved to be treated well so they keep repeating the offense in new people. People can grow and change, learning to love and embrace themselves and that almost immediately will bring a new collection of mates you attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:39 PM
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Go for it, loser. We don’t want you anyway. Why did you think this was even an option? Lmaoooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:35 PM
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Being “humane” to creepers has, historically, had a high possibilities of a deadly encounter. As a woman, I rather be safe than sorry to men I don’t like but are persistent in liking me by being hostile to them so that they don’t even think about fucking with me. You’re out here crying about women ignoring you when all of us have to take preventive steps on a daily basis to survive fucking creep encounters.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:27 PM
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True! It was interesting reading this list as a woman, but I had long ago recognized it’s also challenging for men to date, especially on a big city. Out of that list, the only one I carried was the orbiters and once my bf made his case against them and established a boundary I purged the orbiters. I’m a strong believer that if I expect my boundaries to be respected I must do the same. Lead by example? I guess. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:22 PM
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I used dating apps, not tinder but okc. Met My bf there and we’ve been together for 3 years. Not perfect but truly intense love. Worth a shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:18 PM
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Just sounds like dudes too lazy to work on themselves and rather blame all their failures on women. Absolutely the worst type of men. I wouldn’t even speak to them in real life for two seconds. I also wouldn’t speak to vapid, shallow bimbos for two seconds. they’re ironically the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:11 PM
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You’re right. I like to add there’s equally shitty, shallow, worthless people of both genders and it’s equally silly to sit around and learn no skills or job experience because you think some man should afford you those things— grow up. Dating is difficult. I found that while a total Cliche, the best answer is to love yourself first, respect yourself, admire yourself, believe in yourself and what you want and you’ll find a person that’s matching your energy. You have to give in order to receive …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 02:00 PM
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Sorry can’t relate. I’ve always been in control of primitive urges. I understand it’s not the same for most and live in disappointment for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 10:08 PM
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It’s moronic and primitive but I suppose it’s to be expected. I focused on finding someone that shared a link with me that went past the shallow societal brainwash.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:01 PM
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I fail to understand what a mans money has to do with my upkeep? I buy and afford the upkeep for me. While I’m sure it would be awesome for someone to buy all my shit for me, I’ve always focused on making enough money so I can afford to have self maintenance without relying on anyone. As far as dating broke men, I like to stay somewhat within my same tax bracket. My current makes around 20k less than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:59 PM
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I think you’re absolutely spot on lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:56 PM
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But her appearance does, something that we largely can’t control with age— one can control ones success and money income if smart enough. Both genders have things they care about in a shallow sense. Edit: I only care if I make more than my mate because they start acting weird and start lashing out from feeling emasculated. My current partner is confident enough to avoid this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:53 PM
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Also makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:50 PM
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Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:49 PM
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I routinely make more than anyone I date, and I’ve never left them for that. Finding someone that isn’t a liar, cheater or into some obscure/illegal porn is just hard to encounter now a days. Morals are lacking and dwindling and we should also look at the *availability * people have now to cheat (apps, etc). It’s just… really easy now and most people can’t and won’t handle the temptation well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:48 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:44 PM
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Good. We are grossly over populated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:38 PM
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Enlighten me: if you had a high body count but she didn’t, would you accept it if she broke up with you because she perceived you as promiscuous? Or are you willing to realize you’re exercising a blatant and sexist expectation?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:27 PM
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I have a bunch. I said I’d never date someone with a shady past or that followed a bunch of lewd accounts. Been with him for 3 years but he isn’t the same person he was in his past and he stopped following those types of accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:19 PM
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Are fucking dumb?
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/20 09:29 PM
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What a disgrace.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/20 09:20 PM
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People defending this woman is a perfect display of male hypocrisy and irony.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/20 09:04 PM
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It is. “Loose” in the context of loose standards and fucking anything, which more power to her, but it doesn’t give you any type of special skill as opposed to someone who’s been having sex with the same person for x amount of years. Not loose in the context that the vagina no longer has elasticity because that’s not a real thing Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 12:22 PM
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Kewl.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 01:10 AM
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No I would really consider them just as desperate and gross, probably more than OP because he’s just in a certain situation and apparently that’s not his usual character.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 10:09 PM
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I don’t think it’s fine for anyone to cheat; it think the rates are fair now and it’s funny that men are so crossed by it, hence my comment about taking a bit of your own medicine. Where was the outrage when the issue was predominantly only males? I doubt you cared as much. It sucks either way, just check your own hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 10:08 PM
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Less so for you perhaps( men), as women we’ve always faced the issue of men being promiscuous without society batting an eye at it. The tables are finally even, of course it’s more challenging but y’all did it to yourselves and it’s in everyone’s best interest to adapt or be left behind. I’ve had several partners and promiscuous by your standard, but I have no desire to ever cheat on anyone and would be absolutely okay with just fucking my bf for the rest of my life. Shit just happens sometimes …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 09:37 PM
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Yes, I’ve also noticed a spike in men overall having a desire to find someone to settle down with. The availability of flexibly sexual women can now satisfy a man in his single phase for awhile happily, but then they realize they’re ready for love and intimacy but the girls they decided to spend time with aren’t and likely developed a behavioral pattern they won’t soon break. It leads to the idea that women are these sexual demons overall and men spiral down which leads to gender based hatred. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 09:27 PM
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I want you to realize that the street forks both ways and it’s less about genders and more about humans overall and how we’re evolving when it comes to relationships and sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 09:14 PM
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I know the rates have escalated, I can see that in everyday life. It’s reaching fair game percentages, so why complain? Y’all been in the leaderboard for a long time so being mad about it now is just funny. What’s the issue? Being served a bit of your own medicine? Best you can hope for is finding a decent percent out there and truly good luck to everyone trying to achieve that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 08:54 PM
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Also, that’s an average of 7 isn’t so far off from my average, take into consideration alone the population density of the different parts of Florida—less people naturally means less accessibility to new and different partners. I don’t doubt they’re routinely just going back to exes while in relationships with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 08:38 PM
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Yeah, northern Florida is very much like country, hick small towns and with a lot of land in between, Miami is almost like a whole other state. I’m Hispanic and have lived here for a very long time and I’d feel uncomfortable traveling towards north Florida because they’re predominantly white and blatantly racist, that’s how much of a difference it is— whereas Miami is the most populated part of Florida and just about everyone is a poc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 08:35 PM
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here you go Men have less availability to sex overall, yet cheat a lot more. But stay focused with female promiscuity as an infidelity concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 08:17 PM
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I’m not denying anything. By my demographic I am not considered promiscuous — if I lived in Nebraska, I would be. That’s just fucking facts lol. Where’s the lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 08:15 PM
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The last link was just about female infidelity by numbers of partners before marriage ; I want to see the male equivalent or are you only concerned with promiscuity when it solely aligns to women? Statistically and broadly alone, men cheat more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 08:14 PM
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Darling, what is your argument? You’ve touched on infidelity several times. I’ve never even been close to being unfaithful to anyone. Statistics are there but can easily mean nothing. Through my own pattern and mentality, it is unlikely I’ll ever cheat at all— I have been cheated on, interestingly enough. It’s rather common. For my area and population, men are also very sexually promiscuous here. It’s a mad max sex universe when it comes to dating here. It is what it is. If you hope you shame me…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 08:08 PM
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And some dudes cheat regardless too, right, we’re all gambling here! But if you’re right, I should be Gucci for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:58 PM
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I would try a dating app first. I’m not super social and tend to look upset or mean so it’s hard to meet people in person; most dudes assume I’m a bitch ( as said so by them). With no expectations, go in there and try to meet some nice girls. I know it’s way more challenging for men but not impossible; I met my SO on okc. Limitations are being lifted quickly so you’ll Be able to go on a date soon, meanwhile getting to know them through text should be productive. You sound like a nice guy and I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:40 PM
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To use a calculator to develop a conclusion on promiscuity is also laughable. I’m sure you don’t hold men to the same standard and if men had half the ability and opportunity women have to have sex, they’d all have counts in the 100s. It’s jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:36 PM
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Sigh. I have nothing to prove to you, kid, I know who I am and what I offer as a person not solely as a female. There is no denial, I don’t consider myself promiscuous for the ample amount of opportunities I’ve had. I was in a relationship for four years, he cheated, I dated around for four years, and have been in a relationship now for almost two. It is difficult to date here; as it is in most densely populated cities. I’m not even slightly ashamed of my number of partners as it is as a chapter…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:34 PM
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I mean, you’re right. I’m a product of my environment and I’m not ugly. My city is very, very, very promiscuous and sexual and I’ve been tricked once or twice by a fuckboys who pretended they actually wanted a relationship but just wanted sex. It is what it is. But dating about one to two dudes a year while I was “ single” is hardly promiscuous, especially since I never dated two at a time and I’ve never in my life even came close to cheating on anyone. In all articles it says plainly it depends…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:25 PM
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From what you’ve written, it does sound like you’re sexually frustrated but I have a bold assumption that you crave love-like intimacy also or even more. My advice for you is that it’s never too late to ascend beyond your carnal, overwhelming desires and that maybe a detox overall will do you some good. Maybe don’t even fap for x amount of time. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with your nature, you even sound similar to my partner—he’s on the more hyper sexual side with a ... colorful sexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:23 PM
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Ah yes, and I’m torn about it. I believe in women’s ability to be openly sexual but I get frustrated by the amount of women just using their sexuality and bodies for monetary gain. I want more for us; I want to see more home and business owners, politicians, ceos, doctors. But it’s a fight I won’t win and I’m always labeled as a bigot for it. It’s also supply and demand— promiscuous women wouldn’t exist if men didn’t didn’t pay for them as much or if men didn’t enjoy “ sluts” as much. Also, I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:13 PM
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Well OP said fapping isn’t the same so he’s still frustrated despite milking his junk, so maybe if I get in an accident and my vag is torn, my mouth won’t suffice lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:10 PM
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It varies heavily state to state, obviously. derpi derp Is this just some profound jealousy cus you’ve only fucked 3 half baked potatoes in your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:07 PM
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I live in Miami, and most people can’t even remember the amount here. And that isn’t, it’s about the national average. Also, men fuck a lot more than that usually— why aren’t they getting judged? Silly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:03 PM
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If I like him enough and it wasn’t a pattern, I wouldn’t reject him immediately. I would maybe silently do more vetting to see if this is a pattern of hyper sexuality. Edit: but it would be a bit off putting, Nonetheless. People aren’t perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:02 PM
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Yes, I do. I used to be a fat kid. It was challenging and it will remain challenging for the rest of my life, but succumbing to these cravings is weakness. The real issue is when we inadvertently create habits we later resent. For example, eating chocolate daily maybe won’t have evident repercussions right away but you’re creating a habit that will be damaging In the near future. Challenging yourself to avoid temptations is mentally stimulating and just builds you up and helps you mature. I don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:00 PM
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I don’t think porn in worse, but porn in excess while you’re on a relationship leaves a distaste in ones mouth. I would be a fool if I assumed any man didn’t watch porn; it’s a much better substitute to cheating. Nonetheless, you’re single and if you decide on the escort just keep it to yourself if you ever find yourself in a relationship; some things don’t need to be said... unless I guess she asks. On the same topic, I think paying for cam girls is just as—excuse me for this—pathetic. :/ but a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:53 PM
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Well, you’re right I can’t fathom it. I have male friends and they’ve spoken about it and so has my bf and I believe them, I just also believe that you can persevere through this. It goes in phases I’m sure, as one friend explained, and sometimes it is overwhelming and then when you go through that spike you’re able to be reasonable. As one of my male friends explained it in person, as he also has a high libido but had found ways to control it. He even was purposely celibate for about a year bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:49 PM
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No, I never lie but I’m also never believed. I’ve had 11 men in my life, I’m 28, whenever I’m asked men either straight up don’t believe me or joke that they should double that to be accurate. If I had fucked 100 I would say so too; I care not what a simpleton might think of me. I’ve simply never been promiscuous and there’s people that have and both are okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:44 PM
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Why don’t you just fap? I’m sorry I don’t understand and as a woman, if I found out a dude hired an escort I’d be so turned off it’ll be hard to change my mind. Desperation isn’t attractive— control yourself it’s not impossible. Fap.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:40 PM
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I think you’re right. I think men like what you’ve described are an extreme turn off and I never even give them much of an afterthought. I do think men want to be the best in your life as far as sex goes and if they are I gladly say so( I’ve told my bf several times).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:37 PM
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Personally? The main thing I look for and cling to is intelligence, then it’s responsibility— can he manage his own finances, can he survive on his own, etc—then it’s display of interest in me, such as putting in effort etc, thirdly he should be decent looking at least. My friends say I tend to aim below my league, but I don’t think so. Maybe sometimes I go for average looking men, or “nerdy” ones but I’m just attracted to the tall and lanky and well-worded gentleman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:31 PM
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