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| 2 | and they want women over 30 to just... disappear? hide in a basement somewhere? this queen is goals! title is" why can't I be sexy at 71". LVM in fumes! gross is sexualizing teenagers and 20 somethings and preying on them! gross is drooling over 16 year olds when LVM are their dad's age!This is a pretty lazy way to wrap up what could’ve been an interesting conversation🤷🏻♀️ You seem bitter that the sub didn’t just gobble up the content you posted. Username does not check out😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/22 01:19 PM |
| 49 | and they want women over 30 to just... disappear? hide in a basement somewhere? this queen is goals! title is" why can't I be sexy at 71". LVM in fumes! gross is sexualizing teenagers and 20 somethings and preying on them! gross is drooling over 16 year olds when LVM are their dad's age!Couldn’t have said it better! I tried to stay neutral in my judgements, but if we’re being real she’s got on stripper heels and clothes that scream “check out my hot dancer body”! Again, she does have a bangin’ body and she clearly worked very hard for ALL her success, but her message/image does not seem to align with FDS values. Am I supposed to be trying to stay sexy my whole fuckin’ life? Am I worthless if I don’t have abs? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/22 01:15 PM |
| 23 | and they want women over 30 to just... disappear? hide in a basement somewhere? this queen is goals! title is" why can't I be sexy at 71". LVM in fumes! gross is sexualizing teenagers and 20 somethings and preying on them! gross is drooling over 16 year olds when LVM are their dad's age!I respectfully disagree. For the women who struggle with wanting external validation, especially in the sex-appeal department, this is precisely why we turn to FDS and apply the STRATEGY. We aim to decenter men from our lives as much as possible and allow ourselves be the source of our own validation. I think you’ve resolved this quite nicely😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/22 01:12 PM |
| 27 | and they want women over 30 to just... disappear? hide in a basement somewhere? this queen is goals! title is" why can't I be sexy at 71". LVM in fumes! gross is sexualizing teenagers and 20 somethings and preying on them! gross is drooling over 16 year olds when LVM are their dad's age!Grooming and putting in effort to remain attractive are absolutely necessary, I agree with you on that. This woman has spent her life taking care of herself and it shows. It’s impressive and motivating, for sure! I simply can’t tell if she’s doing it for herself or others, and that’s where the lines get blurred. Why does she need to prove to everyone that she’s sexy? And if she wants to fight ageism, why not highlight the physical/emotional/etc. changes she’s undergone over the years AND show ho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/22 01:05 PM |
| 41 | and they want women over 30 to just... disappear? hide in a basement somewhere? this queen is goals! title is" why can't I be sexy at 71". LVM in fumes! gross is sexualizing teenagers and 20 somethings and preying on them! gross is drooling over 16 year olds when LVM are their dad's age!There is no standard for “acting her age” other than what’s natural - so no shaming. Your language is strong, accusative, snarky and not very conducive to discussion. Here are questions I asked myself: Does she genuinely enjoy hanging out with women 40 years her junior? Does she hide her white hair or does she actually love changing wigs and dressing according to recent trends when she dances, as opposed to what trended in her younger years? If the answer to all of these and more is yes, then th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/22 12:57 PM |
| 126 | and they want women over 30 to just... disappear? hide in a basement somewhere? this queen is goals! title is" why can't I be sexy at 71". LVM in fumes! gross is sexualizing teenagers and 20 somethings and preying on them! gross is drooling over 16 year olds when LVM are their dad's age!Tbh I’m not going to watch this. The idea that a woman at ANY AGE has to wear short dresses with cutouts and high heels, have hairless legs, a wrinkle-less face and beachy-blonde dyed hair to be “sexy” AKA worthy of the male gaze is astoundingly twisted. If she were doing it for herself I’d cheer her on. But by putting herself out here like this it’s clear she’s looking for male validation even at her age and that doesn’t align with my values, and likely not with FDS values. Thoughts? EDIT: I wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/22 12:08 PM |
| 2 | Unfortunate to be a Womanlost redditor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/22 02:26 AM |
| 236 | If you’re scaring them, you’re doing something right.I’ve had guys tell me that after talking they now understand why I’m single, and that my worldview turns men off. My response is “That’s precisely the point..” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 11:36 PM |
| 297 | FDS subreddit is NOT a landfill for depraved male content.Yasss was starting to get annoyed with all the roast-a-scrote screenshots from Dating Advice/AITA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 10:55 AM |
| 130 | "f around and find out" as a mindset makes it easier to blockplay stupid games, win stupid prizes This sums it up so perfectly!! Gonna have this in my head from now on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 11:09 AM |
| 105 | A HVM will make you like your own personality MOREmeat😏🥩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 04:40 AM |
| 8 | How do queens handle a lukewarm man?Oh my gosh, this describes PERFECTLY what it felt like with this dude. Too dumb to wear the HV mask properly🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 04:25 AM |
| 64 | Men are two-faced & will say one thing to you & a whole other thing about youShe was far too good for him💅🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 11:47 PM |
| 39 | How do queens handle a lukewarm man?someone really should | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 12:29 PM |
| 53 | How do queens handle a lukewarm man?Thank you for this!! It’s so good to know that persistence will (hopefully) allow me to meet a man who IS willing to put in the effort! Can I ask you something about your HVM? I’m curious what about him made you willing to talk to him at the café. When guys approach me in public, I’m usually very turned off because they’re judging me based off of looks and nothing else. How did he start the conversation? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 06:24 AM |
| 106 | How do queens handle a lukewarm man?You’re right. It’s mind boggling how sweet and caring he made himself seem, and despite my efforts to keep check on his effort/enthusiasm and follow FDS guidelines I somehow found myself getting anxious over him within just a few days. Why did I even care? 🤦🏻♀️Truly a blessing to have this community. It helped me recognize his strategy realllll quick and peace out before he could do any real damage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 04:50 AM |
| 143 | How do queens handle a lukewarm man?👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 03:45 AM |
| 51 | How do queens handle a lukewarm man?thank you, I needed to be told this and snap out of it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 03:44 AM |
| 92 | How do queens handle a lukewarm man?That’s exactly it - I’m losing interest but he had so many other green flags that the pickmeisha voice in my head wants to give him the benefit of the doubt. He doesn’t deserve it though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 03:40 AM |
| 97 | How do queens handle a lukewarm man?That’s what I think, when I think logically. But the part of me that’s been socialized to forgive wants to give him one final chance to prove himself. I think I need to just block and delete if he keeps this up after our next date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 03:36 AM |
| 23 | How do queens handle a lukewarm man?Why can’t I read any of the comments?😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 03:35 AM |
| 3 | Just sharing a song I think many of us can get behind, wait for the endLove the lyrics, but the chorus’ melody is a bit reminiscent of IVE’s “Eleven” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 12:42 PM |
| 266 | "Men are visual creatures"If men are visual creatures, why do you look like shit? 😂 My new favorite line! Also, if you’re such a “visual creature” why do architecture and art galleries bore you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 03:10 AM |
| 38 | The Scrotation PlaylistYes!! He actually sings that he misses her body first and foremost, and the other things (read: things she does for him) are secondary. How embarrassingly selfish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 07:17 AM |
| 177 | The Scrotation PlaylistI love that there are reportedly 37 comments but only 15 are visible😂 “Sorry” by the ever-NVM Justin Bieber You know I try but I don't do too well with apologies […] Cause I just need one more shot at forgiveness I know you know that I made those mistakes maybe once or twice By once or twice I mean maybe a couple a hundred times Not necessarily abusive, but the most annoying kind of LV: the borderline LVM who makes it hard to contemplate leaving his ass because he’s juuuust “decent” enough | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 01:17 AM |
| 70 | Learn to be SelfishSo many golden lines in here, excellently written!! This is so easy to agree with when reading, but so much more difficult to apply and practice. Thank you for the push! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 03:35 AM |
| 24 | I asked my boyfriend what he would do if I decided to keep the baby - was his answer a red flag?This should be higher up. A man who doesn’t do his part to keep his woman safe AND unpregnant does not deserve to sleep with her. OP, I am very sorry for the difficult decision you are now facing, but don’t let his opinion dictate how you move forward. I’m not sure what made him seem HVM all this time, but it seems very LV to be having unprotected sex because you’d like (and had the girl agree) to abort, and assume the girl will follow through on this. Side rant: What man in his right mind would… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:12 AM |
| 8 | Is it unhealthy to approach all men within a dating context as potential predators as a was of staying alert and protecting oneself, instead of the alternative of seeing each man as innocent until proven guilty?All men assume women are weak, submissive sandwichmakers until proven otherwise. So it’s only logical that we do the same🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 02:26 PM |
| 117 | This made me throw up in my mouth just a littleHe has a 31-year-old son. She should be married to the son if anything. Ew. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 04:59 AM |
| 16 | Does anyone else want a long-term partner, but also doesn’t want to live with them?This brings up a very good point and reminds me of a close family friend who recently had a heart attack. He (58) was in bed with his wife (55?) and when she rolled over to say "good night" she noticed his face was blue. She yelled for her daughters to call 911 and he was taken to the hospital. After 5 minutes(!!!) of no oxygen, he survived but was in a medical coma for about a week. Like some frickin' miracle he awoke and his first words were asking for chocolate and coffee. But I digress. Had … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 12:44 AM |
| -10 | An Israeli queen is making her kids dad support themI'm speaking according to Israeli law, chill😳 it's not my own personal opinion | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 03:09 AM |
| 9 | How Are You Treating Yourself this Holiday Season?I’m putting my dogs up at a dog hotel for NYE and spending the night at a lakefront pension with my two best friends. We’re gonna eat, watch movies, do face masks and not give a damn about anything else! (South Korea, btw) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 06:40 AM |
| 33 | YEARS of Justin Bieber being narcissistic abusive and triangulating MANY women (from 2014 to present) - Ladies, this could be your life if you’re with a NVM.Yes, but the goal of the user is to get some sort of (short term) validation. There's no denying that for many it's a means of gauging popularity. Sad but true! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 12:01 PM |
| 184 | YEARS of Justin Bieber being narcissistic abusive and triangulating MANY women (from 2014 to present) - Ladies, this could be your life if you’re with a NVM.Wow wow wow what a read. Thank you for this! I don't usually indulge in celebrity gossip, but THAT was one hell of a ride. It was eye-opening to the messy world of celebrity connections. But it leaves me with so many questions... the IG models I get, but what are all these wealthy, talented, famous women doing fighting over this dirty sock? The Karjenners/Hadids/Selena do not need extra clout, and they don't need a man's wealth to help them get by. So what in the hell gives?! These poor girls do… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 11:35 AM |
| 1 | FDS-approved TV, movies and books?Late to the party, but "Down With Love" has a lot of FDS elements at its core, though the ending is not exactly aligned with FDS. Still very much worth a watch! The costumes, script and music make up for what the plot lacks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 01:29 PM |
| 106 | Your commitment/attention should be hard-earned by men who want to court you.I needed to read this, thank you. It’s so easy to revert back to the friendly, appoachable, down-to-earth girl I naturally am for fear of coming off as a “bitch”. But that side of me should be saved for the HVM who has earned my warmth👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 05:07 AM |
| 14 | FDS is NOT categorically against OLD.My logic and attitude towards OLD is a projection of my own experience with dating... A HVW like me is a catch and perfectly normal: I want a relationship and I'm going to be a fantastic partner, but haven't found the right person yet. I'm using OLD in hopes of making that happen. So perhaps a HVM with the same attitude/qualities, somewhere amongst the sea of LVM, is lurking and hoping to find a HVW too? It's plausible, and I'm sifting through all the dirt 'til I find my golden chunk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 03:23 AM |
| 3 | Religion is by men, for menI think it’s difficult to define which concepts/laws are truly Jewish because so much of what we consider to be halachically required is actually a result of centuries of commentary and scholarly discourse. That said, there definitely are aspects of Judaism that are not totally respectful of women - Jewish kings were allowed to have many wives, to name one. But I also think that calling it misogynistic is somewhat an exaggeration… Science and technology have totally reformed our understanding of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 01:35 PM |
| 14 | Religion is by men, for menAgreed, but I don't think it would be fair to say that the ultra-orthodox community is a representation of the religion. I think the zealots of any religion are more like outliers with a skewed view of their religion and its purpose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 09:30 AM |
| 15 | Religion is by men, for menI would exclude Jusaism from the “Abrahamic” bunch, honestly. Just to name a couple: According to Jewish law, sex is the woman’s right and it is considered to be the man’s duty to please her. Every Friday night, traditionally, a man sings a song to his wife to praise her beauty and hard work (Eshet Hayil). There is so much in relation to menstruation, sex itself, and marriage dynamics that not only acknowledges the importance of the woman but also favors her needs and desires over those of the m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 08:21 AM |
| 24 | Western males are growing less useful for society, so they are lashing out in odd ways. Thoughts?Having dogs took care of the "feeling safe" thing, which as a 6'1" woman I didn't even realize was an issue. But there's definitely a deep reassurance to having another living, breathing creature present. Whether it's a hairy human or a furry animal😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 01:34 AM |
| 28 | I can't help itI refer to it as "compensation nation". It's a brand of men who need a boost from somewhere else🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 01:30 AM |
| 25 | The importance of lying about your disfunctional familywhat a schmuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 03:34 PM |
| 21 | How do you guys go about walking out on a date safely?me too me too!! tell it ALL! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 11:58 PM |
| 76 | How I went from side character to main character in less than a yearBut be careful, if he calls you a goddess before he knows a thing about you he’s really just trying to lovebomb you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 09:31 AM |
| 19 | Thoughts on long-distance?If he genuinely wants to stay in your life, there's no need for a title. He can prove his sincerity by making the effort to stay in touch and woo you as best as he can while you're away. He needs to earn your affections and trust. No need to break up, but also no need to go exclusive. Say it as it is... You are into him, hut he's not your top priority and you have experiences to be had, friends to be made, etc. The future is unknown, and you are still unsure about him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 01:45 PM |
| 13 | The man is so gross he's an insult.peak schlub😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 04:50 PM |
| 25 | Even my mom who’s never heard of FDS is 100% FDSWhen my parents divorced, my dad willingly gave my mom the house and half his bank account. He also gave 20% more in monthly child support than legally required. Seeing this (as a preteen) set the bar sky high. Let the chorus sing: IF HE’S STINGY, HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 11:54 PM |
| 420 | Can’t make this shit up… Once a NVM, always a NVM🙄Yup! And notice his..appearance..versus hers. She deserves WAY better inside and out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 07:48 AM |
| 93 | Just some scrotes and pickmes raging against FDS on another extremely misogynistic and sexist sub that still exists (hopefully they are next)!Remember when that poor 16-year-old married a 40 something-year-old and it was all over the tabloids? Yeah, well shockingly years later she publicly told the story of how he groomed her. I mean, we all knew she was kind of messed up and the extreme plastic surgeries did't bode well for her either, but how is this kind of stuff glorified?! She was a victim and deserved to be RESCUED from that psycho scrote. EDIT: Courtney Stodden was her name, I think | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 10:13 AM |
| 125 | You can’t be treated like a king if you can’t act like a kingThe voice is Chelsea Hart, she’s awesome :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 03:23 PM |
| 11 | This might be unrelated, but has anybody else developed a new substitute addiction since finding FDS?I got two dogs, one adopted and one rescued. They are likely the only living creatures that will ever share my home😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 03:15 PM |
| 36 | Marriage is a bigger commitment??? Huh!?!Wtf this is why I'm not into casual sex, and why I can't just "enjoy the date for what it is". Every man I view as a potential romantic interest is also a contender for being the father of my children...I am NOT taking dates lightly or considering long-term situationships. Children are entire new worlds of their own that will impact the future of our planet - they are lives that need tending and direction. No man in my life will be their father unless he can truly step up to that role. Also, mig… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 01:58 AM |
| 78 | Apparently even ancient Rabbis didn’t have time for thirsty dudes and their nonsenseFor those of you who are curious whether this is real or not, you’ll be happy to find out that the Jewish attitude towards sex in marriage is that the woman has full control. It’s a super generic recommendation, but if you’re curious you can read “Kosher Sex” by Rabbi Shmuley Boteach. It’s a good start! EDIT: for a shorter read, learn about the commandment of pleasuring your wife at a frequency that is decided by your profession 👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 11:52 AM |
| 10 | ghosted a man who didn't properly plan a 1st dateWhen they say that, be honest with them and tell them that there is a place you'd like to visit...but that you'd like to get to know them first. Guys will take it as flirty, but it really it just makes them have to choose a place first😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 04:23 AM |
| 33 | Dead bedroom? It's just biology at work, sweatyIt's really quite simple: Would he be able to raise your children well if something should happen to you? (say..hospitalization or * gasp * death) If you can't trust that man to run your household, he👏🏻doesn't👏🏻 belong👏🏻in👏🏻it👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 03:23 AM |
| 4 | Canadian-Korean actor Peter Lee (이재윤 Lee Jae-Yoon) serving lewks🔥I like to think he’d be HVM..🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 03:05 AM |
| 6 | Canadian-Korean actor Peter Lee (이재윤 Lee Jae-Yoon) serving lewks🔥That role put him on the map for a lot of people, but he’s had some less..wholesome..roles too haha He’s super sexy either way!! And his English🤤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 01:26 AM |
| 5 | Vidyut JamwalI am sorry, but can we acknowledge that the second shot is super photoshopped? The lines are all curved😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 02:30 PM |
| 49 | The wall is real. For men. Exhibit #7777 😉Schwimmer was hott as Ross, and he’s aged wonderfully💕 PIVOTTTT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 09:04 AM |
| 53 | I felt this. Love and life are so much more than your relationship status.27 and same. Never had a boyfriend because never have I come across a guy worthy of being brought into my life romantically🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 01:48 AM |
| 239 | Yep, not falling for it.Ugh story of my life, and also SO important for young women to be told straight up. MONEY👏🏻MATTERS👏🏻 In this perverse world, where you are forever doomed to a life of unwanted objectification and the expectation of sexually pleasing a guy who doesn't even appreciate your other qualities, money will set you free. Money will allow you to follow your dreams and set the bar as high as you fucking want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 02:24 AM |
| 50 | Where's the lie thoboy, oh boy😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 12:17 AM |
| 90 | “There are just some things about FDS I don’t agree with.” *** My journey to the truth.I can very much relate to your first point - I love being in nature, and parks/museums/etc. never occurred to me as "cheap, easy dates". I enjoy being able to control the level of distraction or focus, and honestly it's still really hard for me not to worry about coming off as a high-maintenance bitch if I say no to those or even a café date. But I definitely won't deny the fact that the finer things in life are just as appealing 💝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 03:37 AM |
| 34 | "Vanity is only a sin because a woman who believes she deserves good things is harder to commodify". I think regardless of size, the principles she lives by emanate the FDS vibe.Forget the body issues being discussed here - this woman's way with words is sexy af! So powerfully put👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 01:23 AM |
| 7 | Today is Meme Free Monday!Awesome! Too many tiktok and twitter reposts recently👏🏻👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 02:15 AM |
| 5 | I found a new turn off for me: men not knowing the female anatomy down there (2:35). You have the internet, look up an educational diagram or read a book for christ’s sake!came to say this☝🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 01:11 PM |
| 75 | This needs to be an actual song I can blast in my car. 👑why would “my anaconda don’t”🤮 be a thing when THIS is what should be a thing?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 02:35 AM |
| 14 | “I cannot imagine another day where I do not strive for the absolute maximum of what I deserve.”So relatable and so beautifully put. Thank you for sharing this♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 02:17 AM |
| 112 | Never build a man upthis needs to be the first scene of a full-length movie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 04:33 AM |
| 20 | What do I need YOU for?Alexa, play “Working Bitch” by Ashnikko | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 02:46 PM |
| 35 | If you can’t afford the lifestyle that I’m providing for myself, then you can’t have me!get it girl! those presents are sincerely from ✨you to yourself✨ and you'll NEVER have to question the intentions of the gift giver :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 01:02 AM |
| 103 | How do we slow down our own sexual impulses?Yeah, three months is honestly not that long if you’re doing this right. You shouldn’t be dedicating the majority of your free time to him, since you have your own life, work and other people to meet anyhow. And neither of you should be near each other’s homes if you’re still vetting him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 09:07 AM |
| 50 | I am not your dream girl.I’m sorry..what? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 04:14 AM |
| 11 | The Transcendent Nature of WomenOP, can you write a book? ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 02:29 AM |
| 9 | I'll spare you the details of the update... Sister needs a major reality check💔Right?😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 04:39 AM |
| 18 | I'll spare you the details of the update... Sister needs a major reality check💔For now anyhow.. But the comments on the update thread are steering her in the right direction. It's just awful to think that any person could string another along so shamelessly :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 04:38 AM |
| 2 | HVM are secure in their masculinity... he’s taking dancing lessons from another guy without me 😂Glad someone else read through the patronizing wording! OP was butthurt that I rightly pointed out how unFDS this was and how there was nothing to applaud here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 06:46 AM |
| 6 | HVM are secure in their masculinity... he’s taking dancing lessons from another guy without me 😂If you’re not putting too much meaning into this, then perhaps there’s no issue. I personally wouldn’t consider this a green flag and definitely wouldn’t think it warrants a post, but everyone has different standards and expects different things. I respect that 👏🏻👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 12:39 AM |
| 15 | HVM are secure in their masculinity... he’s taking dancing lessons from another guy without me 😂I commented this because we, as FDS ladies in this awesome community, should support each other when support is due and give each other reality checks when they’re needed. This is a place for discussion and learning. I’ve had guys say the same sort of thing to me, as I’m sure other women have had said to them. It literally means nothing until actions are taken. Did you stop to actually process what I asked in my edit? Being defensive of your relationship is a natural reaction, but if you are act… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 12:31 AM |
| 21 | HVM are secure in their masculinity... he’s taking dancing lessons from another guy without me 😂I'm sorry, but why does a man being willing to learn ballroom dancing from another man make him high-value? No one says "My girlfriend is so secure in her sexuality that she is thinking of learning how to swim from a female instructor!" And even if they did, that wouldn't equate to being a high-quality partner. This is rubbish, just like that foot massage post from last week. EDIT: Please note that this boyfriend was talking about asking for lessons from a kind person who offered to teach his sk… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 12:20 AM |
| 255 | People who say their partner is HV before 6 month in, and people in here supporting it?Yeah, there was a post with 300+ upvotes that was a screenshot of literally a two-message text conversation between a girl thanking her “HV” boyfriend for the foot massage and his basic af response. Like what????? That’s cute and all but the bar is pretty fucking low now, huh? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 02:50 PM |
| 22 | What would happen?This is exactly why I love the movie "Down With Love". Aside from the brilliant costuming, the movie itself was ahead of its time in trying to address this exact question! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 03:18 PM |
| 2 | 👑"The best things in life are already mine, don't tell me that you gotta a good thing for me."👑Right? This song is FDS goals | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 08:19 AM |
| 9 | Can men stop deflecting and lying about their height when they realise I'm taller than them?I'm gonna pop into this conversation because I just want to say the Nordstrom Rack has the BEST shoe selection for 10+ and you ladies deserve to know that 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 12:50 AM |
| 10 | I just cut things off with a LVM.Exactly! If a man can't handle 48 hours without contact, he's not a man he's a child. Also, if he really wanted to talk he could've just called🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 02:55 PM |
| 9 | “I don’t text much” = setup for low expectations!Exactly. And for HV women things can be flipped (for me they are,anyhow). I’m on the road a lot and work long hours running my own business, so between work calls/messages and me trying to breathe in peace I might deal with personal messages..once a day? And I prioritize, so the lame “How’s it going?” get pushed off to the weekend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 02:44 PM |
| 61 | Imagine being told to hush while in labour. I’m actually speechless!This. What infuriates me most about these types of stories is that there’s no way in hell she was living with this guy and had no idea he was this big of a dickwad. There must have been other signs she was ignoring! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 10:55 AM |
| 8 | Men complain about women dating only tall guys and then immediately bring up height as an issue unprovoked when talking to a tall girl like me... also no way would a tall guy be this insecure- stop lying about height !!I'm 6'1" myself and this is SUCH a relatable situation. I literally wouldn't mind a 5'10 guy (in fact I've found shorter guys' personalities to be 20% better for each inch under six feet) but every damn time they just HAVE to bring it up. Like why?? If I didn't say anything, doesn't that mean I don't care? We're on a fucking date - is that not answer enough? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 10:59 AM |
| 22 | 🤔Is the bar really this low? (click photo for full thread)No one's laughing here. This is simply an example of how little some women expect of their men and how they refer to this dysfunctional dynamic as "healthy". In what world is "he says hi to me almost every day" a good relationship to show as an example to your teenage children? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 01:38 PM |
| 3 | 🤔Is the bar really this low? (click photo for full thread)Apparently😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 11:22 AM |
| 18 | 🤔Is the bar really this low? (click photo for full thread)And it's kind of a 180 flip from the vibes given off by her own words: "it is what it is". Almost as if she realized someone caught onto the "failure" of her relationship and she wanted to defend her husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 11:22 AM |
| 30 | 🤔Is the bar really this low? (click photo for full thread)My reaction exactly. The rest of the thread was comments along the lines of "Omg me too, my husband and I never talk or see each other but I love him so I'm happy." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 11:18 AM |
| 10 | Saw this on TikTok and thought of this sub ❤️👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 02:37 PM |
| 34 | Ladies, if you need some pointers on how to spot red flags: DING DING DING WE HAVE A WINNER🚩🚩🚩Wow, I just don't even know what to say. Cannot imagine how hurt and helpless you must've felt while married to that jerk. I hope you're happy and with someone who loves you now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 11:01 AM |
| 230 | Ladies, if you need some pointers on how to spot red flags: DING DING DING WE HAVE A WINNER🚩🚩🚩The funny thing is, he's probably not a Mr. McDreamy himself. Some men are absolutely delusional🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 07:26 AM |
| 38 | Ladies, if you need some pointers on how to spot red flags: DING DING DING WE HAVE A WINNER🚩🚩🚩My thoughts exactly!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 07:25 AM |
| 48 | Ladies, if you need some pointers on how to spot red flags: DING DING DING WE HAVE A WINNER🚩🚩🚩Ugh right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 07:24 AM |
| 13 | Ladies, if you need some pointers on how to spot red flags: DING DING DING WE HAVE A WINNER🚩🚩🚩Not my story, it's a screenshot from a post on r/relationship_advice. I hope she leaves his ass! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 07:24 AM |
| 227 | Ladies, if you need some pointers on how to spot red flags: DING DING DING WE HAVE A WINNER🚩🚩🚩Yup. Then he can have as many long-haired pickmeishas as'll take him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 07:23 AM |
| 23 | Ladies, if you need some pointers on how to spot red flags: DING DING DING WE HAVE A WINNER🚩🚩🚩Right?? The whole time I was reading this I was thinking "and you love this man why...????" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 07:23 AM |
| 1 | I'm a working bitch, ain't got no time for dick. PREACH.My pleasure!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 05:00 AM |
| 6 | I'm a working bitch, ain't got no time for dick. PREACH.So glad to have done my part! A friend showed me it today and I couldn't NOT share. So so good🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 01:55 PM |
| 8 | Found this gem on Tinder. The entitlement is real.Michael Cera with a receding hairline. NEXT! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 06:08 AM |
| 67 | PROTECT YOUR WOMB LIKE ITS THE LAST THING YOU DOThis👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻 If he's active on social media and there's not even so much as a mention of you, he's trash. If he really loved you and recognized how wonderful you are, he would not be able to hold back from parading around the fact that you are together. And if he's not the type to post a ton of personal stuff, he would at least put that fact that he's taken in his bio. A question mark in his relationship status leaves space for other women to swoop in, and that could be what he's hoping for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 06:06 AM |
| 9 | Even the comment section of a K-Pop song knows what's up. YES.It's like that old saying: Forget love - I'd like to fall in chocolate! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 05:06 PM |
| 7 | Even the comment section of a K-Pop song knows what's up. YES.I'm not disregarding your opinion, I'm just trying to distinguish the pickmeisha behavior typical of yellow fever from kpopper behaviors :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 04:59 PM |
| 8 | Even the comment section of a K-Pop song knows what's up. YES.Yellow fever is completely separate from Kpop fandom. As a 2nd-gen (2011-2014) stan I can confidently say that most kpop fans are going against the status quo by listening to foreign music and therefore by nature are not the types to conform to society’s expectations, meaning that they don’t give a crap what guys want - they do what they want and what they deem to be good for them. Not to mention that a ton of kpop songs are about empowerment and independence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 04:56 PM |
| 6 | Even the comment section of a K-Pop song knows what's up. YES.What information is your comment based on?🧐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 04:50 PM |
| 18 | Here's the god honest way to stop being needy and have girls chasing youRule 1a and 2a | /r/seduction | 25/09/20 04:20 AM |
| 8 | Pick me qualities I’m seeing in this groupNumber three is absolutely brilliant. I needed to read that..Thank you👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 04:20 AM |
| 12 | Ladies I need your advice on thisEven the busiest of people stop to check the clock. If he can check the clock, he sure as heck can check on you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 11:01 AM |
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