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I am also team big dick. I don't have height restrictions as long as they are at least my height but you must be packing heat in your pants AND know how to fuck me correctly. Can't just be hammering in there like an animal and expect me to be blown away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 03:14 PM
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She's a total pickme, unemployed onlyfans druggy. Which I'm sure will work out wonderfully given her reputation. Sometimes I think life just rights itself and it all works out. Trash finds other trash eventually and they all bunch together. This was what happened with an ex of mine. Runs off with some manic pixie who cleans hotel rooms and can't function without self harm or weed daily. Also can only watch cartoons and shows for little girls. Had to move in with him because she was homeless beca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 03:10 PM
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My first marriage it was platinum but 1/2 carat (I think? I just know it was smaller so maybe less? ) he spent about 2k on it and it was very sturdy just smaller. In the future should I entertain marriage again, I'm not sure what I'd like. I know platinum again but I always struggled to picture the perfect ring? I just want max effort towards it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 11:28 AM
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Ha I saw this on another subreddit and I always wondered what happened to him. How did our school system and society fail him so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:28 AM
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I'm learning this on my healing journey that B&D I'd the only way to be. They want cheap heat and if we don't provide it they go apeshit. I'm not here to be your teacher, mother or father... clearly all those people failed to before you got to me. Not worth the energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 01:32 PM
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He's likely already strayed but doesn't want to keep up with the effort of trying to hide it so he pulls this card.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 11:16 AM
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He likely used this as an opportunity to clean house, I don't trust that he was faithful. Many of these types you find online sneaking around because they are entitled to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 11:10 PM
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Dealt with this when married. They sit there and troll you into doing everything despite doing 0. He wasn't even a gamer, he just didn't bother. If it wasn't too do with his car it wasn't important. When I told him I'm keeping the house he was outraged like.. no you treated my home like it was nothing now you don't get to stay in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:05 PM
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Its like he took his sausage fingers and slammed random numbers into his ad. Size 12 to 16 but be no bigger than 120 lbs. The clownery
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:01 PM
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I don't understand why they can't invest in fleshlights. Clearly that's what they are after and need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 11:41 AM
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I've been here and still struggle. No I don't want this. This isn't for me. I release this from me. All are powerful. All become easier with time and strength to keep saying them. Don't back down, keep that fire burning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 02:06 AM
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Friendship is sacred to some of us, but not to them. It’s a title they give to women they slept with and want to keep around as a backup option. 🚮 This. So much of this. It was so frustrating when I'd tell them I'm not interested in being friendzoned once I develop feelings. If it ends, all of it ends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 01:17 AM
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I mean that's basically survival of the fittest right? If you can't cook without a woman doing it for you... you know yeah guess you're dead boo. That type of basic incompetence is a turn off though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 12:04 PM
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When I was married I never had a joint account. I find it crazy that non married people do this and come up with all sorts of lazy excuses on why there's no commitment. You're giving these fuckers everything. When I look at marriage it's like business - if it's not in writing it's not valid. You want me as an investor? You better make me a partner on paper. No you're not gonna pay me in dick and cuddles. I want the ROI cause I'm not in the business of making anyone but me rich. Too many women lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 01:55 AM
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Agreed. I've been like this before and the hardest (or at least one of the hardest) things to learn is no is a complete sentence. We're told all the time we need to give and give but if we keep doing that with nothing in return our fruit runs out and then there's nothing left to give to the one worthy of such gifts. Energy is not free. Effort is energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:00 PM
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I think the men who use mommy and daddy issues as justification to be complacent and avoid the next level. They want to be wee boys forever because they think they can do better. You know why it's an excuse? Because if he was committed to healing his trauma he'd be in therapy for it instead of pretending he's some sort of brooding Bruce Wayne.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 02:57 PM
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This! Like with everything we do - we put love and care into it. These fools will just scarf it down and or complain. Not worth it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 02:52 PM
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My ex was the same height as me. He was LV in other ways but very comfortable in his own skin. We used to make fun of that one dude who was like 5'3 and got into a fight at a bagel store because he just blurts out of no where how no one would date him cause he's short. No, no one dates you because you're an abrasive imp who looks like he smells.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 02:38 PM
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I've been here before all of that you listed out. Then was told that it's my fault I'm "anxiously attached" when I know in secure relationships that don't require me to repeat myself so much I was fine in. I know what I want and articulate it very well. I'm not sure why it's always on me to some how tolerate I don't know or excessive need of space unless you want to get something from me. So now I believe that my "anxious attachment" was me realizing I was getting abused and taken advantage of. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 02:07 PM
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The other gripe I have with these rainbow haired SW is my personality types is.... the work often isn't that great. Cool you've painted with your period blood. Shocking. Deep. Edgy.... But what's the point? You're not teaching anyone anything, you just want the crumbs of attention. I (just my opinion) feel art should make me feel something below the surface. Not omg blood or some other edge lord shit to attract male or really ANY attention. Challenge my thoughts. Make me see beyond what's in fro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 01:54 PM
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Been there before. I also strayed in my very deadbedroom marriage. It was acceptable for him to be emotionally/physically neglectful, injure me during the few times a year he permitted sex with him, financially be a cheap skate and talk to cam whores but not acceptable for me to basically have an outburst against the abuse I was dished out. My therapist helped me understand that this was an act of protest from what I was feeling all the years of being isolated and neglected caught up and I just …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:26 PM
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That's a very good point because there's been men I've encountered that have these long term relationships and it's very clear that aren't into the person they live with either out of fear of being alone or just not wanting the drama of a separation. You have no legal protection as an unmarried partner. When I was married I made sure my name was on all documents for a reason including the lease. I wasn't gonna be a victim like these other fools who want to play house and not know their rights. Y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:49 AM
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Ugh this makes me sad as an INFP. I don't know what is a safer personality type for me that won't take advantage of my creative and empathetic (on top of the usual vetting)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 03:01 AM
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I made this account because I was a long time reader of FDS but I was afraid to post here. I'm in the process of trying to rebuild myself and trying to hire a replacement therapist because my current one isn't effective enough. I need CBT and deep deep analysis to understand why I am attracting garbage disguised as empathic, sweet men. I'm successful and strong. Ambitious as fuck. But these losers come and take and take from me till I'm the one always losing sleep and skipping meals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 01:49 AM
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This guy looks like my one ex who kept cheating on his long term bangmaid. 13 years no ring and he still is out there cheating. It was funny too cause I told him yeah I don't believe in waiting past 5 years without a ring and I won't live with anyone I'm not engaged to (pre FDS) and he was astounded by this. This was how I later learned he had his own home (mom bought him) and a long term partner he cheated on (for being severely obese and having other medical issues) He wants to be a little boy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 01:43 AM
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So many men use the copy paste thing and it's like they think we can't tell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 01:36 AM
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