theloniouschonk Archive

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2	CMV: The swagger that women are attracted to is typically displayed in men who aren't very intelligent. I recently graduated from medical school which was an environment filled with relatively intelligent people. To put it simply, the attractive single ones were players if they wanted to be. The unattractive ones generally were not players unless they had intentionally developed game/charisma over time. I don’t think I saw any student hook up with someone who was dumb and/or unsuccessful. Almost every student (~80%) in med school was in an LTR/engaged/married to someone else who was successful and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/20 03:11 PM
2	Just Found Out My Wife Used To Be A Huge Slut You should not tolerate being disrespected by your wife. You should seek to get what you want. Do you want to ‘mentally get past it?’ Or do you want liberation, self-respect, and empowerment through employment and independence? I saw someone mentioning the kids. I think kids are better off having divorced parents than living with two parents who have unhealthy, toxic dynamics. You need to take what you want from this world and set a good example for your kids. Forget this deceptive woman and mov…	/r/askTRP	04/04/20 04:10 PM
1	There is a disconnect between what women are attracted to and what men think they should be attracted to. Most women my age don’t even know who Prince is, let alone why he was attractive in the context of his prime.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/20 04:08 PM
7	There is a disconnect between what women are attracted to and what men think they should be attracted to. I don’t know any women who think Prince was actually attractive. Every woman I’ve ever heard talk about Jason Momoa is clearly attracted to him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/20 04:46 AM
6	Muh urges! Or a question of basic self-restraint ~18 months w/o sex or masturbation. But the wet dreams start about 4-8 weeks into abstinence for me. I’m a nofapper	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/19 01:41 PM
3	Are relationships just suffering and a constant battle for power? Relationships with the right people have much less suffering and feel relatively easy. If you feel negative more often than you fee positive, that is a red flag.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/19 07:37 PM
6	Are guys here expecting mothers to treat their sexually unsuccessful sons like mothers treat their romantically unsuccessful daughters? Straight women generally do not give good advice on dating women, because they have no experience. This goes double for an older woman who gave birth to you and thinks you are extra special. It’s typically a variation on ‘be nice, be confident, be yourself,’ which doesn’t work for most people asking for dating advice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/19 10:50 PM
3	Do you care about the intelligence of your partners? I think couples need to be relatively close to one another in overall intelligence or they will not be able to understand each other or communicate effectively. It can be difficult to connect in anyway (sensually, emotionally, spiritually, cognitively) with someone of significantly different intelligence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/19 11:12 PM
1	Is it normal for old friends to begin to hate on you once your Red Pilled nature becomes apparent? Yes	/r/askTRP	09/10/19 12:35 AM
4	Investing on a man with potential or only dating men already successful? Yeah but this person is challenging your claim by suggesting they were in a group that didn’t qualify as X but also didn’t qualify as Y. The reference to ‘everyone’ in the replier’s comment is referencing your idea of ‘everyone’ as previously mentioned in your claim, which infers ‘everyone minus x,’ and is not referencing a universal definition of everyone. Maybe you should brush up on your understanding of functional language before belittling another’s intellect. Your explanation within your s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/19 09:38 PM
3	Have you ever dated a passive man, or one who turned out to be way too weak/soft/needy for your tastes? It's good to be aware of that, communicate your needs, and not judge other people as weak/needy for having very normal desires and needs in a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/19 04:54 PM
12	Have you ever dated a passive man, or one who turned out to be way too weak/soft/needy for your tastes? If I was ‘dating’ someone who didn’t want to hang out for 10 days for essentially no good reason (and studying/chilling on your own is not a good reason) I would take it as an obvious communication that that person is either not interested at all in me, or they have attachment issues and need significantly more space than an average person. I would end the relationship if someone did this. Edit: just to add, I’m currently getting a professional degree so I understand big important exams because …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/19 03:45 PM
7	N-Count is such a stupid thing to worry over. Just because she had casual sex, doesn't mean she doesn't value you in a relationship. Is this real and do you have a source? Sounds wild.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/19 01:53 PM
1	Anyone had a girlfriend who used 'Bumble BFF'? Come at it how you feel like coming at it. I prefer to be direct, calm and honest when setting boundaries. If she gets angry, starts rationalizing or whatever you can listen and validate without agreeing with her, but then feel free to explain why having bumble bff is suspect and unnecessary when there are other ways to make friends, and set a clear expectation. If she won’t step into your frame, be ready to next and be happy about the world of opportunity ahead. If a girl learns she can fool yo…	/r/askTRP	21/08/19 03:15 PM
10	Anyone had a girlfriend who used 'Bumble BFF'? I always assumed bumble designed the BFF feature with the intention of giving cheating partners an excuse for having the app on their phone. Figure out if it is something that matters to you or not. It sounds like it does. I’d draw a calm, firm line on dating app use and expect them to step in line. At some point you gotta just say ‘no more bs, any relationship I’m in will respect the boundaries that I desire.’ I feel like any waffling or rationalization simply opens you up to disrespecting your…	/r/askTRP	20/08/19 11:40 PM
2	Q4Men: Would you care less about a woman's N-count if you knew you were getting her sexual best? I agree, no background check necessary, but the idea of men ‘caring too much’ should be determined by the individual who is potentially caring too much. Dating or casual sex with a virgin or low N count vs. a woman of ‘history’ is a qualitatively different experience and is worth considering. Not making a moral claim here, but one should accept the difference and pursue the more desirable experience for them instead of pretending that N count doesn’t matter. Both categories have different types …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/19 11:25 PM
6	Q4Men: Would you care less about a woman's N-count if you knew you were getting her sexual best? I think it’s smart to consider a potential partner’s history, as There is still relevant data showing associations of N count with divorce rate and marital satisfaction	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/19 10:34 PM
2	Brothers who have recovered and beat all their mental issues. I had recurrent, severe episodes of MDD from childhood through college and GAD with comorbid panic attacks that occurred 15-20x/day. Now I only feel just a few depressive symptoms lightly, albeit persistently and I have zero panic attacks which is a world of difference and I consider it beaten although it is a battle you have to choose to win every day. Most mental health problems are caused by genes X environment and you can’t really change genes (although you can cause epigenetic shifts throug…	/r/askTRP	19/08/19 04:12 AM