I'm not sure you should base whether you meet your daughter or not on a financial commitment. But no, she's 25 of course you don't pay child support at that age.
I don't think what he says is particular bad to be honest, it only seems to offend a niche collective. However I am not completely aware of everything he has voiced opinions on.
I've never looked at it this way, its actually a really interesting perspective. Made me really think about things in a different light. This subreddit has been really great in enlightening me to things that I didn't even realise were issues for men and now I do I see why you're fighting them