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11

Yeah, 1 in 200 aren't really impossible odds ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 09:38 AM
37

I don't agree - that can definitely be anxiety. I've had similar issues in the past. But having anxiety really isn't a good excuse not to do things, and not doing the things you're anxious about (when they're not dangerous things and the anxiety doesn't make sense, of course) just fuels the anxiety and makes it all worse in the long run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 04:23 AM
13

No, being against torture isn't a red flag. Being for it would be a red flag to me. Even being pro death penalty would be unacceptable to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 04:18 PM
1

Yes, a vasectomy is easier, but I don't like it when people spread lies about a tubal ligation being a very complicated procedure. Also, the original poster didn't actually say that only the woman should get it done, they seem to have been saying that both should. It says "you and your partner", not "your partner".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 03:52 PM
6

A tubal ligation takes two weeks to heal though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 01:50 PM
3

I would never protect any man at all costs. And I would never judge a man I don't know very well to be a HVM. It's more likely that they are assholes than not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 09:38 AM
1

Absolutely, but it's not enough in itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 05:14 AM
5

I've never complained that there aren't positive posts. Us users aren't all the same. This deed doesn't make him a HVM because being HV is about more than one action. Many men do good deeds while still abusing their wives or being assholes in other ways. Judging a man to be HV on such little basis isn't what FDS is about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 05:12 AM
3

Yes, he's done good deeds. But that doesn't make him a HVM. This sub isn't about celebrating men whenever they do something good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 05:09 AM
9

That doesn't make him a HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 01:41 PM
10

Getting toilet paper is the bare minimum of taking care of yourself as an adult, and helping your partner to fix an issue like this is the bare minimum you can expect from someone in a situation like that. It's definitely irresponsible of OP to not have this handled, and using paper towels risks clogging the toilet (or worse, creating clogs further down in the system).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 06:26 PM
16

Do we really have to praise men for doing the bare minimum, here of all places?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 02:50 PM
18

This is unavailable in the EU, I would appreciate it if someone could paste the text.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 03:08 AM
52

He's hiding something and acting weird. What kind of financial, secret info could a high school boy even have on his phone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:00 PM
12

I'm just assuming that my followers are big time fans who cannot get enough of me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 11:10 AM
4

Do you have any actual experience of relationships?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 04:38 AM
9

Then why on earth do you choose to write nonsense?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 04:35 AM
15

Woah don't write bullshit that you can't back up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 04:33 AM
18

It's not true, though. First of all, there are studies on this. Second, I've been in several relationships lasting much longer than that, and many more women have as well. My experience says that you're wrong. If you stop feeling lust and infatuation after 3 months, sure, but don't make it out as being some kind of universal truth when you base it on nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 04:31 AM
12

That's not true and if you believe that it is, that's just sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 04:18 AM
113

Grace and Frankie are the best!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 04:57 PM
66

If she smells, I'm willing to bet money that it's because he has hygiene issues down there. Dudes who don't keep their dicks clean can ruin any vagina. Dump that man, girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 12:44 PM
6

That's only true for when the partner is the actual father of the children, which isn't the topic of this thread. I do think that women who have several children by one deadbeat might have issues of that kind though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 12:38 PM
11

I've been a single mother since my kid was about 1. Regarding that it's the divorced dads who fuel the single-mum-hatred, that's absolutely true - my kid's father bashed single mums online quite a lot during the first years after that separation. I definitely think that single dads have a harder time than single mums. The risk that a single dad has either left because he's an asshole, or been left because he's an asshole, is huge. Mothers don't leave the fathers of their kids unless it's absolut…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 12:35 PM
9

I thought so, I'm from Sweden as well. Maybe it's different in different areas but I don't agree that boys here are taught that a gentleman pays, that was a long time ago. I agree that they don't fuss about paying, but not paying for dates isn't necessarily an indication that the man is LV here. In my experience, this is more about generation as well as how conservative a man is. And some of those conservative men are very controlling, and pay for all the wrong reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:28 PM
19

I think this sounds like a great service. Both parties are properly vetted and matched by an experienced matchmaker. I would prefer this over wasting time the way you do when all of the searching and vetting is up to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:06 PM
7

Which country are you in?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 07:33 PM
14

It lowers sensation and thus increases the risk that the man will end up doing weird shit to his dick just to heighten sensation. I do think that it's genital mutilation, even if it's nowhere as serious as female genital mutilation. It's generally considered unacceptable where I live (Sweden) and is only practiced by muslims and jews. The Swedish board of Paediatricians are against the practice and many people want it banned, but any legislation against it has been made impossible by jewish resi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 05:43 PM
4

What's wrong with anarchism? Why is it bunched up with nihilism? The rest I agree with but as an anarchist myself, I prefer someone with at least a basic understanding and respect of what anarchism means. To me, being a dedicated atheist is one of the worst red flags. It's fine to be atheist, but those who have atheism as a religion are psychos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 07:04 AM
44

The best lovers I've had have been absolute psychopaths in all other aspects of their lives. Deeply disturbed men have their own interests that make them want to be good lovers. It's about their ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 11:32 AM
47

There's definitely some correlation between a man being decent personality-wise (which this list is about) and him being good in bed, but I wouldn't say there's any absolute causation, or a very strong correlation at all. Him being good in bed isn't an indication that a man is a good person, and him being a good person isn't an indication that he will be good in bed. I think mixing these two up puts women at risk for staying in relationships and misinterpreting good sex as good partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 11:22 AM
3

Your husband has been raping you. Being asleep is not consent. Being drugged is not consent. You can do nothing to move forward with a man who has raped you. You need to leave him. Your making it clear that he does not have consent will likely just result in him not telling you about the rape. He will continue raping you. Never stay with a rapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 10:21 AM
9

If you take on a project man, you might succeed in making him better, or you might not. If you don't succeed, you'll be bitter for life. If you do, he'll likely replace you with someone he thinks is now in his 'league'. The success rate is low and even when you do succeed, it's unlikely you'll actually get to reap what you sow. You're not his mom, you shouldn't have to raise him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:37 AM
3

Eh. I'm offended because your post is offensive. You don't have to deal with men, you choose to do so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 08:21 AM
8

Sorry, but I think this is just ignorant and paints a romanticising picture of what it's like to be a woman dating women. Us lesbian and bi women have a lot of issues as well, and if you don't want to date men you can just not date men. You don't have to be into women to decide not to date dudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 11:22 PM
2

No woman should be with a man who expects to cum more often than she does. Peach, sister, preach!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 09:44 PM
4

Yeah, some people really make it sound like it's almost rape to expect your partner to help you finish if they come first. This is absolutely ridiculous. That "therapist" woman is a pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 09:21 PM
52

This man is a LVM. Why? Because he used Valentine's (and his girlfriend) for internet fame. He didn't do this for her, he did it for the views, and he used her as a prop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 07:02 PM
45

Now, that’s the chemical side, let’s talk about communication. Two things concern me; that you’re not listening to and respecting your partner when he clearly tells you what his physical and emotional limits are around sex, and why you are tying up your pleasure in his orgasm. By listening to you explain that you can’t orgasm through penetrative sex, ensuring you orgasm through other activities, and suggesting that you orgasm before he does, your partner he has already shown that he respects and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:29 PM
7

10-20 dates over how long? I'm asking because you know what he's like in bed and 10 dates seems a bit early. Also, this: "Hasn't ever had a relationship last more than 1.5 years, said he got "bored" Nah, that ain't okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 05:25 AM
15

Hell no, sis. Nope, nope, nope. He violated you. He deserves no mercy, even less does he deserve you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 05:13 AM
7

He hasn't changed, he's just trying to trick you into taking him back. Stay strong and don't budge. You are worth someone who doesn't behave shitty enough for you to want to leave him. He had 16 years to make you happy. He didn't. That says everything you need to know about him. You will find someone better. Block him and never look back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 05:12 AM
29

"How did you get past the bitterness of being with someone that you know would've rejected you 15 years ago?" Yup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 07:35 AM
26

Yep, and never carrying and giving birth to children ..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 04:24 AM
129

20-year-old man grooms a 16-year-old and then dumps here when she's not pretty enough for him. He would've done it sooner or later anyways, she's probably getting much too old for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 02:15 AM
11

You shouldn't have said that you might invite him up to your room if you are certain you won't. Hell, you shouldn't have said that you might invite him up even if you think you might. You're already afraid of setting boundaries for this man. Either set the boundaries now while he's far away - tell him straight out you're not sleeping with him and you're staying at the hotel and do it now - or block and move on. If you can't respect your boundaries enough to make them clear, no man will respect t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 10:56 PM
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It was definitely groundbreaking because of that. I also rewatched it just a few months back and I must say that I think it's also a bit more interesting as a grown woman (30+ now, was 12 or something when I first watched it), because these women don't really behave as 30-something women. They behave as 20-something women, and I think it's actually refreshing to see "older" women not act their age that way. I can't compare to tv that airs now because I don't watch any, but I definitely appreciat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:22 PM
39

I thought it was satire about stereotypical women (and loved it as such) for years. Couldn't relate at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:04 PM
0

I hear you. I'm sorry you had to put up with that shit when you were a kid. You deserved better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 05:25 AM
1

Or he just wanted a woman giving him free emotional labour ... In my experience, a dad who truly wants to be there for his kid will be there for his kid. This poster clearly feels that she can trust an unknown man enough to praise him both to his face and on the internet, without any information about him except for what he chose to show her during one hour. It's ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 04:31 AM
2

My thought exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 01:31 AM
14

Thank you! The downvoting stupidity made me feel like a lonely sane person in an asylum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 12:06 AM
8

Judging from the downvotes, she's not alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 12:06 AM
3

Yeah, and just look at them downvoting everything I posted! Ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 12:06 AM
2

Are you saying bye or asking a question? It's confusing when you edit your posts ... The simple answer is this: if he's the CEO, he has the ability to schedule his important meetings in a way that works with the rest of his responsibilities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 10:45 PM
4

If that was the case, I think you would've added that info to your story, no? Why on earth are you making up very unlikely scenarios in order to defend men? That, paired with your praising of men you don't know, is pickme behaviour ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 10:40 PM
-7

Taking proper time off work so that you can actually attend the entire event. There are no specific expectations on fathers that differs from those on mothers, according to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 10:22 PM
3

That's sweet and all, but you still praised a man you don't know for doing what would be considered below acceptable levels of parenting if the parent was a woman. Don't do emotional labour for men you barely know. No, you cannot vouch for him. Any man can seem like a decent person for an hour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 10:14 PM
-16

This is some serious low expectations of fathers. Among the best because he managed that? Not impressive compared to what mothers do on a daily basis. And you praising him? Please ... Don't praise men you don't know, only praise them if you truly know that they're good people. Edited to add: to all of you people seriously downvoting me, maybe you're in the wrong sub? The woman I'm replying to here got the user flair "Pickmeisha" after this post for a reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 10:04 PM
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