| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 44 | I sucks at flirting; I meet two women at Nerd Party | Escalation & Calibration | themainManKaibaMan | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 01:52 AM |
| 24 | I had sex. What can i learn for my experience? | Outer Game | themainManKaibaMan | /r/seduction | 17/02/26 09:44 PM |
| 14 | I wish I knew how to flirt better- | Escalation & Calibration | themainManKaibaMan | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 06:30 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | 5 rejections in a monthBecause- it was avout letting my fear win- it about determation. Will and most importantlh meeting people and seeing how things go- why not yk | /r/seduction | 02/03/26 11:04 PM |
| 1 | I had sex. What can i learn for my experience?i found out- she says she was here to get know me- nothing much more than that. she just told me i wasn’t using my hips at all- once i stop using my hip it didn’t feel good | /r/seduction | 02/03/26 09:32 PM |
| 1 | What are you guys doing to address your insecurities?drawing is so much fun what do you draw? | /r/seduction | 02/03/26 08:37 PM |
| 2 | 5 rejections in a monthIll do it as myself - my goofy self | /r/seduction | 02/03/26 05:17 PM |
| 2 | 5 rejections in a monthYES AND ILL DO IT AGAIN i wont have it any other way | /r/seduction | 02/03/26 05:16 PM |
| 2 | 5 rejections in a monthTry try try- I will always never have a chnce. I knew in my heart so DESPITW THAT SHIT I TRY. Agian and AGIAn. I rather keep trying then to ever give up- even if i knew i have chance. You got this!!!!! Never forgot reason why your try. Dont do it because it get yoh get laid. No you just forgor it. Do it becuse you wont let contorl you. You take rejection agian agian and again. Thats how i did it. | /r/seduction | 01/03/26 08:44 AM |
| 2 | Am I a bitch?yeah, I don’t listen to you’re being a bitch but like you genuinely felt bad do you genuinely want I’m going for mistakes or do you just wanna say you’re a bitch because yes, you are a bitch. You said you weren’t treat her right-why do you want someone? What do you want? Why did you try to seduce someone that you weren’t attracted to answer those questions to yourself? Why? | /r/seduction | 23/02/26 05:35 AM |
| 1 | I had sex. What can i learn for my experience?I am funny i woudo say- i like make jokes- so it not like- im sorta chill and goofy. | /r/seduction | 23/02/26 12:55 AM |
| 1 | How to stop letting fear of rejection stop me from approachingI peactice at bars and coffe shops. If it gives you any help, I want to see world and like I said I’m was 23 at the time i saw this girl that i thought was super cute. I remember it was the song I was with just kinda in a circle so I kinda like her. I guess she’s with her family or friends. I talk to her and I just about like you moved here to Florida stuff like that and I just asked you wanna go out sometime. She yes and i got her number. We dated for 4 months | /r/seduction | 21/02/26 04:35 PM |
| 1 | How to stop letting fear of rejection stop me from approachingTry even despite that you’re gonna fail and accept that and try anyway and try and try again except you’re gonna fail and try again despite that just say you’re not gonna stop that because you talk to girls but because you don’t want the fear to stop you it’s about the principal it’s about the you know and also you’re just talking to people in general like you know just say hey I wanna go on a date and I mean that’s kind of worked for me as I got my first girlfriend we just made conversation it … | /r/seduction | 21/02/26 09:52 AM |
| 1 | I had sex. What can i learn for my experience?Im that all speculation- plus i dont mind either way. She does want to hang out agian. Plus like she doesnt like men that just want sex straight up. Like she has options it seem because she is attractive. She still wants to hangout and stuff. As for me it was so nice just to be included. Like im jot complaining but simply learning- and trying to grow Plus she wanted to spend two night at my place. | /r/seduction | 19/02/26 04:49 PM |
| 1 | I had sex. What can i learn for my experience?Dawg you guys get blamed wtf. I tried a few time to get more cozy eaither When i dated my ex it was complete different expereince- me and my ex would cuddle on the couch. I could esclate tbrough physical contact. My date however was not the same- i just thought she liked me as a friend. | /r/seduction | 19/02/26 04:26 PM |
| 1 | I had sex. What can i learn for my experience?I couldn’t tell she was horny | /r/seduction | 19/02/26 04:14 PM |
| 1 | I had sex. What can i learn for my experience?Damn-well your not wrong. That make sense | /r/seduction | 19/02/26 03:25 PM |
| 1 | BEING A DORK IS A SUPER POWERliterally, I got laid the other night from the hinge match because she’d liked cute nerdy boys. oh, like I like to talk about anime and stuff like that and I’m just kind of dorky like I’m an artist of course so I like to talk about art and the subject matter and what it means and stuff like that.- I like to draw a tattoo. By the way, I’m 5’4 I also went to a party where I got started with this really hard cause player dressed up like yourichi. She remembered me from the other night. She asked me… | /r/seduction | 18/02/26 09:40 PM |
| 1 | I had sex. What can i learn for my experience?Bleh- she defiantly a type for a lot of different guys. I literally did nothing | /r/seduction | 18/02/26 08:37 AM |
| 1 | I had sex. What can i learn for my experience?It was veey different then i was with my ex | /r/seduction | 18/02/26 08:08 AM |
| 2 | I had sex. What can i learn for my experience?I wouldnt say weird- i do wanna think about it :). I didnt get signals. | /r/seduction | 18/02/26 08:08 AM |
| 1 | I had sex. What can i learn for my experience?but like i suck- i dead ass, would not be the type that would be attractive. | /r/seduction | 18/02/26 05:57 AM |
| 1 | I had sex. What can i learn for my experience?I thought about it- but like i didn think this was the server to ask. | /r/seduction | 17/02/26 11:33 PM |
| 2 | I had sex. What can i learn for my experience?Well, I asked her if she’d be down to do i- when she at ny place second night. But she “it didnt well the first time- we can just chill” | /r/seduction | 17/02/26 10:53 PM |
| 2 | I had sex. What can i learn for my experience?Yeah she seemed unsure when i told i never done before- but she was like fuck it. Like kinda asking for resurrance that i have under controll. I told her i was quick learner- but i might help like tell to go harder or slower. Aslo it had to be that she liked me- because she was really attractive so not desperate- she had options. I didn’t see any signs that she was horny. I would’ve felt more. | /r/seduction | 17/02/26 10:49 PM |
| 1 | I had sex. What can i learn for my experience?Early 20s im 24. Besides the basic- i told pretty much everything that went on. | /r/seduction | 17/02/26 10:42 PM |
| 3 | I had sex. What can i learn for my experience?Certainly not- she doesnt like how much hinge dude wanna hook up. Also i dont think i look that attractive but i get called cute. | /r/seduction | 17/02/26 10:40 PM |
| 1 | I had sex. What can i learn for my experience?Ahahah- she just straight up ask me “ do you wanna do it” I tried to do some foreplay- like ask her to kiss and tried to rub- and i asked for some play and jerk mine for a split second to get hard but she interrupted was like are you gonna start? | /r/seduction | 17/02/26 10:08 PM |
| 2 | I had sex. What can i learn for my experience?Hell yes | /r/seduction | 17/02/26 09:59 PM |
| 6 | I had sex. What can i learn for my experience?I thought about it number one-it was hard and she said I was trying to do too much. You know we’re going specific because she just wanna ask her. It was just kind of like it was just off. For my experience number one it was missionary so I was not used to using my hips like that -it kept on slipping out I remember-at some point, I might’ve put it too fast. And another thing for me is I can’t do sex while high.- I jerk off the day of becuase i wasnt expecting to have sex. There was huge lack of f… | /r/seduction | 17/02/26 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Looking for hope: Any former hard cases here who built the social life they wanted through cold approach?Me man, so basically if you want to the full context. I made post but that’s only if you care Basically. I’m with A Florida and I had to rely on nothing but could approach so first time was with my ex. I cold approach her a SeaWorld. And then I went to an anime party and I met two friends and then through that Friend I met some more friends and one girl even celebrate my birthday with and she let me tattoo her ass for fun because I was practicing. | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 03:39 PM |
| 1 | I wish I knew how to flirt better-Dude!!! Tbh there what it felt like latee your not wrong. I’m trying to understand more that why i asked. I was like I’m supposed to feel excited, but I don’t. I don’t know why I’m not feeling like I was able to flirt to escalate to make it exciting. I don’t know why I was just not there. | /r/seduction | 15/09/25 02:33 PM |
| 1 | I wish I knew how to flirt better-Also, like I said when I was over her place, I was fully kinda expecting something, but she looks like she had a rough night with nursing and to be honest it was just like the body language. Like it was just felt super awkward to ask to make out or whatever so that’s why I was kind of like. I’ll just hang back until something happens. Maybe she just need a company like you know what I’m saying. First starters-she was talking about this coolest anime. I want to watch and I asked her if she was do… | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 06:52 PM |
| 1 | I wish I knew how to flirt better-So apparently there’s another really cute girl that I went to approach at the party- it was really nice. I kinda missed up trying to get her number. But like she said, she like my cosplay.- at the party/club we brush up against other shoulder to shoulders or armd brushing up against each she didn’t seem to mind- she would even try to talk to me even in the dance circle- too bad most of what she said I couldn’t hear because the music was too loud other than a few tidbits- | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 06:44 PM |
| 3 | I wish I knew how to flirt better-Listen, I couldn’t help about my dad. My dad literally flew over to my place to get tattooed and we had a certain day to do it and I cannot get out of that. That’s just what it is so I did try to make it up saying that I could hang out at her place. | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 06:25 PM |
| 1 | I wish I knew how to flirt better-I don’t know if courage is the best way to describe it because it took me a lot of courage to like go out but just like a year ago I met my ex at literary amusement park. I thought she was cute and I made conversation and towards the end of it, I asked her if she wanna go out and she said We to me that felt like courage. I guess I just felt like I was inexperienced so - i wasnt expecting getting approached. I think I was just indecisive tbh more than anything. I don’t know flirting would look li… | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 10:43 AM |
| 1 | I wish I knew how to flirt better-I get that a lot tbh- thank for tip much apprieciated | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 09:44 AM |
| 0 | I wish I knew how to flirt better-I didnt think she wanted me- | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 07:50 AM |
| 1 | I sucks at flirting; I meet two women at Nerd PartyYeah yeah with two instances/ the first girl. We were dancing at rave:party, but were definetly brush arms and shoulder very much and i could lean to ask her what see said- the other women i forgot i touched ther thigh and she didnt seem too mind. But she is just a naturally flirty person. Also dude, thanks so much for helping me like this. Some the best comments and insight I got. | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 08:15 AM |
| 2 | Why some men are "romantically invisible" to women?I would be so honest sometimes the best advice is just stop trying and enjoying the conversation. Like when I say that I think instead of asking, how can flirt more is more like how can I be more direct about my intentions and still have fun? If that makes any sense. Like I said, I’m not the best at flirting for example- tbh honest some people can’t term I’m flirting | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 08:06 AM |
| 2 | I sucks at flirting; I meet two women at Nerd PartyWell i want for surec it was on purpose- but i never God at physical escalation | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 04:03 PM |
| 1 | I sucks at flirting; I meet two women at Nerd PartyWait thst sooo coool!!! I got check it out. I wasnt expecting anything from the party other than meeting friend- also it was super fun but i dont consider myself that attractive | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 04:45 AM |
| 1 | I sucks at flirting; I meet two women at Nerd PartyThanks this help so much. By the way this is super helpful. I looked back at it and kinda realise in the moment the first i should ve gotten her number, I’m fairly sure she would ve been and at the very least would’ve been a very cool friend. On the second one, dead ass I was not prepared. I guess in those situations- it hard for me to tell if she wss into me-. I wish I could say something like does “she want to take me home or something like that?” I wish I knew how to reciprocate touch when sh… | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 03:40 AM |
| 2 | I sucks at flirting; I meet two women at Nerd PartyIt really has I wish- I was more flurry but the heat at the moment I was sort of confused on; if I should just let it slow in a moment or I should- short i dont know ughh. For future reference are these good signs that someone’s interested by the way? I love being direct it’s just that - it just i was trying to goibg parties more often | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 03:30 AM |
| 1 | I sucks at flirting; I meet two women at Nerd PartyInstagram- tbh. I’m in Orlando | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 03:07 AM |
| 1 | I sucks at flirting; I meet two women at Nerd PartyOff ill try my best!! 💪 | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 02:11 AM |
| 0 | I sucks at flirting; I meet two women at Nerd PartyMore what? | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Angry and tired of don't having sexWhat wrong with you??? That horrible advice. Damn- He right that awful way to think of people. | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Which is better? Masking or be my unhinged selfLet’s fucking go be your fucking natural self let’s go!!!! Kick logic to the curve do the impossible. Like let’s be honest do you think trying to maskinh is gonna help you attract the people that you want. Don’t apologize to be yourself ever and I mean that on God. If I’d be stubborn even and face of rejection and don’t be afraid to try again and don’t just be yourself, be yourself without any fear brought to others might think. Let me know how it goes, dude. | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 02:27 AM |
| 1 | 130 Cold Approaches In: Is This Worth It?It does make the question what do you exactly talk about when you’re approaching people? Like is it something that you notice about them? Is it something hobbies is it like sometimes it’s better to meet people in environments that you actually give a fuck about I don’t know for sure what your interest on Man. Don’t give me wrong the cold approavh can-but can’t be so for real 12 people a day. It’s a lot man and over 130 people is also a lot of my honest opinion and nothing just a grain. I am not … | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 02:25 AM |
| 3 | Meeting girls at collegeMy best advice looking back at college just go talk to people and be direct like you be surprised when you ask people out-join some clubs and honestly there’s a woman that you find a charge. Just tell her you think she’s cute and would love to go out sometime maybe study session just to be open it’s not weird to express interest. It’s just weird being desperate and horny about it. You feel? And for warmer approaches well you shouldn’t already think about it like oh I want them to warm up to me b… | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 02:13 AM |
| 1 | The best connections come when you’re not trying so hard. Just be present.SEE Based- literally i realized what aminute - why should i care what they think | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 01:17 AM |
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