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Outer Game thementalyogi/r/seduction25/12/20 02:52 AM
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Escalation & Calibrationthementalyogi/r/seduction24/11/21 06:29 PM
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Inner Game thementalyogi/r/seduction15/11/20 04:31 AM
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Inner Game thementalyogi/r/seduction18/04/21 03:48 PM
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Inner Game thementalyogi/r/seduction29/11/21 07:35 PM
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Field Reportthementalyogi/r/seduction05/05/21 02:25 PM
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Logisticsthementalyogi/r/seduction06/11/21 02:51 AM
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Removed: No Beginner Topics/Too Broadthementalyogi/r/seduction20/05/21 01:19 AM
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Conversationthementalyogi/r/seduction13/11/21 08:49 PM
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Inner Game thementalyogi/r/seduction18/04/21 04:23 PM
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Look at it from the universe's perspective. Yeses and nos are how we tell the universe what we want. If you keep telling the universe yes for a woman that it's right for you, you'll keep getting more of the same. Go after what you want, to anything other than that is not just a waste of time, it fucks with the balance of the universe.
/r/seduction29/11/21 03:40 AM
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The problem here isn't that you talk too much, it is that your talking does not keep them engaged. Communication consists of two individuals who speak their hearts and minds. The mind has this funny little need to be heard. When it is clear we are heard, relief floods through us. To be heard is akin to being understood. Communication = communion. If you want to commune with a woman, you need to HEAR her and show her she is heard. If you spew a flood of babble at her and give her not even a chanc…
/r/seduction29/11/21 12:59 AM
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Ok Eric Clapton
/r/seduction27/11/21 12:09 AM
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A bad boy is just as it sounds. Someone bad at being a boy. Aka a man. An actual man. To me, a man doesn't need to please a woman the way a boy does. Boys try to "make mommy happy," a bad boy, or a man, acts without desperation, he knows all things happen as they will. Boys can be mean, especially towards women, or they are too afraid to be anything, so they don't interact with women. Men don't have this fear so they simple are themselves. This can come off as rude or mean, but it doesn't have t…
/r/seduction26/11/21 11:39 PM
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No, there is a difference between narcissism and what I describe. Underneath a narcissists frail shell is someone who bitter hates themselves. It's a facade. I'm talking about self love. When you love and accept everything (even your faults, even the things you've always disapproved of) about yourself, that is when you can realize your own beauty. This isn't about "being hot shit." Honestly, it has NOTHING to do with other people. A narcissist is relative to others. This is simply knowing your o…
/r/seduction26/11/21 10:36 PM
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😂🤣 fuck school
/r/seduction26/11/21 10:31 PM
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My father, family, friends, teachers, all media I looked at did no such thing. I was lucky, though, because I found the desire in myself to search out self improvement. If I had never started that path, I don't know where if be.
/r/seduction26/11/21 05:46 PM
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Here I was expecting you to explain the proper way to bury a body. Disappointed ☹️ ... ... ... ... ... ... Jk
/r/seduction26/11/21 02:51 PM
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It's all in how they are raised and the kind of women they interact with.
/r/seduction26/11/21 02:42 PM
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Join a church? 😂😉
/r/seduction26/11/21 02:41 PM
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The only thing that makes you attractive is that you believe yourself to be. The more you believe your attractiveness to be true, the more confidence you have, and thus the more attractive you are.
/r/seduction26/11/21 03:46 AM
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This is why I'm not a big fan of dating apps 🙃
/r/seduction26/11/21 01:59 AM
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Ah... How did you end up on a date with a woman you didn't even want to kiss?
/r/seduction26/11/21 01:39 AM
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I don't understand your last sentence
/r/seduction25/11/21 07:29 PM
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Dude, there are so many fish in the sea. There are so many people you'll meet in your life. Don't be so worried. Message her and if she doesn't respond so what.
/r/seduction25/11/21 05:08 AM
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The escalation is from 0 to kissing. I didn't explain anything between then and sex, because the point was just to be honest and clear with your intentions.
/r/seduction25/11/21 12:00 AM
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Absolutely. That's the point, so many guys treat women as objects. So... If men don't do that... They could probably get laid.
/r/seduction24/11/21 11:59 PM
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It seems like often when women post on here there's a lot of lash-back. Aka boy psychology.
/r/seduction24/11/21 11:56 PM
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🤣💯
/r/seduction24/11/21 11:55 PM
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Sorry, not all men are assholes.
/r/seduction24/11/21 11:54 PM
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Thank you for the advice. As someone who wants sex to be pleasurable for both parties, this is good to know. But not everyone is the same, so "usually doesn't lead to orgasm" is a bit of an overstatement in my opinion. Though I'm not a woman, so. 🤷
/r/seduction24/11/21 11:54 PM
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Genuine interest doesn't have to be "relationship." I'm genuinely interested in her as a human being.
/r/seduction24/11/21 11:50 PM
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Nope, not going to make anything. If it happens, it happens
/r/seduction24/11/21 09:40 PM
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Who said that? It's a beautiful quote
/r/seduction23/11/21 05:50 PM
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In my opinion, there is only one way to properly text. This involves using your intuition, and having patience. When you receive a text from a woman, recognize the way that you feel. Does it feel right to text back right now? Do you even have anything to say that flows well with what she said? These are the two points that I use to determine when and what to say. does it feel right do I have something to say If your response does not feel good to you, it will not feel good to her either. If your…
/r/seduction22/11/21 11:09 PM
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Why?
/r/seduction22/11/21 09:41 PM
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I'm extremely extroverted, but LOVE silence.
/r/seduction22/11/21 06:12 PM
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You're right. I never recognized this line, but I've used it too. In seduction, there is this concept of tension, creating sexual tension between you and her. If there is a solid flow between you two, conversation, you can feel the interest, then you actively throw in a tense moment like "wait," attention is drawn into that moment, that tension is felt. In this case tension is good. Tension creates the opening and you resolve the tension by kissing her.
/r/seduction22/11/21 02:12 PM
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Especially #9. Holy shit the power of silence. If there is nothing to say, don't say anything. If she is uncomfortable with silence and is curious about you/wants you, she'll keep it going. But if there's no vibe, and you force conversation, that further presses the fact that there's no vibe. Let the moment be what it is. It's like public speaking. If you use "umm" or "like" or any other filler words, your speech becomes intensely WEAK. But by using silence, you allow for what you said to resona…
/r/seduction22/11/21 02:05 PM
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"honestly, I just want to fuck you till you scream in ecstasy"
/r/seduction18/11/21 04:15 AM
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Accept it! I always worried about being too serious, but in my opinion being serious is a powerful way if being. Just accept the way you are and be it.
/r/seduction16/11/21 04:46 PM
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Don't chase, just mace
/r/seduction16/11/21 02:33 PM
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What's incel theory?
/r/seduction14/11/21 10:49 PM
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Instead of responding right away, when you get a message look at the message if you must, but also look inward. Recognize whether or not you need to actually respond right way. Does it feel right? Or is there something off about responding right away? But play it by each moment. Every time you're going to message, ask first, tune in.
/r/seduction13/11/21 12:18 PM
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Be more unavailable. Give less of yourself. Commit yourself to your own work and life, find purpose and power in your own work. Give women 0% of your attention while you're apart (except as is needed to set up time together). When you're with them give 100%
/r/seduction12/11/21 09:43 PM
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No ministry of silly walks?
/r/seduction11/11/21 03:05 AM
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Don't. Ok, yeah, not really answering the question, BUT! My advice is don't use tinder. UNLESS you're super committed.
/r/seduction07/11/21 09:14 PM
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Maybe Christiansingles?
/r/seduction07/11/21 07:42 PM
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Don't feel bad and don't blame anyone for this. The vast majority of men these days are really just boys. It is supremely sad, because actually men is what the world needs. Most patriarchal systems are run by boy energy, families, governments, businesses. If we have more man energy, the world would be a better place. Check out King, Warrior, Magician, Lover by Moore and Gillette.
/r/seduction07/11/21 05:10 PM
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Break IT off? Ouch.
/r/seduction07/11/21 04:17 PM
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Are you secretly a little boy? Or are you a powerful man? Of course, what you want to react with is that you are a powerful man, but recognize that there is nothing wrong with being a boy. It just means you've not transitioned to man. This is a step that should be obvious, should be easy and built into each culture, but these days there are no transformation rituals for boys to become men. What needs to happen is you need to die. The boy that is within you MUST die for you to become a man. Once …
/r/seduction07/11/21 04:10 PM
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You're special, just like everyone else.
/r/seduction07/11/21 02:04 PM
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Recognize that no matter what you do, you are alone. Whether in a committed relationship or you have a FWB or you have no one, you are ALONE. How does this make sense? There is not other individual being who can truly understand us, because no one can ever see from our perspective. If no one can experience as you experience, then no one can truly be WITH you. No one can lessen your aloneness. There is a sense of satisfaction that comes from another, but it does not thing alleviate that underlyin…
/r/seduction07/11/21 12:55 AM
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What you should do in this current situation? Keep living your life. Focus more on what you're doing other than her. Offer the attention she wants, but give it sparingly. Don't ignore her, just recognize that YOUR LIFE IS NOT ABOUT HER. Focus on the moment, don't worry about her. Observe how she act though, react in the moment. When you want to do something, do it, but only in person. Pay attention to how you feel, recognize when the feeling is lust and when it is craving attention. Be honest wi…
/r/seduction07/11/21 12:13 AM
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If she is demanding what you supply, you have the power. Observe what this feels like, to have a woman craving you. This is super powerful data. Sit with this feeling, as much as you can detach the situation from the feeling. Just focus on the feeling of her wanting you. In the future, with every woman, return to this feeling and apply it to the situation. Thus, you create the same vibe of being wanted within yourself, which then reverbs out to the woman in your cross hairs. Apply this feeling o…
/r/seduction07/11/21 12:07 AM
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No. Way.
/r/seduction06/11/21 10:54 PM
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Great addition and great reasons.
/r/seduction06/11/21 10:54 PM
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These exactly are the kinds of things I'm looking for. Thanks.
/r/seduction06/11/21 10:53 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/seduction06/11/21 11:38 AM
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Don't. What if you engaged her to the point of her asking YOU!
/r/seduction06/11/21 02:02 AM
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This! So fucking truuuuuueeee!!! Sometimes best friend is even better. Men need the feminine energies to balance us, you can receive sooooo much from just being friends with a woman.
/r/seduction06/11/21 01:59 AM
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14,987,032
/r/seduction05/11/21 05:25 PM
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Not just is it good for you, it's also good for us men. Who the fuck what's to live a boring life? The more boring your life the more boring you are. So, is it really a "badboy" that is wanted, or a man of thrill and intrigue? Are these the same?
/r/seduction05/11/21 05:25 PM
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I take a yoga view on this. There is a balance, in yoga, between comfort and discomfort. In holding a pose, we settle into a place of absolute comfort. From this point of ease, we move in various ways to find where discomfort arises. The space between comfort and discomfort are our (soft) limitations. When there is pain, that is our absolute (hard) limitation. So there is a sense of exploration, of play, held in yoga. The same can go for seduction. Recognize where your limits are (usually requir…
/r/seduction04/11/21 08:21 PM
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Another benefit of this, tinder gives you a boost every time you're in a new area. 😏
/r/seduction03/11/21 08:59 PM
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Your grammar makes this very difficult to read. Ever try spell check in word or Google docs before posting?
/r/seduction03/11/21 08:43 PM
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You can go do things can't you? Like go wander around, explore on your days off, learn a language, an instrument, engage your mind or body in something you can do. If you don't want to be boring, don't be boring.
/r/seduction02/11/21 10:53 PM
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Quit being boring. Live an exciting life. Do things that thrill you. Then return to the world of women and be yourself.
/r/seduction02/11/21 10:41 PM
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So then don't talk?
/r/seduction02/11/21 10:39 PM
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If you're bored with what you're sending, they'll be bored with what they're receiving.
/r/seduction02/11/21 05:51 PM
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What even is awkwardness? Is it self judgement? Are you reacting to your way and believing something is wrong in your actions? Are you attempting to see through the eyes of others (impossible, btw) how you look? Is it a self limiting belief? Is it a physical sensation? If it's physical, where do you feel it in the body when you're feeling awkward? Here's a fun game and self practice. Watch something that is supremely awkward, I'm sure there is something gut wrenchingly awkward on YouTube. Watch …
/r/seduction02/11/21 05:44 PM
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When you're swimming, "accidentally" lose your trunks in the pool. Climb out right in front of her and act all embarrassed. Something Rule the world
/r/seduction02/11/21 03:24 AM
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Work to completely express yourself and accept yourself. If you 100% can see yourself and be yourself, if you can fully commit to yourself, it doesn't matter who you're with. The truth is that you are absolutely alone as an individual, no matter the relationship or job. Wherever you are you will be with yourself, so you should learn to love the shit out of that person. If you can love yourself fully, playing the field and saying becomes 1000% more enjoyable. You don't need to ever be heartbroken…
/r/seduction02/11/21 03:12 AM
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Let me ask a question to you that could be at the root of this. Would you be engaged by the way that you approach these women?
/r/seduction02/11/21 03:04 AM
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When you're alone, stand naked in front of a mirror. Look at yourself as fucking sexy as hell, every single part. Recognize your own inmate beauty. If you can find yourself attractive, small flaccid dick and all, you're set. Oh! The other option, turn it into a party trick. "Hey everyone, look how much my penis can grow!" Or whatever.
/r/seduction02/11/21 02:49 AM
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Ok, hold up. I want to address how you speak to yourself. "Fuck, why do it always fuck up" who put this idea into your head? That is definitely not an idea that is truly yours. If you truly believe this then of course you're always going to fuck up. Recognize that you are not this way. You limit yourself by believing so.
/r/seduction02/11/21 02:44 AM
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Regardless of risking pressing charges, there's also why would you want to sleep with someone based on the idea that "now that they're drunk they want me?" Wouldn't you rather wait to see them sober. Be playful sure, but wait for them to make the decision of their own accord.
/r/seduction31/10/21 07:07 PM
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Every human being lives in the moment. Sometimes passions arise and sometimes they fall. If the moment contains sexual tension, act in the moment. It can easily fade. No individual moment needs to mean anything to the next moment. Don't expect anyone to say anything and have those words hold meaning tomorrow. If you want to live life to it's fullest, act in the moment. Don't think about you, don't hesitate. Hesitation only leads to regret.
/r/seduction31/10/21 07:03 PM
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Close your eyes, just listen to the music, forget there are people around you.
/r/seduction31/10/21 02:05 AM
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Explanations get in the way, better to just try.
/r/seduction30/10/21 07:49 PM
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If you stop trying now, it'll happen. Set yourself the intention of getting laid, and drop all effort.
/r/seduction30/10/21 07:14 PM
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For me: Cacao as an alternative to coffee. Masturbating without porn as alternative to with. Amanita muscaria tincture as alternative to alcohol.
/r/seduction17/05/21 03:11 PM
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This was a lot of words and several points, which part was bullshit? Since they say every lie holds a kernal of truth, is not total bullshit impossible?
/r/seduction07/05/21 12:23 AM
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It is natural to fail and try again. It is easy and straightforward to be natural. We are ever changing masses of thoughts, emotions, ideas, images, memories, etc. That's why I would rather say don't be yourself, be natural. You are absolutely right in what you say. Growth and change are bound to happen. But all I say is let it happen. Just as the season's change, so too do we. I would argue that there never was a person to begin with. Just things happening & "seeing" things happening. Let it al…
/r/seduction05/05/21 09:46 PM
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To go against one's nature is a waste of time and of energy. Be natural and those you resonate with that naturalness will join you. My problem with this subreddit is there is SO MUCH effort expended to seduce. The most successful find ease in their action.
/r/seduction05/05/21 08:55 PM
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Well, we chatted a bit. I could tell there was some level of interest. I live in a van and we talked a bit about that, asked if she wanted to see inside, she did. One of the only women I've approached who've been comfortable with that, lol. We shared a cigarette, talked of similarities. Got her number then she went to work. The important thing, in my opinion, is not conversation or what we did. What matters is how she reacted to me. I showed interest and she did not back away or hesitate. She wa…
/r/seduction05/05/21 07:11 PM
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Don't think about it, just act. React. When a thought comes, think it, when words are said, say them, when you act, act, when you don't act, don't act. It isn't about being yourself, it's at being natural. My wording in that post is wrong. When you are able to be natural, can add ease will flow off you. Calm and ease are very attractive. But don't try, trying is the death of being natural.
/r/seduction05/05/21 04:50 PM
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Physically relax. Imagine your whole body being taken by the weight of gravity. Feel your feet on the ground. Let's do a short awareness exercise. I'm just going to list parts of the body, as you read this, notice those parts mentally, don't look at them, just feel them. You don't have to actively relax those parts, just be aware of them. Imagine they are soft like cotton. Feet, toes, ankles, calves, knees, thighs, hips, glutes, low back, belly, chest, shoulders, hands, fingers, low arm, elbows,…
/r/seduction30/04/21 03:36 AM
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Meditation. Sit with the feeling of hating yourself. Just sit with it. Feel the self hate, gaze into that self hate so deeply and singularly. But not do anything about it. Just look. Don't expect, just observe. The path to understanding anything is to simple sit with it. To understand is to overcome.
/r/seduction28/04/21 12:53 PM
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You know, the beautiful thing about this advice is by relaxing your neck, you relax your vocal chords, so your voice is more relaxed. So whether or not we are relaxed, we'll sound more relaxed and that's a big part of the whole thing.
/r/seduction19/04/21 03:08 PM
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And yet another way! Relax your legs, relax your glutes, relax your feet, relax you pelvic floor and anus, relax your genitals and thighs. Relax your abdomen and breathe into your abdomen. Be aware of tension that arises when you stand and relax it away. Tension does not allow energy to flow, relax and the energy will flow.
/r/seduction18/04/21 07:23 PM
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Also! Another simple way that takes time to cultivate is your voice. Speak in lower tones. As low as you can go comfortably while still being able to speak consistently and fluidly. The resonance of your voice alone can keep you grounded. Practice this with humming. What does it feel like to him at your lowest low? Can you go lower? Can you him and feel that vibration in your genitals? Can you feel that beyond? In your feet? Etc. Feel that hum and see if you can speak in a way that you can feel …
/r/seduction18/04/21 07:19 PM
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The breath is a wonderful tool for this. Breathe down into your belly and down into your genitals. Feel each inhale filling you with sexual power and honing your focus to a point. Feel that strength growing and pulling you into yourself. You can also just feel your feet on the ground or in your shoes. Or feel your body where you are. Remember you are here, you are now. You are rooted in yourself. You can also use affirmation. "I am grounded in myself." Pick one and stick with it. Not everything …
/r/seduction18/04/21 07:09 PM
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I agree! That gets old fast. But for some that's all the connection they need. Personally, my favorite part is taking with them, seeing them, breathing their scent, enjoying their presence. To simply BE with a beautiful woman is enough sometimes. Sometimes I want to go deeper, physically or emotionally, but sometimes the being is enough.
/r/seduction18/04/21 05:48 PM
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Makes sense though, I mean, how many of us guys do things by accident? They are humans too, with unique and powerful calibrating and calculating brains, they definitely act with intention, desire, and hope.
/r/seduction18/04/21 03:52 PM
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She wants you to cough on her. It's her kink
/r/seduction18/04/21 03:50 PM
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Absolutely. Why hold back? Holding back is a waste of time. This kind of stuff is not something that should be done in the moment, in the moment you act, don't think. But after our before, like when one is browsing Reddit, it's fun to think about.
/r/seduction26/12/20 04:46 PM
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This is so true. I was reading this "how to read body language" book from the 50s and seeing all the things I do and thinking, well shit, that's not why I do that! I still wonder if these are the general things that people assume you're doing, and why. But still, no two people are alike, so who's to say?
/r/seduction25/12/20 10:54 PM
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"I want that and it will be mine" am I right?
/r/seduction25/12/20 09:55 PM
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Hahahaha, me too. Oh wait I posted it. 😅
/r/seduction25/12/20 09:00 PM
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elbow shake
/r/seduction25/12/20 09:00 PM
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Hahaha, I love the exactness of that spell. 🤣
/r/seduction25/12/20 04:42 PM
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Why does not having sex make you a loser?
/r/seduction25/12/20 03:37 PM
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What about 43 seconds? ;)
/r/seduction25/12/20 02:51 PM
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Hahaha, personally, I'm a fan of sergeant finger.
/r/seduction25/12/20 02:45 PM
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This guy's got it. ;)
/r/seduction25/12/20 02:43 PM
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Well, we are all guarded, some more than others. In a world where men have totally abused the power they have and no one seems to know how to healthily communicate with themselves, it makes sense. It's much easier to face the world from a place of apathy in order to guard your heart from getting hurt. Plus, you don't know what's going on in her life, maybe she just went through a horrible relationship and has zero interest in interaction, maybe... Who knows?! It's better to take no offense and m…
/r/seduction25/12/20 02:42 PM
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But what if it was 43 seconds?
/r/seduction25/12/20 02:33 PM
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Definitely do not take this article to heart and think you have to act in the way that is said here. This is a total generalization, not ever is good to react the same way. Personally, I think you should just keep being you. If you think you send mixed signals, words are powerful too, when you feel comfortable saying something. ❤️
/r/seduction25/12/20 02:32 PM
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No no, that's just causing the grunting. The chest beating is not a standard response from the twitching. That depends on the position of your neck. ;)
/r/seduction25/12/20 02:30 PM
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Social interactions in general improve when we realize the uniqueness of each person. I don't believe the point of this article is to target anyone or standardize interaction in any way. The author writes in a very "this is how it is and there is nothing else" kind of way, but I see it as more of a basis to go off of. For some people social interaction is terrifying, probably 300x worse now with COVID. As analytical beings, having even the slightest amount of understanding in a situation makes i…
/r/seduction25/12/20 02:28 PM
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When in Rome. 😉
/r/seduction25/12/20 02:11 PM
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Essentially, what you're saying is no size fits all. Every woman is different, everyone is unique. I honestly don't like the idea of standardization of eye contact, that seems to take away from the spontaneity of the pick up. But it is nice to have some general direction to go.
/r/seduction25/12/20 02:10 PM
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What makes sense to you then?
/r/seduction25/12/20 10:26 AM
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You're thinking about it too much. Don't worry man. Just be you. And if you don't know you, cut ties with everything in your life for two weeks and be totally, absolutely alone. Observe your thoughts, words, and deeds, don't hold anything back. And accept every part of you.
/r/seduction25/12/20 07:26 AM
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We're all sages. Just look within.
/r/seduction25/12/20 07:24 AM
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tilts chin even further up
/r/seduction25/12/20 05:50 AM
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Think of it like synchronization. Like waves that ripple perfectly into one another. Like the various notes of a guitar that sound good together when strummed. If there is not mutual looking, then the two of you are not in sync and thus, why bother. Trying to force synchronization is resisting the natural flow of life. I say, just flow.
/r/seduction25/12/20 04:42 AM
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Right, eye contact on the street in China can be disrespectful. So I've been told.
/r/seduction25/12/20 04:29 AM
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Is there really any point to PUA coaching? If you can just be natural and show intent... Isn't that everything?
/r/seduction05/11/20 04:49 PM
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This is A FANTASTIC book. Good recommendation.
/r/seduction04/11/20 06:25 AM
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Women are constantly dealing with shit men. Constantly. Online dating and apps have only brought these men more to the surface, given them an outlet and distance heighten their shit behavior. So realize, she expects this. Don't take it personally. Every action and experience in our lives builds to create belief patterns and expectations. Memory is a devilish beast when attempting to overcome such shit conditioning. But... It also gives us something to go off of. It is our duty as men to alter th…
/r/seduction03/11/20 07:27 PM
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I love the bit about eye contact and vocal tone. Something I'd suggest is practicing eye gazing in the mirror or with a friend. Left eye, then right eye. With another person is powerful, might get you to see the shit that is holding you back. You know, that uncomfortable feeling from looking in another person's eyes. Look into that discomfort and see if you can learn from it. Also, the vocal tone! For this, I'd recommend recording yourself talking, audio or video, then listening to it. I have be…
/r/seduction28/10/20 08:01 PM
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How you do feel about yourself? I mean, like, are you confident with your self image, with your self expression and portrayal, with self love? And how genuine and vulnerable are you being in these approaches? Women can tell.
/r/seduction28/10/20 05:08 AM
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No excuses, just puns, it's cold here, so any approach is this.
/r/seduction23/10/20 05:27 PM
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Then literally pick them up
/r/seduction23/10/20 03:54 PM
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I'll hone my ESP
/r/seduction23/10/20 02:10 PM
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It's basically winter here... So ok
/r/seduction23/10/20 02:09 PM
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Will I need to bring my shovel?
/r/seduction23/10/20 02:09 PM
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Oh yes, I can see that actually haha
/r/seduction23/10/20 02:08 PM
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Thank you. I love this idea, it's like keeping the sword sharp between battles.
/r/seduction23/10/20 02:08 PM
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Why? I thought this was a place of help and support.
/r/seduction23/10/20 06:58 AM
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Bend-her
/r/seduction23/10/20 06:46 AM
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What's the emergency?
/r/seduction23/10/20 06:46 AM
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I prefer not to do online.
/r/seduction23/10/20 06:43 AM
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Erectile Rejection?
/r/seduction23/10/20 06:37 AM
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I don't like hospitals lol
/r/seduction23/10/20 06:26 AM
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Bummer, I was totally hoping for that. 😉😂
/r/seduction19/10/20 04:27 AM
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Why not?
/r/seduction18/10/20 04:01 PM
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You don't think his advice is of benefit for those looking to seduce?
/r/seduction18/10/20 03:34 PM
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I couldn't agree more, and honestly it's something I'm working on too. There is this book I'm reading, Urban Tantra, that talks about "The Resilient Edge of Resistance." It's basically going to the edge of your fear and staying there. Not too far out so that you're totally exposed without any support, just enough to feel the fear, to feel the risk. And that is what vulnerability is all about, overcoming fear and slowly getting used to it. Every warrior has to become accustomed with the feeling o…
/r/seduction17/10/20 03:03 AM
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Hahahahaha, thanks mate!
/r/seduction16/10/20 10:24 PM
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In my opinion, the more open and vulnerable you can be, while still keeping that grounded sense of safety and comfort, the more cool you are. Vulnerability implies risk, and aren't risky guys considered cool? Look at all the action heros in movies, they take tons of risks, but their risks are more extreme. Subtle risk is subtle coolness, and subtly is beautiful.
/r/seduction16/10/20 09:37 PM
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Don't think in terms of another person to love you. There are greater forces at work that love you. And no, I refer not to god. Let's take the earth for example. She provides all that is needed for us to live, even though we destroy her, there is still support. Or perhaps the air you breathe, you does not choke you with each inhale. Love does not have to come from another person. You are loved in the very fact that you exist and live. Don't wait for someone to love you. See that love is all arou…
/r/seduction11/10/20 03:28 AM
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It is because you do not value yourself that all these girl issues arise. Like, love, lust yourself and all follows. But first you have to know yourself. So who are you? And can you accept that?
/r/seduction11/10/20 12:36 AM
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When one man speaks and a world listens, there are bound to be those who find his words unfit for their ears.
/r/seduction10/10/20 03:27 PM
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Duuuuuuude The Path To Love by Deepak Chopra. Check it out
/r/seduction09/10/20 03:12 AM
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Reminds me of the book "the art of sexual ecstasy" Thanks for sharing. There should be more mindfulness in this subreddit. :)
/r/seduction06/10/20 06:35 AM
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Be open, friendly, honest. Be willing to talk about sex if the opportunity is presented. Make sex jokes. Don't be too blatant or over the top, but just show that sex is just another thing. It's importance is not top of the pyramid. Just put out that you are a sexual being and all else will land where it should.
/r/seduction05/10/20 06:25 AM
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BAM! YES! A problem of mine has always been to see THIS ONE as the girl I could totally take home or be with for a long time, but you are so right. Every encounter increases confidence in yourself. Every encounter is your opportunity to express yourself absolutely and become comfortable in this expression. To expect something from it is to limits oneself, so imagine all as friends, strangers, and nothing more. Allow yourself to be yourself and love your self expression. Encounter comfortably for…
/r/seduction05/10/20 03:56 AM
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Wow, this is so interesting. I picked up VBT before way of the superior man, never imagined it as a masculinity development book. I'm going to go through it again with this perspective and see what I find. :)
/r/seduction04/10/20 04:51 PM
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Don't worry about what to say. If there is nothing to say, say good day and walk on. If you let go of that headspace you cling so dearly to, something may just spring right up and it will feel exactly right.
/r/seduction04/10/20 01:47 AM
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