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Also, my previous comment wasn’t an emotional appeal, just an example of how society functions better as a whole. In your case, only you stand to benefit, but if that’s all that matters to you, yuck. We’ll have to agree to disagree there! Same with the mixed families comment. I know many happy, functional and contributing mixed families.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 09:31 AM
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Typically creates crappy situations and ruthless rather than altruistic people. If you think cutthroat and violent is better than civil, well...it sounds more like a vendetta. Being a poor child with the limited aid we have now already exposes you to Darwinian struggle. Same with single motherhood. It’s exactly a fun time. No one aspires to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 09:29 AM
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Haha, yes. Look at musicians. Or a guy that’s a great dancer. If he’s not investing in his career, he, like a woman, better have something else going for him. Make the millionaire someone that’s inherited his wealth, and immediately, the guy making $11/hr with an actual skill is more attractive. That being said, $11/hr isn’t enough to sustain a family. Let’s say he makes $50k a year, and has a great personality. I know plenty of girls who have gone for that guy over the rich boring guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 09:25 AM
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I'm speaking from a point of societal functionality. Society doesn't function well when there's overwhelming poverty. Tends to breed civil unrest and violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 02:21 AM
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Mixed families? They weren't single mothers by choice. Widowed, and in the other case, the man left her for a younger woman. (He tried to come back after she became a multimillionaire through ambition and hard work in her advanced age.) I would say that whatever aid we gave her was worth it, since she and her children now each give back much more each year. And you'd help your competitors because you generally want a functional and successful society. The fewer impoverished, uneducated citizens …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 04:30 PM
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I suppose what I was unclear on is why someone in a rising economic class but born into a low status class would care any more than UMC/UC women there by status?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 04:25 PM
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I don't know if this is always true, but I think they may not have interests that commonly overlap with women. And may not commonly encounter women in their day to day life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 03:50 PM
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I dated a guy that made good money, had abs, acted kind to others, wanted marriage, trustworthy, good relationship with his family, mature... The issue came down to the fact that he was self-centered in LTR. He was also really inconsiderate without realizing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 03:46 PM
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True on the other side for women too. Women are bombarded by hookup guys (which some of us don't even want), but finding an attractive, intelligent, LTR guy that shares the same values and the same interests is just a combination of luck & effort. I think it's just tough going.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 03:42 PM
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I agree with most of what you've said, except that I am from the lower class and have worked my way upwards. I share pretty much the exact same sentiment as you. I don't know why you would lump in that the post would apply to women rising in economic classes along with materialistic women? I imagine that having been raised without money, and having earned it, you are in an optimal position to realize that it's not all that important past a certain threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 03:36 PM
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I have had a similar experience as a woman. I am from the LC, achieved professional success that no one in my family could imagine, dated people who were UC -- and have struggled with my WC habits. It's not money that determines your class alone. I can attest to that. I have also struggled with WC habits and values that have impeded my success, and it took a lot of retraining to rid myself of those behaviors. On the other hand, I've seen friends of mine -- kids of UMC families raised that way, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 03:25 PM
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I think not having any way to earn money creates obvious problems when selecting for a partner, but beyond them being able to take care of themselves.... It's not about their wealth. I know plenty of men with inherited wealth, and it's not attractive. When someone is devoted to their job, or their hobby -- that's what's attractive. They spent some time investing in something. For some men, they happen to be obsessed with their job and have developed an admirable and disciplined work ethic that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 02:57 PM
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I was that girl. Super tomboyish, not stylish, chubby, acne, etc. Very nerdy, awkward. Struggled to make friends until about high school/college. Then my friends became amazing. Got bullied by guys and girls. And women were never threatened by me. Guys constantly "friendzoned" me. I started to confirm as I got older to beauty standards, lost some weight. Totally changed the dynamics of how people treated me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 02:54 PM
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The Hunger Games was a female fantasy where the woman was the hero, saving two men. I personally love being the protector, but have realized that it's not something most guys are into.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 01:58 PM
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You know, I happen to know a lot of really financially successful guys who were the children of single mothers. Just a thought....? Maybe it's not the norm, but they're surgeons. So maybe some can match the productivity and do a lot of good, even if some cannot. Why take that opportunity away from them? Without government aid, they would never have had the chance to educate themselves and help others. They also now pay a ridiculous amount of money in taxes each year.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 01:53 PM
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Yes. I think we conflate controlling asshole with masculine. To me, a masculine man is someone that is incredibly responsible, competent, assertive, capable of taking on leadership responsibilities. He commands respect because of the strength, morality, dependability of his character -- and never needs to display it to feel validated for it. I actually prefer men who are more reserved. He can even be shy socially -- so long as he can defend himself if someone is trying to marginalize him. Men th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 01:42 PM
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I'm a woman that was overweight, had acne, dressed poorly, and was badly socialized during my high school years. I was friendzoned many times and experienced the sort of frustration that TRPers experienced when people would tell me to just be myself. Do things I liked, etc. I spent a lot of time losing weight, adjusting my looks, and investing in myself physically. I suddenly had suitors, but my insecurities and mindsets often attracted the wrong men, and I was unhappy in those relationships. Ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 01:34 PM
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I think it's an integral role in the household, but if you're a SAHM, you're at a disadvantage regarding decision-making/power dynamics unless you managed to marry a very moral man. I saw it happen to my mom. Without her, my sister and I would not have had the opportunities we had. She facilitated our growth, as well as the growth of my dad's career because that was all he had to worry about. Everything else was taken care of when he got home. I don't really know what the solution is. I was alwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 01:15 PM
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I disagree. I was incredibly inexperienced and my partner was very experienced. We both learned a lot and were able to explore things together because I had really open mind. I think that the inexperienced partner can gain a lot of new experiences and the experienced partners gets to re-experience things for the first time by showing these things to someone new.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 01:03 PM
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