| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 4 | Would have entertained this clown a few months ago. Thank you FDS | #JustLVMThings | theminiaturelife | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 10:52 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inI shipped this book to two of my best friends this week. Our group chat is already full of “holy shit, how did I not see this before?!” Honestly the most important things in that book are barely about men...they’re about YOU! 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 02:43 PM |
| 10 | Do you use hinge?wipes tear from eye from someone with the Ruthless Strategist flair, that is such a compliment. Thank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 04:15 PM |
| 4 | Do you use hinge?Exactlyyyy!!! It ain’t right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 04:14 PM |
| 12 | Do you use hinge?Yes. I stopped using bumble (except to meet women) for this reason. No chasing men, not even a little bit. If it starts with woman chasing the man, it’s starting off wrong right away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 04:08 PM |
| 43 | Do you use hinge?I am almost exclusively on Hinge right now. I have a bumble profile but it’s only set to women (I date men and women) because I think more WLW are still possibly on bumble. I don’t think CMB is even a thing in my city. OLD is a numbers game. My Hinge strategy was create my profile, set my parameters, leave it open for a few weeks and don’t check the app at all during that time. I do not send likes or swipe through men. To me this is the online equivalent of men approaching me. Since the profile … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 04:02 PM |
| 3 | Do you use hinge?100% this. Hinge shows much more of who they really are, even if it requires reading between the lines a bit, than the other apps (besides maybe OkCupid or match.com or something). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:50 PM |
| 22 | Bisexuals: Don't share your orientation with your man. No good comes of it.I hate this. Total privacy violation. I am sorry that happened to you and it is definitely for the best this person is literally physically out of your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:15 AM |
| 40 | Bisexuals: Don't share your orientation with your man. No good comes of it.On another side of this: Disclosed to a guy I went on two dates with that I’m bisexual toward the end of the second date. We were walking around a very gay-friendly neighborhood and he made some comments I wasn’t totally sure about. So I told him yes, I have dated other women. It is not my entire personality, I barely identify with being queer at all and generally keep my mouth shut about it. I was actually mildly impressed by him not prying or saying a goddamn thing about threesomes. But it was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:13 AM |
| 69 | He even starts by saying he's adding backstory to make himself look better. I have no words.What in the entire fuck. Unreal. What a selfish dolt. And he’s like “my dinner-making sex toy might resent me :(“ I hope she leaves him and buys her own house. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 12:38 AM |
| 23 | It was the music choice that got meLiterally why I refuse to date Arab men (I’m Arab). Sons all treated like princes and the daughters are the family’s emotional support animal/live in maid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 02:04 PM |
| 37 | Broke up with him after months of pain. He didn't earned it. I know my value now.Eartha Kitt. She’s an absolute queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 02:11 PM |
| 57 | Broke up with him after months of pain. He didn't earned it. I know my value now.EARTHA KITT FOREVER!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 02:11 PM |
| 30 | LVM behaviours displayed on 1st dateI liked this post so much I saved it as a narrative style warning of What Not To Do. This story was me a few years ago...actually pretty sure I was the pickme girl for this type of guy twice and both times it was a disaster. Also it’s sure it was cathartic to write it out for OP. I appreciate this post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 01:39 PM |
| 11 | I ghosted him, he sends this 🤡It’s like that scene from Bridesmaids “YOU ARE NO LONGER MY NUMBER THREE!!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 02:17 AM |
| 4 | Would have entertained this clown a few months ago. Thank you FDSI should have been much clearer in the title that I blocked and deleted him after this interaction; thank you for the feedback it is 100% true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 11:19 PM |
| 4 | Would have entertained this clown a few months ago. Thank you FDSThe block and delete is now cathartic. I wonder if we should have a weekly sticky post for posting recovering pickme interactions (like this one). A place to post all the trash we take out, never to be seen again. Trash Day! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 11:04 PM |
| 8 | Would have entertained this clown a few months ago. Thank you FDSBlocked and deleted after I noped out of there. So long! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 10:56 PM |
| 12 | Would have entertained this clown a few months ago. Thank you FDSDeleted and blocked after this. A few months ago I honestly would’ve tried to be cool and chill, and tried to lead the conversation into getting drinks or coffee or (shudder) chilling at someone’s place. Absolutely no more. Do not have time for it. Triflers need not apply. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 10:52 PM |
| 92 | Women are finally allowing themselves to admit that they do not support the porn industry and they do not want their partners to do so eitherLove the smell of fresh male tears in the morning! FDS has definitely been freeing and eye opening to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 06:04 PM |
| 30 | Why you should avoid significantly older men at all costs: 9 ReasonsFinally some sanity. Usually Medium is full of drivel but this...this is correct. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 01:34 PM |
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