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Kind of relevant, in Taylor’s new album evermore she has a song called “no body, no crime” that plays out this exact situation but with a wicked feminist twist at the end. Maybe you’d enjoy it! Quite catchy too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 03:42 AM
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Good for you, I aspire for confidence like this. My ex used to tell me he "appreciated" that I shaved. He once tried to explain to me how me shaving down there was considered cleanly and prevented diseases. I find it so funny when a man tries to tell me how my body works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 12:56 AM
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I can relate so much to this. Didnt know about FDS as a foolish teen and I almost died in a hospital bc my ex didnt want to spend $ on medical bills/medicine. Vetting can legit save your life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 05:43 PM
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I remember how back then I bought my ex a wii u even though he was a complete POS! Ah, i was such a pick me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:23 AM
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Jesus he sounds like a douche. Good for you that you left his ass! You deserve much better. Honestly, you’d be happier dating your bed. Me and my bed are doing just finnnne~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:10 AM
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I mean, I was never interested in him to begin with so I will be happy to just assume that he’s doing a nice thing for his friends. Honestly, in my gut I didn’t feel he was being shady. He’s always been consistently nice. But I can see how it could be misleading! Either way, its better safe than sorry to misjudge a man’s actions!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 10:01 PM
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I just realized that my feminism is what made me an atheist. Cant deal w the misogynistic bs that’s fed to ppl in religion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 03:46 PM
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Hm, youre right! I’ll definitely be more wary of behaviors like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 03:07 PM
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Ahh i see, thank you for reminding me! I will be more suspicious of the behavior in the future
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 03:05 PM
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True that! He literally had no reason to treat us! He just did!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 07:19 AM
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Fo real. I’m the bomb and he rlly think he gets that for free while being a complete pos. No thanks :) I’m not saying he should pay me. I’m saying he should gain equal respect and treat his woman the way she treats him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 06:45 AM
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Famous last words from my ex “why are you ending something so good” Me: “bitch, cuz it AINT GOOD”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 03:06 AM
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My ex used to be so scared to even touch my dildo. He would tell me he didn’t “like” using sex toys with me bc he said then I will get “used to wanting more” during sex and then I will never be satisfied. He straight up tried to man-logic with me that if he made me cum I would just need even crazier things to cum again. And then he put the icing on the cake by saying that’s why he preferred I didn’t cum bc he didnt want me to leave him for more sex. HUH? How does that even WORK? By not making me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:16 PM
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This meal makes me want to apologize to this woman :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:43 AM
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Oooh girl, you did the right thing! Be glad it was just a year rather than anything more than that! You live and you learn!! Now you are better equipped at handling shitheads like him! I’m proud of you for putting your foot down and leaving his ass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:37 AM
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Ew, the level of attraction I had for him just went down tenfold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 02:52 AM
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Honestly she should break up with him and date me instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:13 PM
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I’m a firm believer that closure doesn’t exist. You just kinda take it and learn to move on. I’ve had exes beg me for closure and I just ignore them bc there is no way they will find closure from talking to me again for 1 last time. Plus I know that request for closure is always an excuse for them to see me and try to “sway” me. One time I listened to a man’s request. He walked in and said “You can relax bc i’m not here to beg you to take me back” 15 minutes later he goes “Why can’t we be togeth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:06 PM
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Gosh if my future possible son was on that show...I’d would be so ashamed oh god lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 06:20 PM
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Totally! I always loved nurses but now I love them even more. Oh man I could go on and on about my ex, he was such a psycho. I broke up with him 3 years ago but I’m still pretty angry at the shit I let him do or say to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:25 PM
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Omg wow he took the lie that far!! What a psycho! And that’s crazy that he was a psych major too😂😂 we must be living parallel lives! I’m also glad we both made it out of that place! Men are scary😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:22 PM
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I’ve always been sus of military men but I couldn’t quite put a finger on why. Turns out my suspicious were CORRECT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 01:05 PM
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This is so sweet! I need to do this for my best friend!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 01:02 PM
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Oh my goodness, are you me? I can totally relate to you about missing out on your undergrad education. That’s one of the things I wish I could have gotten back. I also didn’t get the college experience most girls get where they hang out with their roommates and hallmates till the middle of the night bc I wasted all of my time with a human trashbag. My ex was a psych major and he told me how he was pretty sure I had borderline personality disorder. I went to therapy and when I told my therapist t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 12:57 PM
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Dude this totally happened to me. He convinced me to ditch my friends and isolated me from my family by telling me my parents didnt give a shit about me. My religious affiliation changed, my diet changed, he even guilted me to move to the other side of the country for his own satisfaction. My major perspective shift was when I got hospitalized for three weeks. I broke up with him with six tubes in my chest post surgery and he had the audacity to yell at me in the ICU. That’s when my brain went, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 12:48 PM
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Dude the whole idea of “wear a bra or else ur boobs will sag” is srsly an idea only put forward by the bra industry. They want a reason for women to give them their money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 02:31 AM
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Yes! It feels really nice! I have a larger chest for my body type (I have a 34DD) but I still manage to make it work. Patterns like snake print/floral or any other hectic pattern rlly works in my favor :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 02:27 AM
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I started not wearing a bra in college about 4-5 years ago and at first I was super self conscious but the more I didn’t wear them I realized how comfortable life had become! No bra life is awesome. I do my best to only wear bralettes or thick camis under my clothes that require my boobs to have more “support”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 01:32 AM
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If we are being honest tho, perverts will get the benefit from even seeing a freakin armpit. Seriously, men are actually sexually attracted to ARMPITS. Or god knows what else, like wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 01:29 AM
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I think the bra industries are honestly making too much money off of one measly article of clothing that they tried their hardest to convince women is a complete necessity. That’s kind of what I hate the most, especially the whole idea of “oh you need a bra or else your boobs will sag and then...men will think you’re less attractive” I do my best to avoid wearing a bra at all times. Sometimes i’ll wear a nude cami with a loose patterned top over it to prevent showing anything too obvious. You ju…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 01:27 AM
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Yo fo real, on a somewhat similar topic, one time i got high in college and i was like “wait why do i like men? We literally have NOTHING in common”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 01:22 AM
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Her performance of this song at the AMA 2018 is the one thing that keeps me going😂 I watch it at least once every few weeks to keep myself energized
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 10:06 PM
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me TOO. When she sings that song where she wants to go to the ocean and she doesn't know how to be the perfect daughter... I tear up every time. I like her and Mulan the best. They both sing about being able to find strength through defiance despite not fitting into the mold of the "perfect daughter".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 12:49 PM
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Yea dude, don't tell me what to do with my body, especially when what you're asking me to do is ingrained in so misogynistic ideals. It's funny bc in response to him saying that I said, "Why are we even dating?" Because I was pretty fucking pissed and I gave a big stink about it. He was SO UPSET that I said that HAHAHA. Like, good. Now you can know how I felt when you said that bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 12:46 PM
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Omg my ex tried to tell me once that not shaving my crotch was “unhygienic” and he was glad I “kept it clean down there”. I got so mad at him for saying that. He really tried to justify to me that it’s healthier for women to shave. What????! Like it’s literally a proven fact that pubic hair is there to protect the genitals. And of course, he NEVER shaved his pubes. God I am so happy he’s gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 01:55 AM
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Ariel may be a mermaid but she is one of my lower ranked princesses due to this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 12:53 AM
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This makes me think that Disney realized how shitty the plotline w Ariel’s love interest was so they created Moana.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 12:53 AM
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Yikes :/ So sorry you had to deal with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 11:15 PM
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Have you seen what Mia Khalifa had to deal with? I feel so bad for her bc she gets so much shit for dabbling in porn for a bit. Esp from her own culture even tho theyre the ones who watch her THE MOST. It’s honestly disgusting the way men try to justify themselves in their sick ass minds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 11:13 PM
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I love this sub! Whenever I feel like I am on the brink to making a bad decision, I can readjust after reading posts on here and reminding myself that I am too good to deal w any bs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 11:11 PM
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Love it! Tay's been coming out with such empowering songs lately, I'm so happy :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 03:36 AM
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Totally! God, the sexism is magnified for women who are successful celebrities :( I can't imagine the shit they deal with in just ONE DAY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 12:43 AM
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I was around 21 or 22 when that happened and despite enjoying her music, I also took Kanye's side. I am definitely not proud of how I handled that situation. She has dealt with a whole bunch of shit because of that ordeal. She's mentioned in her Miss Americana docu how she felt like the whole world was telling her to go kill herself. It makes me cry for her by knowing all this misogyny she had to deal with. She is such a strong woman! I am so happy for her now with her renewed strength and estab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 12:42 AM
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Totally, I agree! I guess if a man did something like that he wouldnt be a HVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 06:02 AM
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I KNOW! Teaching entails adjusting to all types of learners! And most learners don’t learn well from direct instruction in that form of just “telling them the info”. I honestly should’ve broken up with him after that bc he clearly didn’t respect my job. Just cuz hes a pharmacist he thinks he knows everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 09:32 PM
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I was missing sex until I read your post and realized how right you are! Thank god for FDS to set me straight!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 07:20 PM
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Man this is one of the reasons I wish I had more gal pals!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 06:17 PM
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One time my ex tried to mansplain to me how teaching was easy. “You just give them the information and thats it” I almost smacked him and I snapped at him so hard he never dared to say something like that to me again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 06:15 PM
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My ex used to tell me he didnt post pics of us bc 1) i posted the same pics before he could and 2) he was worried about any psychos who would see his posts and target those he loved. Funny tho cuz he would still post pics of his family..... We’re broken up now, thank god😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 12:19 AM
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Gosh this makes me think back to when my ex was literally okay with the fact that I have never orgasmed with him in the TWO years we dated. And that dude actually thought I’d marry him😅 No thanks dude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 09:36 PM
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Seriously looks so delish!😋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 12:56 AM
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I hope I can experience that one day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 01:16 AM
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I watch a lot of horror movies but this is a true horror story. Jesus, this is the scariest thing I’ve read. I feel so bad for that woman. Imagine getting pregnant by a man who is such a complete assfuck and having him have the nerve to cheat on you bc you being pregnant is “unsexy”. I feel like most men are better off getting vasectomies. Like please dont pass on your genetics😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 12:47 AM
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Jeeez, I swear if I ever have a son I will raise him right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 12:37 AM
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Good for you! Seriously, you deserve to be finished off by a man who actually cares for your satisfaction! We’ve all been brainwashed as women to put aside our own sexual needs for those of men. It wasn’t your fault! Now that we are better educated, we can make much better choices for ourselves😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 05:52 PM
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If we’re being honest, this person who took time out of their day(s) to stalk you and write up that message probably hates his life. You’re doing better than him and he cant stand it! Could’ve spent that time that he cant get back in bettering himself but nah. Why would he do such a ridiculous thing such as work on his own self worth! Let’s hope he may burn in his sad sad little hole for the rest of eternity😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 05:22 PM
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Yes! And seriously tragic but now I look back and think how hilarious it was that I just didnt see the warning signs quicker in the first place. This is why I am hardcore studying how to vet for sexual compatibility. I dont want to waste more time on a man who cant satisfy me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 05:12 PM
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I mean he was quite good to me but his laziness and unwillingness in bed was too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:11 PM
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Ahhh the lies men tell...😅 My ex tried to chalk up his inability to use a sex toy due to his inexperience. Its not his inexperience but rather his complete unwillingness. Edit:fixing grammar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:40 PM
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OMG totally! I sympathize with this so much. Like my ex would hold the vibrator on my clit and legit look so fucking bored. Like, sorry, is this pleasing me a freaking chore?? Like of course I can't fucking feel comfortable when I feel like homework! And then like I can't stop thinking about how unhappy he looks and its like 50 min in and I feel bad for making him be down there for so long and then I just call it quits. Then this dude has the nerve to try to wedge his way back into my life by te…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 02:54 PM
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Yes I do. I have to be touching myself while he penetrates. This is after I feel safe with him. Part of my needs is that I need a partner who treats my body like a 3 course meal after a week of starving for me to feel safe. My ex didn’t have that kind of passion/enthusiasm. Plus he was too small for me. I liked him as a person and tried to tell myself Id be willing to stay as long as he tried or even used a dildo. But i was just lying to myself so I left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 11:58 AM
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Wow now I have hope! What makes it hard for you? Is it a mental block? For me I had to deal with a lot of guilt and shame for my sexuality. Misogyny really hit my ability to enjoy sex pretty hard and I still am recovering from the after effects
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 11:47 AM
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I don’t know how much this applies to me bc its quite difficult for me to orgasm with someone else. I have a hard time letting go and I need to really trust the guy before I can do that. Perhaps there is someone out there who can satisfy me in such a short amount of time. From the responses I got, I am definitely going to shorten it from 6 months to maybe how many sexual encounters we have. Maybe 6 or 7.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 11:45 AM
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I like that last line. I’ll def keep that in mind for next time I start dating!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 11:41 AM
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Yeah, I grew up very self conscious about my body and with a lot of shame about my sexuality. So if I have an inkling of doubt then I literally cant. I just cant relax
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 11:39 AM
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Ooo, lucky. Its quite hard to make me cum. I wish i had an early red flag sensor like you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 02:33 AM
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This is a good idea! Sheesh, i wish I knew this sub 2 years ago😅 wouldve saved me a lot of time and heartache
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 02:18 AM
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Jeez what the fuck. A close friend of mine had his grandma pass and some dude he was talking to fucking had the nerve to ask him to “hang out” even tho he KNEW his grandma just died. I was so pissed for him. Why are some men such DUMPSTER FIRES?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 02:17 AM
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Ugh this just makes me so annoyed. So not only are women expected to take care of most of the housework while ALSO working, we should also be solely responsible for making ourselves cum during sex? Haha, no thanks! I’d rather be single than stay with a man who cant give me the best sex of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 01:25 AM
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Ive never climaxed with him at all. Its upsetting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 07:48 PM
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My ex also didnt see it was that important to me, even when our entire mutual friend group knew about how i felt about sex. He only realized it after I left him. He’s still trying to fix “us” but I know we will never work. And i know hes only trying bc I actually dared to leave him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 07:47 PM
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Isnt it crazy that there are men who would read posts like this and get offended and be like “well would you want to be with someone abusive but have great sex??” Its like the idea of having both a good person and good sex is not something women should be allowed to strive for!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:09 PM
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I understand your friend, sometimes its just this blinded hope that comes in the way. But what you just said about “training the bf” really hit me. Like youre right, why do we have to “train” men to just be competent?? Maybe your friend will one day open her eyes. I know I def opened my eyes when I realized that if my friend was in my situation, I would’ve told her to find someone better too. Someone already commented it above that life is too short to have bad sex!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:07 PM
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An end date is a good idea in case things dont work out. I told myself i’ll give him 1 year but it started pushing into 2 years and I realized it just wasnt going to work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:00 PM
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As Ariana Grande would say “thank u, next!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:21 AM
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Proud of you! If he was serious about meeting you he wouldnt have played stupid games like standing you up! He plays stupid games he wins stupid prizes😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:21 AM
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Gosh idek if a therapist could fix them😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:21 PM
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Its like these dudes have nothing else to brag about so they just brag about how shitty they are as a human being😅 A new low, thats for sure!😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:19 PM
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This advice is so legit. I wish I could spread this to all of my female friends everywhere. They most likely deserve much better than what they receive now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 01:47 AM
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I like this idea! What did you use to put all of your goal pictures together?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:01 PM
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Oh no. Stuff like this is the reason I broke up with my ex. I was with him for 2 years and he couldnt do it. Decided I couldnt go my whole lifetime without my own partner being able to satisfy me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:20 PM
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Sigh i just broke up w my bf bc of this. Wish I had known about this sub 2 years ago!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:21 AM
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When he admitted to me that he purposely kept talking to that one girl I didn’t like just to hurt me/get back at me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:59 PM
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