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themoderation/r/TheRedPill28/04/13 08:22 PM
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I’m not sure you know what transactional is. I think the term you’re looking for is shallow? And some of these questions are more shallow than others. A woman wanting you to be employed is not transactional. It’s looking to avoid deadbeats and screening for socioeconomic compatibility. Most women making 75k+ a year aren’t going to be interested in dating a cashier. This is smart of them. I would advise men do the same. Couples from similar socioeconomic backgrounds tend to fare better. A woman a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 03:41 PM
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OLD is quite literally designed to make you as anxious, dopamine driven, and self conscious as possible. It is not designed to find you a partner. It is designed to keep you hooked on the app. If you think OLD is a a reflection of reality, your entire world view is basically a hall of funhouse mirrors.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:53 AM
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Are you actually claiming that men are *just now getting institutional power?” So…who created all the institutions? Who were all the rulers and world leaders? Who were all the religious leaders? Who were all the scientists, researchers, philosophers? Was it women, who couldn’t vote, rule, own property, choose her own spouse, or receive a proper education until very recent history? Surely you’re not that dense to confuse media clout with actual institutional power. All the boss babe articles and …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 01:03 PM
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My man, you do you. But if you think your house is clean while literal shit particles are building up in porous surfaces for months at a time, shit particles you are walking on and then spreading all over the rest of your home, you are living in a fantasy world. Just because things aren’t visibily stained with built up dirt doesn’t make them clean. Just because something hasn’t literally killed you doesn’t mean it’s a healthy or safe. C’mon. That’s kid logic. Especially on a post about the capab…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:16 AM
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This total lack of hygiene right here. Case in point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:50 AM
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2 types of men that date women too young for them. Powerful/Rich/Famous —this is the kind of guy RPers think of when they think of men dating younger women. Because it’s who they idolize and want to be! So even when it’s objectively gross (cough Leo cough) they’re going to respect it as an achievement. Immature/Lazy/Creepy — these are the kinds of men women think of when they think men dating younger women, because that’s our actual lived experience. For every DiCaprio, there’s a hundred 30 year…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 12:45 PM
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I mean…lesbians do. Most of them don’t resort to resent women when they don’t have success. I’ve been rejected plenty. You shrug and move on. That’s part of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 06:44 PM
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Are they around women when they…ride their bicycles? You know women exist outside right? Some of them even ride bikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 03:29 AM
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I only know five bisexual men and they’re all married to women 😂 Probably the happiest ‘straight’ marriages around me. I guess it depends on your community. In my circles, women hear “bisexual” and automatically assume a dude is gonna be better in bed. In my neck of the woods, bisexual men are like liberal-millennial catnip.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 11:06 PM
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Just being a 14 year old girl in public?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:59 PM
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women would actually be lining up for the quiet, brilliant guys with encyclopedic knowledge, unique ideas, and sharp logic Every man I know like this is happily married…provided their intelligence is well rounded. There are many aspects to intelligence. There are people who have extremely strong long term memory but very poor executive functioning. These are the people who can remember the name of every single episode of Twiglight Zone, but struggle to pack their own lunch every day. The “autist…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:53 PM
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What are you even talking about? Why would you consider reading and art to be feminine? There are scores of famous male writers and painters. Women weren’t even taken seriously as writers or artists in the past. Both activities were almost entirely “male dominated” for the vast majority of history. The fact that men are self selecting out of those hobbies now is entirely the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:34 PM
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“All they do is be bisexual, eat hot chip, and lie.” Just as nuanced as an argument as it was then 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:29 PM
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Really? What hobbies other than sports and videogames do you find to be male dominated? I even took a woodworking class last year and there were only two men present.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:29 PM
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That’s because you live in the real world and not in sad-fantasy land.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:25 PM
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I was unemployed when I met my wife. Our first date was coffee and a used book store. When a woman actually enjoys your company, she doesn’t need an expensive meal to want to spend time with you. My guess based on your attitude is that it would take a LOT for a woman to want to spend time with you. The kind of man who is convinced every woman has done anything, much less anything sexual, is generally the kind of man who is ahitty company.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:21 PM
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Are you actually comparing a dude getting the side eye for dating a woman too young for him to racism? You know, the thing that launched slavery, lynchings, and concentration camps? Are you actually saying that when the President of the United States is a known sex predator? Oh how the predators have toiled under such bigotry!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:25 AM
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Are you 19 years old? Who the fuck is doing any of these things with their friends beyond adolescence? Teenagers play at hooking up by cuddling because they lack the gumption to be direct. It’s the next step after you’ve just graduated past sending your best friend to ask their best friend if they like you. I don’t know a single adult who would behave like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:02 PM
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Men make their own safe spaces by making them toxic and unsafe for women. An ingenious plan, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:04 PM
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Literally every kind of artist I knew at 23 was like this. Very ambitious. No fucks given about their employment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:01 PM
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No one, and I mean no one, is obsessed with dick size like a man who is uncomfortable with his dick size. They’ll do anything to avoid accepting that the clit is king and their dicks are supplementary.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:51 PM
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What is toxic? A woman who isn’t interested in dating men that don’t add anything to her life? Or a woman who goes around spewing bullshit traditional gender roles? The former is not a problem and I support those women is making good choices for themselves. No one is owed a sex partner, and making sure women lower their expectations to accommodate men is the opposite of feminism. The latter is trad wife shit, and feminists call that shit out all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 01:08 PM
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This is literally “all lives matter” rhetoric, but I’m guessing you knew that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 01:02 PM
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Only the smallest of minds consider kindness to be a weakness. It is the easiest thing in the world to be uncaring and cynical. It requires no effort, and there are no risks. It requires bravery to be vulnerable with other people. You are confusing kindness with meakness, which is just being too afraid to assert yourself. Telling someone they can choose the restaurant has literally nothing to do with kindness or with being a woman. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had the exact same conversa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:03 AM
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Ah yes. The “porn is evidence of real life” argument. Always strong. I’m guessing you’ve also concluded all women enjoy being degraded and having their vagina jack hammered at a rapid pace, and that their ultimate fantasy is to have a line of men run a train on them. Of all of the “evidence” you’ve presented here, this has gotta be the dumbest. I can make a woman come with one or two female-sized fingers. And you can too, with a little effort and practice. I’ve used strap ons of a wide range of …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:33 AM
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As a lesbian, I just can’t understand this perspective. Women who traditionally have dated men are the MOST easy to please with a modicum of effort, both in and out of the bedroom. Probably because the bar is in Hell. But you’re not alone in having it, and bi women are certainly the most passive of the bunch. I see so many wlw bemoan how hard it is to ask a woman out. I think a lot of it is due to the social conditioning—women are expected to be passive and not take initiative in more avenues th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:22 AM
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Wait but what if told you his advice for women only benefits men? Would you find it more compelling then? 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:37 AM
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Meanwhile the woman would undoubtedly rate herself as a 10 😂 No need to read further to know this is sad clown logic. I swear some of ya’ll have never once tried to get to know a woman as a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:36 AM
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I’m confused by men who talk about how horrible the ‘loneliness epidemic” on one side of their mouth, while painting women as inane, boring, vapid, petty, overly emotional, vindictive, etc. at the same time. Like, why do you want women around in the first place? I’m thinking it’s just for sex and for us to play therapist in those times where their emotional dysregulation get the better of them. In which case, you’re not lonely—you’re horny and can’t handle your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:20 PM
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What are you putting effort into?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:10 PM
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I love how you equate “unkept” and “one weird pic she found” with “doesn’t have a career”, “not enough intellect”, and “conflicting religious or political.” As though they are all equally frivolous reasons to not want to be with someone. Why the fuck would any woman want to date someone stupid if she’s smart? Why the fuck would a woman with a career want to date someone with no prospects? Why the fuck would a woman date someone whose values don’t align with hers? For that matter, why would a man…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 05:31 AM
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This comment is far too insightful and level-headed for this subreddit. Get out of here with your logic and reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:28 AM
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I think they’re just desperately searching for one man who can give them an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:50 PM
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Dude who the fuck are these women? Being around someone who wants to fuck you when you have no interest in fucking them is uncomfortable as Hell. I don’t know a single woman who thinks like this. Getting male attention is pathetically easy if you want it. Nobody needs that from friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 07:11 AM
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Yup. I got married at 29 to someone I started dating when I was 24 , and the vast majority of my peers—educated urban professionals—operated on the same timeline. And the older a single woman gets, the LESS likely she is to be looking for a partner, not more. 71% of single women over 40 are not seeking a relationship. Because they figured out their shit and are content with their own company.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:09 PM
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Hey now. If you wanna fuck a beautiful man i GUARANTEE you that you can find one. You too can experience the joy of that privelege!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:02 PM
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I’m convinced most of these men who consider themselves “average” are extremely socially awkward, because they never seem to have the ability to just…look around to see that their views have 0 basis in reality. But I’m sure it makes them feel better to think that their lack of success with women is something that happens to all men rather than it being a reflection of their own lack of desirability. Their counter argument is always something like, “women settle for average men for bETaBuX after …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:37 PM
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I’m a lesbian but I can’t imagine bringing this level of small dick energy to the bedroom. It’s a positive delight to make a woman feel good. I feel like it’s my responsibility in bed to bring my partner pleasure, and vice versa. I don’t generally find it takes a lot of actual conversation to figure out what gets a woman off. If you’re perceptive, it’s pretty easy to tell what’s working and what’s not by monitoring body language and facial expressions. That being said, ladies if you’re faking yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:25 AM
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I mean…yeah. Men are the victims of most violent crimes, and the vast majority of the perpetrators are also men. All you need is the barest understanding of history to see how horribly men treat each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 10:06 PM
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But but but hot women take advantage of old men by…having an OF that men have to actively seek out to access!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 08:22 PM
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Yeesh. Women who want to be with you will invest in your relationship. Sounds like women have not wanted to be with you very much if this is your experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:43 PM
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It’s honestly a bit sad. I have never known a woman like they describe literally all women being. I mean, I’m sure I’ve encountered them in passing, but not in any meaningful way. And their opinion of men honestly don’t seem much better. Like calls to like, I suppose. I don’t have any issue finding smart, kind, interesting people of both genders in this world. But the people I encounter are a reflection of how and where I choose to spend my time. Theirs is too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:29 AM
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I keep saying this. People aren’t lying when their personal anecdotes don’t align with your negative experiences. They just have a better environment and peer group.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:04 AM
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Oh please. My male friends treat me like their personal on call therapist. When I try to talk out MY problems, I get the “Oh, I know how you feel, because…” and then they proceed to talk about their problems again. I can call on my female friends for anything and they’ll be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 02:12 PM
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Autism is primarily characterized by deficits in socialization. Of course people with autism have trouble dating. It’s a social activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 12:10 PM
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I don’t know any actual feminist circles where penises come up at all except to talk about the widespread genital mutilation of infant boys and the issue of men trying to “stealth” take off protection without their partner’s consent. Both of those are feminist issues. Penis size is not. Boss babe energy is performative social media entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 09:19 PM
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I mean, if you have no looks or personality to speak of, manipulation and mind games may in fact be your best bet. But most people are capable of forming genuine connections with others without the emotional equivalent of close-hand magic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 11:16 AM
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I see we’re really scraping the bottom of the intellectual barrel, here. No women cares what you think of her post-birth body. How she appears to her partner goes to the bottom of the list after a baby. She has more important things to worry about than her sexual appeal. When a woman chooses to stop prioritizing her physical appearance, it really seems to piss people off. Bully for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:14 PM
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This entire subreddit is dedicated to the idea that men can’t get women to have sex with them. You think the situation is gonna improve for you guys? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:22 AM
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Won’t work for who? I think it works pretty well for the women doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:52 AM
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My wife works for an affordable housing nonprofit. I work for an educational nonprofit. Guess how many men we work with? Men don’t seem called to ACTUAL service for the public. They only care about boys and other men when it comes time to play whataboutism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:58 AM
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Men will always be more desperate for sex than women because for women bad sex is worse than no sex. This is a biological reality that will never change. The only way to “fix” this is to strip women of their sexual autonomy with laws, religion, violence, and societal pressure. That’s what men did in the past to keep women ‘in line’. As the human race develops, we are slowly realizing that treating half of humanity like property is morally repugnant. Some men are desperate enough for sex that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 12:49 PM
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Did he expect women to get angry? I’m honestly so confused by the post. Why would we care???
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 03:03 AM
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Go on do it. Tell us your master plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:04 AM
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Don’t bother. Surveys that “prove” their point like this one (it doesn’t) will be taken as fact. Surveys that prove they are incorrect will just be dismissed as “WOMEN ARE ALL LIARS BECAUSE THAT DOESN’T SUPPORT WHAT I WANT TO BELIEVE.” They NEED this 80/20 bullshit to be true despite all actual evidence to the contrary, because otherwise why aren’t they getting laid? They’d have to take accountability for their failures, and that is clearly off the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:58 AM
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The vast majority of men are able to find partners. Incels are a small minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:54 AM
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“Hobbyists” is such a hilarious term for the saddest thing. Not at all surprised they haven’t been tested. They clearly don’t care who they spread diseases to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:50 AM
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Are you implying that charisma isn’t real? Women are easily influenced or taken in by charming men who turn out to be awful. Men are easily influenced or taken in by charming and beautiful women who turn out to be awful. People who think with their crotches tend to make poor decisions, neither men nor women are immune.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:46 PM
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If they whine enough, maybe your sexual preferences will change! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:16 AM
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“I could tell what she was saying was true because it fit with the conclusions I’ve already drawn!”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:13 AM
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And the few times I’ve pushed back I’ve been told that “personal attacks are not permitted”. They sure seem to be permitted if you’re an angry male. I’ve been on this sub for years, in addition to all the former cesspits that have since been banned. I guess you could call it a morbid fascination. As those subs closed, a lot of their members fled here as the last remaining corner of tolerance for their views. Here they can spew the same bullshit with the plausible deniability of posing it as a “d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:12 AM
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Yup. Straight men make up most of my friend population. No issues with them. It’s not hard to not try and fuck your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 11:47 PM
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It’s almost like more girls have formative memories of violent males than boys have formative memories of violent women. Also, let’s not pretend that those same serial killers don’t have huge, slavish male followings. They don’t want to fuck them, they want to be them. This is a really weird leg to try and stand on when men are the gender more frequently sexually turned on by actually comitting violence. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:51 AM
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Disengenous or just…an individual experience from different individuals? Women are not required to agree with each other in order to make dating more convenient. I also think this idea of personality is often misinterpreted when talking about sexual attraction. Sometimes “bad personality” means threatening, creepy, or immoral, sure. But it can also mean that you’re just awkward, pushy, boring, or bad conversationalists. And “good” personalities are generally ones that are compelling. Sometimes t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:49 AM
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Human beings tend to crave the behavior that they expect. And what we expect is shaped by our past experience, most importantly our childhoods. This is not a gendered phenomenon, and no one is really immune. People who were raised in abusive or disfunctional environments tend to be drawn to similar dynamics in their adult life. It can certainly be overcome, but the majority of people who grew up in those kinds of environments often lack the emotional regulation and self reflection skills necessa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:17 AM
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Personal accountability? That’s a controversial take in this corner of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:32 PM
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Ah yes. Schrodinger’s 31 year old woman— simultaneously burdened with 4 children from her slut days and yet somehow also single and childless and alone. But the important thing to note is that they’re all miserable. 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:08 PM
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Really? There are SO many women that love the ‘teddy bear’ kind of man. It’s one of the most common body types that I see women talking about as their “type.” My brother is one of them, and his girlfriends were always the tiny woman type. I know a lot of husky dudes in happy relationships, some of them with thin girls and some of them with thicker girls. Your complaints boil down to the same thing all complaints on here boil down to—men prefer to sleep with women they aren’t attracted to if the …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:48 AM
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The only men who get criticized for their sexual desires are men who keep trying to justify their attraction to children…and even that is a pretty new standard in the context of human history. I’m so sorry that 25 year olds dating high school juniors are facing such baseless persecution /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:52 PM
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He also doesn’t understand just how unlikely it is to have a child with these disorders, even when you’re 35+. The odds to increase, yes, but from a tiny percentage to another tiny percentage. These dudes are jusy butthurt that women have agency that allows them to make better choices for themselves. They will grasp at anything to justify their attitudes. That’s why they are constantly doomsaying about how women not fucking them enough will cause the downfall of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:44 PM
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Doing what out of revenge? Dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:58 PM
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“Could I be the problem? No. It must be everyiñbody else that’s the problem.” The projection is truly next level.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:19 PM
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Too difficult for a large swathe of this sub. Their problematic views are what fuels their anger. They love spewing that anger as far as they can—it gives them a temporary sense of superiority and righteousness. They need to be angry, because if they don’t have anger, all they have is emptiness. And if they don’t have “othered” groups to blame all of their problems on, they would only have themselves to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:16 PM
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HUGE red flag. Any time a man talks about how women are too “sensitive” to be his friend, it’s almost a guarantee that he’s just an asshole who’s convinced he’s funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:06 PM
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An unattractive, non-NT, introverted man is going to have a problem dating regardless of what method he takes, for the same reason he has trouble making friends.Building a social circle is good advice for having a well rounded and fulfilling life. It gets harder the older you get, as people get busier and more set in their ways. If you have any youth on your side, it is a absolutely a good idea to make efforts to find friends. Regardless of whether or not they will set you up, humans are social …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:03 PM
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??? If my wife was no longer capable of having sex, I certainly wouldn’t start considering her my roommate? I swear some of ya’ll think the world revolves around orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:27 AM
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“If you take out all of the people that make my claim not work than my claim holds up!”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:50 PM
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So no. You didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 12:32 PM
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That’s literally the premise of feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:26 PM
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It’s almost like women and men are both human beings and have similar flaws and relationship problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:14 PM
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I have never once seen a woman doing anything close to porn at the gym. I think what you meant is that they were attractive in public and using machines. There are male and females that are into domination. There are males and females into submission. This is not news. I’m not sure why you think this is a female only phenomenon. Women shouldn’t put their bags in chairs next to them on busy transportation. Neither should men. That’s not the same as a gross stranger pushing their body against your…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 10:44 PM
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“Or if you’re a girl reading lame romance books” was the icing on the cake for me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:36 PM
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I know many, many happily married couples. Not one of them gen x or younger has a 0/100 split. Even in my Boomer parents’ very traditional marriage, she always had a remote part time job. Statistics don’t lie, the vast majority of couples just do not operate this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 03:40 PM
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What the fuck does this have to do with dating? Dating and sex work are not the same thing. If you wanna spend 10 dollars a month to talk to a robot, go off and enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:16 AM
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You described domestic labor as doing the dishes and washing the clothes, so I’m gonna bet that your cleanliness standards are…interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:29 PM
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“Feminists have tried to regulate dating market from the advent of first leg hair growing cream but they are not succeeding.” Women can choose who they want to marry now or avoid marrying at all. Women can now get a credit card and a mortgage without her husband’s signature. Women can initiate a no fault divorce. Spousal rape is now actually a crime. Women have access to birth control. This entire sub centers around how women have ‘too much power’ in the dating market as a direct result of these…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:26 PM
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In the best relationships, both parties aim for a 60/40 where they each try to be the 60% so the other person can be the 40%. Relationships where both people are focused on “what can I do for my partner” instead of “what can my partner do for me?” are the ones that go the distance. Any relationship that is obsessing over keeping score is doomed to fail. If one person is walking all over the other and not putting in any of the work, their partner should leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:19 PM
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Girl, you have SO much time, and your eggs will absolutely not be all dried up when you’re thirty. Im not denying that there is a biological clock, but your timer is FAR from up at 30. Beyond pregnancy, the attraction wall does not exist either. I’m over 30 and I get way more (non-creepy) male attention than I did when I was young. The 35 year olds who hit on you when you’re 16 are not the same 35 year olds who hit on you when you’re 33, and thank god for that. As you get older, you get more con…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:36 PM
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For real though. I’m part of a kink club (not especially kinky but I love the nonjudgmental and super safe scene that goes along with it) and within the first five minutes of walking I’m, I went, “Ohhhhh. I get it. Everyone’s autistic.” I think the fact that a lot of kink is very thoroughly planned out and/or utilizes very clearly defined roles appeals to a lot of autistic people. I’ve never felt safer than I do at that club.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:36 PM
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Why would you leave out his biggest red flag when you kept everyone else’s? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:04 PM
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Autism and kink goes together like bread and butter. 🤩
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:02 PM
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literally anything you say works if they are attracted to you. Sort of? When a woman is attracted to you, a compliment is just a way to establish contact. It doesn’t really matter what you say, as long as you’re demonstrating interest. However, there are definitely things you can say that would reverse that attraction. If your “compliment” is foul, most women are gonna get turned off real quick. Women don’t find compliments to be “creepy” just because they aren’t immediately attracted to the per…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:03 AM
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Yup, it’s one of those things where all things being equal two parents is better than one parent. But all things are never equal. You could have two parents that are both absolute pieces of shit and you could have one rockstar parent and be better off. You could have two parents that mean well but work 80 hour weeks and let a nanny raise their kids. You could have one parent who lives with THEIR parents and have a large network of loving adults. There are WAY too many factors to make any kind of…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 10:33 PM
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No woman is going to feel jealous over the fact that you can rent someone pretending to be interested in you. Women will never be in competition with prostitutes if they didn’t want to have sex with you in the first place. Moreover, for the vast majority of men having an sexual partner who actually wants them is always going to be the goal, not simply the act of getting their dicks wet. I know this may be hard to believe, but for most people relationships are not about finding a place to put you…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:10 PM
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Feminine is when women behave the way men want them to behave. Not being feminine is doing things men don’t like. Men define what a woman is supposed to be, don’t you know? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 12:00 PM
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No they’re not lol. The amount of men willing to be with a woman who has gasp enjoyed consensual sex with someone she wasn’t dating is SO much higher than the amount of women willing to date a man who has to and is willing to buy female attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:51 AM
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I know MAYBE one man that fits this criteria (dunno about the d), and most of them are married or in a relationship. I beg you people to step outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:55 AM
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Media literacy is at an all time low and it shows
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 04:30 PM
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He’s the kind of dude who is loves his cat like a kid, has plants all over his that he takes good care of, and keeps tampons in the bathroom. As far as I can tell, he is straight woman catnip.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:50 PM
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Oh I’ve got this one. They see women as: resources, possessions They see themselves as: entitled, martyrs Now that women are financially independent, they are free to not choose them. When these men believe that they are owed their possession (ie, a woman), they see it as injustice that the successful men are not sharing their possessions (again, women) and become angry at the possessions themselves for not distributing themselves in a fair manner. They believe that they are the victims of women…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:35 PM
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If you think women are shallow wait till you meet gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:16 PM
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Yup. My friend is in category 2. Total nerd, not ugly but definitely not hot. He gets laid like crazy, and doesn’t have to play games to do it. It’s amazing what being able to hold an actual conversation with a woman and being able to keep a clean house will do for your success with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:14 PM
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Right? Like do they they think that they’re the better alternatives? “Why would you go out with a hot man who’s toxic, when you could go out with an unattractive man who’s toxic??” I swear some of these dudes live in a different reality from the rest of us, because in what world would any man who hates women as much as the majority of this sub does ever be a better alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:45 PM
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It’s a metaphor, bro. And you’re right. A lot of times it’s not their fault. The generic lottery can be a bitch, and there are definitely people out there who are just profoundly unnattractive, and that sucks for them. Life isn’t fair, and no one is owed a romantic partner. But ‘not great looking’ men just don’t fit into that category. Most men aren’t great looking, and yet most men are capable of finding a partner. There’s also plenty of people who put themselves in the “completely unfuckable” …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:33 PM
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Married men rate highest on happiness scales and have a higher life expectancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:44 PM
1

Oh my gosh please tell me about the consequences. I am so curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:35 PM
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Allowed? Allowed by whom? What the fuck is with talking about women like they’re your kids. No man “allows” a woman to do anything because our actions are not under your control. The only say you have is over who you choose to date or not dare. You don’t have to date anyone you don’t want to. And yes women’s signs of interest are obvious for people that understand social cues. If you think it requires Sherlock Holmes level detection skills I would honestly suggest you look into some instruction …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:30 PM
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All straight women like fruit. In the world of fruit, there are many varieties that may be your favorite, depending on your tastebuds. Some women like citrus. Some women like berries. No women like rotten fruit. Men who can’t get laid are rotten fruit. The claim is that women have varied taste in men. Nobody is claiming that the variance is so great that it encompasses every man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:08 PM
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When you’re polite and kind, men seem to think you’re playing some sort of hard-to-get game. The reality is often a woman has probably rejected that man nicely three times and he didn’t get the message, so then she gets mean and all of the sudden she was a bitch out of nowhere. Here’s what that can look like: Man approaches woman with some sort of ice breaker. She’s not interested. She gives a bland smile and responds in a way that implies that implies that the conversation is over. Guy doesnt g…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:01 PM
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“If nobody will marry me then nobody should be able to get married!”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:50 PM
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women older than 30 years old are actually harder to sleep with their standards are even higher than a young woman from my experience so can you explain that?* Lol because they know better than 20 year olds, and are self sufficient. At 20 I wasn’t good at setting boundaries and had a really nebulous sense of self. My college relationship could have gotten away with a LOT, because i didn’t know any better. As I’ve gotten older, I know who I am, what I want, and how I want to be treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:43 PM
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^ Oh yeah, it’s women who don’t take responsibility, and this certainly isn’t a rant from someone putting all the responsibility on someone else 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:33 AM
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Do you ever notice how TRP dumps ALL the responsibility for men’s lack of success dating on everyone but the unsuccessful man himself? There are basically four types of people in TRP Hot Men Hot Women Average/Ugly Men Average/Ugly Women Hot Men: It’s their fault because they take 80% of women into their harems, leaving NO women left for you Hot Women: It’s their fault because they are hot and they’ll sleep with hot men, but they don’t want to sleep with you. Their extremely wily and will manipul…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:25 AM
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It’s all true. We talk about it in our weekly Cabal Against Men chapter meetings. We didn’t count on the Sherlockian deduction skills of some of your team’s top minds, though. Oh well. Back to the drawing board.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:51 PM
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Why do physiological differences mean women can’t orgasm 100% of the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:28 PM
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Bro I hate to tell you, I am having penetration-only orgasms from my wife’s two fingers on the regular. It is not about the size, it’s about the movements.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:25 PM
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Oh my god 🤡🤡😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:22 PM
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I don’t know a single liberal woman who would date someone who votes red. Political affiliation is a great indicator of whether or not you share common values, which is essential to a successful relationship. I don’t know why you think political orientation has anything to do with one’s level of masculinity. Maybe the toxic elements of masculinity are more prevalent in conservative men, but you’re confused if that’s what you think those are the aspects of masculinity straight women are attracted…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:53 PM
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If she’s seeing posts and talking about these issues, who is she talking to if not other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:00 PM
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So sad how some men just have 0 sense of aesthetics combined with such an intense overestimation of their own importance. The egocentrism of assuming a woman’s body is nothing but a spectacle that is to be viewed and hidden for their benefit is truly insane. In any other context, assuming strangers’ actions are personally directed at you is a sign of severe mental illness. And that’s just the beginning of this particular delusion. These men don’t just think of women as consumable objects but as …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:03 PM
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Imagine if every time I saw a man in tight pants I locked it away as “evidence” that men were wearing them to seduce women 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:27 PM
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In the realm of physical safety, men’s advantage over women is so high that they have no idea how it shapes our daily lives. For example, the argument for automatic paternity tests for all births makes perfect sense to men, because in their mind that is “protection” from women. Whereas from a female perspective, we know that pregnancy and early post partum is the most dangerous time to be a woman (number one cause of death for pregnant women is murder), and that—regardless of if a woman has comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:27 PM
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I love when you can tell from the title that the question is being asked in good faith 🩵
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:04 PM
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Women don’t think sex is over when they orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:09 PM
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This is a literal debate subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:02 PM
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Women: we want equity and safety Men: but what are you going to give US for that “privilege???”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:01 PM
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Yes, statistically getting married younger means higher probability of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:45 PM
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“I’d much rather take advice from other men who are unsuccessful at dating, as evidenced by their participation in dating strategy communities.” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:41 AM
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Cool incel fan fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:47 PM
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Easy. The people that say that are stupid. None of those subreddits, including this one, have good dating or relationship advice. Most of the men who frequent them are men who have trouble with women, talking to other men who have trouble with women. They’re like visiting a psychic: they’re fun entertainment, but in no way should you make life decisions based on then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:53 AM
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“ IF a man can *use a woman's body to orgasm*” …👀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:13 PM
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This is the correct answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:06 PM
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Straight up sounds like this man does not like having sex with women. I cannot wrap my mind around this when my wife and I are purposefully delaying orgasms because the build up is delicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:00 PM
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Sex is over when a man ejaculates. And if he’s not working on ejaculating then he isn’t even having sex! The goal of sex is for it to be over as soon as possible /s /s /s 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:58 PM
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If you look at even this (flawed) Pew results in its entirety, it’s pretty obvious that they are dating older men—hence the percentage of single men 30-49 dropping way down to 25%. When you look at overall numbers, there is very little difference between singleness in men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:08 AM
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No no. It’s got to be a harem. All the men were alone. Except the men that were constantly with women. Those men don’t count as men because they weren’t alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:53 AM
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Should it be outdated? Yes. Is it outdated? Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:22 PM
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Also women mature beyond their teen years, which is essentially what college is. I don’t really know why anyone would think 19 and 20 year olds’ behavior should define an entire population of any demographic. But women are chronically infantilized, so I suppose it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:31 AM
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Men here: we want to know what women want Women here: this is what I want Men here: no you don’t. You are lying. Women here: why would you think that? Men here: because it doesn’t match my preconceived notions of what we’ve already decided you like! This is nothing new. Men have been telling women how we think and feel for millennia.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:27 AM
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Most guys who claim to be “nice guys” or the examples of “nice guys” that are commonly portrayed in media are in fact not nice but in fact sniveling, ineffectual boys with zero moral fortitude who think they can manipulate a woman into love/sex with performative acts of service or by spouting opinions they think women hole. They are incredibly easy to spot, and their manipulation tactics have the subtlety of an 8th grader trying to get out of doing school work. All of the truly kind men in my li…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:39 PM
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Because they can’t imagine seeing a woman as a human being and therefor cannot comprehend that a man may desire a woman’s company for any reason other than to gain access to her body.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:47 PM
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Whereas men have been socialized to be silent and meek /s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:45 PM
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They wait for this all year. You gotta let them tucker themselves out on occasion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:49 PM
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Maybe we start socially shaming women that have height preferences like we do men that have n count preferences? Congratulations, you have reverse engineered patriarchal religions. Your golden ticket for oppressing women to protect your feelings will arrive in the mail in 5-10 business days.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:28 AM
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1) You can literally not date anyone for any reason at all. Applying your expectations and expecting women to conform to them is the problem here. 2) The ‘insecurity’ you’re referring to here is literally the exact reason women have been oppressed for thousands of years. The ramifications extend far beyond the sexual market place. That is why women are hostile towards this mentality. It is not at all like women preferring tall men. Women do not create a social systems that strips them of their r…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:20 AM
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The cherry on top is that the username is ‘questioning feminist’ 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:54 AM
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If men ignored women for 24 hours, my life would barely change except it might be a nice break from some bullshit 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:05 PM
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Don’t even bother, questions like this are proof that these kinds of posts are not asked in good faith. Either they know ogling is wrong but they want to seen as edgelords or they know ogling is wrong and they just don’t care because they feel it’s deserved. Either way, there’s no point in engaging with people that are clearly not actually looking for outside opinions and honest discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:02 PM
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Decides what in the end?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:24 AM
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Is this something you’re actually confused by? Obviously they do. You might as well have asked, are women capable of actual emotions? It’s questions like this that make me wonder if some men are capable of understanding that women are human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:15 AM
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Some people on this sub are literally stuck viewing all sexual/romantic relationships through the lens of anachronistic stereotypes and conclude that they know how all relationships function.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 03:52 AM
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Is the implication of the quotations that bi women liking tall men but not women proof that they aren’t bi?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 03:49 AM
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The reason most bi women end up with men is a very basic numbers game—the availability of male partners is much higher than the availability of female partners. 
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 03:47 AM
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Men who want women to treat them as their mothers did are always shocked that women did not sign up for that role.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:23 PM
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Ah yes, the I know what’s good for women better than they do argument. Guaranteed to be a panty-wetter with all the ladies!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 04:36 PM
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How far in the past are we thinking here that sending a woman to college is “woke delusion.” The first woman to obtain her PhD was in 1672. By 1837 Oberlin made the university co-Ed. By 1900 58% of colleges were already co-ed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:15 PM
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Even the fact that you’re using fishing and catching women is a red flag and pretty indicative that you have no understand on how to form genuine connections.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:39 PM
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“Remember that thing that happened in that man’s head that he wrote down? I rest my case.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:35 AM
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You’re afraid to put your mouth on a vagina and yet you expect women to blow you, is what gives us that reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:28 PM
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It’s the only logical conclusion to come to! Of course the force of OP’s argument is that men do more in AND out of the house for than women. So by his argument, I must assume all gay men make insane money and live in spotless homes that they clean themselves.Sure wish I had a penis so I were so capable…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:20 PM
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Watching all this go down as a married lesbian is so fascinating. Am I responsible for everything in the household or nothing? THERE IS NO PENIS HOW ARE WE TO SURVIVE WHEN WE DON’T MAKE ENOUGH MONEY OR DO ANY WORK ON OUR OWN HOME??? Lord please send us a man to save us, otherwise we may perish.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:08 PM
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And for people who wait until they’re older to get married, the numbers are even lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:38 PM
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Men murder their intimate partners at much higher rates than women, and leave their ailing partners at much higher rates than women. Classic unconditional love stuff right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:03 AM
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BUT HE KNOWS ALL OF THEM.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:42 AM
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First, why do you think anyone wants a matriarchal society? Is it really so hard to understand that women want an equal seat at the table? Second of all, do you think allowing women to participate in society meaningfully is “alienating” men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:41 AM
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Is your argument really that men will get so pissed off about the lack of sex they’ll stop designing buildings and laying down roads? And that only met do those things? I vote you start the boycott! That’ll teach women their place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:34 AM
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“Men did most of the stuff. You know. The stuff.” That’s why I love PPD. Compelling arguments abound.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:31 AM
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Ah yes, the poor men of the past. Who were subjected to the will of women to slave all day outside of the home because women refused to work. They actually banned themselves from working lucrative jobs, voting, inheriting property, all so they could force men to do the heavy lifting! Oh wait…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:26 AM
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When they physically, politically, and financially controlled women with the full support of society behind them. Times up on that, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:20 AM
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Some men don’t like this trend because it only leaves “used up” women who have actual expectations for their partner. They prefer their partner never have anyone to compare them to, because those women put up with a lot less and may have had better sex with a previous partner. And of course the only way to prevent that is by making sure women stay as “pure” as possible rather than be better partners in and out of the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:18 AM
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Can’t wait to hear about how women are conquering the work force because of feminism in a few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:13 AM
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That squad? All Albert Einsteins
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:06 AM
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Women aren’t for talking, bro /s None of these dudes want a wife, they want a bangmaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:02 AM
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Then why are men so up in arms about women being able to secure from men “out of their league?”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:59 AM
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I mean, if you want to feel that way it’s fine. No one’s making you date. It’s just not reflected in, you know, reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 06:58 AM
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Then don’t? I’m so confused, are these women hacking into your bank account right now? Or is this more of a boogey-woman situation where you think she’s going to fuck you so well you forget you didn’t want to financially support her? I don’t know any women who are financially supported by their male partners except the stay-at-home moms who raised us, and I don’t know any mothers my age who are stay at home moms now. As of 2021, only 15% of women reported being entirely supported by their partne…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 06:46 AM
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I literally do not know a single woman who would agree with you. This has got to be among one of the stupidest takes I’ve seen on here. There is no benefit to having to put up with bad sex and bad company. I don’t know a single woman in my age bracket that is supported by a boyfriend/husband. Women have friends, their own incomes, vibrators, and sperm banks. If you’re in a woman’s life it’s not because she was so desperate for a man. Women are making their own three course meal—if you’re offerin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 06:24 AM
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Yeah…because they can’t. Not because they are too moral. We don’t generally need to buy men things or support them in exchange for sex. You’re going to have to offer more than your dick if you wanna be a kept man. I know multiple women that have supported boyfriends at one point in their lives. Women will support men they love. They won’t support men just to bang them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 05:51 AM
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You find it unacceptable that you’re single. Not the statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 05:40 AM
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We take it personally because thousands of years of misogyny meant piss poor living conditions. There are real world consequences for us beyond petty internet bickering about who has it harder on the dating market. The solipsism of this opinion is truly staggering.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:58 AM
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According to this post, a woman’s “best” love is performing sexual acts she isn’t comfortable with anymore and a man’s “best” love is buying expensive presents he doesn’t want to buy anymore. Setting aside the LITERAL objectification of a woman’s body, men like this fundamentally view romantic relationships as transactional in nature. They are incapable of understanding intricacies outside of that dimension and are therefore extremely distrustful of anything action that doesn’t fit inside its pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:17 PM
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They can’t even conceive that there might be a sexual metaphor that would apply to women. “Ya know how men like orgasms? Well, expensive presents are like orgasms for women—they can’t just give themselves presents.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:57 PM
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Hygiene is about physical health not attraction. Surely you’re being deliberately obtuse. You don’t want to sleep with unhygienic people in the same way you don’t want to eat rotten food. You don’t want to sleep with ugly people in the same way you don’t want to eat food you don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:15 AM
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He literally insulted all women who enjoy drinking publicly, so I’m not sure why you’re surprised someone fired shots back.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:38 AM
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But…you’ve been to a bar before, yes? Or do you assume all other women in the bar are there to hook up with strangers except you? Exceptionalism at its finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:26 AM
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The female gaze is a visual phenomenon too. Scenes catering to the female gaze are often featured in romantic plots because they are geared toward women. But the plots themselves are not the female gaze. The issue you’re having is that, surprise surprise, most media caters to the male gaze. That’s part of why the disconnect between what men think women want and what they actual want is so wide.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:48 AM
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Look up the female gaze and you’ll get a good sense of the disconnect between what women find attractive and what men think women will find attractive based on their own experiences with sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:25 AM
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You like those guys because they're famous and also fairly good looking. The question was literally what do you find attractive and you’re problem is that she…posted men that were fairly good looking? As a side note, I know a ton of women into lanky men, especially with a ‘bad boy’ vibe to them. At the end of the day, personality is 100 going to factor into what a woman finds attractive. The lanky dude with a guitar and charm will get 100x more action than the exact same dude who has zero social…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:22 AM
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Barring lesbian relationships, men are the ones who determine if a woman is HV or LV in the sexual market place. It is a free market. LV women are nothing more or less than women who are not desirable for sex and/or relationships. As men are more desperate for sex than women, their standards are necessarily lower. But I do think it’s funny how many men are angry at “ugly” women because men decided to sleep with them or date them. If you think there’s inflation in a woman’s sexual value, men are …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 12:07 AM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:56 PM
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No offense but subs, advice columns, PUA communities etc are all geared toward men who are traditionally very bad at interacting with women. Most men do not need a rule book or coaching to develop a sexual relationship with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 03:12 AM
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Dude wanted to hear that his dick would get wetter but instead you spit straight facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:00 PM
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Say you try out 5 more relationships before you’ve had the time to become the best version of yourself, and know what type of man you would like. There are lots of men who will sleep with you still even with a high count. Wait you’re telling me that as a fully grown adult woman I’m allowed to have five whole relationships without being deemed too used up to live up to these men’s standards?! The generosity and kindness is just too much to take! I mean, wow, I never thought modern dating dynamics…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:13 PM
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That radical idea that women are individuals really is too much for some people to take.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:03 PM
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Directions unclear. We are both women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 11:52 PM
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TIL women neither do physical or mental jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:55 AM
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Nothing makes me happier to be gay than scrolling this sub. Straight women have so much BS to put up with, and they have my deepest sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 10:22 PM
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“A woman never really loves a man until she rids herself of her delusions that she deserves autonomy.” JFC this sub is always top tier comedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 12:34 PM
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All good! Now you know “/s “ means sarcasm. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 06:58 AM
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I was being sarcastic and agreeing with you. Hence the /s.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 06:49 AM
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You clearly don’t understand that his anecdotal evidence trumps your anecdotal evidence because it feeds into his narrative. He may be a total stranger but he knows you better than you know yourself. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 06:41 AM
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But 100s of women should be clamoring for your attention according to this dude lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 06:39 AM
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You’re telling me someone was being shallow on a hookup website?! Good god, the horror! People that act like Tinder is the world are stuck in the saddest little bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 06:37 AM
3

Yeah it felt like it was a month long.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 10:04 PM
1

When is purge week over?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 04:54 AM
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Poor bisexual women, it seems like so many dudes read that to mean "she definitely is down for a threesome." Even as a lesbian when I was single and online dating the majority of messages I got were from heterosexual couples assuming I was down for a threesome. Smh. Why??? Did they think I was so desperate for female attention I was willing to throw a dude into the equation, or did they just assume all women secretly want the d? I'm engaged to a bisexual and we are both hardcore monogamists. Her…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 12:19 AM
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I really wish I wasn't a mobile only user sometimes so I could tag people. Especially on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 11:21 PM
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Relationships are all about manipulation. That's a really sad and cynical way to think about things. I don't know what circles you run in but the thriving marriages I am surrounded by are built on the backs of communication and kindness. I can't imagine how exhausting it would be to play games with the person I'm supposed to be spending my life with. This is not a gendered issue. Men and women who struggle to communicate openly and honestly will struggle to maintain a happy and solid relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 03:23 PM
1

Men would continue to believe what they want to believe like they do now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 02:38 PM
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"Men are individual special creatures. How dare you generalize. But also DAE all women are identical blood suckers"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 02:59 AM
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Getting married in a little over a year. My parents have a fantastic marriage and so do my fiance's. I grew up with great examples and that definitely shaped my goals for romantic relationships. I want a steady teammate and partner that I can trust for life. I chose my partner carefully as I needed someone who shared those same goals and values.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 06:23 PM
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I do think the marriages we see growing up have a huge impact on the way we see and relate to marriage. My parents have an amazing marriage. All of their friends have happy marriages. My fiance's parents have a happy marriage. That is the frame in which our ideas of marriage were shaped. Strong foundation. My ex's parents were divorced and hated eachother. She couldn't imagine what a happy stable marriage even looked like and basically considered herself destined to fail. It's what proved to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 06:18 PM
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I have 0 interest in men period. I just try to help my fellow women stay safe, thriving, and not taken advantage of. That includes telling 21 year old women that the 40 year old dude who wants to date her almost definitely is not good for her. I work with barely legal young adults now and it blows my mind how many borderline predators are banging down their door.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 11:46 PM
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Yes but merely out of curiosity and not concern. Mine is 4 (including my partner) and my fisnce's is 8 including me. My past LDR had like 20 before we got together. She was my first. I give zero fucks either way. It never affected my past LDR, never kept her from being loyal to me for 4 years. Likewise my fiance's n count has 0 effect on our relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 06:33 PM
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Holy shit no. And yes. They're faking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 12:46 AM
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My current relationships is my "best sex ever." Despite the fact that, at the beginning at least, my partner was the least experienced and "skilled" person I'd ever been with, from the start the sex was amazing. I think a lot of that has to do with the fact that our emotional connection is off the charts. I mean, the intimacy is just unbelievable. I can feel it crackling in the freaking air. We have been together over 3 years now and the sex keeps getting better and better. In contrast, my first…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 07:27 PM
1

Her husband had the nerve to take his wife on vacation??? When will the evils of reeemales end????
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 03:02 AM
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They're "adults" they just still make the same shit salary as when they were in college and also fail to conceptualize a woman with a successful career.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 02:55 AM
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Not religious. Just a psycho that wants a pet not a partner. It's disgusting and pathetic but not surprising. These types of dudes are so insecure that they can't stand the idea another man has so much as kissed a girl he's interested in, because then she has experience to compare it to. They want free reign to treat a woman as poorly as possible, in the bedroom and out, and a girl who has experience is unlikely to put up with that bullshit. It's the same reason they want to date girls that are …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 02:50 AM
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"women have high n counts because when they say they don't they're lying. I know this because I am a reeemale expert."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 02:40 AM
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It’s not a good deed. The only person that comment is serving is you. If you wanted to actually make this girl feel good you could have easily complimented her work (“wow you’re really hustling!” “You’ve got this line moving fast!”) or just told her you hope her shift runs smoothly. But that didn’t even occur to you, because the only way you think to compliment women (or in this case teenage girls) is to comment on their appearance. It’s either tell her she’s cute or nothing, and somehow that’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 01:01 PM
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You have things so backwards it’s not even funny. No the 18 year old doesn’t want to hear how she’s too pretty to work at McDonald’s. She gets it. You’re just being creepy to a young girl who has to be polite to you regardless. I don’t know why this is so hard to understand. The only person you’re pleasing with comments like that is yourself. You don’t make a girl’s day by hitting on her at work. You just demoralize her a little bit more. So by all means keep listening to that part of your brain…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 12:17 PM
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Oh yeah, up until less than a century ago, women have been denied the right to vote, to an equal education, to sexual autonomy, and to being valued for anything other than sex and baby making. And sure there lots of places in the world where women are still denied those rights. But it’s men who have always been seen as disposable and denied self esteem. Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 04:07 PM
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Dinner is a boring date anyway. museums, zoos, aquariums, something you can engage in together to avoid any initial awkwardness while also still having the opportunity to get to know each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 06:04 PM
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Comments here are truly sickening. You are suffering and part of a LTR is supporting each other through hard times. If you can’t talk to your girlfriend about real stuff then you’re missing out on the best parts of a relationship. My dad is a general, married over 30 years to a gorgeous woman...he cries at extreme make over home edition. If your girlfriend is the kind of person who can’t handle a man cry, then she’s a garbage partner and you’re better off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/19 12:57 PM
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I was just thinking I haven’t seen enough children dying on the streets lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 04:33 AM
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Chad shouldn’t have to think ahead. That’s only womanz problemz.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 04:31 AM
3

As opposed to the past when things were extremely rigorous and scientific. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 09:14 PM
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It’s crazy how women actually like sex but would rather have no sex than bad sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 04:57 PM
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Sex is absolutely not a need like food or water because you can survive and be totally healthy without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 04:02 AM
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Lol this happens all the time. Spending time with people definitely makes them more attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 01:10 PM
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If you think that dating a woman is “like friendship but with kissing” then you are clearly not bisexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 12:51 PM
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“I’m not bisexual and therefor no one is.” Jesus, so ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 12:48 PM
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You know if you’re the one to make that decision...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 12:21 PM
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Lol. They named themselves that,bro. It doesn’t mean anything beyond the evident superiority complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 03:35 PM
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IMO “toxic masculinity” is a bad term that is poorly described, resulting in a lot of miscommunication in conversations like these. I do not define toxic masculinity as traditional masculinity, and I don’t know anyone irl who does. But just the fact that this misunderstanding is happening proves how unproductive the term is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 07:24 PM
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Yes exactly. I could just as easily make a list of terrible, unfaithful, and abusive things men have done to their girlfriends, but it would be just as poor and biased of a description of male behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 05:26 PM
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Dude I know so many people, men and women, that have gotten way hotter in their late 20s/early 30s than they were in their college years and early 20s. IME the wall is a silly thing to get hung up on. There comes a time in everybody’s life where their looks start to fade. It’s just different for everybody, and not nearly the rapid process that TRP makes it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 05:01 PM
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This entire sub seems to demonstrate the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 10:37 PM
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Not wanting to get hit on by a creep (who is supposed to be working) is a far cry from wanting them to die. Asking a girl where she lives is not an acceptable “flirtation.” Most of these dudes women complain about seem to be unable read basic social cues that indicate their target is uncomfortable and that they should stop. And when you are forceful with them suddenly you’re a bitch. When you are at work you are expected to maintain a certain level of professionalism. Stop making this out to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 07:34 PM
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80/20 is not real and stupid thing to get hung up on. If girls are treating you like the “bottom 80%” then I guess you probably are. You aren’t any more ‘worthy’ than the other men you seem to deem below you. These girls are treating you exactly what you’re ‘worth’ to them. Or in real life terms—you were not their ideal match. Don’t be surprised when people on the most shallow and flakey dating platform act shallow and flakey. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Not rocket science. Every woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 01:43 PM
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There is something going on...social pressure for women to look hot and provide eye candy in certain situations even when they have no sexual intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 03:26 AM
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Cool story bro. Maybe next time use less words to say “I hate women.” and you can save us all a lot of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 02:29 PM
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Literally every time I have gone clubbing/dancing it has been exclusively to bond with female friends. No one has ever left the group to hook up with some dude, and that’s certainly never the goal. Actually the best way to improve the club scene would be to subtract all the dudes (like you) who seem to think all my behavior revolves around men and that my mere presence at a club indicates that I’m looking for attention/sex. There is no secret ulterior motive. Not everything is about you. Some pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 03:55 AM
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So basically, vaginas are gross. Cool excuse bro. Small dick AND selfish in bed. The ladies are gonna love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 02:33 PM
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Spotted the terrible lover.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 04:01 AM
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TUMBLR BANNED PORN??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 10:01 PM
2

"Enjoy the miserable and bitter life that you have. May you live till 150 years of age."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 06:20 PM
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Who exactly are you talking to? Every single woman? Get real. This is not a gender thing. It’s a shitty person thing. I have never cheated or been cheated on. I know cheaters of both sexes. They are shitty people. Be a good person, be selective with your partners, and treat them with trust. I would NEVER enter an LTR with someone I didn't trust to remain faithful. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 05:54 PM
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You will never foster a healthy and long lasting LTR through mind games and emotional manipulation. Why would you want someone you’ve conned into loving you? Do you want a parasite or a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 05:47 PM
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It's shit like this that makes me glad I'm gay... Male/female dynamics are well and truly fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/18 03:49 PM
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I don’t trust anyone I don’t know. The only difference with men is that I have less trust they won’t rape me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 01:27 AM
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Is this a serious question? Only one of the things you mentioned is exclusive to women. Men can develop their fitness. Men can develop a good diet. Men can have sexy voices. Men may not be able to wear makeup ( actually, they could) but they can and do use products to make themselves more attractive. They can also develop a good personality! Also: make up--requires effort Fitness--requires effort Diet--requires effort You’re pretty much proving my point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 12:55 AM
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Don't you know? Literally all women can get laid literally whenever they want without putting forth any effort whatsoever. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 11:28 PM
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Then learn to write succinctly. This is what happens when you don't know how.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 07:29 PM
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RP is an ideology. BP is everyone that doesn’t buy into their ideology. Therefor you can’t really characterize blue pill. It would be like asking what atheists believe without realizing it’s what they don’t believe in that groups them together. What they do believe in could be as different as night and day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 09:16 PM
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I agree. I’m a hardcore switch hitter and so is my lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 09:06 AM
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You may be from the Bronx but that mentality is from Islam, and is not compatible with western life. More than not compatible. It’s revolting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 06:32 PM
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I’m sorry I’m having trouble interpreting this. Are you saying you’re free to treat her as poorly as you want but she can give it right back? Or are you saying you should be able to treat her as poorly as you want and it’s her job to be quiet and take it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 06:28 PM
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Ah yes. Half of the population is made of unloveable sociopaths. Women are incapable of love. Such a smart and discerning observation that clearly isn’t a huge exaggeration by a man who definitely isn’t a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 06:26 PM
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Is it the fact that they run counter to your narrative? If we stopped constantly hearing about how all women are like that, maybe we would stop posting examples of NAWALT. Jesus Christ. You want to shove us in a tiny box and have the gall to expect us to just be quiet about it? You’re tired of posts like these? I’m tired of being told who I am and what I want by complete strangers based solely off of what’s between my legs. Stop claiming AWALT and we’ll stop demonstrating that it’s BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 06:17 PM
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Lol so the idea continually perpetuated by RP of women hitting “the wall” and losing her sexual value has nothing to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:15 PM
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There’s a lot of “the sky is falling” mentality here on this sub, mostly because you way overestimate the importance of the changing sexual dynamics. No, marriage is not ending. It’s just become optional. Divorce rates are falling. This is because people are now taking the time to get to know themselves AND what they need from a partner. Plenty of men are not embroiled in bitterness against women for their autonomy, and are happy to use the time to find the right woman. If you can’t handle the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 02:26 AM
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I see the dynamics you’re illustrating and I get it. But at the end of the day you’re just talking about two people who thought they could end up with someone hotter but didn’t. When you’re young you value different things and have no idea what kind of person you will be compatible with. It is not unique to either gender. This is seen in teens talking about all the standards their future person will need to have. Girls wanting a dreamy Prince Charming. Boys have a lot of physical and sexual expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 03:20 PM
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Are you saying there are no moral men or no ugly moral men? I think OP just means a genuinely good person, not a simpering coward who thinks acting nice is the best mask he can pull off to get what he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 02:41 AM
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Female, 27, 0 penises have entered my vaginagum, but I guess you either forgot about gay people or don’t think our sex counts as real sex? I’ve had sex with 5 women counting my girlfriend. Never lied but also was never asked, outside of silly college drinking games. My SO and I HAVE shared our numbers, but more for fun than information. What do I care? In my last LTR, my girlfriend had made her way through half our class, both women and men, before we started dating. It never stopped her from be…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 08:42 PM
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I dunno. Most of this is my girlfriend and I all the time and it’s not because anyone is whipped. It’s cuz we’re in love we wish each other good morning and good night every day We try to text back as soon as we can. And when we will be out of touch for a long time we let the other one know Hell yeah I would rather hang out with her than my friends. My friends are great. But she’s the love of my life. Your partner SHOULD be the person you want to spend most of your time with. If you’d rather spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 06:15 PM
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Would you do the same for him? If not you are taking advantage of him and not treating him right. Having a devoted partner isn’t a bad thing unless it’s one sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 05:39 PM
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Preach. If asking a man to hold a fucking bag feels oppressive to them, they need to take a hard look themselves. How little must a person view themselves to be embarrassed by such a small favor? It’s a fucking bag people. Women carry them because our clothes are never designed to carry any of the things we’re expected to have on us. It’s not hard to hold for a few god damn minutes, especially when you conveniently also like to keep stuff in there. You will not become a woman for holding one. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 05:37 PM
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Dude you sound like a sloppy mix of Breitbart and r/Iamverysmart. You make barely intelligible generalizations about women, then say only RP sees them as individuals? You’ve spammed every reply with your “women are inferior” nonsense with seemingly no care that it directly contradicts your claim. You demand data when all you’ve provided is anecdotal evidence that reeks of r/thathappened material. The idea that women have been equal for a hundred years? Laughable. We haven’t even had the right to…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 01:21 AM
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(It’s almost like a lot of them aren’t very smart.)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 11:11 PM
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lol so what you’re saying is that as women can never consider ourselves equal until we can protect ourselves? So by that logic will men never be our equals until they can carry and birth their own children? By the way, I’ve never had a boyfriend and survived to this day. The world is a more peaceful place than it has ever been. There’s no need to adhere to cavemen dynamics anymore. I’m a pacifist and have prevented many physical altercations against myself and between strangers. My peacemaking a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 06:45 PM
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Lololol and where are you getting these prostitutes that want to work as public servants? And make WAY less than they could in the private sector? Also lol at me paying extra taxes for you to get laid in the saddest way possible. Sex is not necessary to live, jfc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 05:58 PM
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Except the data proves true for women as well, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 05:52 PM
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As a lesbian, I wouldn’t recommend the gay route. Guys tend to have unpleasant reactions to that in a variety of uncomfortable ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 02:19 AM
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I know. Somebody sign me up! Maybe he is referring to the fact that women often don't make as much as men, mostly due to the service fields they choose to work in. But of course I pay just as much in tax as a man in the same job as me, and get the same in return. I don't know about these magic tax breaks MRAs love to talk about. Perhaps I don't have enough estrogen to qualify. The only extra hand out women get are if they are single mothers. The alternative is starving, sick children. But I'm su…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 06:01 PM
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So basically what you're saying is a woman learning from her mistakes and being more judicious is her treating you badly because you don't get your dick wet as fast as you would have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 09:03 PM
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Exactly. OP wants male nudity to be sexualized more. I want female nudity sexualized less. Maybe a bit of both would be a win-win
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 08:44 PM
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Women are hypergamous Women are branch swingers Women don’t know what they want, but I do. Women don’t love you, only what you can do for them. Women love rough sex and to be demeaned because that’s true feminine nature. There are no such things as types. All women like the same type of man. Any woman who says differently is a liar or is ignorant. AWALT. Women are not individuals. All men can be put into catagories of alpha, beta, and omega. These catagories are not relative because women are no…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 06:48 PM
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As if a man is not only responsible for his own satisfaction, but for woman's too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 05:14 PM
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"Everyone knows women fake their orgasms! Not with me, though. I can just tell. That only happens to Other dudes." --Every Dude Ever
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 05:09 PM
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Haven’t you heard? These men are in our heads and know us better than we know ourselves! If you don’t like being treated like a prostitution there’s something wrong with you. All mentally and emotionally healthy women love it! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 11:01 PM
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Hates on women Generalizes their behavior like they’re animals Doesn’t understand why there’s an International Women’s Day
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 02:57 PM
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Welcome to International Women’s Day. Also known as Why Isn’t There An International Men’s Day? Day. Or as others call it, International Misogyny Day. This guy’s a little of both. I love when these guys complain about how unnecessary feminism is today and then go on to let loose a deluge of misogyny. “Women are herd animals. Women can’t think for themselves. Women don’t know what they want. Women are fickle. Women are liars. Women are branch swingers. No woman is the exception because women aren…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 02:40 PM
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IME: “Act like a lady” = “Be courteous. Be pleasant. Be quiet. Cross your legs at the ankle. Be an excellent hostess. Be an excellent cook. Care for people and children because you are naturally nurturing, even when you don’t like that person. If your husband has guests it’s still YOUR job to serve and host them. Even men who harass you deserve your pleasantness. Never make a fuss. Don’t argue or fight. Don’t dress comfortably. Don’t eat too much. Don’t chew too loudly. Don’t slouch. Don’t rough…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 07:03 PM
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Oh yeah I definitely forgot the big category of religious and/or child-seeking. If having children is a woman’s number priority, or if marriage is an expected status symbol in their culture, like Mormons: these women are much more likely to settle down with someone regardless of how they truly feel about their spouse, knowingly or unknowingly. I definitely saw a lot of that living in religious Colorado.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 09:56 PM
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I don’t know a single woman looking for a ‘beta provider.’ The women I know that are younger are pursuing their career, dating around, or looking for a spouse. Most of the older single women who I know are self sufficient. They have no need for a “provider” whether that be monetarily or emotionally. They’ve learned how to get on just fine on their own. Some of these women are happy to be single or with the occasional fuck buddy, while others are still looking for a spouse. The difference between…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 09:26 PM
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I find this ‘rule’ fucking hilarious, especially coming from guys that also expect their LTRs to have a 0 - low N-count. They want to have their cake and eat it too. I have sex when I feel comfortable being vulnerable and when I genuinely desire deep intimacy with them. That’s never occurred after just three dates. I’m sure other women are able to reach that point earlier than I am. But the idea of it being a rule is just silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 03:07 PM
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Only if I want to fuck you. Which I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 04:25 PM
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I find that the Romance, Intelligence, and Equality things aren't so desired. Date different women. These are hugely desirable qualities for many women. OP certainly appreciated them. Women don't want that, they want to be woken up to 20 orgasms at 7am because you cant keep your hands to yourself. Oh my god no. Maybe some women do. But getting pawed at every morning without asking sounds awful to me. I do not want to wake up to getting fucked. If I want to fuck in the morning, I’ll let you know …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 04:22 PM
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Yup. The only men I’ve known to EVER have sex are filthy rich. Women exclusively care about money. No one ever gets laid in college because women knows they won’t get paid for it, unless the dudes some kinda trust fund baby. That’s also why poor people NEVER have babies. Oh, wait...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 06:45 PM
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if things are more of less the same. That’s just the thing, though. They never are ‘more or less the same.’ So saying “women are into tall, muscular dudes” is essentially meaningless. Because that height and muscle also comes with a living breathing person attached. Let’s take X Man and call him Dave. Dave is 5’8”. Confident, charming, intelligent, and a great listener. Now if Dave grew 3 inches, would women have more interest in him? Possibly, but it’s impossible to know. This comparison is unv…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 06:40 PM
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The less the height disparity the more likely a relationship will be successful. Not sure why, it’s just one of those things. So your taste in men is the best taste!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 06:21 PM
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Whether she is not or not is contingent on you, the agency-possessing man keeping her in check, holding frame, and building power. Holy shit. You may be my favorite time traveler from the past. Say hello to 1952 for me when you get back.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 01:50 AM
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If you can’t understand the difference between sexual harassment and flirting then you are the problem here, not women. The fact that there are people like you who can’t tell the difference is exactly why the metoo movement gained traction. Because there are dudes out there making women stressed or even afraid to go to work today, while those same dudes think it’s a little harmless flirting and never consider the fact that it may be making their target uncomfortable. So congratulations. You play…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 06:58 PM
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Mofo find me an HR policy that does say so. I assure you they do not exist. If you’re one of those dudes who thinks you can’t flirt now that sexual harassment is in the spotlight, then you probably have no idea how to draw the line and are probably why these rules and laws exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 06:53 PM
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I hate country music. You don’t see me ranting all day about how much I hate Keith Urban.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 04:34 AM
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I literally don’t know what you mean by this. Like there are no single women paying their own way? Rent? Car payments? Insurance? Food? You think women just aren’t paying these things? What do you mean “received from the state and the economy?” People don’t ‘receive’ things from the economy. We participate in it. I receive my money via paycheck like anyone else. The vast majority of women who receive assistance from the state do so because they have children that have been abandoned by their fat…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 07:20 PM
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Oh my god lol no you me girlfriend does NOT enjoy doing them. The fact that you think so is exactly what above poster is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 06:52 PM
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If you want to have a healthy and stable relationship with someone you view as a partner and a human being, I highly suggest ending your involvement with TRP now. It will turn you into a distrustful misogynist who thinks of women like petulant children sometimes and oversexed whores the next. This is not how people in healthy partnerships think. Relationships are not a game that you win or lose. That mindset is toxic bullshit that will undermine your ability to bond with an actual woman. If howe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 06:47 PM
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Because women have free agency now? Yeah, sure. It was so much more convenient (for men) when they made all of our decisions for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 12:20 PM
1

Hilariously deluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 02:07 AM
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...you cannot distribute women because you cannot own women. Jfc what kind of a question is this. What would "distribution of women" even look like? Women passed from sad man to sad man, regardless of if she's willing or not, in order to cure the blue balls of every sad loser who thinks lack of sex is what's making him miserable?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 12:53 AM
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Oral sex is disgusting? Boy, I bet YOU'RE fun in bed. Just kidding. I'm pretty sure no one would ever have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 05:32 PM
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Lol future inheritance. But okay buddy. If you and your massive dong wanna steer clear of women, I think somehow we'll find it in ourselves to move on from such a devastating loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 06:51 PM
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I’m a lesbian and I don’t find ANY man attractive. But I don’t find them all creepy. I don’t even find most of them to be creepy. The label of creep is far more about how they behave towards me than how they look. Random 5/10 that asks me out, easily accepts that I’m gay, and leaves with no hard feelings? Not at all creepy. Random 9/10 that is informed that I’m gay and keeps making overt sexual advances, keeps asking about threesomes, wants personal details of what my sex life is like, etc etc? …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 08:44 PM
3

I forgot about we don’t let boys go to school or collect social security.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 07:53 PM
2

Well you could start by not trying to impress women with the money you have. Don’t throw it around or use it to buy her a bunch of cool shit and fun experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 12:55 AM
2

She doesn't know his name or where he works? Wow sounds like an amazing and intimate relationship. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 07:28 PM
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they need to be content with the men who do find them attractive and do ask them out. Yeah! Women should just fuck anyone who's willing to fuck them! Like I would! Don't they realize what bitches their being?! GAHD. Can't imagine why you're not having any success. You seem like such a charmer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/17 02:18 AM
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Reading through your comments on here is fucking crazy, OP. Would I date someone shorter than me? Yes. I have and I would do so again if I'm ever single again. Would I date someone considering moving continents or having surgery to get over his obsessive napoleon complex? Uhhhh, fuck no. All incels may not need therapy, but you probably do. You're not even that short! Jfc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 09:55 PM
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I know so many married short dudes but sure go ahead and blame that single factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 09:47 PM
1

Literally never heard an actual woman say anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 01:16 AM
1

I'm female but gay. So a lot of the male experience and wisdom I see about dating women and female nature absolutely boggles my mind because it is NOTHING LIKE my experience. I have no personal experience with heterosexual dynamics, but I have plenty of experience of both dating women and being a woman. And my experience on both those levels does not match AT ALL with TRP, MGTOW, The Black Pill, etc etc. I don't know any women that are the way those movements claim women are (AWALT). Like, liter…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/17 02:34 AM
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In response to your entire first paragraph, I literally never said anything about TRP. That was some mad projection on your part. It's worth some self investigation as to why you're so defensive about this. All I was attempting to do was actually answer OP's question. For some reason I feel like theres this group of the world that wants us all to pretend that we arent all trying to be better than each other in every area. Whether its morality, physical looks, art, game, parenting, fulfillness, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/17 12:44 AM
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Because there are 1000000000 things in life other than getting laid and being attractive. And a world where everyone modelled all of their behavior on getting laid would be sad and boring. Even in just the sphere of romance, sex is only a portion of what's important. Those qualities might get you laid they won't make you good at relationships. All of my straight female friends that are happily married or in happy LTRs are with men that are not afraid of being themselves, respectful, open, and co…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 03:42 PM
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Welllll everywhere.
/r/MGTOW04/04/17 12:07 AM
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If men wanted their boys to not be turned into "manginas" maybe they could stick around and raise them.
/r/MGTOW06/03/17 06:15 PM
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Yeah. This is a place for complaining about women. Plus when men complain it's actually justified because they have good reason to complain.
/r/MGTOW01/03/17 12:22 PM
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Grow up. Move out Stop complaining about your mother like you're 14 years old. You sound like a commercial for dunkaroos.
/r/MGTOW10/12/16 03:42 PM
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Fuck man I wanna live where you live. If be happy to find a room for 700.
/r/MGTOW26/09/16 10:33 PM
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You don't. There is no such thing as an "individual" woman. All women are a part of the same hive-mind dedicated to sucking you dry of everything you're good for. They are literally incapable of independent thought. Their biology prevents it. That's why you can make generalizations about them that are 100% true of every single woman. This is just one example of how their simple minds function: ie, not well. I've literally never met a woman with any sort of nuanced vocabulary. Hell, most of them …
/r/MGTOW21/09/16 10:44 PM
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Your soul.
/r/MGTOW22/08/16 05:22 PM
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If a girl drinks too much, a crime can become committed upon her. Very sad, but we don't put people in jail for poor judgement. We send people to jail for crimes, like rape. If in your drunk state you violate someone, YOU are the one who goes to prison. Agree with it or not, that's how society works. If someone asked me for advice on how not to get their house burgled, I would tell them to buy lots of strong locks. But if they don't buy those locks and someone robs them, THE ROBBER IS STILL TO B…
/r/MensRights13/06/16 07:11 PM
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Except for she never stuck any foreign objects in his asshole while he was unconscious on the ground the way he did with her vagina...
/r/MensRights13/06/16 04:37 PM
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Just because a woman is DTF doesn't mean she is DTF everyone. I know this may come as a shock to you, but she has the right to decide who she has sex with. Don't assume a girl wants to have sex with you just because she's dressed provocatively and there wont be anymore "misunderstandings". How sober does a girl have to be to deserve to be treated like a person with rights? How "heavy" should a girl have to resist a man until he should take it as a real objection? Is saying no enough? Or is that …
/r/MensRights13/06/16 04:31 PM
1

Here's a good rule of thumb for you then: if a person can't walk on their own, don't fuck them. Don't drag her behind a dumpster and force FOREIGN OBJECTS into her vagina (I went gender specific because those are the specifics of the case) Being able to moan, eyes fluttering open is not conscious enough for consent. I feel like that should be obvious. Forgetting for a minute the legality of what constitutes rape, this just boils down to basic human decency. I know this is a craaaazy idea, but ma…
/r/MensRights13/06/16 04:18 PM
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Just who is saying men can't play a woman's role? Hairspray anyone? Drag queens (which are AWESOME) Not to mention the fact that women used to literally not be allowed to act and therefor all of their roles were played by men... Women like playing men because being male is highly regarded by women, whereas men don't have aspirations for femininity. That's why a woman in male clothing is respected and a man in a dress is mocked. Because what kind of man would want to be like a woman??? So many of…
/r/MensRights13/06/16 03:51 PM
1

"Original sin" is the original "female guilt". Or did you not actually ever read the story? Eve takes the apple. Eve convinces Adam to eat it. This story was used to blame women; it painted them as weak to temptation, and then as the temptress that drags the moral men down. Now men are being given a hint of blame and they can't handle it. Men abolished slavery? Then they also created it. Men created great ideas and made great discoveries? Sure they did. But the only reason why women didn't is th…
/r/MensRights13/06/16 03:17 PM
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I'm sorry are you seriously implying that Qatar is doing something good here? Maybe you should Move there.
/r/MensRights13/06/16 02:45 PM
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Because?
/r/MensRights13/06/16 02:38 PM
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Yeah this blew my fucking mind. Do you seriously think I ask people what they do because I'm a gold digger? Uh, no. I'm trying to get to know that person better. I'm not interested in dating anyone that's unemployed or has no goals for the future. If you're 30 and work at Burger King I'm not going to date you, not because you're poor, because it's clear you don't have your shit together. I like doing activities, traveling, seeing shows. I can afford them all on my own. I don't need a man to pay …
/r/MensRights12/06/16 10:38 PM
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