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| 2 | Showing interest in person then disappearing?Yea, as long as she is having a good time and keeps saying yes. If she brings up exclusively and you agree, then maybe bring up her initiating more | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 09:13 PM |
| – | Showing interest in person then disappearing?Hey if it ain't broke, don't fix it. I'd say just keep doing what you're doing | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 05:26 PM |
| – | Showing interest in person then disappearing?Sounds like another guy had her attention for awhile and ghosted her or something. Hence why she asked what you guys were after not seeing/talking to you for a month. Could be worried she would lose you too. This is speculation tho, but seems logical. I'd say keep your center, do just as you said "see where it goes". Don't chase at all, make her come to you still. Maybe if you don't hear from her for like a week or so, hit her up to hang out but I would try to get her to hit you up first. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 11:35 PM |
| 2 | When you tell her she’s attractive and she disagreesYup, same here. Online is tricky anyways, even if you craft a clever line or the perfect thing, it'll probably be lost in the sea of messages she is already getting, or she'll get bored and move to the next shiny profile. At least in person you are right there in front of them and can be more dynamic. I'd put less stock in online, just keep it as a line in the water, if you catch a fish, great. If not, no sweat. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 09:18 PM |
| – | When you tell her she’s attractive and she disagreesFirst off, don't open up ever with a compliment like that. If a woman is objectively attractive she hears it ALL the time. Set yourself apart from the crowd. For an example: I'm a really tall dude, I get asked how tall I am or some generic comment about my height all the time, I would rather someone just said something normal to me, am I just my height? Is a girl just her beauty? If you are talking to her, obviously you find her hot. By saying it outright, you just defeat the mystery. Don't even… | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 09:05 PM |
| – | How to confess to my crush without boosting her egoWorst thing you can do, if you want the girl, is to confess. Just ask her on a date or for drinks, whatever. No feelings man, especially if she rejects guys that confess. Why do the same shit if you see it fails? Ask her out, if she says yes, do something fun. If she says no, you have your answer and you can choose to stays friends or walk. If you confess (vomit your feelings) you're essentially nuking your chance. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 11:12 PM |
| – | I've decided enough is enough. I need to get better at approaching/being flirty with women, so I'm going to crash my former university every Friday/Saturday night and start cold approaching until it starts to feel natural. Any advice?Idk man. I wouldn't go to a college campus for this. The demographics there are gonna be 18-22, plus you're going to roll up to social events that are likely put together by groups that know must people and are gonna be reluctant to accept a 28 year old stag. I think you have the wrong idea about bars/clubs. Everyone is 21+, more in your demographic, easier to bounce to different spots, and most people are in groups of 2+ and not as suspect if a random dude tries to socialize with them. I'd put … | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 10:51 PM |
| – | Every first date that ended with a kiss on the cheek/forehead has wen to a 2nd date. 100 percent of the timeWhat's stopping you from kiss on the mouth? Nerves? Or what? I've heard that cheek gives off less than romantic vibes. | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 06:03 PM |
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