| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 13 | Did I mess up?? | SEEKING ADVICE | thenew-supreme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 07:36 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 38 | This level of betrayal from the person supposed to love, cherish and hold you sacred.I don’t think so. I think it counts as him being a horrible person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 05:34 PM |
| 9 | I don’t approve of low value behavior from any one, including a woman. However the FDS in me is suspicious as to what her side of the story is. She sounds miserable, burnt out, and exhausted. I can’t help but wonder how evenly the work load is shared in the house. For both of them, it appears toxic.If he hates her so much why doesn’t he just leave instead of bothering us with his incessant whining? Being treated badly? Okay leave. No? Okay shut up. He just wants someone to complain about her with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 09:00 PM |
| 171 | Scrote seduces his boss on a work trip, has sex with her, and shares her photos on Reddit in his profile for everyone to see. Someone needs to find her and tell her.Omg he is sharing her pics?!?! 😱😱😱😱😱 oh no no no no | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 10:06 PM |
| 3 | She Needed FDS a Long Time AgoYikes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 07:40 PM |
| 13 | They always tell on themselves, sometimes sooner than othersEw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 07:10 PM |
| 21 | Men are now sticking women with needles instead of putting roofies inside their drinks! They’re now recommending we all wear denim jackets to avoid getting needle drugged at clubs and bars.What the fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 05:09 PM |
| 2 | “Men aren’t loved unconditionally, women are”When men get mad about how men behave it makes me laugh. Do you know how angry I am everyday? I’m BLACK and I’m a WOMAN. I’m angry as hell! I’m constantly triggered by existing. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I’m triggered just talking about how triggered I am. 😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 10:01 PM |
| 3 | She asked a guy out. Scrotes responded "good, you deserve it. Now you know what it's like to be a man." She responded with a list of the garbage women have to go through.I just feel angry mannnnnnnn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 09:57 PM |
| 54 | The Rapper Da Baby kicked out his baby mama and his newborn child, and when she didn't leave he called cops on her and reported her. He allegedly wanted to invite another woman to his condo and he wanted her out after she cooked, cleaned for him, slept with him.Period!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 10:06 PM |
| 177 | The Rapper Da Baby kicked out his baby mama and his newborn child, and when she didn't leave he called cops on her and reported her. He allegedly wanted to invite another woman to his condo and he wanted her out after she cooked, cleaned for him, slept with him.Kind of don’t feel bad for her because she tried to center herself as better than his other baby mothers because of her skin tone. She fucked around and found out skin tone doesn’t absolve you from being treated horribly by these men. I feel sorry for her baby and his kids that these are their role models. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 10:03 PM |
| 11 | Don't send nudes to friend-turned hookups!!Oh wow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 03:05 PM |
| 34 | Don't send nudes to friend-turned hookups!!That’s funny and shows how mindless some Men are. It invites no competitiveness in me. I usually feel horrified for the young lady who I’m seeing and wishing I could contact her and tell her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 03:04 PM |
| 37 | Don't send nudes to friend-turned hookups!!Due to planning a move | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 03:02 PM |
| 108 | Don't send nudes to friend-turned hookups!!It’s frustrating to me. I feel like is misogynistic. Nothing against the lgbt+ community as I am a huge supporter. But with men they like to center on being a lesbian or bisexual and they think all women have that capability. Also I’ve heard women say “all women are sexually fluid”. I’m one that isn’t and I literally gave myself space to explore that early in my life. You have men walking about thinking that. The number of times men have suggested threesomes and I flip it on them to be MMF and t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 01:07 PM |
| 11 | This is what LVM do to women…they break and push them to the point of suicide. Can we help this woman?Oh wow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 12:51 PM |
| 189 | Don't send nudes to friend-turned hookups!!This is common. And I don’t know why they do this. One guy trying to be my fwb kept sending me videos of this girl using a dildo and things that she sent to him. I had to let him know that I have no sexual interest in women. This doesn’t turn me on at all. I don’t understand why he is sending me this crap and I asked him if he had her permission to show those videos. He said he did have her permission but I feel like that was a lie. I don’t see that being truth. He also showed me pics of him wit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 12:47 PM |
| 7 | A brag? Advice? Saw this and thought of FDS straight awayYikes!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 11:10 AM |
| 1 | The "bed nest" post that was mentioned in the podcastYikes. Maybe he had a hard childhood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 10:16 PM |
| 6 | Pleasantly surprised by this guy in my DMs sharing a useful tip: men in homeless shelters are using online dating to find women to mooch off of, often after getting kicked out for abusing/cheating on another womanIt’s true. I’m related to a man like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 03:13 PM |
| 1 | OMG. I saw a post on here about our opinion on male gynaecologists.. listen to thisOH SHIT!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Presented without comment.Could someone lie and change their name to a higher caste? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Whether you agree or disagree with WAP as a song, this is really an interesting analysis:She has threatened divorce before. Let’s see what happens. I hope she leaves him. If she goes through with it, good on her. Don’t pick up another loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:14 PM |
| 3 | Presented without comment.Thanks for that info. I’m black and sometimes things are said about how darker skinned people are treated in Indian culture and I’ve always had questions because I’ve never heard an Indian person themselves express themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Posted on Entitled Bitch .... I just see a HVM trying to do something special for his lady.That is so sweet. A bit over the top but sweet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 12:32 AM |
| 6 | Presented without comment.How does one end up in a lower caste? What is it based off of? Like originally? And now currently? That is so interesting. I’ve heard people mention skin color but I’m wondering if it’s more complex than just someone’s skin color. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 12:22 AM |
| 9 | Presented without comment.I can’t even imagine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 12:20 AM |
| 3 | It's not your responsibility to make your or any man feel like a manHer husband enraged me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 12:14 AM |
| 3 | Why are men do pedophiles 🤢. I am literally 17Do men think this is appealing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 03:18 PM |
| 2 | I’m out of words.What?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 03:17 PM |
| 5 | the only appropriate response to when you hear someone say this 😂I always feel confused | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 03:10 PM |
| 5 | Remember ladies, we’re no Barbara the Builder. We’re not here to build these men up from the ground.Whew! Triggered!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 04:37 PM |
| 3 | Whether you agree or disagree with WAP as a song, this is really an interesting analysis:Yeah, I try not to even concern myself with that stuff. It bothers me and since I know it bothers me I just mentally distance myself. I have friends that worship black men and the moment I mention that there are other options then “eww you like pink penis?!” Which is like, not what I said. Black and white aren’t the only options in the world. It’s like one way or another and people can’t think outside of those boxes. It’s annoying AF. Like obviously I’m more comfortable with a black man but I’m … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 04:36 PM |
| 3 | Whether you agree or disagree with WAP as a song, this is really an interesting analysis:*Tory 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 04:31 PM |
| 5 | Whether you agree or disagree with WAP as a song, this is really an interesting analysis:I get what you’re saying. I don’t think we disagree Per se. I just am hoping that she wakes up and not writing her off completely. Honestly if I was Megan and in the car with Torrey and everyone else. In the moment I would of lied. But as soon as we got away from the aggressive cops, I would of told. Like I said she has a lot to learn and unfortunately people will go through the same shit until They get it. Which is evident. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 04:29 PM |
| 9 | Whether you agree or disagree with WAP as a song, this is really an interesting analysis:Yeah I relate it to like, a young family member of mine, her parents divorced and she had a hard time coping with it. She got away with EVERYTHING!! for like 2 years. No one wanted to correct her properly because we all felt sorry for her and knew she was going to though a hard time. It kinda made her super spoiled. 😩 It’s similar in the black community. A lot of empathy for black men when it comes to the law so everyone overcompensates and it becomes a toxic situation anyways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 04:22 PM |
| 13 | Whether you agree or disagree with WAP as a song, this is really an interesting analysis:As far as her protecting him, I understand why she did that and it goes beyond dating and this stuff that is less important than black people feeling threatened by and dying by the hands of the police. That was a survival move on her part at the time. Beyond that, I hope she will learn and leave these guys alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 04:12 PM |
| 37 | Whether you agree or disagree with WAP as a song, this is really an interesting analysis:There are LVM that we all should not have dated. That’s why we are here. Cardi is going to be with Offset until the end. But Megan May move on to better situations. Also she is young and clearly chose the wrong guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 03:45 PM |
| 22 | Something I madeExactly! I get so tired sometimes. Like in my soul | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 02:54 AM |
| 8 | I don't argue with men. Not over anything, for any reason.I actually want to marry you myself. To live like that is the new goal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Did I mess up??Yeah, honestly in the past I’ve been with some crazy men. With FDS rules things just seemed totally different. And I was finally being treated in a way that I feel I should have been treated all along. So deviating from that in any way, I was afraid he would start acting crazy like what I’m used to. That seems silly to type that out but that’s where my mind went “if I’m deviate from FDS he’s going to magically turn into a fuckboy” which doesn’t make sense and does at the same Time? But you’re ri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 02:44 AM |
| 3 | A message for lurkers....you're not the centre of our worldsI taught myself how to move on after my last breakup. It’s like something clicked in my head | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Did I mess up??That’s true and a valid point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 09:09 PM |
| 0 | Did I mess up??I do not think he is an opportunist that took advantage of me in my mental state. I didn’t post this before but he was like “I don’t think it’s a good idea” I told him I wanted to. He asked me if I was sure about 6 times. Each time I told I wanted to continue. He could of strong armed me into not having sex because of my mental state but at the same time, it was my choice to make. I made it (a stupid choice that I instantly regretted) and he didn’t take away my right make that choice, good or ba… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Did I mess up??I can’t say that he did. I did t post this but he was like “I don’t think it’s a good idea” I told him I wanted to. He asked me if I was sure about 6 times. Each time I told I wanted to continue. He could of strong armed me into not having sex because of my mental state but at the same time, it was my choice to Make. I made it (a stupid choice that I instantly regretted) and he didn’t take away my right make that choice, good or bad. It’s a really big gray area in my mind and I don’t think he’s … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Did I mess up??Thank you and I definitely am going to be taking a step back and get some help for myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 08:42 PM |
| 10 | Did I mess up??Thank you so much. I can feel your confidence from This post and it’s something I need. I had been seeing a therapist but I thought I was in a good place and ended my therapy. Clearly I’m not there yet so I will go back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 08:41 PM |
| 10 | Did I mess up??I came onto him and he kept saying maybe it wasn’t a good idea, maybe we should wait. He asked me if I wanted to wait and I said no. It was me. Yeah I think he could or strong armed me into not having sex as in the bigger picture I wasn’t clearly in the right place mentally. I’m honestly not sure. He he didn’t just go for it. He asked me about 6 times if I was sure. That’s why I said I ruined it myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 08:39 PM |
| 8 | Did I mess up??Yea I honestly am still reeling from Sunday that putting things on pause never even crossed my mind. Thank you for your suggestions. I still feel like I’m not right mentally. We’re going through all these new things that I’ve personally gone through before and seeing my niece being traumatized and seeing her go through it is traumatizing for me. I definitely Will be doing that. I really need a break. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 07:47 PM |
| 15 | Shout out to all the invincible mommas out there cause the way society is set up...living life like Rihanna is looking REAL appealing lately ☕️This is me. Rihanna is me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 11:54 PM |
| 4 | Whisper is a goldmine for LVM!Ewww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 12:48 AM |
| 1 | We all know why.Exactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 05:15 PM |
| 5 | How many times I used to say this 😩 🤡Whew why did she come for everyone like that! 😂😂😂😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 02:26 PM |
| 3 | and feel attacked when you ask for anything moreOh my gosh facts!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 11:39 PM |
| 2 | You ladies inspired me and I whipped this piece up in less than 24 hours. If I want to, I will ✌️That’s so awesome I want one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 11:38 PM |
| 1 | CALL THEIR BLUFF 2020😱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 11:41 PM |
| 6 | My experience implementing the "3 month rule" on FDS has sold me on making sure it's going to be a Forever Dating Strategy. My experience implementing this has been nothing but positive and empowering!I just found this subreddit and I may be telling on myself but at times I found this hard to believe. Then I realized that’s why I need this because I don’t even believe men can act like this and love like this. I’m so happy for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 02:11 PM |
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