thenexttimebetter Archive

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52	The average wedding now costs more than $30,000 Combined, my ex-wife and I spent $20K. Parents paid another $10. I spent a few k on the ring. Plus 5k honeymoon. Weekend long wedding, so guests had to shell out hundreds for lodging and food package. Let's not forget the tens of K in gifts. Marriage lasted 3.5 years, until she fell for some emotional puss at work (who later dumped her to marry his ex girlfriend). If I ever get married again...it'll be city hall and a dinner at a 4-star restaurant.	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/15 06:05 AM
1	The Dowry as Compensation for Lost Options Yeah. And the engagement ring came from old tradition that accepted that engaged couples would have sex, and the woman would lose her virginity and therefore her value. So, if they didn't get married for some reason, then the woman could sell the ring to support her spinster existence. These days, how many men u know who got engaged to a virgin? So, the woman doesn't have a virginity left to lose. And yet we still give engagement rings to compensate them for this loss. And for some idiots out th…	/r/TheRedPill	08/03/15 03:51 AM
1	LTR cheated on you? You have a right to be mad! I'm late on replying to this, but you've hit the nail on the head.	/r/TheRedPill	06/03/15 12:55 AM
14	"I'm a strong, independent woman"! Yes, women say this when a man with alpha tendencies shows no interest. But they also say it when a man with beta tendencies shows no interest. This is really just a woman's way of saying that she has no prospects, at all, and therefore must embrace her independence publicly while crying behind closed doors privately.	/r/TheRedPill	27/02/15 08:30 PM
11	"Why women leave the men they love" by author W. Hamster Ridiculous. If he spent time with her, she'd complain that they don't have enough separate interests and therefore he wasn't exciting enough. Women and their post-hoc reasoning. That's how they operate.	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/15 08:32 PM
2	"I like to take things slow" / "I'm picky"- [28 and never had a boyfriend] -> "Lets go to Peru!" (on second date) I'd agree with comments so far. By inviting you to Peru, it's her way of love-bombing you in the hopes of locking u down early. People love-bomb when they know they do t have what it takes to last. Drop her.	/r/TheRedPill	30/01/15 04:54 PM
-3	Asian American women that refuse to date Asian guys but hate the fact that those same Asian guys go interracial. Wasn't there a post recently saying this type of complaint would be banned from TRP? This is yet another post complaining about how Asian women won't date Asian men. It's dressed up differently, but the core complaint is the same. I read this and see only two words: bitch and moan.	/r/TheRedPill	28/01/15 09:54 PM
7	The number one mistake of married women: marrying a guy to whom they're not attracted I'd add that even women who were attracted to their boyfriends originally lose that attraction with marriage. Because women aren't sexually attracted to men who do things for them. So, you can start out having lots of sex, and even "slow down" to regular sex a few days per week. But once the knot is tied, she respects u less because you're no longer a solo man with his own priorities. Instead, your priorities are her priorities. And she does want to have sex with herself. This is why, if u choos…	/r/TheRedPill	26/01/15 11:42 PM
19	"I love it when you pick me up." Solid advice. I'd add to pick up girls while you're having sex. Arms under her legs, which are wrapped around you. Her arms are wrapped around your shoulders or neck. Put your hands under her butt for more support and to control her movement on you. A lot of fun to stand in the middle of the room and bounce her. It shows her that you're in control of her body. And it turns you on because you feel like the man you are. And if you can't do this, then lift... Or don't spin oversized plates.	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/15 02:46 AM