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| 4 | Men should give up on western women and go overseasGonna wager their cousin is a woman making money off of western men sending it to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Why do women want/need commitment?Ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Why do women want/need commitment?Well I mean, there’s the whole ‘having someone who cares about you’ thing, but I understand why a man might not give a shit. And that’s fine! But a man who doesn’t care about that is not somebody I would like to have sex with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Women have very high standards for a first date, but very low standards when they get into relationshipsYeah, he was right, I never argued that. My point wasn’t ‘all men are like this’, it was ‘where can I find guys that act nicer/want to take care of me and not dicks’ because I don’t get asked out by any | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Women have very high standards for a first date, but very low standards when they get into relationships??? Sorry I dated a handsome guy who wanted to be exclusive with me who ended up being a dick later?? Live and learn lmao. I literally said ‘ex’ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 01:04 AM |
| -1 | Women have very high standards for a first date, but very low standards when they get into relationshipsHe did. And where were you? You could have saved me from him and dated me instead 🥺 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 10:10 PM |
| 3 | Women have very high standards for a first date, but very low standards when they get into relationshipsMost likely, yeah. But I hear real life guys complain about this too, and I literally go into like, male incel mode when I hear it hahaha. Like, why would you choose to devote all this time and money into some lame loser girl just because she’s hot?? What about me?? I’m hot!!!! I want to be cared about like that 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 04:46 PM |
| 5 | Women have very high standards for a first date, but very low standards when they get into relationshipsYeah get rid of her lmfao. Plenty of girls out there who would actually appreciate being treated well. You’re wasting your time on this one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Women have very high standards for a first date, but very low standards when they get into relationshipsHe WAS really handsome, but he couldn’t get away with absolutely anything, no. I did say “ex” hahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 04:12 PM |
| 7 | Women have very high standards for a first date, but very low standards when they get into relationshipsAlways hear men saying this and I’ve never gotten it. Where the hell are these supposed women finding men like you who do everything for them? My ex boyfriend wouldn’t get me an ice cream cone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 03:20 PM |
| 1 | How much effort do you put on your looks?Makeup; I do light winged eyeliner (have been doing that for a decade so I’m quick at it), mascara, tinted moisturizer, light lip and cheek tint. Whole process takes about 15 mins every morning. Skincare is some facial moisturizer and collagen cream every night before bed, takes less than 5 mins. Hair is another story. I have THICK hair with a coarse frizzy-wavy texture naturally, blow drying or natural drying takes about an hour, straight-ironing and the sheer amount of product I have to use to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: How often do you get approached and asked out in public?Somewhere between A and B, it’s not EVERY time I go out, but it’s pretty often and not always in social environments. I think I’m pretty attractive for where I live, probably a 7-8 here in the suburbs from the attention I get, but I’m a 5-6 in like, Miami or LA. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 01:34 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Unmarried women, why do you think the men you want aren't asking to marry you?I’m not high value. But I’d marry a low value male, idc. Just hasn’t worked out (yet?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 01:25 AM |
| 1 | It's easy to know if you date down or up by how much you get rejected or dumpedIs it that hard to believe that a girl would know how to talk to girls? Lol. If I met a guy on a dating app who talked to me in that friendly and open way that girls have when meeting each other, I would actually keep talking to him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 05:16 AM |
| 3 | What would it give if women were more tolerant toward men's looks/lower standard regarding men's "handsomeness" ?There are some guys like you, but unfortunately I’m pretty sure it’s the minority from what I’ve seen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 10:12 AM |
| 0 | What would it give if women were more tolerant toward men's looks/lower standard regarding men's "handsomeness" ?It’s because of its reputation. Girls move here from all over the world because they think it’s going to be like Friends or Sex and the City or whatever (it’s not). And I’m not advising hitting on waiters, did you read my full comment or just not understand it? It’s referring to workforce communities in restaurants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 10:08 AM |
| 1 | What would it give if women were more tolerant toward men's looks/lower standard regarding men's "handsomeness" ?Huh? That’s exactly what I said, except there aren’t more relationships formed. There’s way more women than men working in restaurants, so the men have a lot of options and won’t commit. That includes the guys who work in the kitchen who normally wouldn’t be anything special, but in a tight restaurant community most of them become hot commodities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 08:22 AM |
| 1 | What would it give if women were more tolerant toward men's looks/lower standard regarding men's "handsomeness" ?New York (the downstate urban areas) has a very heavily skewed female population. Most average guys here have little to no issues. Restaurants typically have way more female employees than male, and you see this pattern happen when the work force is all young and all hang out together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 07:59 AM |
| 3 | What would it give if women were more tolerant toward men's looks/lower standard regarding men's "handsomeness" ?I mean, not for women lol. Very few women would be able to get commitment from anybody. But sure, an improvement for men, I guess. But saying literally 80% of men are on the bitterness spectrum is a huge overstatement IMO, unless guys really are that bitter about just not being able to hook up with every girl they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 06:59 AM |
| 9 | What would it give if women were more tolerant toward men's looks/lower standard regarding men's "handsomeness" ?Disagree. I think if more men had access to much more women, very few would actually want to commit. You see this frequently in female-heavy demographics; when even the less good looking guys start to have plenty of options, their motivation to settle down isn’t the best. I think the top 70% of men would become the ‘Chads’ and the bottom 30% would be just as bitter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 06:01 AM |
| 7 | What are common ways men and women shoot themselves in the foot?I’m laughing so hard at this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 11:06 PM |
| 1 | How many today would be down for a stay home dad?God if I made enough money for this that is absolutely the dream. I (girl) hate cooking, hate cleaning, love going to work at the office and making money. If I ever strike it rich someday I’m finding the first guy who would be down for this and wife-husbanding him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 08:26 PM |
| 3 | When the subject of women’s abundance comes up women like to say they have “no good options” but this is nonsense. Women have plenty of attractive, desirable men interested in both LTR and hookups, they are just insanely picky.Sure he will, I know men never get upset about being lied to and used like women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 04:25 PM |
| 2 | When the subject of women’s abundance comes up women like to say they have “no good options” but this is nonsense. Women have plenty of attractive, desirable men interested in both LTR and hookups, they are just insanely picky.Not necessarily to be devoted to you and offer a relationship, though. That can take work. Not saying I’ve done it, but I’ve seen it done | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 01:28 PM |
| 7 | What are your thoughts on lying about sexual inexperience to avoid a catch 22?Have legitimately had every single one of those experiences with guys who I am 100% positive were not virgins at the time lmao. Granted, most of those times involved alcohol. But legit, it’s not as incriminating as you think. Girls are generally used to that sort of thing, we’ve all been there. Not saying this in a ‘women are perfect and understanding angels’ type of way, more in a ‘don’t psych yourself out, not that big of a deal’ kind of way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 06:12 AM |
| 11 | When the subject of women’s abundance comes up women like to say they have “no good options” but this is nonsense. Women have plenty of attractive, desirable men interested in both LTR and hookups, they are just insanely picky.Equally easy to lie to conservative guys and say you’d love to be a housewife and have his babies someday. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 01:46 AM |
| 12 | What are your thoughts on lying about sexual inexperience to avoid a catch 22?Honestly, not necessarily lol. You’d be surprised to know how many guys tend to seem nervous/awkward the first time they have sex with a girl due to nerves, even if it’s far from their actual first time. I wouldn’t be able to tell the difference myself. Although I agree that holding out for relationship sex would be the best move for anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 11:52 PM |
| 1 | If sex is not a need, then why would women be remotely upset about abortion being banned?But that’s the thing. Something ‘growing and developing’, and cells technically being alive, isn’t a declaration of humanity. If a corpse’s hair keeps growing after death, if some skin cells multiply, it’s growing and developing, isn’t it? So why is cremating somebody not murder? Because it’s not harming them, they’re not going to feel it, because they are already dead. I apply that logic to a zygote—although it has living cells, when it is removed from a body, it’s not being harmed, and it’s no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 09:12 PM |
| 1 | If sex is not a need, then why would women be remotely upset about abortion being banned?It is hard, because so far, the only thing you’ve said to prove it’s a human being is that YOU think it’s a human being. ‘It’s a human being because it’s developing’ isn’t a fact, and isn’t an A to B type deal. That’s your personal opinion about it. A zygote with a non-functioning brain and living human cells is ethically distinct from a human corpse with a non-functioning brain and living cells because you, personally, think that it is. There is no solid moral distinction there, only your feeli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 08:59 PM |
| 1 | If sex is not a need, then why would women be remotely upset about abortion being banned?Well, as we discussed, just having living human cells isn’t enough to make a human being. So what is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 08:38 PM |
| 1 | If sex is not a need, then why would women be remotely upset about abortion being banned?And a zygote isn’t a human being. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 08:29 PM |
| 1 | If sex is not a need, then why would women be remotely upset about abortion being banned?But you’re killing living cells. What makes living human cells with no functioning brain, pronounced ‘dead’, logistically different from living human cells with no functioning brain, called a ‘zygote’? It’s arbitrary. It’s just because people said so. There’s no actual concrete reasoning behind why destroying one would be okay and destroying the other wouldn’t be, besides people saying so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 08:22 PM |
| 1 | If sex is not a need, then why would women be remotely upset about abortion being banned?The brain might be dead and non-functional. Some cells can go on living in a corpse for quite a bit after death. Who are you to judge that it’s no longer a human, if it has no brain, but it has living tissue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 08:14 PM |
| 1 | If sex is not a need, then why would women be remotely upset about abortion being banned?Sentience is, believe it or not, an objectively existing thing. Functioning brains are an objectively existing thing. If you’re arguing that destroying tissue with no functioning brain and no feelings is murder, would you argue the same for destroying a human corpse? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 08:11 PM |
| 2 | If sex is not a need, then why would women be remotely upset about abortion being banned?Thinking a person becomes a person at the exact instant when a sperm combines with an egg, disregarding any logical thought on what actually gives a person personhood, is magical thinking. A sperm in an egg is no more a person than the sperm and the egg were a second before they collided. If a non-thinking, non-feeling, insentient entity is given personhood, what makes that akin to an actual human being’s life? And how is that equivalent to a murderer denying that sentient, thinking, feeling hum… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 08:02 PM |
| 2 | If sex is not a need, then why would women be remotely upset about abortion being banned?So once it combines with an egg and grows a couple of more cells LONG before it gains the ability to think or feel, it’s a human being? You’re right, I don’t get it. Can you explain the difference? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 07:13 PM |
| 2 | If sex is not a need, then why would women be remotely upset about abortion being banned?Literally almost nobody is getting an abortion after 4 or 5 months lmfao, that’s only in severe life-or-death cases, common knowledge. Why are you arguing in such bad faith? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 06:25 PM |
| 1 | If sex is not a need, then why would women be remotely upset about abortion being banned?Insane how many people don’t seem to understand that a fetus isn’t a baby any more than a sperm is a baby. Jerking off into a sock isn’t killing babies, the material that can become a baby is there, but a human it is not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 06:02 PM |
| 2 | If sex is not a need, then why would women be remotely upset about abortion being banned?Killing yourself is a choice, dying from an ectopic pregnancy that is illegal to stop is not a choice. Is that clear enough? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 05:51 PM |
| 15 | In your opinion, what is the difference between a One Night Stand, Friends With Benefits (or F-Buddy), and a Relationship?Eh. Half-right, but I’ve made guys I was SUPER attracted to wait for sex because I didn’t want to be used for sex/pumped and dumped/etc. Guys do tend to think you’re ‘easy’ if you put out too soon in a lot of cases and won’t date you after, or so goes the stereotype. If they didn’t have that stigma, I would have slept with them earlier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Guys who do not have a stable life (income, social circle); should they even bother finding a long term romantic relationship?I’m literally a woman who is a mess who would like to date a man who is also a mess lol. I actually purposefully avoid dating because I don’t feel like I have my life together enough to impress anybody, but I would like to hang out with a guy who also didn’t have it all together and didn’t care that I don’t. I think girls like me should still be allowed to date and find love? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 01:18 AM |
| 13 | Guys who do not have a stable life (income, social circle); should they even bother finding a long term romantic relationship?Some women are messes too, and they might like to date a guy who doesn’t expect them to have everything together. Maybe you could build a better life together with each other’s help. It’s tough out there these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 11:07 AM |
| 1 | The problem is that women do not have real sexualities, and as society becomes more liberated, this fact becomes more relevant.This is the most batshit insane take I have ever seen on this sub, I am living for this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 01:17 AM |
| 2 | Dominant/masculine women, are submissive/feminine men a turn-off?Personally I’m obsessed with feminine men lmao. I like masculine men too, both types can be sexy, but there’s nothing quite like a pretty/soft-featured guy with longish hair who is empathetic and calm. But I’m not a classic ‘tomboy’ (suck at sports, artsy type, despite being a bit aggressive) so idk if my opinion counts here, but that’s what it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/22 04:15 AM |
| 2 | Who’s a celebrity that you find has an attractive personality?Robert Pattinson, he’s nuts (affectionate). Dude just makes up insane stories at interviews, reportedly refused to get a six-pack for The Batman and correctly stated it was a huge problem for men to be expected to look like that, and never takes anything seriously. He has the kind of chaotic energy I live for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/22 01:07 AM |
| 15 | If you are 30 and marry a 30 year old man then there's an 99 percent chance that he is settling.This is the first post I’ve seen in here about how men prefer younger women, really hot take. Keep ‘em coming | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 10:13 PM |
| 3 | Have you even had a hookup/relationship with a man considered ugly?The user you’re talking to said ‘whenever people post those 1-10 scales of men, I always think 5-6 is the most attractive’ and you proceeded to tell them why they were wrong about their opinion, and I was saying their opinion is pretty valid regarding those scales bc they’re never really that accurate and clearly made by straight men who aren’t actually attracted to men. That’s all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 01:28 AM |
| 3 | Have you even had a hookup/relationship with a man considered ugly?Dude, the 1-10 scales are consistently made by men for men. The men they rate as 8-10s usually have comically square jawlines and insanely defined cheekbones that make them look like Handsome Squidward, because straight men really believe that’s what makes men attractive. It might look good for modeling photos, but it’s not conventionally attractive to most women. Sorry! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerWhy are you telling me that online apps are the best methods to find relationships and then claiming they are useless for men in the same thread. What Is The Truth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerSo who are those women finding relationships on tinder according to AgainstGynocentrism dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerWell why don’t you tell the men here how good Tinder is for finding relationships and that they just need to try harder then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 08:00 PM |
| 0 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerWhere in gods name are you getting this from lmaooooooo what on EARTH???? ‘I hate tinder and would not recommend it for finding relationships’ ‘So you like to fuck on the first date????’ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 06:06 PM |
| 0 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerHE SUGGESTED IT TO TRY TO FIND RELATIONSHIPS LMAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerAgain, it’s just not appealing to a lot of women, especially if you’re more introverted and don’t like talking to even one stranger at a time, let alone THAT many. For a lot of us it’s not worth it to sift through 100 frothing weirdos for one or two guys that might be tolerable. It’s just not a good recommendation for women to try to find a good guy to date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerMake a female account on tinder and match with enough guys and you will immediately understand, there’s no other way to explain it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 03:24 PM |
| 0 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerMy profile was dope and funny and not sexual. Sorry for being too hot I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerOkay, what I’m saying is though. I don’t think men in general are like this, but men on tinder are absolute creatures | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerLiterally zero of them are appealing to me which is why I downloaded tinder one time and never used it again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 02:51 PM |
| 4 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerLiterally all women on tinder get this treatment lmfao, you don’t even have a chance to show your personality. They just immediately come out with the sex. You’re like ‘hi’ and they’re like ‘sex? Now? Please? Horny? Yes?’ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 02:26 PM |
| 6 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerLiterally like someone saying ‘at least you have choices’ if you’re starving and there’s 100 rotting bananas in front of you like they think you can eat those | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 02:19 PM |
| 0 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerAll 100?????? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 02:13 PM |
| -1 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerHow the hell are we supposed to tell the difference lmfao. When you have 100 guys in your messages literally all just saying ‘hi’, how do you discern that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 02:07 PM |
| 9 | Women don't have the right to judge men because they can't find a partnerTinder isn’t for finding legitimate dates for women, tinder is for finding a thousand men who desperately want to use your body as a human fleshlight | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 01:46 PM |
| -1 | How would you describe a guy who will not want to settle down with a woman who has "had her fun"?A guy who deserves a specialest high value boy around award | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 03:07 AM |
| 3 | In the majority of instances of “Ghosting” the person who gets ghosted did nothing wrong the other party just got a better prospect/offer.You get it. I like meek/passive in theory, but I don’t like to make moves (like most girls), so those always just end in unresolved or awkward sexual tension because nothing plays out, but the reverse is so unattractive…tbh no advice from anybody else will ever really work, you gotta just figure out what works for you specifically. So now I’m giving handsome-guy advice, oops. No winning | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 05:18 PM |
| 3 | TONS of male sex symbols/A-list celebrities date and marry down, and many get with women significantly older than them. This proves that no amount of power, looks or success will truly give a man the upper hand and that ultimately women have most if not all of the power in dating.Yeah yeah I know I know, you all want to be Leo and bang 18-year-old no-name model after 18-year-old no-name model so they can use being attached to your name for money and status, because men have healthy priorities about dating and intimacy and what a good person to date would be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 04:19 PM |
| 4 | TONS of male sex symbols/A-list celebrities date and marry down, and many get with women significantly older than them. This proves that no amount of power, looks or success will truly give a man the upper hand and that ultimately women have most if not all of the power in dating.Okay, yeah, if you take away beauty products from every woman in the world, they’re all going to look different, and she would still be proportionately beautiful, what case are you trying to make here exactly? What woman do you think WOULD match up to ASAP Rocky if Rihanna doesn’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 04:07 PM |
| 5 | In the majority of instances of “Ghosting” the person who gets ghosted did nothing wrong the other party just got a better prospect/offer.In my experience it’s never the inexperienced men who do this, though. It’s the types who think you’re going to have sex with them immediately just because they’re good-looking, or they’ve had a lot of sex with other girls and now they expect it. They can go from a coffee date to ‘The things I’m going to do to you’ REAL quick, it’s gross lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 03:11 PM |
| 5 | What dating/sex myths about women should absolutely not be believed?I would agree with you on this on most points, the one thing I would personally contest is the ‘conventionally good looking’ point; attractiveness from a women-looking-at-men standpoint is SO subjective. If you’re a girl, you’ve had the ‘omg he’s so cute I want to roll him into a ball and eat him’ ‘what are you talking about?? He looks like a troll’ conversation with your friends. We’ve all had it. There’s a reason the ‘girls roasting your man in the groupchat’ stereotype is a thing. There ARE m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 02:38 PM |
| 12 | Why do women want/need commitment?Basically, I take the offer of commitment as ‘I’m genuinely invested in you/I care about you/I’m not dating other girls’ and will continue to stay with him. If I’m seeing a guy for 3 months and he doesn’t want commitment by then, I’ll assume he’s just playing around & thinks of me as a human fleshlight and I will ghost him. But I wouldn’t ‘demand’ commitment, I would just leave lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 01:38 PM |
| 5 | Be honest, would you date the equivalent to yourself?I have so much love for my fellow tall thin queens who are out here working mediocre office jobs and posting in weird reddit gender forums <3 We are braver than the marines | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 08:56 AM |
| 2 | Be honest, would you date the equivalent to yourself?Dope. Let’s get married | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 06:54 AM |
| 80 | Why do women want/need commitment?Literally what on earth is the point of sleeping with a man if he’s not invested in me and caring about me emotionally lmao. Like what do I get out of that. STDs because he’s banging 4 other girls at the same time? 5-minute sex so he can nut and leave immediately? Enticing. Sign me up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 05:57 AM |
| 21 | Be honest, would you date the equivalent to yourself?A male version of me would be tall, thin, slightly above average facial attractiveness, full-time mediocre but average-income office job, and pretty funny (to me). So yeah. But as a woman that list is shallow to ask for innit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 03:02 AM |
| 12 | TONS of male sex symbols/A-list celebrities date and marry down, and many get with women significantly older than them. This proves that no amount of power, looks or success will truly give a man the upper hand and that ultimately women have most if not all of the power in dating.I was just about to say lmfao. What planet is this guy from? ASAP is a really good-looking dude….but better looking than Rihanna?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 01:31 AM |
| 7 | Are women lying about body count (Post to end all Count topics)Some women lie. Some women don’t. Same as anything else. But I think 50 is unusually high, I don’t know any girls who have been with nearly that many guys, even if they really like sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 03:28 AM |
| 12 | Women claim they wear makeup “for themselves” but they clearly do it to increase their SMV, which affords them immense privilege and attention they would not otherwise receiveSure, of course they SAY that, but they don’t realize all their favorite actors and male singers are wearing a bunch of makeup in their photoshoots and movies, and that very few people actually have skin that perfect in real life. Same way that men always say they prefer no makeup on women, but you don’t, you actually prefer very natural-looking makeup. So yeah, you could actually definitely wear natural-looking makeup and get away with it, but if that’s too degrading and feminine, there’s alway… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 12:29 AM |
| 19 | Women claim they wear makeup “for themselves” but they clearly do it to increase their SMV, which affords them immense privilege and attention they would not otherwise receiveWhy can’t men wear makeup too, then, if it’s such a game changer? If your skin sucks, throw on some foundation, no one’s going to be mad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Most men who are unsuccessful in dating and sex are due to misfortune and circumstanceI do understand lol. I was an awkward weird girl who was ugly until I was 19, no guys ever asked me out or wanted to talk to me or ever gave me attention through high school while they were all over my pretty friends and I thought it was gonna be that way for the rest of my life. Then I aged well and got more confident and it wasn’t like that for the rest of my life. So I’m speaking from experience from having been in both places, they haven’t reached the second place yet. Maybe they won’t, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Most men who are unsuccessful in dating and sex are due to misfortune and circumstanceExactly my point. It’s difficult, not impossible. I’m a pessimistic person myself, but sometimes guys here really take it to the next level…are you gonna have a harder time finding love? Yeah. Absolutely. Will nobody EVER love you? Possibly, but jeez, it’s not completely out of the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 08:53 PM |
| 4 | What are single/childless women past 40 really like? Are they really happy or not?Eh. Depends on the person. My parents got divorced in their 40s, my mom continued to date and find LTRs through her 40s and 50s, and is now in her early 60s and has been in a LTR for the past 7 years. I have a very different personality type and have had a much harder time dating through my 20s than she did in her 40s-50s. If you’re outgoing it’s going to be easier, if you’re more introverted it’s going to be tougher, and I think that goes for most people regardless of age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Most men who are unsuccessful in dating and sex are due to misfortune and circumstanceYes any guy that has ASPD and isn’t Chad is an unlovable freak of nature and will never find love or affection in his entire lifetime from anybody. You’re right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Most men who are unsuccessful in dating and sex are due to misfortune and circumstanceI get that, I’m just saying that saying NOBODY will EVER want you if you have a disorder is a bit presumptuous. Somebody might | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 08:19 PM |
| 0 | Most men who are unsuccessful in dating and sex are due to misfortune and circumstanceCould be, I’m not an expert. But IMHO it’s not a death sentence in dating, just makes things harder and weirder. But of course my feelings on autism are biased, because I have it, so of course I think it’s fine and actually makes people cooler. Who knows really. I do know that I hate and avoid dating as is, so if I were even a conventionally attractive guy and actually had to try or put in effort, I’d be so screwed personally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 07:10 PM |
| -1 | Most men who are unsuccessful in dating and sex are due to misfortune and circumstanceDefinitely not true. I know two guys with ASPD who have had no problems dating, but one is pretty conventionally attractive and just comes off as ‘guarded/mysterious’ to women, the other is dorky, but knew how to play off the dorky/intelligent charm to his benefit, and is now happily married to a very beautiful girl. May be anecdotal, but those are also the only two guys with ASPD that I know. The three of us are all mild/relatively socially functional cases, though. I don’t know how it is for p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 06:57 PM |
| -2 | Most men who are unsuccessful in dating and sex are due to misfortune and circumstanceYeah, but ASPD has its own struggles as a woman trying to date. You instinctively don’t like strangers, even if you can put on the best show in the world of being normal, friendly, and outgoing; strange men talking to you is scary and off-putting….good luck trying to bond with anybody new, or fighting your closed-off instincts to let people even have a chance. The choosiness of regular women gets magnified by 100x to exclude even the most conventionally attractive people that show interest. It’s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Most men who are unsuccessful in dating and sex are due to misfortune and circumstanceOkay nvm I mean yes it does | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Most men who are unsuccessful in dating and sex are due to misfortune and circumstanceLmaooo okay, some guys definitely are, but not every guy!!! I work with a guy who has been single for 2 years despite actively trying to get dates and not having a lot of luck, but I would definitely try to date him if we didn’t work together etc etc, I’ve had a thing for him forever. Definitely nothing wrong with that dude. That’s just life sometimes. On my end I just hate OLD and refuse to use it and don’t really like talking to strangers to find dates elsewhere, so it is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 03:26 PM |
| 1 | The most attractive women I know tend to be the nicest and most groundedSo far as girls go, I’ve met three girls in my life that I would consider 10s (“perfect-looking”) from my perspective, and my straight male friends confirmed they were this attractive or almost this attractive. One of them was a genuine sweetheart to myself and to other girls, but was rather emotionally abusive to her boyfriends/men behind closed doors; one of them was conceited, shallow, and full of herself; and one of them was an absolute angel who was incredibly kind to everyone around her wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 03:16 PM |
| 5 | Most men who are unsuccessful in dating and sex are due to misfortune and circumstanceI don’t think it’s really that self-pitying, if anything it’s a pretty reasonable post that even single women can relate to. Not every man is dateless because he’s some kind of undesirable freak, and not every woman is single because she’s holding out for a 6’5 millionaire, some of us just encounter a lot of misfortune/are just bad at dating, and that is okay. Doesn’t make us bad people or pathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think it's stigmatized for men to be insecure?If I were to wager, one wanted kids when she still felt too young, and one didn’t want kids when she was older, and felt it was the right time to start talking about kids. Also, nobody is asking if any of the GUYS were the ones who broke up with her over these things; men do dump women sometimes, shockingly even if they are under 6’ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 02:40 PM |
| 6 | What's your opinions on 40 year olds sleeping with 20 year olds?Honestly, I think it’s okay if the younger people like, actually, genuinely want the older people, for sex, money, love, whatever…I’ve known a couple girls/gay guys who had sugar daddies, and if you need it, you need it, you know? They definitely weren’t getting manipulated there, more the other way around. What I hate and have always hated is creepy middle-aged men hitting on me or my other friends who are/were clearly not interested…….vile | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 03:06 AM |
| 10 | Why are "pick mes" so reviled?Ahhh generally, because when girls act like that, other girls don’t actually perceive it as being for sex/love, whether it subconsciously is or not. To us, she’s vying for comrade-esque respect from men, in the wrong ways. She’ll put other women down to get kudos and props from misogynistic men, think it makes her look smart and ‘above it all’ and one of the boys, and then act surprised when they still eventually end up treating her just like they treat the rest of us. Edit: You know what, I mig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 05:11 AM |
| 1 | The Red and Blue Pills are Both Correct...Just for Different GroupsYou’re either missing or willfully ignoring the part where women vary immensely in their own personal top 20%s, making 70% of men qualify as the top 20%, dispersed out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Honestly, would you leave a 7 in looks who you loved and had other shared interests/ values with, for a 10?I like that answer and hope it’s true lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 03:14 PM |
| 8 | Honestly, would you leave a 7 in looks who you loved and had other shared interests/ values with, for a 10?They’re not using the literal scientific rating scale, they’re talking in relative terms and hypotheticals. So, the question is this; hypothetically, IF you had the opportunity to do this, in a magical world, would you leave a sort-of attractive girl with an ideal personality that you were already dating, for a girl who was your exact idea of physical perfection but not your ideal personality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 11:25 AM |
| 2 | The Red and Blue Pills are Both Correct...Just for Different GroupsThis is what I’ve thought has been going on all along and I’d say it’s absolutely true, tbh. This post is, however, way too smart for this sub, and will go largely ignored | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Which traits in a potential partner would you be willing to sacrifice?Never cared about muscles. Would sacrifice height, I’m 5’7 and I would date 5’7+, you get used to guys being your height or only a little taller when you’re tall yourself. Would sacrifice money, as long as you have a fulltime job we’re good, baby, the economy’s hard and I’m broke too. Would never sacrifice face or sense of humor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 04:42 AM |
| 6 | Are women's standards high or are they low?On god, there is NO way you believe every woman is exclusively attracted to 6’5 men with six packs and chiseled jaws and nobody else has a chance. I refuse to believe you seriously go around thinking that. Do you go outside at all? Have you seen a male-female couple in the past 3 years?? Were every single one of them a 6’5 chiseled jaw male model with some average frumpy girl??? There’s no way you think this. Like I KNOW you’re trolling but there’s no way anyone actually thinks this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 02:46 AM |
| 2 | If you could describe what sexually turns you on in one short sentence. What would it be?Honestly, you have come the closest I’ve ever seen to a guy actually getting it. Women’s sexual selection is absolutely ridiculous and unquantifiable. Men want to know who Chad is, but women roast each other in the group chat on the regular over each other’s ‘Chad’s, none of us agree on anything, a girl can manically obsess over a slightly-above-average-looking dude at work or school because he reminds her of Steve from Blues Clues who she had a crush on when she was 7. Good freaking luck to eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 03:02 AM |
| 11 | Question For Women: For those who have a negative perception of Red Pill Men, could anything change your mind to the point that you would consider a relationship with a Red Pill Man?No <3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 11:35 PM |
| 6 | Do you do low energy, short message, infrequent texts with guys you genuinely like? How low is low enough that a guy should get the hint and leave?Wildly incorrect. We also be shopping | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Height increasing shoes morally deceptive or nah?Being taller CAN hurt me with men, most men prefer shorter women from what I’ve seen, but I wouldn’t trade being tall to be cuter. It’s personal preference. Sometimes you want to be a tall scary lady, and sometimes you want to be a cool little guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Height increasing shoes morally deceptive or nah?I actually work with a guy who is 5’8 who genuinely says he has always wished he were shorter. I asked why and he was like ‘I don’t know, I just want to be a cool little guy’. Nothing more respectable than that tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Height increasing shoes morally deceptive or nah?At the end of the day, aren’t we all just trying to be as tall as we can be? Our best personal selves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 03:34 PM |
| 11 | Height increasing shoes morally deceptive or nah?As a 5’7 girl who loves to wear heels, I would honestly prefer if this became more mainstream for men lol. If you LOOK taller than me/as tall as me, I don’t care if you’re actually shorter/would be shorter than me in heels. It’s all about aesthetics, isn’t it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Am I supposed to assume every nice thing a guy does for me is to get in my pants? It feels wrongThe “already going to be in the area” part throws me off. Like generally if a guy I wasn’t interested in offered to drive me to the airport I would 100% turn it down, UNLESS he was already going to be in the area. I know I would definitely do that for even a casual acquaintance if I I was going that way anyway. Wonder if he lied about already heading that way just to buy some time with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 11:08 AM |
| – | Post famous examples of what you consider hot, average or notHahaha, I feel like some of the guys here are taking that low rate of JGL the wrong way; nobody means that if they rate him a 5 then you’re a 1, it’s just their personal opinion, that doesn’t make him objectively a 5 or mean you’re ugly. I had an interesting discussion with my coworker the other day after I said I didn’t get why Dua Lipa (who I think is a 10) is dating Anwar Hadid (who I think is like a 5), and my coworker was SHOCKED and said she thinks Anwar is gorgeous. And like, my standards… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 04:06 AM |
| 1 | What do people actually mean by “dating down?”I’d say it’s situational, aka you know it when you see it. If a woman is rich and ugly and dating a better-looking poor man who’s using her for her money and is cheating on her behind her back, SHE’S dating down; if a woman is rich and ugly and holding her money over the head of her kind, poor, better-looking boyfriend, and basically keeping him hostage, HE’S dating down. And so on and so forth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 03:35 AM |
| 1 | EVERYBODY values appearance in a partner way more than they want to believe…Yeah but that doesn’t mean it’s not awful and that no one should be using it so we can go back to dating like normal. OLD is so so so bad. I don’t care if it’s too hard to meet people in person these days, I tried Tinder/Bumble once a couple years ago and got borderline traumatized. I would literally rather die alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 04:54 AM |
| 1 | EVERYBODY values appearance in a partner way more than they want to believe…I said ‘based on appearances by design’, height is part of appearance. You can put your height in your bio, you can’t show who you actually are as a person in one or two awkward paragraphs. Girls do read bios, but honestly usually only to know who to rule OUT because they say something stupid or godawful, a paragraph that makes you out to be relatively normal is still not gonna make someone immediately attracted to you. Even if you’re below average in attractiveness and a girl swipes whatever wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 04:51 AM |
| 6 | EVERYBODY values appearance in a partner way more than they want to believe…Online dating is ONLY based on appearances by DESIGN. Is that news? You’re offering a picture of yourself and, like, a paragraph of a bio. You can’t show your personality on a screen. And most men do NOT know how to take good pictures, even if they look fine in person. Women get a lot of attention on online dating because men are horny and trying to get laid and will literally message every girl they match with until they get a bite. It’s incredibly disingenuous to imply that online dating is an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Men and Women of PPD: Who Would You Rather Date?I like both guys, assuming everything else is equal and they both love me and neither one is cheating/playing me. Getting sus vibes from #1, but I wasn’t born yesterday and I know those disarmingly average-cute guys like #2 can be a THREAT. I’m an ambivert and love going out and partying or staying home to do nothing pretty equally, so I could vibe with either. Who’s funnier? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Is it THIS common for girls to sleep with you on the first date?I cannot BELIEVE they hook up with every guy they go on app dates with or even a quarter of them unless they’re all like 18 years old and live near college dorms or something hahaha, there’s no way!!!!! There’s no way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Is it THIS common for girls to sleep with you on the first date?Love every guy here saying ‘they sleep with every guy they go out with, don’t let it get to your head’. There’s almost a 0% chance of that, to be honest. You’re probably super attractive/charming/some combination and you know that and are humblebragging about it. Most girls are not going to sleep with 99% of their dating app dates because realistically, most of them turn out to be weird/offputting dudes IRL, even if they photograph well or genuinely look good. Those apps are not full of desirabl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 10:24 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion what is the perfect male height?I’m 5’7. Prefer taller men, 5’10-6’3 is perfect generally, but it depends on build. Remember that a 6’ guy and me have the same height difference as an average 5’4 girl and 5’9 guy, so I don’t think that’s TOO shallow. As for ‘too tall’, if tall guys aren’t built right for it, they can look gawky. I don’t want to say ‘oh I would never date someone of this height, I would never date someone of that height’ because I’ve seen all types of men pull off their heights well, from super short (5’1 Chad … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 10:23 PM |
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