theonlinedatingpua Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	any tips for approaching girls talking on the phone?	Fundamentals	theonlinedatingpua	/r/seduction	24/09/20 03:39 PM
7	A legend passes away		theonlinedatingpua	/r/seduction	07/10/18 08:16 PM
3	anyone here from Waterloo, Ontario, Canada? Looking for a wing		theonlinedatingpua	/r/seduction	12/09/18 08:49 PM

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1	any tips for approaching girls talking on the phone? Nobody wants to scroll through weeks worth posts. And I’ve definitely seen repeat topics like how to kiss a girl. But yeah keep posting the thousandth version of the soy boy lament on how girls don’t like them	/r/seduction	24/09/20 05:24 PM
2	Anyone else feel like this sub was infiltrated with simps? Go to the “things learnt from a very successful guy” thread for an example thread . The soy boy cringe stuff at the top has hundreds of votes . My analytical breakdown is at the bottom lol	/r/seduction	14/08/20 05:42 PM
1	Things a learnt from a very successful guy Before I break your post down, how is any of the above possible in the age of covid? Where is this hostel? Anyway... Any old school pua (pickup artist) will recognize this guy, and the tactics he's using. This guy is what's knows as a natural. Self taught, without the inhibitions around women that regular guys have. Pua's try to learn from and emulate naturals. There are some key differences between pua's and naturals, but I'll get to that later. What your friend is doing by making all these cas…	/r/seduction	14/08/20 04:27 AM
4	Kicked out of shopping centers? I remember a pretty good PUA once told me that women don't call security on you just because you're being annoying. They'll call security when they think you're going to follow them to their car in the parking lot. In other words they got scared. My own experience in pickup has verified this for me. I've been rejected plenty of times because a woman just wasn't interested. However the one time I got mall security called on me, was when I pursued a woman, approaching her from behind, because she …	/r/seduction	26/10/18 09:33 PM
3	Daygame approaches and how to overcome technical difficulties yeah I used to have a mental block about approaching during day game as well, felt like I was bothering them. I got over it by just forcing myself to go out and approach, and working on it. Small chunk it if you will, and do more comfortable approaches to get over AA. Indirect, with store clerks, etc. Just practice. Got to the point where I was more used to day game than night, and was getting instadates. As far as the headphone thing, there's videos on youtube on how to best approach a girl wit…	/r/seduction	28/09/18 04:51 PM
3	Approaching in the library I'd recommend approaching (indirect recommended) people around campus for a while, to build confidence, get used to talking to strangers, and decreasing approach anxiety. Also talking to more girls will lessen your oneitis. After that start doing the same thing inside the library, which is a harder venue to chat people up. Then when you think you're ready, approach this girl. The key with pickup is to small chunk it, push your comfort zone, but don't try to wrestle the scary gorilla right away (…	/r/seduction	28/09/18 04:37 PM
2	I had several chances to meet women last night, but was too paralyzed to start talking You need to warm up, and get used to talking to strangers. I would engage with the people in front and behind me in line. Then when I got in, as a rule, I would use throwaway lines on the first three people I see at the club. Eg, make eye contact, and say " hey how's your night going?" They just say good, and you keep walking. Men or women, doesn't matter. Hell open the bouncers, and waitresses. Just make observational openers to build rapport with strangers, don't try anything too gamey till yo…	/r/seduction	12/09/18 08:29 PM
1	“Wow, you’re so tall!” yeah the air is great up here!	/r/seduction	12/09/18 08:13 PM
3	The main reason newbie PUAs don't improve fast (are you guilty of this?) This is a great post, 100% agree. Push your comfort zone every chance you get, sarge often, reflect on what happened - ideally write field reports. Learn from your mistakes, and improve.	/r/seduction	12/09/18 08:03 PM
1	Where am I going wrong? I agree with all the comments, you should talk to more girls in person, especially if you are in college and find yourself surrounded by them. As far as Tinder, try this: www.onlinedatingpua.com/messaging	/r/seduction	10/09/18 08:50 PM
1	First dates go nowhere A good field report is detailed. Put everything you can think of in there, don't just summarize. eg. I did this. Then she did this. I thought I needed to escalate, so I did this. In response she shifted away from me. etc. Include as much actual conversation as you can remember. You: Are you a yankees or mets girl? Her: Mets, but Derek Jeter's kinda cute... etc... A proper field report is a bitch to write, no one likes doing them. However it forces you to replay things in your head. Things reveal…	/r/seduction	21/08/18 05:32 PM
1	First dates go nowhere I agree with most of the other commentators here. You seem a little too in your own head about following some script on how to be fun, and get her attracted to you. You are right about having fun however, it's the key to building attraction. I'd suggest keeping it simple, and being more in the moment. Also I don't suggest focussing entirely on her, in the way you describe it. It sounds a little suffocating. It's best to let her volunteer more personal stuff, as her telling you these things is us…	/r/seduction	20/08/18 08:04 PM
1	I'm quitting night game for the time being. Considering Meetup groups. I moved to LA in 2011 without knowing a soul. On advice from a friend in my previous city, I joined Meetup when I got there. When I left in 2016, the majority of my friends, and better girls I'd dated had come either directly, or indirectly from meetup. Meetup is essentially social circle game, and it can be very useful. I love cold approach, but many experienced pua's will tell you that proper social circle game is the best way to meet the really hot girls, that are too difficult to get from ju…	/r/seduction	20/08/18 07:18 PM
-1	First Approach Good job man! I've found that warming up by just talking to people (strangers not your buddies) for about ten minutes before really doing approaches makes a big difference. Get's you out of your head, and used to talking. Especially if you're sarging alone at a bar, or the mall. Just throwaway comments, or conversations that last less than a minute or two. Talk to everyone: men, women, security guards, etc. And it builds social value. Also perhaps this is rare nowadays, but I work on building at…	/r/seduction	17/08/18 05:50 PM