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conversationexchange.com has always worked well for me. I'm going to prove my language Let's be clear - impressing her should only be a side effect of something you are doing purely for your own edification. You don't need to 'prove' anything to anybody. If 'your terms' are 'today I'm only speaking German because I intend to get good at this gottverdammt** language' that's fine - but be clear and overt about your goals and what you expect from her in terms of accommodations or help (ideally as l…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/15 04:44 PM
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Americans are famously bad at picking up foreign languages, and Europeans are famously prejudiced against American Anglocentrism so you are in an excellent position to buck the expectations of your wife, colleagues and friends in Germany. As simple self-improvement I strongly recommend you take up the challenge, but keep it separate from your marriage. A few reasons: learning from your wife is verboten - you don't want to create anything resembling a parent-child relationship speaking your own l…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/15 04:15 AM
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The curious thing about sleep deprivation is you actually forget how great it feels to get enough sleep. Just giving yourself a week of 8 hours per night will likely surprise and delight you - try it!
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/15 06:21 PM
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You've described a beta open marriage. An alpha open marriage is more like: The woman: she's hooked on her alpha guy and enjoys the validation she gets from other male admirers without feeling the need to make herself available to them sexually because she's already getting everything she needs at home, where she knows she's no.1, and knows what she needs to do to stay no.1. The man: enjoys the adoration of a primary high quality woman and satisfies his need for variety with other women as and w…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/15 04:48 PM
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Is it possible you have Asperger's syndrome or some other autism spectrum condition? Your two posts here are suggestive of someone who doesn't have much skill at deducing and interpreting other people's thought processes. You posted a question without providing the information needed to reply, and your reply here suggests a lack of insight into other people's perception of you. If so, you should seek professional help rather than trying to self-medicate with TRP. If it does turn out you're 'on t…
/r/askTRP27/06/15 04:28 PM
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Tim Ferriss has a nice section on testosterone in 4 Hour Body. I forget the details but essentially you need to provide your body with the building blocks, including but not limited to choline (found in eggs), cholesterol, saturated fat, and in his case addressing a weird selenium deficiency, with brazil nuts... best to get a blood test to determine that sort of thing. The only supplement I'd recommend is vitamin C - specifically sustained release (since it has a half-life in the blood of 30 min…
/r/askTRP27/06/15 03:40 PM
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Gym membership Beauty treatments Weekend away to give me some peace and quiet Kitchen appliances to better feed me Stuff I want to see her wear General theme - gifts which help her to make me happy. They're well received partly because, for some reason, she enjoys making me happy. Crazy, I know. Regarding beauty treatments, I go one better here by being more informed about them than she is herself, being a bit more of a science geek. Today she was delighted when I sent her off to get some moles …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/15 05:13 PM
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Wit and charm alone should have been sufficient. http://www.ted.com/talks/dan_pink_on_motivation
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 12:16 AM
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So the sex was payment for the extra errands?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 03:14 PM
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That's not her being outcome independent, that's her trying to emotionally protect herself from losing you. That was a huge comfort test. It's awesome that you're at a place where you can have this kind of conversation with each other. You're not going to cough up your red pill if you affirm to her that she will always - conditionally - be number one and that no other woman, even if younger and prettier, could threaten that as long as your relationship is healthy. The fact that she raises it mig…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/15 07:15 AM
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Thanks! Done.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/15 03:05 PM
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The 90/10 idea is pretty fascinating. I'm a westerner but married a Japanese. In Japan there's this notion of 'amaeru', a sort of bond-forming dependence which is normal between parent and child but in Japanese families extends to other relationships. Initially I didn't respond well to my wife's little begs - especially since she didn't even say please (another lost-in-translation issue, 'please' is excessively formal within the family). Now I understand it as essentially the same as what's call…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/15 05:12 PM
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My wife has a tendency to say things like this not just to me, but in front of friends and coworkers (in appropriate contexts thankfully, not just out of the blue). It's pleasing to see their jaws drop in those cases. I just grin. (Aside: more than one person has said to me, "I didn't really believe your wife was OK with that kind of thing until I heard her say it herself" which is interesting to me - you can profess an open marriage as clearly and confidently as you like but many people will st…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/15 04:59 PM
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I have successfully retracted my vows of monogamy and my wife and I now enjoy a fantastic open marriage with a great deal of sex, variety, affection and independence. That's not to say things are perfect - we have our quarrels from time to time like every couple, occasionally epic, and that's just the price of open and honest communication in a high testosterone environment :) I've been lurking in MRP for a while now and have realized that whatever pill I'm on, it's not red, and it's not blue. W…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/15 05:00 PM
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This reminds me, I was going to write back about a title: "the ethical philanderer" :)
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/15 03:25 PM
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One of the few things I've heard stated repeatedly about alcoholism is that when it's the drink vs family, relationships, or anything else, the drink will win. So I wouldn't bet on any strategy which leverages your relationship against the problem, no matter how RP you are. If she's already seeing a counselor, increasing the frequency shouldn't be too hard should it? Alcoholism is not the same thing as poor judgement, and poor judgement may be addressable much sooner than her general drinking pr…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/15 05:04 PM
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Physically intimidating... well, if I do get angry, she does get scared. What's the point of scaring her though if I'm not going to follow-through and actually hurt her? She'll learn soon enough it's a bluff. As for sex - sure, but aren't I then rewarding the behavior I'm trying to get rid of?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/15 10:00 PM
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Interesting thoughts. I can add a few details: - we live in Japan and she is Japanese. Not sure what would happen if I called the police but given my relatively poor language skills, not likely to be anything good - getting past her wouldn't really help - the next step would be her running down the street after me I don't believe I'm showing fear in these situations, just annoyance. I'd rather leave but I have to face her and resolve the insanity, which is doable, but a waste of my time. I still…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/15 09:54 PM
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