theoriginalmcswagger Archive

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1	Women's fear of rape I'm just going to dilute the word rape with other situations that are more probable to happen, based on experience. I'm not afraid of rape, in the sense that it is not the first thing that I'm worried about when I see a man in a dark alley (shit example, I know). What I am more likely to be worried about is: any unwelcomed sexual advances such as comments on my appearance, looks, physical contact and so forth. Some of these have happened before and they're unpleasant. They are more likely to hap…	/r/seduction	03/09/16 11:35 PM
5	I feel like I have nothing to offer, and so I don't bother asking girls out. You've answered your own question. Basically, if you depend on others to make you happy and fulfilled, then you'll never, ever be truly happy and at peace with your own self being. Go check those videos! Thru really help.	/r/seduction	12/06/16 06:35 PM
32	I feel like I have nothing to offer, and so I don't bother asking girls out. For now, don't even focus on girls or anyone but yourself. You have a lot of work to do with your personal self development, self awareness and self worth. Go watch Elliott husle and actualized.org on YouTube. Don't just skim through their videos, dedicate your time to listen and understand them. You'll eventually see that you have something to offer, you just have to discover what it really is. And it had nothing to do with money or materialistic goods. Your life is shit right now. That's fine.…	/r/seduction	12/06/16 05:27 AM
1	What I learned about approaching after being oggled by gay men for a week You found it flattering because you never found yourself in a situation where your safety was a risk, where one bad answer or a dirty look could provoke the cat caller. Can't blame you. However, I don't think you'd say you're "different" if you actually experienced being catcalled in the evening or while walking alone in daylight and passing next to a bunch of guys eyeballing you from head to toe. That aside, your post is really good and thanks for taking the time to share it. It's very much app…	/r/seduction	06/06/16 10:50 PM
1	What I learned about approaching after being oggled by gay men for a week Not having a game is a game. Imagine this, you're in a bar where every man plays his cards trying to seduce you. It quickly gets old, you've seen it all. Then, you spot that one guy who didn't try any game on you. He's different, he's not trying hard, he's just being himself. That's attractive.	/r/seduction	06/06/16 10:42 PM
30	How to compliment a girl "Hey, nice sweater. It looks cute on you." smile and walk away. That's how it's done	/r/seduction	19/04/16 11:17 PM
8	Being a bad listener is killing your game. Here's how to be a good listener. Everyone loves to talk about themselves. That's because we all have a story to share, no matter who we are. Yet, we rarely get the chance to fully express ourselves with others, because everyone around us wants to do the exact same thing, but no one leaves any space for active listening.	/r/seduction	26/02/16 05:52 PM
14	Being a bad listener is killing your game. Here's how to be a good listener. A bad listener focuses on explaining his own experience. This is such an important phrase when it comes to good communication skills. Some people have this compulsive need to include themselves in every subject of conversation. They always have to say something about themselves even if it's not supposed to be about them, but about the person they're talking to. It feels like they don't care about what the person wants to say really, because they never focus on them. They focus more on themselves…	/r/seduction	26/02/16 03:38 PM
1	How do I get my confidence back? You still linger in the past and compare yourself today to what you used to be. The past is the past, you can't change it nor should you dwell on it in the present. Concentrate on who you are now and what you want to be in the future. Your thoughts develop into emotions and then into actions. If you're unhappy, you'll feel sad. If you want to be happy, then eventually you'll do the proper things to physically be in that state. From now on, concentrate on being optimistic, active (not necessarily…	/r/seduction	15/01/16 01:27 AM
2	Getting a stranger's number at the end of a short interaction The number of times men have asked for my phone # is probably higher than the population of India. I like my phone # and don't want to give it out to strangers. For me, it's really out dated and unimpressive, to the point of rolling my eyes when I get asked the question. What works, is informing the girl what nights she can find you at the location you both met. For example, if you met her at the rock climbing place, you can tell the girl that you usually rock climb on Sundays and Wednesdays nig…	/r/seduction	08/01/16 01:44 AM
1	Talking to a girl who is sitting You can sit on the girl instead. Give her a lap dance. Heh That aside, I have a few tall friends like yourself and it's never been an issue if they stood and I sat. You're right about personal space, if you pull off crouching next to a girl without creeping her out, props to you lol	/r/seduction	06/01/16 04:53 AM
3	Talking to a girl who is sitting God fucking please don't! An acquaintance did that recently, I met him on the subway. He crouched in front of me to talk and it was utterly uncomfortable. He was way too close. There's nothing wrong or weird when one stands and the other one sits while talking.	/r/seduction	06/01/16 03:13 AM
1	Being Called Annoying Take it down, see how she reacts, test it out. You could even ask her if she really finds you annoying and you might get a straight answer. Don't listen to what the other dude said about smiling and flirting. just because I laugh and smile does not mean I enjoy myself with you, I'm being polite. I secretly wished you'd go away and stop being this annoying. Fucked up, isn't it? But it's true. A smile does mean that you're in the game.	/r/seduction	05/01/16 05:56 AM
5	Need some help with what is happening with this girl. Never suggest going on a movie on the first date, or even dinner. It's so typical, unoriginal and obvious. It's a boring activity as a date, because this is something is rather do with with my friends. You can't talk to your date or even look at them during a movie. Plus, it's harder to focus on the movie when you're gauging every move your date is making next to you. Why hasn't she answered you? She could be lazy to answer back, or busy. Don't worry that its been over 24h, don't really take tex…	/r/seduction	04/01/16 06:35 PM
1	Nice guy + clubbing = disaster All right. Well for clubs, there isn't much chance to talk to another person due to the loud music, so I'd suggest you just start dancing with the girls. Spot the most enthusiastic ones, because girls that want to flirt will show some POI. As for bars or pubs, you'll have a chance to talk more. What has worked for me is coming in with a group of friends and inviting another group to join us at the table and play a drinking game. Flip the coin, never have I ever, Kings cup, stuff like that. Girls…	/r/seduction	27/12/15 03:56 PM
3	She is afraid of sex. Focus on foreplay. Get her aroused and wet before you put it in. Or use lube after foreplay if she's not that wet Some women have longer lips, if you push your dick in and pull on those lips it's painful. Make sure you open these two French doors out of the way Some women are tight. If you have a big dick, then focus on foreplay before going in slowly and gradually.	/r/seduction	26/12/15 11:31 PM
-1	Nice guy + clubbing = disaster How about you forget the idea of flirting in clubs? Even the hottest guy has a hard time picking up chicks. I'd say clubs are the worst place to hookup or to find a girlfriend. In fact, why do you want to flirt with girls out there? Are you looking for a relationship, casual butt stuff or friends?	/r/seduction	26/12/15 11:28 PM
1	I've dealt with depression, social anxiety, and stress all my life. Where do I begin? All right. Nothing is ever easy, but you've initiated those first steps into recognizing your "problems" and wanting to work on them. Personally, I can't stand self pity in social interactions. A lot of people struggle with their own (current or past) issues, but they don't let it dominate them in life. When you'll start interacting with others, have a positive mind set ("alright, this is new, I'm not to sure how to do this but it's ok, I'll get it eventually") instead of a negative self depress…	/r/seduction	23/12/15 07:14 AM
2	I get so jealous when I see vsco/insta pics of girls that I like with other guys while all of the guys are "hot" I stopped reading at "high school"	/r/seduction	20/12/15 06:31 AM
6	Is "avoiding eye contact" more likely to be IOI or IOD? Gah. Does IOD stand for indicator of disinterest? I won't speak for all women, since we're all different. It only takes me one quick eye glimpse to look at someone. It doesn't matter if I find him attractive or not, I don't gawk at others after that one glimpse. I don't like to maintain eye contact either. If I'm not interested, then I usually just forget the person right away. If I am "attracted" to him, then yeah my reaction would be to give a small smile or to look again quickly. Now, this is…	/r/seduction	18/12/15 06:17 PM
1	resources for when you actually start dating a girl? Keep on coming with small but thoughtful gestures for her. Things that will surprise her.	/r/seduction	17/12/15 12:54 AM
12	Texting While She's On Vacation DUDE Chill. You met her last week! This ain't the 17th century where you marry a gal after meeting her for the first time. You can't say that you want to date her if you've just met her. It's seriously weird, impulsive and yeah desperate. Instead, tell yourself that you want to go on dates with her to see if you're both interested in each other. There's a difference! I've been on 4 to 6 dates with a guy before realizing that I'm not interested in him. 6 dates! Over a period of 1 or 2 months. It …	/r/seduction	15/12/15 04:02 PM
3	I like a Co-worker help First, don't confess. High chanced of rejection and making it awkward. She might be in a set of mind that she doesn't want to date co-workers. Secondly, get her a small pastry cake for her birthday. It's a nice gesture and easy to realize. Everybody loves cakes. Third, do play hard to get. If she said no to everyone that confessed to her, then it means she prefers having the challenge of going after someone. She wants to get the guy rather than being chased at, since she's always being chased li…	/r/seduction	12/12/15 06:40 AM
-50	Girl wants to hang out tonight but I can't as I'm supposed to have dinner with another girl. How do I tell her I'm busy in a playful sort if way? I really hope you're not trying to hookup with two girls simultaneously. If that's the case, you're a shit rat. Moving on to the question, you can give the most basic answer and it will be fine. "Hey, sorry I have other plans tonight but I'm free on X day, what about you?"	/r/seduction	09/12/15 04:55 PM
2	I can get numbers but I can't get them to text back? Aight well in an honest opinion, I would never give my number to anyone after a short 2 min talk. For privacy reasons, to avoid any chances of harassment, I don't want to block my number if things go sour, etc. And it's such an old thing too. I'm unimpressed when someone wants my phone number. It smells desperate and try hard. As for advice, you could give your number instead of taking hers or add her on Facebook. You could also do nothing the first time you meet them and ask for her number if y…	/r/seduction	08/12/15 04:53 AM
3	I can get numbers but I can't get them to text back? That cute girl Jenny that gave you her number, well it was probably beck's. Jenny hates Becky for ruining her 6th grade party so now she gives her phone number to strangers that try to flirt with her in public. So you should probably say hi Becky	/r/seduction	08/12/15 03:33 AM
1	I look unapproachable. What can I do to counter this? Why not both. Head nods are ok because they're easier to react to. Not everyone is prepared to smile back at the gym.	/r/seduction	03/12/15 09:41 PM
-2	Being short... Try dating sites. You'll have a bigger chance at meeting someone that is looking for a guy your height. My siblings and friends have found their soul mates with the Internet. It's possible!	/r/seduction	03/12/15 10:48 AM
3	I look unapproachable. What can I do to counter this? -head nods are better than smiles, they portray confidence and approval of one's presence. Only done through eye contact -share weights or machines with the other person. But don't just choose the cute girl in the tight pants, she'll know you're trying. Make it look as if you'd share your weights with anyone in the room. Best used when gym is crowded. -compliment on form or heavy weight usage. You'll capture her attention for sure. Let's face it, no one approaches girls because of the unspoken r…	/r/seduction	03/12/15 05:15 AM
0	Girl just bailed on me for the 2nd time, should I do this? What don't you understand? She's going home, give her some space and privacy. Sure, you could offer to come over by text but don't have any high expectations. And so what if she ditched you twice? You sound like a needy little princess	/r/seduction	01/12/15 11:25 PM
2	I need a world of help (26/M) Haii, have you tried dating sites? Most of my siblings and close friends have found someone perfect for them online. There's been a few posts on reddit, male asking females what do they thing about skinny guys vs chubby ones and most women preferred their men with some meat on them. But honestly, all humans are different and you'll find as many girls that love thicker men as girls loving them slim lads. What I'm trying to say is that you're someone's type. For sure. Plus you've been told that yo…	/r/seduction	30/11/15 09:34 PM
10	What the hell I did wrong? Literally blows my mind. Girl leaves after initiating sex. Okey Bertrand, here's one possibility of why she did that. Maybe she didn't want to come over to your apt to begin with, even if she didn't show any evident signs of it. Or she wanted to come over, but was not expecting to have sex with you. Basically, she came over but decided at the last minute that she didn't want what was happening and went through her decision by bailing out. Doesn't mean she's fucked up, or what she did was inappropriate, because we don't know the details of your story. Ma…	/r/seduction	29/11/15 01:16 AM
2	Girl at my job gave me her #. I think she has a boyfriend. It's OK to check someone's Facebook profile, it's 2015 for God's sake. Never assume anything about anyone. If it doesn't say that she's on a relationship with someone on her fb profile or if there aren't any hearts / cute quotes next to the pics she has with him, then you don't know if he's her bf or not. It's simple. Never fucking assume. Never. Instead, Acknowledge that you don't know. I find that you're planning it out a little bit to much here. Chill and take a step back. I'd even say that I…	/r/seduction	28/11/15 08:40 PM