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| 1 | Q4All: Explain to me how an older man manipulates a younger woman (18+)Yes — the only reason a younger woman has sex with an older man is manipulation..... The premise of this is absurd and myopic, but tell yourself whatever you have to in order to sleep at night | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 12:36 AM |
| 11 | "Don't complain that you're hungry when there's a perfectly good hot dog on the ground"As the OP compares Men to fallen hot dogs thats cool, dude uses his own example and you shame him for it. Weird how that works huh? This folks, I present to you as the female double standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 07:35 PM |
| 5 | CMV: FDS women will never be as happy as red pillers. RP'ers work towards being the ideal mate, while FDS primes women to be a nightmare partner.Therss a difference between chase and approach. RP teaches to approach women if you’d like, but when they’re wasting your time, it’s time to move on. I also i think what you mean is men like to initiate.... not chase. Men like choosing who they go up to yes. No man on the planet wants to chase around a female that is being difficult. If the female is reciprocating an effort no problem, we’ll court. Otherwise shes a time waste and move on. I think what you might mean is “women like being chased b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 07:35 AM |
| 4 | Men saying ‘if you didn’t want me at my worst, do you don’t deserve me at my best’ have a valid argument.Thats the point — men do go off with other women due to the fact that the ones that give them attention now but ignored them before seem very disingenuous. Again, we aren’t talking about someone thats low quality to begin with, simply someone who maybe came across good fortune. Care is the wrong word imo, it’s more like “notice”. If you knew someone that treated you poorly, then you won the lottery and they were nice to you, you know it would be bullshit and avoid them. Look at soccer star Crist… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 10:08 PM |
| 5 | Men saying ‘if you didn’t want me at my worst, do you don’t deserve me at my best’ have a valid argument.Think OP means someone already has their shit together (personality + with stable money) and simply gets a “higher” status career/gets a pot of money and then those same people change their tunes. It would be how you felt if some guy in the office treated you badly/was dismissive then one day learned you won the lottery then try’s sucking up to you. It just feels... dirty and fake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 09:11 PM |
| 2 | How do you “spin plates” or date lots of people at once?^ this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 08:20 PM |
| 0 | Is it just an American thing to want a woman who doesn't work?What they’re saying is that they don’t want their women to act like men in a behavioural sense. Many men have experienced examples of a career woman losing her feminine energy (nurturing, caring, taking care of herself) where a stay at home mom generally retains all those qualities (think of hot soccer mom). No one wants to look at a woman and feel like shes a dude, the same way a female doesnt want to feel like he’s her gay friend. Career women that can turn off the whole Type A thing when she … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 05:56 PM |
| 4 | When a person claim "Personality doesn't affect attraction", it's projection. That person doesn't value people's individual personalities.This is a fair statement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 05:25 PM |
| 0 | When a person claim "Personality doesn't affect attraction", it's projection. That person doesn't value people's individual personalities.Id assume when you say these guys say personality doesn’t matter maybe they mean for short term, because for long term no reasonable guy wants to be stuck with someone they don’t actually like. Sometimes in a guys early years dating they’d be willing to tolerate a shitty personality for a roll in the hay with a physically beautiful woman, the same way a female may ignore bad qualities for a tall, really good looking guy. I feel like once people get some experience they wise out of this dynamic b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 05:23 PM |
| 1 | If you can’t “negotiate attraction” but aren’t that attractive yourself, you can’t blame men that are objectively out of your league for not wanting anything but sex with you.They didn’t agree with me, thats the entire reason for the conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 10:37 AM |
| 1 | If you can’t “negotiate attraction” but aren’t that attractive yourself, you can’t blame men that are objectively out of your league for not wanting anything but sex with you.It’s not about a “w”, it’s about reality. The more people come forward with whats actually happening both men and women, the quicker this entire mess gets fixed. They did not admit it, because if they did I would’t be writing this message at all. Thats what the issue is honestly, if people just took accountability on both sides of the gender fence, it would be a million times easier for society to recover and be normal again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 10:12 AM |
| 1 | If you can’t “negotiate attraction” but aren’t that attractive yourself, you can’t blame men that are objectively out of your league for not wanting anything but sex with you.After I linked the study immediately after they responded with “i knew going out to dinner was a thing” clearly ignoring the whole part about using someone for dinner. If someone was to agree they’d agree then perhaps cut in with different points which im open to listen to provided they arent using it to deflect a current point. I can appreciate someone providing a valid counter point but when it’s done so obviously to avoid responsibility on what was just said, it’s just sad and counter product… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 09:58 AM |
| 1 | If you can’t “negotiate attraction” but aren’t that attractive yourself, you can’t blame men that are objectively out of your league for not wanting anything but sex with you.False — they insinuated that going to dinner with regular intentions was synonymous with foodie call and only conceded after I linked literal proof. Just goes to show some people have their opinions outside of actual factual evidence, even in spite of the evidence they cant admit fault. Honestly all it would take it “yes women are wrong in using men for free meals, but men are also wrong with misleading/pumping and dumping” and id say “i agree with you”. It isnt that hard..... but nope, cant tak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 09:23 AM |
| 0 | If you can’t “negotiate attraction” but aren’t that attractive yourself, you can’t blame men that are objectively out of your league for not wanting anything but sex with you.I accept your apology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 04:15 AM |
| 1 | If you can’t “negotiate attraction” but aren’t that attractive yourself, you can’t blame men that are objectively out of your league for not wanting anything but sex with you.Just casually skips over everything because you have no valid counter-point (which was highly noticeable by the way). Reposition’s Red Herring in hopes of getting traction in regards to something irrelevant to the premise. I rest my case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 04:07 AM |
| 0 | If you can’t “negotiate attraction” but aren’t that attractive yourself, you can’t blame men that are objectively out of your league for not wanting anything but sex with you.You need to google it because you clearly don’t understand the premise since you akin foodie call to “going for dinner with someone”. Your rebuttal to my point is “but men do this”, which is not disproving the premise. Ladies and Gents what you’re viewing is known as a Red Herring. It’s actually a really great tool in debates. Description: Attempting to redirect the argument to another issue to which the person doing the redirecting can better respond. While it is similar to the avoiding the iss… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Why the hate to single moms?It’s the aversion to wanting to raise someone else’s kid. Although some men may judge based on ethics (how dare you bang someone blah blah) most reasonable men simply understand the negatives far outweighs the positives. I just got out of an LTR with a single mom so ill explain. Both men and females have certain things in the opposite sex they highly value. For men it’s fertility and good looks, women it’s resources and protection. A man seeing you with someone else’s kids induces the same respo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 03:29 AM |
| 3 | If you can’t “negotiate attraction” but aren’t that attractive yourself, you can’t blame men that are objectively out of your league for not wanting anything but sex with you.Now based on your response and how quick you responded I know you didn’t google it. So ill do it for you, no problem. According to psychologists Brian Collisson, Jennifer Howell, and Trista Harig, a foodie call occurs when someone accepts a dinner date even though they aren’t romantically interested in the suitor, just to get a free meal. Although the idea of the foodie call has been discussed in the popular media for a while now, these researchers are the first to scientifically investigate thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 03:09 AM |
| 0 | If you can’t “negotiate attraction” but aren’t that attractive yourself, you can’t blame men that are objectively out of your league for not wanting anything but sex with you.This is strangely actually a thing, “Foodie Calls” lol. Not sure how prevalent it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Why is a woman's lack of sexual experience considered attractive but a men's inexperience considered unnatractive?Sure I could also compare a cow to horse and state all things should be the same between them because they both have 4 legs and have blood. What you can do, and whats logical arent always the same thing.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 12:35 PM |
| 2 | Why is a woman's lack of sexual experience considered attractive but a men's inexperience considered unnatractive?Easy —- women are constantly inundated with sexual opportunities without any significant effort (or any at all too), so actively resisting it is a feat of strength as it is difficult. Think of someone who has a yummy chocolate bar in front of them but has the will power to resist eating it. Men have to work for sex. A lack of sex (generally, but not in all cases) signifies that they could not make the grade in someway, because if they did they would be having/had sex. It signals no other women w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Given that men prefer "harsh" philosophies and communication, why would women date them?You’re not understanding me because you’re only tunnel visioning your point and not listening to what I’m saying, but ill try again. IN GENERAL (regular people!) men do not get the same support simply for being male that a female gains simply by being female (re-read my other comments for details) In general, men are based entirely on their ability to be successful. If you make it you do, if dont you dont. There’s no sympathy, handouts, “people understanding”, or anything to cover me SIMPLY base… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 07:35 AM |
| 1 | What's an advantage that the opposite sex takes for granted?In an everyday setting — you know, people who aren’t soldiers, drug dealers or at the wrong place+wrong time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 02:56 AM |
| 2 | Given that men prefer "harsh" philosophies and communication, why would women date them?Reread what I said — speaking in generalities the average woman has all the support I listed before, where the average man does not. There are exceptions — but those are not the rule. Yes what that woman went through was tragic and she will forever be damaged. However, simply because you have an example (or even a handful of them) does not make them the rule, it makes them the outlier. Also listing only criminal activities that have been mis-prosecuted is not logical | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Given that men prefer "harsh" philosophies and communication, why would women date them?This has literally nothing to do with my point. The fact that you have to keep shifting your argument to non-relevant topics where you feel like you have footing tells anyone that’s reading this that you cannot contest my point with logic, and are simply attempting to play on peoples emotions to garnish sympathy support from your readers . It’s the real life equivalent of “next question please/pass” since you don’t have the answer. With all due respect Miss, if you don’t have anything logical/re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/21 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Given that men prefer "harsh" philosophies and communication, why would women date them?You’re talking about an exception and calling it the rule. Brock Turner got off due to: A) Rich parents B) A poor justice system If Brock Turner was a female molesting grade school kids it would have been the same result, off the hook because of his rich parents getting expensive lawyers. Also the justice system has a habit of being shitty and letting shitty people like rapists onto the streets, but realize the justice system encompasses both men and women. None of this had anything to do with t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/21 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Given that men prefer "harsh" philosophies and communication, why would women date them?As men there is no option b, second chance etc. As a woman if you fuck up society, your friends, family and the government all will tend to your wounds. As a man if you fuck up, no one is there to give you a golden parachute. You’re disrespected, no one wants you, you’re branded as “low quality” for not succeeding and any women that may have been interested peace out and leave you (dude loses his job and wife leaves him) Yes there are exceptions to the above but that doesn’t make it the rule. Ba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/21 05:18 PM |
| 3 | What's an advantage that the opposite sex takes for granted?Sexual access for women, safety for men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/21 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Men in this sub focus so much on high-n women because they’re the women they’re viscerally attracted toI think the idea is that women get sexual options given to them and men have to earn them, which is why people have such a hard time with equality thinking in this regard. Men and women have biological differences so comparing two is like apples to oranges in terms of sexual access. Not that i endorse slut shaming (everyone is different), but for things to be truly equal the access to sex would need to be equal for both genders to decrease the dichotomy. I think there’s multiple ways of viewing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/21 02:22 AM |
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