thepeacewell Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
236	Marilyn Manson ‘Almost Destroyed Me’, actress Esmé Bianco says her relationship with the singer left her with physical scars and PTSD.	TRIGGER WARNING	thepeacewell	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 07:43 PM
166	Black women of FDS (mixed-race women can chime in too): How do you feel about the "swirler" movement?	SOCIAL GROUP STRATEGY	thepeacewell	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/21 07:54 PM
128	I once tried the sex tricks that was published in Cosmo.	BAD SEX ADVICE	thepeacewell	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/02/21 07:37 PM
1	Ladies of FDS: Let's list pick-me songs!	FDS HUMOR	thepeacewell	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/21 08:01 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
17	Baby was a little dark skinned so Dad loses all sense and empathy. Slanders and bullies mom... Just wow You and your baby could have died, and his first thought was that you were "cheating"? I'm joining the "divorce him" bandwagon on this one.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/21 09:06 PM
32	Only pickmeishas get mad at the other woman I've noticed this trend around here and TBF, it really puts me off. It's one thing if the other woman didn't know if the man was cheating with her (she is just as much a victim as the wronged partner), and completely another when she is willingly with a man who is cheating on his GF. Even worse if the "other woman" is supposedly the GF/wife's friend. That's just an all time low. They're both trash and she (the willing other woman) is a pick-me. They both deserve to be called out.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 12:23 PM
16	A reminder to drop the LVM and focus on love and leveling up for yourself. She responded that it's because he's paying the rent. 🙃 <blank stare> I'm hoping she saved up enough money to move TF out	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/21 08:31 PM
48	If you’re going to do OLD, I recommend OkCupid OKC is the OG LVM cesspit, before Tinder and Bumble was even a thing. I went on it a few times throughout my 20s and 30s and the same ass dudes would consistently be on there. It's like dude, how are you on OKC since 2004 and you still haven't found "the one"?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/21 04:06 PM
8	Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen. What the fuck did I just read? FDS: Come for the dating advice, only to find that you want to remain single for the rest of your life.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/21 03:59 PM
71	A reminder to drop the LVM and focus on love and leveling up for yourself. Pre FDS, I went on a date with a "poly" couple. The woman was not bi in the least, and was supporting a NVM who supposedly started his own business (on her dime) to "be his own boss". And I find that with most of these so called unicorn hunters, the woman isn't feeling it at all, they just do it to please the man.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/21 02:39 PM
28	A reminder to drop the LVM and focus on love and leveling up for yourself. I feel like polyamory is more common in coastal big cities (ie NYC, LA, SF).	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/21 02:37 PM
11	Vet vet vet to prevent this! I said "WTF?", but wow also works.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 07:46 PM
33	The audacity is off the charts. This is also why FDS advocates blocking and deleting men as soon as it’s done (NOTE: this screenshot was found on Twitter). > I’d sooner wipe my ass with $35 crisp bills fresh from my clutch bag And that's more than most men do with their asses since they think cleansing them is "gay".	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/21 07:02 PM
5	The audacity is off the charts. This is also why FDS advocates blocking and deleting men as soon as it’s done (NOTE: this screenshot was found on Twitter). Welp, he can always take her to Judge Judy if he really wants that money back. I'd watch just to see her drag him by the scalp.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/21 06:50 PM
4	Weekly FDS Chat / Check-in I'm so glad I don't live in NYC anymore. It's the only place in the world where the dustiest and lowest value of men would have themselves a woman and will engage in fuckboi behavior because many women will tolerate it. It is a consequence of living in a big city where the dating supply is shorter than available COVID vaccine doses.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/21 06:47 PM
1	Black men will degrade and berate black women and want to only settle with us when their lives are in shambles. Why are black women always the ones meant to “fix” a black man who’s a mess? Kanye West needs a THERAPIST, not the labour of a ‘black queen.’ Some ashy on IG was praising Lamar Odom for getting engaged to a "black queen" after divorcing Khlozilla. I commented "black women aren't saviors or guardian angels for broken bm", and he proceeded to go off on me. Yet had very little (if anything at all) to say to the white commenters who were calling him all kinds of racists.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/21 01:03 PM
2	Black women of FDS (mixed-race women can chime in too): How do you feel about the "swirler" movement? I'm interested!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/02/21 12:48 AM
3	Black women of FDS (mixed-race women can chime in too): How do you feel about the "swirler" movement? There was at least one other PB that I know of that is married to a BW, but that's about it. https://twitter.com/chadwick_moore/status/1186715211438399490 That said, PBs and the alt-right tend to gravitate towards East Asian women when it comes to IR dating: https://www.nytimes.com/2018/01/06/opinion/sunday/alt-right-asian-fetish.html	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/02/21 06:46 PM
1	Black women of FDS (mixed-race women can chime in too): How do you feel about the "swirler" movement? Sadly, she made up with him and they have a son now. https://twitter.com/Taytaayxx/status/1347277827155128321/photo/1	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/02/21 06:41 PM
17	Black women of FDS (mixed-race women can chime in too): How do you feel about the "swirler" movement? Also when he was on Divorce Court- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I4JbO4e70mc&feature=emb_title	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/02/21 12:39 AM
14	Black women of FDS (mixed-race women can chime in too): How do you feel about the "swirler" movement? I used to see Breanna around FB when I had it (she also comments on YT). She's a bit too aggro for my liking, but is very consistent in her stance on certain things. One FB page I like, and is quite balanced is Bougie Black Girl. She's more divester than swirler though, as her late husband was a BM. --- HVBM are virtually nonexistent in my neck of the woods (Northeastern US). When I was younger, my mother would tell me that I may have to marry down if I was with an American BM because they don't…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/02/21 12:01 AM
5	Black women of FDS (mixed-race women can chime in too): How do you feel about the "swirler" movement? Too late. LOL Why was it a headache for you?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/21 11:52 PM
15	Black women of FDS (mixed-race women can chime in too): How do you feel about the "swirler" movement? That's what I pretty much figured out myself. 😬	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/21 11:27 PM
12	Black women of FDS (mixed-race women can chime in too): How do you feel about the "swirler" movement? Did your mother end up converting or no? I did contemplate whether I would convert or not, but I'm agnostic and not sure if that would ever change for me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/21 11:26 PM
32	Black women of FDS (mixed-race women can chime in too): How do you feel about the "swirler" movement? No prob. This was a total truth bomb for me. There's a reason why HVBM are called "unicorns", and even my relatives who would never in a million years date out will tell you the same damn thing. I support dating out, I do NOT support being a pick-me for LVWM, which is what a lot of swirlers do. That's why I would not advise BW looking to date out to follow prominent swirlers. They give shitty advice, like that Cosmo columnist that was justifying baking soda boy's "cannibalism fetish".	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/21 11:22 PM
20	Black women of FDS (mixed-race women can chime in too): How do you feel about the "swirler" movement? This is exactly how I feel. 💯	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/21 11:14 PM
3	Black women of FDS (mixed-race women can chime in too): How do you feel about the "swirler" movement? I am sorry you went through that. :(	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/21 10:47 PM
52	Black women of FDS (mixed-race women can chime in too): How do you feel about the "swirler" movement? I once dated an orthodox Jewish LVM who "never dated a BW before" and was waiting to marry a nice Jewish girl. My non orthodox Jewish friends did warn me to stay TF away from him, though. I am grateful to them for that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/21 10:46 PM
37	Black women of FDS (mixed-race women can chime in too): How do you feel about the "swirler" movement? This is true. 🤣😭	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/21 10:31 PM
73	Black women of FDS (mixed-race women can chime in too): How do you feel about the "swirler" movement? A lot of them still voted for Trump, and don’t care at all about the struggles black women or the black community faces in general, but these divestors are fine with that because they have proximity to white supremacy, and that’s what’s most important to them There was this BW tradwife blogger I used to follow years ago that was in an IR marriage. She was politically conservative, which I overlooked because I am moderate myself. I had to stop following her when she defended Paula Deen and said s…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/21 10:30 PM
36	Black women of FDS (mixed-race women can chime in too): How do you feel about the "swirler" movement? I think there's an emphasis on the "swirl" movement because in my opinion many black women (like myself) have been raised to date, marry, and protect black men no matter what. If you "step outside the race" you get older black men giving you weird looks and asking you why you don't like black men. I started dating IR because I am genuinely attracted to WM, but never felt 100% comfortable with it, which was why I started reading the blogs. I liked the swirl movement @ first because it did offer a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/21 10:25 PM